FabGuys.com forum: Is Monogamy Realistic for Gay Men?

By *ajkumarkapoor OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Is Monogamy Realistic for Gay Men?

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

While I am sure some do it, my experience is few do. Personally I dont think its realistic, or healthy, in any long term relationship. The strongest relationships I know are all non-monogomous. What that looks is nobodies business but theirs.

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By *aul349Man
3 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

None of the gay couples I've known have been monogamous. They may play together, play solo or play behind each others backs but they were all playing.

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By *ajkumarkapoor OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"None of the gay couples I've known have been monogamous. They may play together, play solo or play behind each others backs but they were all playing."

That describes me very well. You are right.

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By *amie2018cMan
3 weeks ago

Fens, W Norf

No. rare

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By *ajkumarkapoor OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"While I am sure some do it, my experience is few do. Personally I dont think its realistic, or healthy, in any long term relationship. The strongest relationships I know are all non-monogomous. What that looks is nobodies business but theirs."

You are right.

At first I was jealous.

It gets worse until I accept the reality.

Now our relationship is stronger than before as I accepted the situation and learn to trust one another. We just let go, enjoy it together or alone.

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By *ndy61hMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

I've tried it, did not work out for me.

Will just go back to casual sex.

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Don't see why not. Could argue the same about straight couples many of whom stray. If gay couples marry then there is a fair chance they will stay monogamous unless they agree to an open marriage. I've had two longish term relationships and remained loyal to my FWB/boyfriend although my mind did occasionally wander when I saw some fit guy.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

"Don't see why not. Could argue the same about straight couples many of whom stray. If gay couples marry then there is a fair chance they will stay monogamous unless they agree to an open marriage. I've had two longish term relationships and remained loyal to my FWB/boyfriend although my mind did occasionally wander when I saw some fit guy."

Statistics would probably show that few marriages remain monogamous, particularly from the male point of view. This site is a small snapshot of that.

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By *opowMan
3 weeks ago

Stratford-upon-Avon

As much as I wanted them to be, my 3 relationships were not monogamous. They all messed around and in the end so did I. If I had a relationship now it would be open.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes, but only if both parties commit to it. Otherwise move on, get your own life and find what you want

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By *wanseajack2014Man
3 weeks ago

Neath

"Is Monogamy Realistic for Gay Men?"

Me and the Mrs are swingers. If she wants cunt or cock she can have it. If I want the same I can have it. We also meet mf cpls and single ladies together. We are non memogomous and we are both happy that way.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

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By *enjamin2018Man
3 weeks ago

Gosfield

I don't think men are naturally monogamous, it's law , convention, insecurity and fear that pressures us into it.I'm not talking about love ,that's different.You can still love someone without being faithful to them .

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

Surely the whole conversation is flawed? Because the question is being asked on a hook up site where probably the vast majority of members have a partner, either male of female, so are not

monogamous.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

Maybe a controversial opinion, but I think a lot of people are just sex addicts in denial. Enjoying sex and wanting to have lots of it isn't an issue, but being completely unable to control your lust is a problem whether you realise it or not.

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By *ardforall56Man
3 weeks ago

belfast

Never met one yet that’s not up for fun.

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By *ever5512Man
3 weeks ago

beecles

I know some who are. Been together for 40 yrs and never played outside the relationship.

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