FabGuys.com forum: Normal to be soft when recieving?

By *extoyforuse OP Man
15 weeks ago

Midlands

Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm?

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By *MB9Man
15 weeks ago

Northampton

It is for me.

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By *eed2pleaseMan
15 weeks ago

Conwy

It is for me. I’m just concentrating on making sure he’s having a great fuck

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By *ylons22Man
15 weeks ago

Wolverley & Dudley

i don't get hard when receiving, as soon as the cock is in there it flops & shrinks

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By *ohnfireMan
15 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes I’m the same, love getting a gorgeous cock hard with my mouth then receiving it but always soft myself

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By *esigner71TV/TS
15 weeks ago

altrincham

I love being soft when fucked shows what a cock slut I am

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By *atexlover50Man
15 weeks ago

Barton upon humber

I to go soft . But my cock produces loads of precum when I'm getting filled

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By *erscumdumpMan
15 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Its not unusual

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By *owerplay823Man
15 weeks ago

Lewes

I’m often horniest when soft

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By *KBiMale2023Man
15 weeks ago

WEDNESFIELD

Everyone is different. I am always hard when receiving

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By *ayd100Man
15 weeks ago

bb7

It varies, don't get as hard as I used to anyway

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By *ickensMan
15 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm generally soft when rrceiving

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By *ub460Man
15 weeks ago

S. Derbys

Normally totally limp and tiny when being fucked, and dripping pre-cum, all my pleasure is from his cock inside my arse

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By *upertedMan
15 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

Perfectly normal.

Your focus and the blood all rushes to your hole. You're concentrating on not clenching on his in or out stroke. You want him to enjoy you.

It's a subby/bottom thing too... I often don't have the urge to cum. I've a belly full of his...and that's enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I was always soft when getting fucked. As soon as the guys pulled out though I would get hard 😂 doesn’t happen now though (can’t take anal anymore sadly) 🙁😘

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By *eversayNever200Man
15 weeks ago

Kendal

I’m almost always soft when I’m taking a good fucking. I usually leak a big pool of cum as he pounds my hole though.

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By *antsomefun2025Man
15 weeks ago

Falmouth

Sometimes soft and other times hard, I do enjoy wanking while I'm being fucked and I absolutely love an intense orgasm when I cum while being fucked hard

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By *ayd100Man
15 weeks ago

bb7

"Perfectly normal.

Your focus and the blood all rushes to your hole. You're concentrating on not clenching on his in or out stroke. You want him to enjoy you.

It's a subby/bottom thing too... I often don't have the urge to cum. I've a belly full of his...and that's enough. "
I agree

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By *r BitMan
15 weeks ago

Ipswich

I always go soft when receiving

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By *hubbyman10Man
15 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Yes I'm always soft when being penetrated

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By *mptyspace80Man
15 weeks ago

Cambridge

I work hard on completely relaxing down there when being fucked. Makes it easier to take a cock but it also results in me going soft. Doesn't matter as I still love it and I certainly perk up if he hits the right spots inside me.

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By *ike 57Man
15 weeks ago

clonmel

same here..really soft

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By *lluredByMatureMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Only bottomed a couple of times and both times I stayed soft throughout. Get rock hard sucking though.

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By *lackbootzMan
15 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"I love being soft when fucked shows what a cock slut I am"

Why would staying soft show what a cock slut you are..?! No rhyme nor reason there at all.

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By *udiboy1Man
15 weeks ago

glasgow

As long as both are having fun

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By *odomyLoverMan
15 weeks ago

coulsdon

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

It is for me unfortunately. I do get hard sometimes

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By *KBottom25Man
15 weeks ago

London

I do get hard being fucked regularly. Not always but it spurts..

