FabGuys.com forum: Bare back with positive undetectable

By *oy10486 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Watford

Hi guys I am on daily prep and negative. Had a bare back session with guy who is positive but undetectable..

Do I go and get myself tested. Off course I didn't know that he was positive undetectable.

He fucked me bare back. I was bottom. 4 weeks ago..My test on 12 Mar all Negative..

Any help with b much appreciated.

I have booked appointment for Tomorrow. Am I just been paranoid.

On daily prep..

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By *ead BioMan
5 weeks ago

Frinton-on-Sea

Your on prep and he's undetectable, your gonna be fine dude - literally impossible your caught it. Don't stress Don't panic.

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

U=U and Prep is believed to be 99% effective, if taken according to instructions.

Surprised you weren't given better info when you received your prescription.

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By *estwillMan
5 weeks ago

Bracknell

He ought to have told you he was HIV+. But, as others have said, if you are taking your prep correctly, and he his, you should be absolutely fine.

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By *oy10486 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Watford

Thanks for reassurance guys..

I had sex with him on Sun the 1 Mar.

Then I done routine testing every three months one..on 5 Mar..my all test came back Negative on 12 Mar..

Will it pick something up ?

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Thanks for reassurance guys..

I had sex with him on Sun the 1 Mar.

Then I done routine testing every three months one..on 5 Mar..my all test came back Negative on 12 Mar..

Will it pick something up ?"

When you next see your test clinic you need to ask them to explain a few things. Including minimum time following potential exposure that a test might show an infection.

You can only evaluate risk and effectively protect yourself, and others, if you understand those risks and the preventative methods that you choose to use.

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By *upertedMan
5 weeks ago

Nelson

"He ought to have told you he was HIV+. But, as others have said, if you are taking your prep correctly, and he his, you should be absolutely fine. "

From THT:

No, you are under no legal obligation to disclose your HIV status to a one-night stand if you are on effective treatment, have an undetectable viral load, and are practicing Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U)...

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By *oy10486 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Watford

Thanks for everyone response. I spoken to person and he assured me that I am not even on danger zone. He takes medication and get tested every 3 months.

Undectecable means untransmissible

Love you guys xxx..

Going to appt tomorrow regardless

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

So he didn't tell you before hand. How did you find out after?

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By *oy10486 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Watford

On his Grindr profile..

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By *3versMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

The risk is going to be much smaller than having sex with someone who isn't tested...of course there's always a risk but you've done the right thing in looking after your own sexual health

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By *andomguy321Man
5 weeks ago

reading

Taking someone at their word is a poor insurance policy against catching something from them through unprotected sex.

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By *excessMan
5 weeks ago

Sleaford

I'm on prep and doxy pep and as long as you follow the correct dosage you'll be fine.

You should be due a check up at some point anyway if your prescribed

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By *lumMan
5 weeks ago

We are all responsible for our own safety and should not leave it to chance.

It is not unreasonable to ask for a stranger if they have recently been tested and if they were clear.

Prep doesn't protect against everything.

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

You're on prep so the other guys status is none of your business tbh. But as has been said you're all good as U=U. Undetectable poz guys are probably the safest guys out there.

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

"On his Grindr profile.."

You didn't read it before? 🤔 .

All seems very odd

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By *oy10486 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Watford

Cruising area meet..

After 3 weeks I saw his profile.

Anyway I went to clinic. They done rapid test. Came back all Negative..

Done my all testing again for lab test.

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By *igby99Man
5 weeks ago

stratford on Avon

I would rather have sex with someone who is undetectable any day! No need for prep if they U. I do worry in this day and age that people are not aware of these things. 🤦‍♂️

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"I would rather have sex with someone who is undetectable any day! No need for prep if they U. I do worry in this day and age that people are not aware of these things. 🤦‍♂️"

I agree. It really beggars belief doesn't it?

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

"Cruising area meet..

After 3 weeks I saw his profile.

Anyway I went to clinic. They done rapid test. Came back all Negative..

Done my all testing again for lab test. "

It's not going to come back positive if hes undetectable.

You said yourself U=U, rapid tests need 12 weeks by the way.

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

Clinic tests when they take blood from the vein. 4 weeks

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By *uziesuckfuckTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Gorseinon

It takes three months to manifest, so you would need to wait at least that long for your tests results to so if you are infected or not

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By *avewill1Man
5 weeks ago

melksham

"He ought to have told you he was HIV+. But, as others have said, if you are taking your prep correctly, and he his, you should be absolutely fine.

From THT:

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if you get fucked bareback on a one night stand then what's point of asking him. You get the truth

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By *orksTVSashaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

leeds

The antibody only test is 3 months but the Duo is accurate at 28 days.

