FabGuys.com forum: my mate

By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

a couple of my friends on here are lovely blokes but don't seem to be getting dates, any tips?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm crap at this.

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By *ust4inchesMan
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"I'm crap at this."

I don’t think anyone who has read your topics/threads will disagree

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By *ishop666Man
3 weeks ago

ls19

Not often but sometimes

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By *ike21TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Fareham

"I'm crap at this."

I bet you have not got a game of Scrabble at home 😂

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

no, I really am crap at this X

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"a couple of my friends on here are lovely blokes but don't seem to be getting dates, any tips?"

Is it alarming that the sheer open endedness of your thread title meant I knew you'd posted it even before I looked?

You could really do with some lessons in creating targeted posts with meaning, and I don't mean that in a horrible way but surely you must be aware of how people react to your vague posts?

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

The key to dates or meets is having a filled out profile so people can see what you look like and what you're about, and then if they like what they see, availability to turn up and follow up on a message. It's not rocket science.

I know some think being a man of mystery with fuck all on their profile, or just being a random disembodied penis is all that's required but I think you'll find that the ones who get meets and follow through have more than that going on.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

my mate. _dstefi, you've always been fair with me though I don't really know you. Lessons in targeted posts is not something I'm looking for. My mate/ friends and people being nicer to each other X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I think it's a shame so many good looking mates are not getting shags! X

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"I think it's a shame so many good looking mates are not getting shags! X

I'm no oil painting, more like a painting of an oil tanker

, but I can get it easily enough and often choose not to. I really don't know what more advice I can offer than what I said above.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I feel for a couple of mates who are well fit but they don't know it and are on here but not getting snaffled up!

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"I feel for a couple of mates who are well fit but they don't know it and are on here but not getting snaffled up!"

Feel free to invite them to PM me and I'll give them all the tips they want.

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By *ilverfox66Man
3 weeks ago

El Saladillo, Spain

"a couple of my friends on here are lovely blokes but don't seem to be getting dates, any tips?"

Aren’t you happy playing amongst yourselves?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

yes, we've fucked but on different paths.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"yes, we've fucked but on different paths."

Always an issue when out dogging

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

never done dogging x

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

"never done dogging x"

It was a joke

Don't take everything too literally.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"never done dogging x

It was a joke

Don't take everything too literally."
will try no too x

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By *erry_bottomMan
3 weeks ago

Derry

To be fair this is not a dating site, it is a "meet up and fuck" site so you skip all the dating and go straight to the fucking

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

to be fair, manners cost nowt X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

my mate said "ooo"

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I said oo too X

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By *iss Leanne BTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"I said oo too X"

Eh?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Appreciate the advice, a few people I've chatted to are "buff" fit but struggling to get a date, was trying to help out cos it was busy X

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
3 weeks ago

cockermouth

😳🔫

Anyone else have any clue?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

was trying to help friends who can't get dates and are well fit to negotiate some of the negativity that goes on here. Spoken to some lovely people on here who get posts like yours and get a bit disheartened X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

don't mind people being a bit rude but have a heart X

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By *oxymusicMan
3 weeks ago

Cowbridge

"😳🔫

Anyone else have any clue? "

Nope, I’m not sure anybody does.🫤

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
3 weeks ago

cockermouth

"was trying to help friends who can't get dates and are well fit to negotiate some of the negativity that goes on here. Spoken to some lovely people on here who get posts like yours and get a bit disheartened X"

But you havnt mentioned "these friends" on here so how do we know who your talking about?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

these friends, people like you, have come on here and similar to my experience, had stranger being rude to them

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

you've only got to scroll up a few posts to see some "what's he talking about" posts, not done in a helpful way

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
3 weeks ago

cockermouth

"these friends, people like you, have come on here and similar to my experience, had stranger being rude to them"

Awesome.. Well I hope you and your friends find some fun, somewhere somehow 🤪

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

you too X

mean that genuinely if you do X

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

The thing is you don't really give much info for anyone to offer advice if it's genuinely being requested.

Someone could struggle because they can't accommodate and the advice might be..attend saunas or similar and make contacts that way or offer to go halves on a hotel meet.

Perhaps they're too picky and they need to broaden their horizons.

Perhaps their pics are letting them down.

There could be loads of reasons but with nothing to go on it's a topic that's going nowhere, and that's where people are confused and done comments reflect this.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I apologise if it comes across like this, I get the sentiment of what's he talking about but in quite a derogatory way.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

just please stop bullying people X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

and there are loads of nice blokes who will give honest, good tips. X

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

"sentiment of what's he talking about but in quite a derogatory way."

When you say "he" in this sentence who are you referring to?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

my mate X

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

You know them what do you think are the reasons they are having problems,?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"a couple of my friends on here are lovely blokes but don't seem to be getting dates, any tips?"
No the only ones mate.

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