FabGuys.com forum: Normal to be soft when recieving?

By *extoyforuse OP Man
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm?

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By *MB9Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

It is for me.

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By *eed2pleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Conwy

It is for me. I’m just concentrating on making sure he’s having a great fuck

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By *ylons22Man
4 weeks ago

Wolverley & Dudley

i don't get hard when receiving, as soon as the cock is in there it flops & shrinks

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By *ohnfireMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes I’m the same, love getting a gorgeous cock hard with my mouth then receiving it but always soft myself

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By *esigner71TV/TS
4 weeks ago

altrincham

I love being soft when fucked shows what a cock slut I am

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By *atexlover50Man
4 weeks ago

Barton upon humber

I to go soft . But my cock produces loads of precum when I'm getting filled

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Its not unusual

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By *owerplay823Man
4 weeks ago

Brighton

I’m often horniest when soft

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By *KBiMale2023Man
4 weeks ago

WEDNESFIELD

Everyone is different. I am always hard when receiving

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By *ayd100Man
4 weeks ago

bb7

It varies, don't get as hard as I used to anyway

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By *ickensMan
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm generally soft when rrceiving

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By *ub460Man
4 weeks ago

S. Derbys

Normally totally limp and tiny when being fucked, and dripping pre-cum, all my pleasure is from his cock inside my arse

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By *upertedMan
4 weeks ago

Nelson

Perfectly normal.

Your focus and the blood all rushes to your hole. You're concentrating on not clenching on his in or out stroke. You want him to enjoy you.

It's a subby/bottom thing too... I often don't have the urge to cum. I've a belly full of his...and that's enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I was always soft when getting fucked. As soon as the guys pulled out though I would get hard 😂 doesn’t happen now though (can’t take anal anymore sadly) 🙁😘

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By *eversayNever200Man
4 weeks ago

Kendal

I’m almost always soft when I’m taking a good fucking. I usually leak a big pool of cum as he pounds my hole though.

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By *antsomefun2025Man
4 weeks ago

Falmouth

Sometimes soft and other times hard, I do enjoy wanking while I'm being fucked and I absolutely love an intense orgasm when I cum while being fucked hard

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By *ayd100Man
4 weeks ago

bb7

"Perfectly normal.

Your focus and the blood all rushes to your hole. You're concentrating on not clenching on his in or out stroke. You want him to enjoy you.

It's a subby/bottom thing too... I often don't have the urge to cum. I've a belly full of his...and that's enough. "
I agree

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By *r BitMan
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

I always go soft when receiving

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By *hubbyman10Man
4 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Yes I'm always soft when being penetrated

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By *mptyspace80Man
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

I work hard on completely relaxing down there when being fucked. Makes it easier to take a cock but it also results in me going soft. Doesn't matter as I still love it and I certainly perk up if he hits the right spots inside me.

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By *ike 57Man
4 weeks ago

clonmel

same here..really soft

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By *lluredByMatureMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Only bottomed a couple of times and both times I stayed soft throughout. Get rock hard sucking though.

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I love being soft when fucked shows what a cock slut I am"

Why would staying soft show what a cock slut you are..?! No rhyme nor reason there at all.

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By *udiboy1Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

As long as both are having fun

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By *odomyLoverMan
4 weeks ago

Winnersh

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

It is for me unfortunately. I do get hard sometimes

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By *KBottom25Man
4 weeks ago

London & South East

I do get hard being fucked regularly. Not always but it spurts..

When they slap my arse cheeks as they fuck me that gets me hard too

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By *VLIZTV/TS
4 weeks ago

warrington / anglesey

Thank gawd it's normal, as I go soft when getting fucked, I thought it was just me ,

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By *atalieCDTV85TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

Always been soft when I have been fucked

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By *avid1066Man
4 weeks ago

Birkenhead

im always rock hard

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By *olin1951Man
4 weeks ago

worcester

Soft here too.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm usually soft if the top is quite large and isn't handling my willy

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By *aid2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Swindon

Very normal to be soft when being topped. I prefer limp bottoms, they are less distracted

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By *ancsub1Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

Yes. But I am usually in my chastity cage

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By *rTee69Man
4 weeks ago

This thread is quite reassuring, as I'm always soft when getting fucked and often worry about it, so it's good to see its actually quite normal.

Like some others above though, I leak precum profusely if the top hits the right spot.

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By *alking HeadMan
4 weeks ago

Bolton

For me it depends I suppose, on the size of the cock, and my mood.