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By *actilePigMan
5 weeks ago

LINCOLN

"He ought to have told you he was HIV+. But, as others have said, if you are taking your prep correctly, and he his, you should be absolutely fine. "

I totally disagree. I never ask anyone I fuck their HIV status, as I take care of my own sexual health, it’s really none of my business. I tell the men I fuck I’m negative and on prep, I only fuck bareback, and leave it at that. I don’t feel they are in any way obliged to tell me their status.

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By *bonybucksMan
5 weeks ago

High Wycombe

I think you will be just fine. But to put your mind at ease, you could test 3 months from now.

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By *aturistnudeMan
5 weeks ago

Hoylake

Post-exposure prophylaxis, also called PEP, is a safe, effective prescription medicine that you can take after a possible exposure to reduce the risk of getting HIV.

PEP is taken every day for 28 days, and it is most effective when you take all doses as prescribed.

If you think you may have been exposed to HIV, talk to your health care provider, visit an urgent care or emergency room, or use the HIV Services Locator to find a PEP

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By *e4rMan
5 weeks ago

Bingham- Notts

If he is Undetectable, you'll not catch it, with or without taking prEp.

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By *aytimeMan
5 weeks ago

patchway

I can't believe he didn't tell you, what a complete wanker, that said I think you're mad having anal without condoms.

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By *3versMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

"Post-exposure prophylaxis, also called PEP, is a safe, effective prescription medicine that you can take after a possible exposure to reduce the risk of getting HIV.

PEP is taken every day for 28 days, and it is most effective when you take all doses as prescribed.

If you think you may have been exposed to HIV, talk to your health care provider, visit an urgent care or emergency room, or use the HIV Services Locator to find a PEP"

The OP is already on daily PreP, there is no need for PeP

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By *3versMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

"I can't believe he didn't tell you, what a complete wanker, that said I think you're mad having anal without condoms."

One, there is no reason anyone should need to disclose their health information to anyone else.

Two, would you believe it anyway?

Three, the OP quite rightly is looking after his own sexual health by taking PreP which is as good as using condoms for HIV prevention

Four, the other person was undetectable which means he can't transmit HIV

Five, go educate yourself

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By *aytimeMan
5 weeks ago

patchway

You'd be happy having see with someone HIV+ and they didn't tell you beforehand? Surely it's an assault isn't it?

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By *aytimeMan
5 weeks ago

patchway

*sex

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By *3versMan
5 weeks ago

glasgow

"You'd be happy having see with someone HIV+ and they didn't tell you beforehand? Surely it's an assault isn't it?"

If someone is HIV+, this means they have been tested, being tested means they will most likely be getting treatment for it, as was in the OPs meeting where the other guy was undetectable. Willfully transmitting HIV is a crime which in this case it was not. Educate yourself

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"You'd be happy having see with someone HIV+ and they didn't tell you beforehand? Surely it's an assault isn't it?"

If you're having sex, it's more than likely you have done exactly that. Frankly, it's none of your business.

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I can't believe he didn't tell you, what a complete wanker, that said I think you're mad having anal without condoms.

🚨 Klaxon 🚨 Klaxon 🚨 Klaxon 🚨

“Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!

High levels of naivety and judgmental wankery detected!

Step away, Will Robinson!

Danger! Danger!!”

⛔️ ⚠️ 🚨 klaxon 🚨 ⛔️ ⚠️

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By *lackbootzMan
5 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"You'd be happy having see with someone HIV+ and they didn't tell you beforehand? Surely it's an assault isn't it?"

⚠️ ⛔️ Klaxon ⛔️ ⚠️

“Danger!

Levels of sexual naivety and immature piety now reaching critical mass!

Danger! Danger!”

🚨 Klaxon 🚨

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

People that know they have it aren't the worry it's those that don't care, don't get tested or get told and block it out and carry on as normal who are the problem. Someone who knows they have it, does what they are told and takes medication for it isn't a worry at all and no risk if they are undetectable.

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By *antsMeetsMan
5 weeks ago

uxbridge

When I lived in Thailand I knew a ladyboy who died of aids , funny person and I got on well with her, never slept with her, she stopped going to the bar she worked in and everyone said she was gambling or hungover , next thing I saw on Facebook she was being cremated, most were told it was cancer but one of her friends who was also a ladyboy knew me and told me it was AIDS. Really shocked me, she'd been sleeping with people right up to the point she got ill and apparently knew she had HIV but was too embarrassed to get on treatment. All came out after the death.

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By *exualCumeleonMan
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I thank the guys who are upfront on honest about their health status, I am a long term Prep user and fully aware of U=U, but I will not meet Poz guys.

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