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By *ranger OP   Man
3 weeks ago

merseyside

Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

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By *tmguylookingMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

She probably knows that you want cock more than you want fanny, or she's got another cock sorting her out.

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By *ranger OP   Man
3 weeks ago

merseyside


"She probably knows that you want cock more than you want fanny, or she's got another cock sorting her out."
prob got other cock

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By *luteus maxMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

Anyone un Hampshire with this problem is welcome to unload in me.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Maybe she's realised you're not the same man she fell in love with and has gone off you?

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By *ollyMan
3 weeks ago

Downham market

Maybe it's a common problem of the menopause. It seems that most men get starved of sex and affection at a certain stage in the relationship

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By *anDadBodMan
3 weeks ago

Speke

what did you do wrong?

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By *arrogateDadMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

Loads of possible reasons …..one of which is if you consider having sex with her an entitlement and not a privilege , she maybe considers that attitude off putting and can’t be bothered anymore. She’s not your property & you don’t have any rights to her body just because your married.

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By *ylingMan
3 weeks ago

maidenhead

Probably just the menopause. It happens.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Seaton

Perhaps she no longer finds you desirable?

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By *ornymwellbiMan
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Mine has early menopause so it's getting rare these days to have sex

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By *oel2020Man
3 weeks ago

brough

Mine same xx she was having affair

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Mine has other cocks to keep her satisfied

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By *wej1Man
3 weeks ago

Grantham

Maybe try askin her instead of on here

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By *heo6SGMan
3 weeks ago

Lincs


"Maybe try askin her instead of on here"

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By *oel2020Man
3 weeks ago

brough

Ok xx

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By *nmykneesagainMan
3 weeks ago

salford

Mine gets other cocks, she doesnt need mine

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By *ockednikiMan
3 weeks ago

Newhaven

I'm tiny, limp and prejac according to my wife x

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By *erasusMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Post menopause she simply desires less

Her mind, her body, my challenge

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By *rancd2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Definitely either

a) Menopause

b) other cock

c) you are no longer desirable

Women are wired differently to men, they actually need a reason/desire for sex, not just something they need to do.

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By *ubdevonMan
3 weeks ago

Tiverton


"Definitely either

a) Menopause

b) other cock

c) you are no longer desirable

Women are wired differently to men, they actually need a reason/desire for sex, not just something they need to do."

Hopefully a)

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By *leaser99Man
3 weeks ago

london

Would gladly service any man who’s not getting enough

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By *iny SamTV/TS
3 weeks ago

swindon

I haven’t had sex with my wife for years and after an op have a tiny cock now so even if I could she’d probably not be interested in me preferring some guy with a big cock.

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
3 weeks ago

Halesowen

It's been a month since I got a hand job, can't remember the last time we fucked

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By *ourinmydreamsMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "
done you satisfy her needs or are you selfish in bed

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By *antsMeetsMan
3 weeks ago

uxbridge

She's being rattled by big Leroy up the road

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By *cunnySucker69Man
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Some woman just go off sex as they get older

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By *ic15Man
3 weeks ago

wroxham

Mine was the same then came out the other side of menapores and it's back on again.

Ive spoken to three women on the subject recently and all said they were more into sex after menapores and being older.

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By *eedmenow2000Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

She's probably found out your on here so she's getting it elsewhere

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By *owerplay823Man
3 weeks ago

Brighton

I’ve had more cock since married due to lack of sex

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By *wallowseedMan
3 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Same position here.

Been 10 years now since we last fucked.

Shame because she was very naughty in bed and I was allowed to do anything.

Normally involved me tying her up and doing as I pleased.

She would always allow anal and always swallowed.

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By *couseJay123Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Menopause excuse been used a few times on me

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By *eefandfurMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

The last time you had sex, did you ask to fuck her in the arse and call her Dave. She may suspect that you're more fond of the company of gentlemen.

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By *opmaster62Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Wash the dishes

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By *edMan
3 weeks ago

south wales

My first wife went off sex… and she seemed surprised when I had an affair with my current wife and divorced her lol.

