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Biggest regret apart from not coming out earlier.

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By *W Bi OP   Man
4 days ago

Lancaster

Mine was not acting on obvious lads in my army days who I fancied and sort of knew they would appreciate some cock fun.

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By *avidmatureMan
4 days ago

st.leonards


"Mine was not acting on obvious lads in my army days who I fancied and sort of knew they would appreciate some cock fun. "

i regret not acting on my feelings earlier still think how different things would/could have been x

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By *ittlefishMan
4 days ago

West Yorkshire

Marrying the first wife and not taking action sooner on my bi side

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 days ago

England

My biggest regret was being stucked in a monogamous relationship with a man for some years before I have the courage to leave him, started having sex with other guys and opting for an open relationship. I realised how much I have missed, the excitement, experience, freedom and the fun which made me a better person today.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Mine was not acting on obvious lads in my army days who I fancied and sort of knew they would appreciate some cock fun. "

Chances are that, like me, you were in the army when being gay was illegal and a sackable/imprisonable offence. Often fancied other lads and got the vibe they might have felt the same but never dared act because of the consequences.

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By *upertedMan
4 days ago

Nelson

That I didn't fight hard enough to keep a fella.

For 7.5yrs I was madly in love with a Filipino fella when I lived in Manila.

We were so compatible. As you do in a relationship our conversations ranged from reincarnation to the latest Marvel film.

He had an amazing treasure trail that I adored. I'm a chunky beary fella that was his thing. Sex every day type of thing too.

He went thru some stuff with property and his job. Shut Me out a little and things started to go downhill.

Weird thing was after we'd separated, 9mos or so later he invited me out for coffee as he was near. During that time I'd had appendicitis and it removed.

I can still remember the look on his face when I told him Cos I'd not reached out for his help. I lived alone and hardly any support network and he knew that.

Over now. We split in 2015. Took me a while to fully get over him. Plus...I'm back in Wales now too.

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By *aucey04TV/TS
4 days ago

Bletchingley

Mine is that I suppressed my feelings for so many years

Very soon after I overcame these feelings and was finally able to satisfy my desire to have male relationships these newfound feelings gave way to an even more powerful desire to cross dress.

Sadly my that ultimate liberation came a little too late in the day for me to indulge and fully express myself and be able to enjoy being 'out' as a TS / Woman

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
4 days ago

South Derbyshire

I still haven't fully accepted who I am and still fight the feelings.

I've only been with one man the past 7 years, but I think I'm missing out.

I've never sowed my wild oats even as a man with a woman. I'd like the thrill of meeting other men. Everyone else seems to be having fun but I'm scared of the health implications. I could go on PreP but I'm too much of a wussy to book an appointment.

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By *ustOneBearMan
4 days ago

Neath

That I didn’t get out of a 20 year relationship sooner. I let him just undermine my self confidence and made me believe no one else would want me. I even went without sex for a year while he met others behind my back. If I asked him if he loved me, he’d just laugh and say, “No”.

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By *ckermanMan
4 days ago

worcester

Regrets, tough one. All decisions made are the best i could make with the information and personality at the time and shouldnt be regreted, thats the same for everyone even if they turned out to not be good decisions.

Asking what i maybe wished had gone different. In my mid 20's i posed naked for a local photographer under a 'look but dont touch' rule. And ok after a couple of meets i let him wank me, but the most in the other direction was the suggestion if he wanted to take his clothes off to watch it would be ok, but he declined. With another 25years of experience i wish i had been brave/forward enough to reach out and undo his trousers.

As it turns out we did eventually meet up and he took my anal virginity, but that was nearly 15 years later and i wish now it had been when i was 25....

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By *DCambsMan
4 days ago

Cambridge

I started coming out to myself in my head when I was 13 or 14 and took several years to accept that that was my true sexuality. So I guess my only real regrets along the way have been more "what ifs" than regrets per se, more about scenarios where someone was giving me the eye and I failed to act on it.

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By *eefandfurMan
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Not exploring my kink sub side earlier.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
4 days ago

Wakefield

My biggest regret is not sex related at all. I regret university. Not only the degree pathway I took but also what I did while I was there. I very rarely went out and made little effort to do anything new. I should have changed degrees and should have made more of an effort.

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By *ewbie23400Man
4 days ago

Kidderminster

Not letting a guy i meet 8 years ago take me

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By *rancd2TV/TS
4 days ago

Wolverhampton

No regrets at all. Made quite a few bad choices over the years, but all the choices, bad and good, have got me to where I am now and I’m pretty happy with that. I’ve had some dark times, but some fantastically bright ones too, so I wouldn’t change anything.

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By *earblokeMan
4 days ago

Bury

Not fucking my dad’s mate. He gave me signs I ignored.

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By *tandbyme555Man
4 days ago

mitcham

Regret that I didn’t keep in touch with a black guy met a few times then last touch

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By *iassloverMan
4 days ago

Rugby


"Mine was not acting on obvious lads in my army days who I fancied and sort of knew they would appreciate some cock fun.

Chances are that, like me, you were in the army when being gay was illegal and a sackable/imprisonable offence. Often fancied other lads and got the vibe they might have felt the same but never dared act because of the consequences."

I know a guy who was a officer in the Navy, and was involved in the case to get the law changed regarding homosexuality in thd Forces.

Apparently there was an invasive hostile medical examination if you were suspected and it wasn't just non conventional sex between men either. Apparently one soldier got discharged after having anal sex with his wife and the wrong person got wind of it.

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By *MB9Man
4 days ago

Northampton

I know this is about regrets but I don't have any. Fate took me down the path of a 10 year marriage and several long term relationships with women. I've known I liked guys since a kid and had some fun every know and then but I truly believe the path I took was the correct one and lead me to where I am now.

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By *0yguyMan
4 days ago

Cumbria

Not taking Canadian citizenship when I could have had dual nationality.

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By *MB9Man
4 days ago

Northampton


"Mine was not acting on obvious lads in my army days who I fancied and sort of knew they would appreciate some cock fun. "

I was in the Royal Navy in the late 80's early 90's and homosexuality carried 5 years in military prison.

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By *ollyMan
4 days ago

Downham market

Mine is missing an opportunity to be with a gorgeous man I met on a holiday site, I missed the signals.

My main regret is thinking I was loved by what I thought was a special man who cherished me, so I fell in love with him only to be blanked.

This has put me off of love for a very long time.

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By *ing_donMan
4 days ago

Worksop/Leeds

Having sex with women. Never enjoyed it an affected my ability to cum with men

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