When they slap my arse cheeks as they fuck me that gets me hard too

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By *VLIZTV/TS
15 weeks ago

warrington / anglesey

Thank gawd it's normal, as I go soft when getting fucked, I thought it was just me ,

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By *atalieCDTV85TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Bury St Edmunds

Always been soft when I have been fucked

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By *avid1066Man
15 weeks ago

Birkenhead

im always rock hard

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By *olin1951Man
15 weeks ago

worcester

Soft here too.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
15 weeks ago

Birmingham B15

I'm usually soft if the top is quite large and isn't handling my willy

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By *aid2TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Swindon

Very normal to be soft when being topped. I prefer limp bottoms, they are less distracted

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By *ancsub1Man
15 weeks ago

Preston

Yes. But I am usually in my chastity cage

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By *rTee69Man
15 weeks ago

This thread is quite reassuring, as I'm always soft when getting fucked and often worry about it, so it's good to see its actually quite normal.

Like some others above though, I leak precum profusely if the top hits the right spot.

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By *alking HeadMan
15 weeks ago

Bolton

For me it depends I suppose, on the size of the cock, and my mood.

I take very large toys and hands regularly, so for a cock to make me go soft takes some really serious size. Having said that, if I know I'm being impaled on something so big, the mental stimulation will keep me hard. I've been known to ride one and cum hands free and stay hard from that. With a very big insertion, I can lose it completely, but a bit of cock play will have me cumming without getting hard either. I don't fret. It's all good.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
15 weeks ago

Birmingham B15

I usually prefer being soft

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By *hiamintyMan
15 weeks ago

rg25

"Very normal to be soft when being topped. I prefer limp bottoms, they are less distracted

I’m definitely a limp bottom

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By *o48Man
15 weeks ago

Gateshead

Depends i dont often bottom so do tend to stay hard iif i bottom tend to flip if on top always stay hard

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By *ReadBioMan
15 weeks ago

Frinton-on-Sea

Most of the time I'm soft but not always, sometimes rock hard - just depends. Regardless I always leaking so much precum, my cock is normally dripping wet at the end of a hookup.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yes. I used to go soft when being fucked

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By *ohnsy2022Man
15 weeks ago

Chorley

Yes, for me it is, I am always soft when a guy fucks me x

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By *wadbisexualMan
15 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

I've taken my fair share of dick in my arse, only once did i ever get hard & only then because another dude was sucking my cock

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By *aulTooSmallMan
15 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"I'm generally soft when rrceiving"

Was that stutter as it pushed in? 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

As a submissive bottom, It is for me

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

As a sub bottom only one cock in the room that's hard

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By *acyjones2TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Bamber Bridge

I always stay hard when being fucked

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By *anofbronzeMan
15 weeks ago

Badsey

I get hard when being fucked but I cum which can be good but I prefer not to

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By *lphageminiMan
15 weeks ago

Folkestone

With a stranger I go soft as he fucks, but with a regular I'm used to satisfying I get hard and can have an anal climax

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By *ron PandaMan
15 weeks ago

Eridge

Bottoms should be soft, limp, caged and out of sight when submitting. The only hard cock you should focus on is the one slamming into you.

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By *ovefist84Man
15 weeks ago

Oswestry

I usually get soft when fucked. I think it's normal. Always soft when I'm fisted. Some people stay hard. But getting soft is not good if the other guy wants to be fucked.

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By *ldmanMan
15 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.

I used to be hard, when receiving, when I was younger, but soft now.

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By *ndy61hMan
15 weeks ago

Plymouth

I normally go soft when being fucked unless I've taken a viagra before.

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By *tokerY2OMan
15 weeks ago

Bournemouth

There is no 'normal'.

Some get hard, some stay soft. Its different for everyone.

As long as your enjoying it, its all good.

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By *ubtitsMan
15 weeks ago

hyde

I am always soft when I meet a guy and love it that way.

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By *ohncukMan
15 weeks ago

dartford

Good to know

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By *ondon BiTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Woking

I am always soft when receiving, prefer it that way as can then enjoy the pleasure of having a guy inside me and hoping he lasts for ages!