My current wife is 17 years younger than me and loves sex thankfully.

But she does know what happened to her predecessor 🤣

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

“Why is my wife depriving me of sex”

Would not the sensible first step be an open and meaningful conversation with your wife to ascertain this?

Rather than launching a FabGuys thread seeking other men in a similar position for your jollies..?

Which is more important to you - finding the answer to your question and possibly re-establishing healthy sexual relations with your wife - or seeking other men for your jollies?

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By *couseJay123Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool


"My first wife went off sex… and she seemed surprised when I had an affair with my current wife and divorced her lol.

My current wife is 17 years younger than me and loves sex thankfully.

But she does know what happened to her predecessor 🤣"

First refusal and she’s history lol

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"Mine was the same then came out the other side of menapores and it's back on again.

Ive spoken to three women on the subject recently and all said they were more into sex after menapores and being older."

I’m sure the Menopores were in the 1930s Flash Gordon's Trip to Mars with Buster Crabbe… Didn’t they fight the Mud Men..?

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By *ugbymanMan
3 weeks ago

Northumberland

Our sex life dried up after the menopause, like many. Even harder because we had played most of our married life, she loved it

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By *estOxonBottomMan
2 weeks ago

Carterton


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

Sorry to hear that her sex drive is now lower. It could be the menopause. You might like to ask her what she can suggest to spice up your sex life. Chat to her about it.

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By *uckmeslow555Man
2 weeks ago

oakham

Me must be 15 years now

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By *ronmant16Man
2 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Mine was the same then came out the other side of menapores and it's back on again.

Ive spoken to three women on the subject recently and all said they were more into sex after menapores and being older."

I'm crossing my fingers on this one

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By *ate500TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

I've not fucked my wife in over ten years.

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By *wej1Man
2 weeks ago

Grantham


"“Why is my wife depriving me of sex”

Would not the sensible first step be an open and meaningful conversation with your wife to ascertain this?

Rather than launching a FabGuys thread seeking other men in a similar position for your jollies..?

Which is more important to you - finding the answer to your question and possibly re-establishing healthy sexual relations with your wife - or seeking other men for your jollies?"

We already know the answer is coming on here attention seeking instead of talking to his wife

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By *0yguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

“ Why is my wife depriving me of sex?”

Probably because you’re useless. Suggest you get more practice with a tutor.

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name


"“ Why is my wife depriving me of sex?”

Probably because you’re useless. Suggest you get more practice with a tutor."

She got tired of you thumbing it in

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By *agedsubCoolMan
2 weeks ago

amesbury


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

Shouldn’t you be discussing this with her?

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"The last time you had sex, did you ask to fuck her in the arse and call her Dave. She may suspect that you're more fond of the company of gentlemen. "

Hehe. Stormy Dave?

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By *traight.lad45Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

They all hold the power

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By *andinmypantsMan
2 weeks ago

North London

I'm not allowed to tell you.

The first rule of Wife Club is: you do not talk about Wife Club.

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By *ubdevonMan
2 weeks ago

Tiverton

Mine gets more pleasure in saying no than the actual sex, I think.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Know what the biggest red flag for women is? That sense of entitlement to sex that men have, like she's just a hole to deposit your cum into.

Paying her attention, showing her love in sentimental and practical ways and not expecting sex as a reward for chores done, or worse not even bothered with, is likely to get you more than moaning to a bunch of gay guys.

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By *orcsmatMan
2 weeks ago

Kidderminster

You've gotten older, probably now a little less than adventurous.

Have a play date. Use your tongue on her pussy and bring her orgasm.

You'll probably get breakfast in bed too. Maybe not. Cannot think of a worst place to eat a meal.