I take very large toys and hands regularly, so for a cock to make me go soft takes some really serious size. Having said that, if I know I'm being impaled on something so big, the mental stimulation will keep me hard. I've been known to ride one and cum hands free and stay hard from that. With a very big insertion, I can lose it completely, but a bit of cock play will have me cumming without getting hard either. I don't fret. It's all good.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

I usually prefer being soft

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By *hiamintyMan
4 weeks ago

rg25

"Very normal to be soft when being topped. I prefer limp bottoms, they are less distracted

I’m definitely a limp bottom

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By *o48Man
4 weeks ago

Gateshead

Depends i dont often bottom so do tend to stay hard iif i bottom tend to flip if on top always stay hard

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By *ead BioMan
4 weeks ago

Frinton-on-Sea

Most of the time I'm soft but not always, sometimes rock hard - just depends. Regardless I always leaking so much precum, my cock is normally dripping wet at the end of a hookup.

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By *wanseajack2014Man
4 weeks ago

Neath

Yes. I used to go soft when being fucked

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By *ohnsy2022Man
4 weeks ago

Chorley

Yes, for me it is, I am always soft when a guy fucks me x

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By *wadbisexualMan
4 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

I've taken my fair share of dick in my arse, only once did i ever get hard & only then because another dude was sucking my cock

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By *ust4inchesMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"I'm generally soft when rrceiving"

Was that stutter as it pushed in? 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

As a submissive bottom, It is for me

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

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By *ozjamesMan
4 weeks ago

birmingham

As a sub bottom only one cock in the room that's hard

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By *acyjones2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bamber Bridge

I always stay hard when being fucked

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By *anofbronzeMan
4 weeks ago

Badsey

I get hard when being fucked but I cum which can be good but I prefer not to

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By *lphageminiMan
4 weeks ago

Folkestone

With a stranger I go soft as he fucks, but with a regular I'm used to satisfying I get hard and can have an anal climax

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By *ron PandaMan
4 weeks ago

Eridge

Bottoms should be soft, limp, caged and out of sight when submitting. The only hard cock you should focus on is the one slamming into you.

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By *ovefist84Man
4 weeks ago

Oswestry

I usually get soft when fucked. I think it's normal. Always soft when I'm fisted. Some people stay hard. But getting soft is not good if the other guy wants to be fucked.

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By *ldmanMan
4 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

I used to be hard, when receiving, when I was younger, but soft now.

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By *ndy61hMan
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

I normally go soft when being fucked unless I've taken a viagra before.

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By *tokerY2OMan
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

There is no 'normal'.

Some get hard, some stay soft. Its different for everyone.

As long as your enjoying it, its all good.

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By *ubtitsMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

I am always soft when I meet a guy and love it that way.

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By *ohncukMan
4 weeks ago

dartford

Good to know

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By *ondon BiTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Woking

I am always soft when receiving, prefer it that way as can then enjoy the pleasure of having a guy inside me and hoping he lasts for ages!

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By *reddie12345Man
4 weeks ago

Bridgend

It is for me as I'm too focused on making sure he's having all the pleasure.

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By *aySub99Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

"It is for me as I'm too focused on making sure he's having all the pleasure. "

Exactly this, sometimes on my back I get hard but I just wanna hold my legs back instead of touching it, sex feels good enough.

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By *ighlands fellaMan
4 weeks ago

thurso

First time I was fucked but shot my load with a semi hard cock was an eye opener

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By *mdikdaveMan
4 weeks ago

Canterbury

My little fella virtually retreats inside my body....hence my name!😁🤣🤣

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By *aulie666Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"Its not unusual "

It’s called ‘Tom Jones Syndrome’!

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By *ishop666Man
4 weeks ago

ls19

Sometimes hard then not

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By *ike 57Man
4 weeks ago

clonmel

‘Tom Jones Syndrome’..lol

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By *arionX2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Nr.. Mansfield

I’m always hard during foreplay…but as soon as I’m lubed up and his cock slides in and starts pumping ….you know the rest …

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By *ewbiestokeMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Not yet received cock, but it feels like I should be limp to concentrate on his pleasure.

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By *mrmarkMan
4 weeks ago

Tavistock

I go soft with loads of precum, do like tasting it and sharing with giver

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By *rackie bulge loverMan
4 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’m always rock solid. From the minute of teasing to slipping it up and the pounding. And if they are really good I will shoot hands free

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By *ollo007Man
4 weeks ago

Pontefract

First and only time so far I've been fucked I was hard initially and although I loved it and it was maybe getting over the initial discomfort I was soft when he came in me but afterwards as soon as he took hold of my cock to suck it I was instantly rock hard.

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Bottoms should be soft, limp, caged and out of sight when submitting. The only hard cock you should focus on is the one slamming into you. "

Err, no. Don’t confuse what you like with everyone else.

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By *estOxonBottomMan
3 weeks ago

Carterton

When I was a teen I stayed hard when fucked. When I got cock curious at about 50 I got hard during the foreplay then flaccid when fucked. Sometimes I managed to ejaculate when soft and being fucked, which is awesome.

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