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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

I know everyone is different but...

For those guys who like to see that a guy is tested regularly, and possibly vaxed up, before meeting....do you ever ask for proof? Like a text or email from a health provider.

I see lots of profiles state their test and Vax status so perhaps it's important they see it in others? If so do you just take someone's word?

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I take care of my own health so never ask really anyone else, I would find it offputting if someone asked me but sometimes offer up that I'm on Prep.

Currently have a Dyson V10 with the charging stand.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth


"I take care of my own health so never ask really anyone else, I would find it offputting if someone asked me but sometimes offer up that I'm on Prep.

Currently have a Dyson V10 with the charging stand."

I'm similar..well minus the Dyson... but offer my status and history to others if it matters to them.

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Visiting


"I take care of my own health so never ask really anyone else, I would find it offputting if someone asked me but sometimes offer up that I'm on Prep.

Currently have a Dyson V10 with the charging stand."

I have a Vax and 3 Dysons (better safe than sorry?)

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

Prefer playing with Henry

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By *lim_sportyMan
3 weeks ago

stevenage

Wot complete nonsense. Proof? What form is this going to take? A text msg, lol.

Even if you were royal enough for a special proof, what has that person done with guys after that?

If you that paranoid don't have sex with strangers. At least then you would be taking responsibility rather than passing the buck.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth


"Wot complete nonsense. Proof? What form is this going to take? A text msg, lol.

Even if you were royal enough for a special proof, what has that person done with guys after that?

If you that paranoid don't have sex with strangers. At least then you would be taking responsibility rather than passing the buck."

I don't want it..I wondered if others ever did. I concern myself with what I do. Others sexual health preferences are up to them.

I've been asked before (not on fab)to show im on prep because I had it in my details. I said I do what I do, you do what you do.

I was thinking maybe it's pointless having that info on a profile.

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By *tmguylookingMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I know that I'm taking my own sexual health seriously, and put my test dates, vax status etc on my profile. I know that I'm about as safe as it gets, even though I like BB sex. I don't think I need to prove it to anyone, they should be doing the same.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

No I dont ask for proof, its utterly ridiculous. Im responsible for my sexual health and nobody else.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

No point in asking for proof. Any text from a health provider is only accurate on the day it is sent. The guy could have gone out that night, fucked half the population and got every disease under the sun. Look after yourself and let others look after themselves

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

I went to the hospital GUM last Tues, 31st March.

I get no results by SMS. I have no proof.

I'd say your health is your responsibility. Take and do what you can to reduce risks.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

Mine sends me an email and the online one you can log in and see.

As others have said it only shows your status when you were tested.

A couple of days ago I had a bit of a ding dong with someone on a hookup app, the one that springs to mind for most when thinking of gay hookup apps.

In my details I had filled in ..neg,on prep..and after the first message he asked if I could prove I'm on prep. I said don't be stupid i'll worry about myself thanks, and it just went back and forth.

Asked for a pic of the bottle and tablets lol..I said a few things and he blocked me.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"Mine sends me an email and the online one you can log in and see.

As others have said it only shows your status when you were tested.

A couple of days ago I had a bit of a ding dong with someone on a hookup app, the one that springs to mind for most when thinking of gay hookup apps.

In my details I had filled in ..neg,on prep..and after the first message he asked if I could prove I'm on prep. I said don't be stupid i'll worry about myself thanks, and it just went back and forth.

Asked for a pic of the bottle and tablets lol..I said a few things and he blocked me."

And did you genuinely think for more than a second that a person so nervous of sexual health issues, so suspicious of your conduct, so demanding of your evidence, so needy in general, would ever actually go through meeting anyone..?!

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 weeks ago

London

I never ask for proof because an infection can happened even after being tested negative.

I look after myself with vaccinations, prophylaxis etc and expect others look after themselves too.

If you want to reduce the risk, stop having sex but infection can still happen without sex like infected needle/sharps prick, infected blood splash, blood transfusion contamination etc etc.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth


"Mine sends me an email and the online one you can log in and see.

As others have said it only shows your status when you were tested.

A couple of days ago I had a bit of a ding dong with someone on a hookup app, the one that springs to mind for most when thinking of gay hookup apps.

In my details I had filled in ..neg,on prep..and after the first message he asked if I could prove I'm on prep. I said don't be stupid i'll worry about myself thanks, and it just went back and forth.

Asked for a pic of the bottle and tablets lol..I said a few things and he blocked me.

And did you genuinely think for more than a second that a person so nervous of sexual health issues, so suspicious of your conduct, so demanding of your evidence, so needy in general, would ever actually go through meeting anyone..?! "

No I didn't, not for a minute. Probably the worst indication I've ever had of ...not going to happen lol

Was quite a ping pong back and forth

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)


"I take care of my own health so never ask really anyone else, I would find it offputting if someone asked me but sometimes offer up that I'm on Prep.

Currently have a Dyson V10 with the charging stand.

I have a Vax and 3 Dysons (better safe than sorry?) "

The Vax is quite noisy but good for wet & dry. I find the Dyson has better suction though.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth


" I find the Dyson has better suction though."

Have you never met Henry?

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By *eefandfurMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Look after your own health. A guy could have a clear test on Friday and spend the weekend getting plowed by every stranger's cock he could find.

Also seen guys posting how their last test was all clear but dated two years ago, like that's a brag.

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"Mine sends me an email and the online one you can log in and see.

As others have said it only shows your status when you were tested.

A couple of days ago I had a bit of a ding dong with someone on a hookup app, the one that springs to mind for most when thinking of gay hookup apps.

In my details I had filled in ..neg,on prep..and after the first message he asked if I could prove I'm on prep. I said don't be stupid i'll worry about myself thanks, and it just went back and forth.

Asked for a pic of the bottle and tablets lol..I said a few things and he blocked me.

And did you genuinely think for more than a second that a person so nervous of sexual health issues, so suspicious of your conduct, so demanding of your evidence, so needy in general, would ever actually go through meeting anyone..?!

No I didn't, not for a minute. Probably the worst indication I've ever had of ...not going to happen lol

Was quite a ping pong back and forth "

Never play ping pong with needy morons. It only encourages them.

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By *ub4daddyuk OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

But he was hot and had a huge dong?

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Visiting


"I take care of my own health so never ask really anyone else, I would find it offputting if someone asked me but sometimes offer up that I'm on Prep.

Currently have a Dyson V10 with the charging stand.

I have a Vax and 3 Dysons (better safe than sorry?)

The Vax is quite noisy but good for wet & dry. I find the Dyson has better suction though."

Vax only for the wet stuff and Dyson for getting down to the nitty gritty 🙂

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By *antsMeetsMan
3 weeks ago

uxbridge

Bit of a passion killer 😂, do you ask for evidence or just go with their word because that would be a bit naive

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By *idingcockMan
3 weeks ago

Driffield

I post my latest status only as an indication that I take my health seriously not as some sort of guarantee. As others have said each of us needs to take responsibility for our own health.

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