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

Buy her some Milk Tray

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By *oe_66WFMan
2 weeks ago

Darton


"Loads of possible reasons …..one of which is if you consider having sex with her an entitlement and not a privilege , she maybe considers that attitude off putting and can’t be bothered anymore. She’s not your property & you don’t have any rights to her body just because your married. "

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By *tephen_b50Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"Buy her some Milk Tray"

Not a good idea. She'll start having it off with that bloke who does the delivery

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_fLV_AIlM0

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By *ressmesissyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Upset her, put her down, forgot an important anniversary (to her), is she depressed, has she caught you cheating and not let on, seen your internet history, the list goes on

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By *ranger OP   Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside

For 4 years

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By *ranger OP   Man
2 weeks ago

merseyside


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Shouldn’t you be discussing this with her?"

i have she says I don't need it ,it's over rated.

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By *ntoniacd40TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Guildford


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

Well your pants are shit and your pubes are disgusting

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Well your pants are shit and your pubes are disgusting "

Miaow! But also not wrong!

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By *eedsbimarriedMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Upset her, put her down, forgot an important anniversary (to her), is she depressed, has she caught you cheating and not let on, seen your internet history, the list goes on"

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By *asygoin69Man
2 weeks ago

near Upton

Lets face it once they beyond breeding stage they dont give … about getting fucked anymore other than doing a favour now and again

Take her to a nice hotel get her tipsy (not d*unk) and kiss her all over while u strip her - u may get lucky 50/50 chance

Or give up on it and just stick to fun with guys on here

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By *ick62Man
2 weeks ago

North Notts

Because she knows you like fucking a guys hot ass

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By *wej1Man
2 weeks ago

Grantham


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Well your pants are shit and your pubes are disgusting "

Quoted for truth

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Well your pants are shit and your pubes are disgusting "

Mumsnet knows best

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By *arlperksMan
2 weeks ago

nottingham

She's getting fucked elsewhere

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"… Lets face it once they beyond breeding stage they dont give … "

Charming. I can’t imagine why your gossamer tongue is not getting you the goods.

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By *ral and analMan
2 weeks ago

Ossett

She's fucking your mate!

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"… Lets face it once they beyond breeding stage they dont give …

Charming. I can’t imagine why your gossamer tongue is not getting you the goods."

Reducing people to biology is always such a turn on

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By *ammiTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Inverness

Wives going through the menopause and going off sex is just great for me.

I meet a lot of married men because of this reason….lol

Big shout out to all those ladies going through the change x

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By *iketotry2000Man
2 weeks ago

R C T


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

Given your age I presume she's of a similar age so its probably the menopause. Its not called "the change of life" for nothing.

Assuming your marriage is good otherwise just accept it and seek fun elsewhere on the QT.

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By *iBobOxonMan
2 weeks ago

Thame/Aylesbury


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

She doesn’t want you to fuck her anymore, so you and her are done. Get legal advice and start a new life.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

She doesn’t want you to fuck her anymore, so you and her are done. Get legal advice and start a new life. "

Lmao dont come on here with sensible suggestions

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By *ice Guy 46Man
2 weeks ago

leicestershire

Women go off sex the moment you get one and make it comfortable so the only thing that’s keeps us going is swx with each other

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By *amsoonMan
2 weeks ago

stornoway

Thankfully my 80yr old wife has her regular lover to take care of her needs. Gives me space for gay sex

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral


"Maybe she's realised you're not the same man she fell in love with and has gone off you?"

That might be the answer to a lot of people in the same boat, the same could be said in reverse also.

It may be a simple case of one not being sexually attracted to the other anymore.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Maybe she's realised you're not the same man she fell in love with and has gone off you?

That might be the answer to a lot of people in the same boat, the same could be said in reverse also.

It may be a simple case of one not being sexually attracted to the other anymore."

Definitely, people change.

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By *owalskiMan
2 weeks ago

Addlestone

Is this the same wife who's been 52 for the last 3/4 years??

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By *lackburnbi200Man
2 weeks ago

Accrington

She's probably getting cock somewhere else like my wife was

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By *wej1Man
2 weeks ago

Grantham

Maybe she thinks ur crap in bed?

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By *couseJay123Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Is this the same wife who's been 52 for the last 3/4 years??"