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By *reddie12345Man
15 weeks ago

Bridgend

It is for me as I'm too focused on making sure he's having all the pleasure.

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By *aySub99Man
15 weeks ago

Northampton

"It is for me as I'm too focused on making sure he's having all the pleasure. "

Exactly this, sometimes on my back I get hard but I just wanna hold my legs back instead of touching it, sex feels good enough.

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By *ighlands fellaMan
15 weeks ago

thurso

First time I was fucked but shot my load with a semi hard cock was an eye opener

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By *mdikdaveMan
15 weeks ago

Canterbury

My little fella virtually retreats inside my body....hence my name!😁🤣🤣

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By *aulie666Man
15 weeks ago

Bristol

"Its not unusual "

It’s called ‘Tom Jones Syndrome’!

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By *ishop666Man
15 weeks ago

ls19

Sometimes hard then not

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By *ike 57Man
15 weeks ago

clonmel

‘Tom Jones Syndrome’..lol

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By *risty69TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Mansfield

I’m always hard during foreplay…but as soon as I’m lubed up and his cock slides in and starts pumping ….you know the rest …

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By *ewbiestokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Not yet received cock, but it feels like I should be limp to concentrate on his pleasure.

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By *mrmarkMan
15 weeks ago

Tavistock

I go soft with loads of precum, do like tasting it and sharing with giver

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By *rackie bulge loverMan
15 weeks ago

Falkirk

I’m always rock solid. From the minute of teasing to slipping it up and the pounding. And if they are really good I will shoot hands free

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By *ollo007Man
15 weeks ago

Pontefract

First and only time so far I've been fucked I was hard initially and although I loved it and it was maybe getting over the initial discomfort I was soft when he came in me but afterwards as soon as he took hold of my cock to suck it I was instantly rock hard.

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By *lackbootzMan
15 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Bottoms should be soft, limp, caged and out of sight when submitting. The only hard cock you should focus on is the one slamming into you. "

Err, no. Don’t confuse what you like with everyone else.

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By *estOxonBottomMan
14 weeks ago

Carterton

When I was a teen I stayed hard when fucked. When I got cock curious at about 50 I got hard during the foreplay then flaccid when fucked. Sometimes I managed to ejaculate when soft and being fucked, which is awesome.

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By *eep_diver400Man
4 weeks ago

Jersey

I’ve been taken only twice. Each time rock hard and sat on him, allowing my erection to bounce on his stomach until I spurted

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By *amesbigr93Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

If I’m just being fucked then I go soft but if I/him plays with my cock then I stay rock hard

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By *eicJonMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

I thought it might be an issue being soft while being fucked, turns out im not alone which is reassuring

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By *isa for funTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

If ive had a blue pill before then I'll stay rock hard if no blue pill then just a leaking semi

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By *orknewbie500Man
4 weeks ago

York

I do take a blue pill every time I have a meet helps a lot

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By *arcukMan
4 weeks ago

london

I’m soft when receiving - concentrating on giving all to the guy and enjoying every moment

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Never really thought about it but yeah I'm soft most times I get fucked.

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By *eiseMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes, until he stops fucking for a little while but stays inside me. Seems to let my brain focus on something else for a bit.

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By *ikesmenMan
4 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I am when I am being fucked

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By *aged_kiraMan
4 weeks ago

Downham Market

Anything anal and I'm soft - toys or cock

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By *ernne2Man
4 weeks ago

shoebury

"i don't get hard when receiving, as soon as the cock is in there it flops & shrinks

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same here

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By *isubbiMan
4 weeks ago

Swaffham

Works for me, I never want anything in return

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By *lphageminiMan
4 weeks ago

Folkestone

I love to suck and get fucked, I'm hard masturbating while sucking but the wonderful feeling of a cock inside my bottom makes me go soft.

