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By *ustina OP   TV/TS
3 weeks ago

cardiff

This is something I've been thinking a lot about lately. I don't really want a fuck buddy, I want somebody who has a mutual desire to form a special relationship with. Yes the sex has to be good but it would be nice to go out together and travel around as a couple. Based on a phone call I had this morning with another gay guy, that may be about to happen. Fingers crossed.

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3 weeks ago


"This is something I've been thinking a lot about lately. I don't really want a fuck buddy, I want somebody who has a mutual desire to form a special relationship with. Yes the sex has to be good but it would be nice to go out together and travel around as a couple. Based on a phone call I had this morning with another gay guy, that may be about to happen. Fingers crossed."

I hope everything goes well for you 🥰😘

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Something I would like. A real friend with benefits. Sex obviously but also good mates to just spend quality time together plus going out for meals, walks visits to places etc.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

All the best to you.

I've given up, I have a lot to offer but nobody wants that round these parts. Maybe one day.

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By *assist88Man
3 weeks ago

Accrington

I also like the friends with benefits scenario idea.

Hang out, have a beer, walks etc. Then lots of fun when in private. Sounds perfect

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By *oddyealingMan
3 weeks ago

Ealing

Sounds ideal xx

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Like being my own person too mich. Been there, done that and ended badly!

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By *rancd2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Good luck to you, I hope you find what you want. For me though, I really don’t want a relationship with a man, it holds no interest to me at all. Just a quick bit of fun, no strings, and off.

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By *arlislebbladMan
3 weeks ago

carlisle

Wishing you all the best. I hope it works for you. Looking for the same too.

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
3 weeks ago

Bracknell

I am open to a relationship, would be nice to have a great friend with benefits to share & enjoy things with as there is more to life than just sex as nice as sex can be....

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By *ishop666Man
3 weeks ago

ls19


"I am open to a relationship, would be nice to have a great friend with benefits to share & enjoy things with as there is more to life than just sex as nice as sex can be...."
on my many years hears friends are friends

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By *ountrygay01Man
3 weeks ago

Staffs Moorlands

Good luck to you both. I’d love to have a boyfriend.

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By *ustina OP   TV/TS
3 weeks ago

cardiff

I've been really let down by someone who on the face of it seemed a perfect match for me. He didnt call back which is strange because he was so keen for us to meet and hopefully strike up a relationship. I'll keep schtum about it next time until it actually happens. At least if anything it's made me realise how much I would value a gay relationship, even more so than before, when I wasn't sure it was for me. All I need to do is find the right man, someone who wants to do things as a couple.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry to hear that but men really are just utter shit these days.

You clearly have good high standards and that's great look after yourself x

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By *rancd2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"I've been really let down by someone who on the face of it seemed a perfect match for me. He didnt call back which is strange because he was so keen for us to meet and hopefully strike up a relationship. I'll keep schtum about it next time until it actually happens. At least if anything it's made me realise how much I would value a gay relationship, even more so than before, when I wasn't sure it was for me. All I need to do is find the right man, someone who wants to do things as a couple."

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By *inchesterGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Winchester

I would love a relationship with a younger guy, but I am mature enough to know that this is nearly impossible. If you have enough money you may be able to make it work for awhile, but the lad would eventually want to do stuff with other guys too. There is no such thing as exclusivity in the gay world.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

The best thing is honesty.

Make it clear that you’re open to a relationship. I’d also say once you decide on a relationship to be honest again. Agree acceptable behaviour and boundaries. In fact do not repeat all the mistakes from previous relationships.

If you can’t be monogamous, don’t say you can. It’s going to fail.

I like the idea of another relationship but at 59 I have to be realistic and accept it isn’t going to happen. I could never be in a monogamous relationship. I’d love it if we could have threesomes now and then.

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By *enuineguy3212025Man
3 weeks ago

travel/

Would love to try a relationship.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

There's someone for everyone out there if you want that, but compromise and patience seem to be diminishing qualities these days. Sex is a great place to start.

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By *girl funTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Saltash

I would love to have special friend to go out with in male mode a drink a weekend away dress for them in private to have that emotional extra would make sex so much better xx

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By *alang12Man
3 weeks ago

Castle Donington

I too would love a FWB for days/weekends away as well as slow sensual fun. I have a caravan for those intimate weekends and maybe a visit abroad sometimes.

Midlands prefered but not set in stone.

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By *L72Man
3 weeks ago

bridgend


"This is something I've been thinking a lot about lately. I don't really want a fuck buddy, I want somebody who has a mutual desire to form a special relationship with. Yes the sex has to be good but it would be nice to go out together and travel around as a couple. Based on a phone call I had this morning with another gay guy, that may be about to happen. Fingers crossed."
hope it goes well for you xxx

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By *WB64Man
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"I too would love a FWB for days/weekends away as well as slow sensual fun. I have a caravan for those intimate weekends and maybe a visit abroad sometimes.

Midlands prefered but not set in stone."

Similar position to you, been looking for nearly eight years but just about given up on finding a fwb.

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By *ammysam2000TV/TS
3 weeks ago

dublin


"This is something I've been thinking a lot about lately. I don't really want a fuck buddy, I want somebody who has a mutual desire to form a special relationship with. Yes the sex has to be good but it would be nice to go out together and travel around as a couple. Based on a phone call I had this morning with another gay guy, that may be about to happen. Fingers crossed."

Hope it works for you...

For me - I just want a fuckbuddy - but someone I trust and can rely on - and be totally intimate with during the moment - but not a relationship on that way... good luck in finding what you want x

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By *olfstarMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I met my b/f on here over 4 years ago. I never saw myself in a MM relationship - at first it was all about the sex but he has since become my best friend and partner and we do everything together - from holidays, to eating out, to inviting others to join us on occasion…always together though. It has been a life changing and affirming experience which I could not have imagined and I have the good fortune to be supported by my adult children and all my friends - I appreciate that not everyone has it so easy!

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By *icky13TV/TS
3 weeks ago

reading

One never knows what is around the corner , I have Been lucky enough to have a couple of relationships, it’s such and amazing feeling and the one boyfriend that I told him I loved him was more meaning full that moment of time , and the feeling was so immense telling him that x it was never that strong when I told a female ..xx

it is possible just be your self and I am sure you will find him soon enough xxx

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