Lol

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"Loads of possible reasons …..one of which is if you consider having sex with her an entitlement and not a privilege , she maybe considers that attitude off putting and can’t be bothered anymore. She’s not your property & you don’t have any rights to her body just because your married. "

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated "

Try the blue pill

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway

I'm not denied sex, however because of my wife's disability and how painful sex can be for her we just don't do it.

I hate to see her in pain. We've tried often enough in recent years but it's not fair on her

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By *ndy61hMan
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

You're wife depriving you having sex, says more about you than her.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"You're wife depriving you having sex, says more about you than her."

👏 👏 👏

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"You're wife depriving you having sex, says more about you than her."

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By *enri du lacMan
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Why don't you consider participating in a shared non-sexual activity with your wife? It might bring you closer together.

For example, you could search for your birth certificate together.

Then, when you find it, you'll know whether you're:

- Paul aged 53 (profile _ranger), or

- Peter aged 57 (profile _ranger555)

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Very sadly my wife became very ill and lost all desire for sex. Our marriage remained happy in other ways until she died. A few months after that I started exploring my bi side and I've had quite a lot of happy times that way.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"Why don't you consider participating in a shared non-sexual activity with your wife? It might bring you closer together.

For example, you could search for your birth certificate together.

Then, when you find it, you'll know whether you're:

- Paul aged 53 (profile _ranger), or

- Peter aged 57 (profile _ranger555)"

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated

Try the blue pill "

I have, and also been prescribed Tadalafil to which neither work.

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"Why don't you consider participating in a shared non-sexual activity with your wife? It might bring you closer together.

For example, you could search for your birth certificate together.

Then, when you find it, you'll know whether you're:

- Paul aged 53 (profile _ranger), or

- Peter aged 57 (profile _ranger555)"

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated

Try the blue pill

I have, and also been prescribed Tadalafil to which neither work."

Tadafil come in different strengths. They are great

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By *idingcockMan
2 weeks ago

Driffield

Perhaps she finds you unattractive nowadays?

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By *laything66Man
2 weeks ago

fife

Mines has the menopause, when she wants it she gets it but definitely less than before

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated

Try the blue pill

I have, and also been prescribed Tadalafil to which neither work.

Tadafil come in different strengths. They are great "

20mg.

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

Im in opposite situation, my wife's 14 year's younger and extremely highly seed but I suffer erectile dysfunction and can't get erect for her

She's often sexually frustrated

Try the blue pill

I have, and also been prescribed Tadalafil to which neither work.

Tadafil come in different strengths. They are great

20mg."

Yep... Keeps me going for ages

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By *are2PlayMan
2 weeks ago

moray

I'm the opposite, mine can't get enough, always horny 24/7

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By *aringtogo00TV/TS
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I asked her that question and got this reply … I don’t know something said I don’t need this any longer ….but she still has those moments that she wants that intimacy especially when on holiday it’s constant sex, It must be the sun, sea and sand that flips a switch in her head.

I opinion is men could live ten lives and never find out why , the menopause is a huge cause of hell for men and women ,which we get blamed for anything that goes wrong or if we ask the wrong question.

For sure you can divorce them just to find out it happens all over again with the next model, we’re never going to win this fight.

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By *ussexNaughtyMan
2 weeks ago

Crawley

I’m in the same position. She sends me mixed messages, walks around the house naked but won’t let me even touch her. Thank goodness I have my secret men to keep me happy

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross


"I asked her that question and got this reply … I don’t know something said I don’t need this any longer ….but she still has those moments that she wants that intimacy especially when on holiday it’s constant sex, It must be the sun, sea and sand that flips a switch in her head.

I opinion is men could live ten lives and never find out why , the menopause is a huge cause of hell for men and women ,which we get blamed for anything that goes wrong or if we ask the wrong question.

For sure you can divorce them just to find out it happens all over again with the next model, we’re never going to win this fight."

I have the Male Menopause, it's called Low Testosterone.

