FabGuys.com forum: Is it normal to love your partner but lose sexual desire?

By *ajkumarkapoor OP Man
5 weeks ago

London

Is it normal to love your partner but lose sexual desire?

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By *ucker.27Man
5 weeks ago

Swansea West

For me, yes

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By *iggreenockMan
5 weeks ago

Greenock

I'd personally say if I got to a point of no desire for a partner it'd be difficult to maintain the relationship. However I'd never lose my desire for my partner.

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By *astenotimeMan
5 weeks ago

Gedling

My relationship with my husband has lasted over 40 years and is non sexual and works perfectly. I couldn't love another person more

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By *olderCouple (MM)
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

Me and husband been together for 35 years love each other husband gone off sex with me

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By *olthuMan
5 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

We've been together for 11 years. I love him dearly but yeah the sexual desire is not quite there most of the time

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

Sex and love aren’t the same thing.

As proved by many on here you can loose sexual attraction to your partner and yet still deeply love them.

If you link sex with love then you’ll think all relationships have a shelf life

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By *ajkumarkapoor OP Man
5 weeks ago

London

"Sex and love aren’t the same thing.

As proved by many on here you can loose sexual attraction to your partner and yet still deeply love them.

If you link sex with love then you’ll think all relationships have a shelf life "

Very true.

With this new discovery and enlightenment, I don't mind my partner having sex fun with other guys every now and then. Let him enjoy as long as he doesn't elope with them. Hahaha.

As for me, sex with other guys is for fun only. Can't get away from it now as I d8scover my inner whore craving for more to satisfy my sexual lust for orgasm. Prep and Doxy-pep helps.

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By *etterbiggerMan
5 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Sex and love aren’t the same thing.

As proved by many on here you can loose sexual attraction to your partner and yet still deeply love them.

If you link sex with love then you’ll think all relationships have a shelf life "

A wise man.

After 34 years together and around as many again before we met, sex between us has dwindled to nothing. The love hasn't at all. I can't imagine my life without him there

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By *amie1402Man
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yes.

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By *weetpee9853Man
5 weeks ago

Exeter

Yes we not had sex with my wife for 3 years i love her to bits we get on great she dont know my gay life when i have chance i enjoy mt gay sex

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By *IPMANMan
5 weeks ago

West London

Why should gay men in long term relationships be any different to M/F couples ?

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By *amie1402Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

It’s normal for men to go off their partner sexually in a long relationship

Pretty much been that way throughout history and men have always looked outside their partner for excitement and sex in the end

This applies to hetero and to gay relationships too.

And if women were socialised similar to men I believe most of them would too.

For men I also think it’s partly genetic - the animal instinct to sow your seed as wide as possible

For women it’s mostly about many generations of being told to find a good husband and to stick to him and to see sex as just a way to have children

But this is changing these days with younger women.

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By *orcester GuyMan
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire North

Same here wife has zero interest in sex

As a relationship We seem to get on like we did pre kids which is good

I never mention sex & neither does she

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By *ertieBMan
4 weeks ago

Downton

"It’s normal for men to go off their partner sexually in a long relationship

Pretty much been that way throughout history and men have always looked outside their partner for excitement and sex in the end

This applies to hetero and to gay relationships too.

And if women were socialised similar to men I believe most of them would too.

For men I also think it’s partly genetic - the animal instinct to sow your seed as wide as possible

For women it’s mostly about many generations of being told to find a good husband and to stick to him and to see sex as just a way to have children

But this is changing these days with younger women. "

In my experience, women usually go off their partner sexually quicker than men do - pretty much as soon as the honeymoon period is over. The difference is they don’t feel any urgency to shag someone new - or at least act on it. According to research men go longer just being grateful to have someone monogamous on tap - women oblige but often it’s just to keep their partner happy rather than out of any great desire.

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By *om9Man
4 weeks ago

Saint Helens

Iv been married 49yrs this July and wife will still randomly blow me she has always loved and wanted sex.

How ever I love her to bits but don't want sex with her yet I literally bang anyone else had 3somes 4somes even a 5some and love the fun and most the women arnt as fit as my wife even i don't understand why I'm like this

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By *ordladMan
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

You can love someone but no need for sex

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By *amie1402Man
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"You can love someone but no need for sex "

You can

But the fact that the OP is on here means he’s not content to do that.

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