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By *oodyMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I’m soft when receiving and not so bothered these days about having my cock sucked - I want to focus on my tops cock - do love him to use my dildo on me after he’s fucked me and will happily wank as he uses it - some tops like me to cum after fucking me and some don’t

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By *atalie1963TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herne Bay

I usually lose any erection after I have been penetrated, though I have become erect again now and then. I just ooze copious amounts of precum

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By *oves to playTV/TS
4 weeks ago

newcastle

Its been that long since I was last fcked that I carnt remember..omg I so need to no whether iam hard or soft.....xx

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By *OULMAN99Man
4 weeks ago

dews

I cum if I'm fucked

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By *arti G xTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

Am usually soft, though on occasions when about to be fucked the guy goes soft & then they can't get hard again.

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By *hehandyman66Man
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

As a new to guys and bottom these posts are very reassuring as im always soft when receiving x

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

I am the same. I lose the hard when taking cock. Some are lucky and keep hard and wank as they are fucked. To be honest I prefer to be soft as I like the way it slaps around as the guy is fucking you hard. Makes you feel all feminine

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By *erso400Man
4 weeks ago

Stockport

It can be. Just carry on X

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By *airyscot72Man
4 weeks ago

scotland

Always soft when being fucked, cock constantly leaking precum throughout

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By *KBottom25Man
4 weeks ago

London

Varies...

A Spank across the arse cheeks gets me hard while being fucked...

Horny enough and I'll still be hard

Soft too

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By *oodpeckerMan
4 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Love to bottom but rarely get hard (i'm not overly fussed due to love recieving)

Is this the norm? "

Many (is this the norm?) seem to be confusing "the norm" with normal. It's normal/common to be soft when being fucked but it may not be/probably is not the norm. I stay hard, I like others to stay hard but my guess is as good as any as to what "the norm" actually is. Who knows? Is there any actual research out there? Does anyone actually give a fuck?

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By *illingVicMan
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

I don’t really have a horse in this race as I’ve never been fucked (maybe one day). That said, even though I find my normal “on my knees, submissive oral service” highly arousing AFTER the fact, I almost never get hard at all while I’m at the meet.

Is that normal? Dunno. Don’t care. My focus is on the other dude.

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By *ayboy1966Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Once penetrated I go soft, probably enjoy that more, unless wanked during, then I tend to rise again.

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Soft small and flapping about love it xxx

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By *ravelman99Man
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I'm usually so horny that I stay hard as a rock throughout being fucked.

From the lead up, to first being penetrated, to the top finishing, I'm fully erect.

Gives the top something else to hold on to I guess

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By *un100Man
4 weeks ago

IPSWICH

I generally cum when I’m being fucked and so soft while he gets off.

Best orgasms ever

( prefer smaller or regular size cocks as I feel I can give a better fuck)

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By *iteassMan
4 weeks ago

Shropshire

Yes for sure

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By *uck my bumMan
4 weeks ago

walsall

Depends with me I just concentrate on making sure the top enjoys fucking my ass that’s what a bottom should do

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By *ubtitsMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

I stay soft when with a guy like a little sissy

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By *spenMan
4 weeks ago

Hythe

I dont go completely soft just a partial erection but it soon comes back again.

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By *annyDanielleMan
4 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

I can be either. It's not foremost in my thoughts when i'm receiving a hard pounding.

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By *ndsotobedMan
4 weeks ago

Towcester

When I get entered I’m hard. When he starts fucking me, I often go soft. He’s hard enough for the both of us! It’s the top that wants to cum, innit

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By *oug999Man
4 weeks ago

Horncastle

Soft here. Relaxing is key for me and my cock goes into limp mode. Just be a good bottom and take that cock. 👹

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By *utual2Man
4 weeks ago

Angus

I’ve been curious about this. Guys who enjoy being a bottom, but don’t get erect…

When I’ve used a dildo, I get an erection when it’s fully inserted….

I’ve not been penetrated for anal by another person… so may change….?

Varies person to person?

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