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By *tephen_b50Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

i've formed the impression over many years that women who are keen on sex until they get married, after which they either aren't bothered or go looking for more or for better elsewhere, are in the majority by a very long way. And this is even more true after they have kids.

This is of course just an accumulated impression from countless anecdotes, and i'm not presenting it as established fact. But it does make me thankful that i never married

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Think you might be better off on Mumsnet tbh... x

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By *penglerMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester


"She probably knows that you want cock more than you want fanny, or she's got another cock sorting her out."

Spot on.

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By *ike 57Man
2 weeks ago

clonmel

cocks can give more fun..as well

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By *ewBrumBiMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Have you tried asking her?

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

She's really a man but is only in it for the free meal ticket

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By *ayd100Man
2 weeks ago

bb7

Bigger and better cock for sure

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Words fail me, how much time is there?

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By *wej1Man
7 days ago

Grantham

She doesnt like your public bush

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By *bonybucksMan
7 days ago

High Wycombe

Ask ur wife dude. No one here can help you

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By *xtraoneMan
7 days ago

Gloucester

If you love her put up with it

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By *umdumpster2Man
7 days ago

Maidenhead

Maybe she has an affair

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

My wife just very rarely wants it, whereas I want it all the time!!!

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By *uvetdaysMan
7 days ago

Cumbria

You're on a gay site fretting about your wife!? She's obviously found a guy that likes females exclusively and is meeting her needs lol.. it's not difficult!

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By *ollyMan
6 days ago

Downham market

The menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

She has been pegging me x

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By *ranger OP   Man
3 days ago

merseyside


"Have you tried asking her?"
yes she says you don't need sex,it's over rated,nobody needs sex, it a waste of time.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 days ago

Neath

If I was married to a man, I would have the insight not to go on fabswingers and complainmy husband isn’t putting out.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"Have you tried asking her?

yes she says you don't need sex,it's over rated,nobody needs sex, it a waste of time. "

Then why have you wasted our time with this thread if she’s already told you the answer?

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By *altnsand60Man
3 days ago

Dover

Well it depends on how old she is. The interest seems to fade with age more in women than men

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By *edmdMan
3 days ago

Woodhall Spa

Yes my wife’s not interested in sex since her menaupause

I don’t know if she’s getting cock elsewhere

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By *enri du lacMan
3 days ago

Coventry


"Have you tried asking her?

yes she says you don't need sex,it's over rated,nobody needs sex, it a waste of time.

Then why have you wasted our time with this thread if she’s already told you the answer? "

😁

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By *ngel50TV/TS
3 days ago

Kinross


"Yes my wife’s not interested in sex since her menaupause

I don’t know if she’s getting cock elsewhere "

Depends what age you are, im 55, and my wife is 41, she finds that younger men than herself manage to last longer and have far more energy than a 55 year old like myself.

I guess there's a time when the older man has to step back and allow the younger stronger Buck to take over

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By *erasusMan
3 days ago

Glasgow


"Yes my wife’s not interested in sex since her menaupause

I don’t know if she’s getting cock elsewhere

Depends what age you are, im 55, and my wife is 41, she finds that younger men than herself manage to last longer and have far more energy than a 55 year old like myself.

I guess there's a time when the older man has to step back and allow the younger stronger Buck to take over"

Whoa my friend you're 55 not 65+.

Unless its an illness, you have loads in your tank. (Wait until you're my age!!!)

Book a long weekend in a lovely hotel and tell her you're going to screw her every which way at least twice a day and then do it .... then see how comfortable she is walking at the end of the trip 😈

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By *IPMANMan
3 days ago

West London

She says no because she has the right to. Just as you have the right to divorce her

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By *eepeter4Man
3 days ago

Bournemouth

Perhaps is you give her a bit more housekeeping money and a brand new cooker and a new washing machine she might give you a BJ

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By *ophie_GTV/TS
3 days ago

Gainsborough

Maybe she just doesn't like you anymore

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By *aznutMan
3 days ago

Walsall

Lol I know my Mrs doesn't like me anymore

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By *wej1Man
3 days ago

Grantham


"Have you tried asking her?

yes she says you don't need sex,it's over rated,nobody needs sex, it a waste of time.

