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Coming Out Late In Life

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By *actilePig OP   Man
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN

I am currently writing an article for a magazine regarding the experience of coming out over the age of 50.

If anyone interested in having a phone conversation would like to private message me I would be eternally grateful.

Total anonymity offered, no names would be used.

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By *opipu8800Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Good luck with your article. Perhaps also consider an online survey set to anonymous data processing.

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By *actilePig OP   Man
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN

Thank you, not a bad idea.

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By *reenbinMan
4 weeks ago

Portishead

I confessed my reasons for not coming out, do it genuine OP. X

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

Sent you a message, B. [I’m sure it’s helpful. 😉]

Any late starters, please do consider volunteering some thoughts to my good friend here who is genuine, considerate, generous to talk to, and will make you laugh. You won’t feel uncomfortable or inhibited telling him your past.

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By *eam Bi MatureMan
4 weeks ago

Leamington

I’ve just spent nearly an hour talking to this gent and it was as enlightening for me as it was for him. It’s made me think more about how I approach the subject of coming out, if at all, so if you feel like sharing thoughts, just do it; pick up the phone.

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"I’ve just spent nearly an hour talking to this gent and it was as enlightening for me as it was for him. It’s made me think more about how I approach the subject of coming out, if at all, so if you feel like sharing thoughts, just do it; pick up the phone. "

👍

He is enlightening - and sometimes even a gent - though can be a garrulous old twat at times.

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By *actilePig OP   Man
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN

I take offence, which as you know, there is no greater crime…old?

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By *actilePig OP   Man
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN


"I’ve just spent nearly an hour talking to this gent and it was as enlightening for me as it was for him. It’s made me think more about how I approach the subject of coming out, if at all, so if you feel like sharing thoughts, just do it; pick up the phone. "

Thank you so much for taking the time to call, it was an absolute pleasure chatting to you.

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By *om54321xxMan
4 weeks ago

Southport

Happy to talk on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Not out.

Not over 50.

If anyone who says they know me asks any you lot I'm not even here.

50 or so years behind me, life built, home, wife, kids, job, everything in its place and a place for everything.

Quite successful and happy in my own way.

But my whole life from as young as I can remember is a lie and a secret.

I'm a crossdressing most likely gay man with a young family and a whole world that thinks I'm something I'm not

I'm so so tired of all the lies.

I try and instill the goodness and kindness and strength in my kids I think they need and the world deserves of them.

Then I lie and trick and deceive my way into finding myself in a strangers house doing something that would rock their little world's apart.

And my wife, jesus where to even start.

I honestly wish I wasn't like this.

If there was a cure I'd take it right now

No question.

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By *oxleyMan
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

What a nice chat.

Whoever you are, no matter how scared…..

Yes - his site is interesting.

Super nice guy.

Open all you vacillators - just have a chat

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By *actilePig OP   Man
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN


"What a nice chat.

Whoever you are, no matter how scared…..

Yes - his site is interesting.

Super nice guy.

Open all you vacillators - just have a chat

"

Thank you so much for taking the time to speak to me today, and for your honesty. I throughly enjoyed our chat.

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By *atherineB67TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Hoylake


"Not out.

Not over 50.

If anyone who says they know me asks any you lot I'm not even here.

50 or so years behind me, life built, home, wife, kids, job, everything in its place and a place for everything.

Quite successful and happy in my own way.

But my whole life from as young as I can remember is a lie and a secret.

I'm a crossdressing most likely gay man with a young family and a whole world that thinks I'm something I'm not

I'm so so tired of all the lies.

I try and instill the goodness and kindness and strength in my kids I think they need and the world deserves of them.

Then I lie and trick and deceive my way into finding myself in a strangers house doing something that would rock their little world's apart.

And my wife, jesus where to even start.

I honestly wish I wasn't like this.

If there was a cure I'd take it right now

No question.

"

O feel exactly the same way.

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