Then why have you wasted our time with this thread if she’s already told you the answer? "

She cant find Peter or Paul's cock because a dom guy is also depriving him of trimming his overgrown public bush

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 days ago

Chesterfield


"Yes my wife’s not interested in sex since her menaupause

I don’t know if she’s getting cock elsewhere

Depends what age you are, im 55, and my wife is 41, she finds that younger men than herself manage to last longer and have far more energy than a 55 year old like myself.

I guess there's a time when the older man has to step back and allow the younger stronger Buck to take over

Whoa my friend you're 55 not 65+.

Unless its an illness, you have loads in your tank. (Wait until you're my age!!!)

Book a long weekend in a lovely hotel and tell her you're going to screw her every which way at least twice a day and then do it .... then see how comfortable she is walking at the end of the trip 😈"

No, don't do that. Just tell her it's over, you want a divorce and cite her as the problem. You won't regret it.

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By *am187Man
2 days ago

Glasgow

Probably getting another cock elsewhere

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By *otcleanguyMan
2 days ago

Manchester


"Maybe it's a common problem of the menopause. It seems that most men get starved of sex and affection at a certain stage in the relationship "

This

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By *iss Leanne BTV/TS
2 days ago

Manchester


"Perhaps is you give her a bit more housekeeping money and a brand new cooker and a new washing machine she might give you a BJ "

Oh Dear 👎

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By *ason-DMan
2 days ago

Bromsgrove

My wife passed away nearly three years ago from cancer. We hadn’t been sexually active for a few years because of her various health issues.

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By *arridMan
2 days ago

Brighton

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By *arridMan
2 days ago

Brighton


"[Removed by poster at 22/04/26 20:45:18]"
send her my way

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By *ames50sMan
2 days ago

Worcester

Mine is well in to the menopause stage. She has given me a pass to have sex with men but not with women, unless they are married.

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By *wej1Man
2 days ago

Grantham

She doesnt have sex with men called Peter or Paul as their public bushes are a health hazard

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By *eepeter4Man
2 days ago

Bournemouth


"Perhaps is you give her a bit more housekeeping money and a brand new cooker and a new washing machine she might give you a BJ

Oh Dear 👎"

👎👎👎

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By *ngel50TV/TS
23 hours ago

Kinross


"Mine is well in to the menopause stage. She has given me a pass to have sex with men but not with women, unless they are married. "

My wife has started menopause, hot flushes, mood swings etc but she can't get enough sex, or at least she couldn't if I could get it up for her. She gets extremely frustrated regarding my erectile dysfunction

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By *om9Man
21 hours ago

Saint Helens

May be you just don't pleasure her properly due to you wanting cock

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By *aulBiBottomMan
21 hours ago

nr Longbridge

It seems most women go off sex with their partners husbands in their 50s, some of us are lucky and that doesn't happen too but hey you can't reclaim when you're on this site looking for guys for fun as with most guys on here we want simple uncomplicated sex, because guys tend to be more basic and open about what we want and what we don't want and we stay horny all of our lives. Ladies will even from menopause still have sex but not normally with their husband it's with a side piece so as long as you're happy and you love you wife let her get a cock where she wants it and you get your cock and pussy where you get it and just have fun

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By *ubtitsMan
19 hours ago

hyde

Mone ended over 30 years ago when she was getting it from other guys I found it so horny went on for over 5 years it was so horny.

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By *oxymusicMan
19 hours ago

Cowbridge

Probably getting a good length from a horny fucker who also trims her public bush upon leaving the love nest.

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By *jh59Man
19 hours ago

Hinckley

Getting it elsewhere like mine is

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By *lackbootzMan
19 hours ago

Hayes, Middx


"Probably getting a good length from a horny fucker who also trims her public bush upon leaving the love nest."

Has somebody laid eggs in her public bush..?

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By *uffolkmale54TV/TS
19 hours ago

Lowestoft

because im inadequate in bed

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By *oxymusicMan
19 hours ago

Cowbridge


"Probably getting a good length from a horny fucker who also trims her public bush upon leaving the love nest.

Has somebody laid eggs in her public bush..? "

🤣

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By *edMan
19 hours ago

south wales

Life is too short chaps. If she’s depriving you of sex, trade her in for a younger model. Best decision I ever made 👍🏼

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By *punk loverMan
18 hours ago

Dunstable

Offer to become her cuck and see what she says …if yes at least you get to clean her pussy of her lovers spunk so best of both worlds

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By *wej1Man
18 hours ago

Grantham

You feel inadequate because Paul aged 53 and Peter aged 57 dont have their public bush trimmed by a dom guy but your wife has hers done probably by a dom woman

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By *oxymusicMan
18 hours ago

Cowbridge


"You feel inadequate because Paul aged 53 and Peter aged 57 dont have their public bush trimmed by a dom guy but your wife has hers done probably by a dom woman "

🤣

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By *laycd300Man
18 hours ago

belfast


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway "

She maybe needs her public bush trimmed

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By *uziesuckfuckTV/TS
17 hours ago

Gorseinon


"Maybe it's a common problem of the menopause. It seems that most men get starved of sex and affection at a certain stage in the relationship "

This is what happened to me the wife hit the menopause and went totally off sex.

Started to experiment on my own and found dressing really turned me on, from this I thought I'd meet a man and after that first meet realised I wanted cock, then on my next meet we booked a hotel for some uninterrupted fun this is when I first got fucked, OMG I knew from that moment I'm a true sissy who was born to take men's cocks for their pleasure.

My dream is to have a room full of men pass me around taking it in turns fucking me and filling me with their cum in both holes

We can all dream lol

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By *xplore2023Man
17 hours ago

durrington

Maybe she needs a real cock to get her going

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By *oxymusicMan
17 hours ago

Cowbridge


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

She maybe needs her public bush trimmed "

Her public bush grows considerably more in the warmer months so the op may have to put up with this on a very regular basis until near the end of the year.

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By *laycd300Man
17 hours ago

belfast


"Any guys in same position or can help in anyway

She maybe needs her public bush trimmed

Her public bush grows considerably more in the warmer months so the op may have to put up with this on a very regular basis until near the end of the year."

And birds may be nesting in it!

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By *wej1Man
17 hours ago

Grantham

His public bush is out of control it needs burning

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By *oxymusicMan
17 hours ago

Cowbridge


"His public bush is out of control it needs burning"

Maybe she’s wilding her public bush to encourage pollinators & bio-diverse habitats, doing her bit, in the hope the op follows suit?

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By *IPMANMan
17 hours ago

West London

Perhaps she's a lesbian ?

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By *wej1Man
17 hours ago

Grantham


"His public bush is out of control it needs burning

Maybe she’s wilding her public bush to encourage pollinators & bio-diverse habitats, doing her bit, in the hope the op follows suit?"

Which OP Paul aged 53 or Peter aged 57

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By *iMarried24Man
17 hours ago

Devon


"Perhaps she's a lesbian ?"

I think mine is after finding her xham account.

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By *onkfish10Man
16 hours ago

Shropshire

Mine is been so long I don't even think about women anymore

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By *avebiuk99Man
14 hours ago

Kings Lynn

My wife going through the menopause had a major impact on our sex life although we still have sex a lot of the time it's just basic sex which doesn't do much for me if I'm honest.

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By *hawn1Man
14 hours ago

gloucester

I think sometimes that maybe the men should look at themselves more, most let themselves go, get out of shape, dress poorly and look a mess why would any woman desire that 🤷‍♂️

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By *wej1Man
11 hours ago

Grantham


"I think sometimes that maybe the men should look at themselves more, most let themselves go, get out of shape, dress poorly and look a mess why would any woman desire that 🤷‍♂️"

And they dont shave their public bush...never mind let a dom guy do it

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