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Getting shagged-a sign of masculinity or not

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

The mental aspect of being penetrated by another male creates a division of opinion amongst men who receive.

Some may say it is a total masculine thing to do showing that you are your own man and feel secure in your masculinity . Others would say that it's not a masculine act to be shagged by another man, in fact many men ,myself included, would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally male or somewhat female in being penetrated or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?

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By *urhamstagMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

I love the feeling of submission by being fucked, the top taking me as he wishes

Even better if he holds me down.

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By *ohnsy2022Man
2 weeks ago

Chorley

For me, sex is purely an act of submission, vulnerability and letting the man have power over me. I shave my body to make it look less masculine, and present as submissive, tending towards effeminate in the bedroom. I am bottom only snd always ensure the top cums at least once. My climax is not that important, I get enough pleasure from feeling the man inside me

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By *hagmenowplsMan
2 weeks ago

Hereford

I love the feeling of cock and cum in my ass

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By *llyxxxMan
2 weeks ago

york

Definitely submissiveness make me feel like a total sub when a guy fucks me

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

South Derbyshire

I love the feeling of vulnerability. It feels so naughty and girly to open my legs for a man.

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By *ll foxMan
2 weeks ago

WORKSOP

I love being a sub and giving myself to a guy!

During a meet I will submit, pleasure my meet or if he just wants to watch me play naked then I will participate in that too!

The feeling of vulnerability is immense!

I can leave the masculine side is let to when I’m having sex with the wife

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By *urieMan
2 weeks ago

Ashford

It wasn't something I wanted at first when my sub urges were first indulged. Tried just in case but wasn't for me then. A few years later, different mood and time and was amazing, on my back stocking clad legs held up. Have come to realise that when do meet next it's something I want to complete being dommed

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

kent


"The mental aspect of being penetrated by another male creates a division of opinion amongst men who receive.

Some may say it is a total masculine thing to do showing that you are your own man and feel secure in your masculinity . Others would say that it's not a masculine act to be shagged by another man, in fact many men ,myself included, would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally male or somewhat female in being penetrated or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?

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Nothing to do with being submissive for me. As a vers/top I have sexual needs. When I btm for bf I satisfy a need/pleasure.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Nope, for me being bttm or top is not about submission or domination or masculine/feminine. It is about pleasure, his and mine. If you are drawn to being feminine, or made to feel feminine, or seeking validation that you are feminine, then clearly sex is simply another tool to to make you feel that way. Regardless of how feminine you are, men enjoy sex and usually want more sex than most women, and you're a man with a male sex drive. How you do that sex and whatever fetishes you call into play for it is noones business but your own. If you think having a cock in you makes you more feminine, go for it. The top probably doesn't see it like that.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Definitely masculine for me. I don't see bottoming as feminine or topping as masculine at all, it's a ridiculous and outdated binary.

My favourite position to be fucked is riding cowboy/girl, with me in control of depth and speed of penetration. It doesn't feel remotely feminine or submissive.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

For me it is neither feminine nor submissive. If I am topping a guy it is because he has gone out to find a top, not that he is just waiting for one to come along and choose him. Similarly if I am going to bottom I want to chose my top based on how much he excites me, not how masculine or dominant he may be

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

One guy i met was so surprised at me wearing a bra that all he done while inside me was chew my nipples, wow, he made me feel so feminine

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By *arionX2TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Nr.. Mansfield

I’m quite naturally submissive, especially where sex is concerned, I like to be dominated slightly when I’m with a man & my feminine side takes over and my feelings are not masculine in any way at all, and I never have any kind of urge to top anyone.

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne


"would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity."

Yup, more or less covers it from my point of view..

And I love it.

Feeling another man inside me it the best feeling..

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By *ustPeekinMan
2 weeks ago

Alresford

I would suggest it means that you like having a cock up your bum.

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By *enjamin2018Man
2 weeks ago

Gosfield

I like masculine sub guys, I don't see any contradiction but it's just personal preference at the end of the day.

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By *ibeariusMan
2 weeks ago

Greenock

I think if you have been bottom you can be a better top and vice versa

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

We should all be prepared to be submissive to real alpha guys.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"We should all be prepared to be submissive to real alpha guys. "

Nah. You do you though.

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By *afffMan
2 weeks ago

Bradford

“ or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?”

That’s it. I’m neither masculine nor feminine, just one half of a couple that is giving each other the gift of sex

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By *ub4daddyukMan
2 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

It would be too confusing to try and understand which bits of my brain get tickled by what and why.

A part of being fucked for me is sharing masculinity.

I'm part of something that facilitates the other expressing theirs and it doesn't negate my own.

Where sub comes into it or not is a different story.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

I wonder if women feel more feminine when theyre being fucked up the bum? I'm gonna ask some today 😀

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I wonder if women feel more feminine when theyre being fucked up the bum? I'm gonna ask some today 😀 "
Survey in Tescos?

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I wonder if women feel more feminine when theyre being fucked up the bum? I'm gonna ask some today 😀 Survey in Tescos? "

Something like that. Maybe a anonymous online survey monkey will get more honest answers though.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

Playing with who is now an ex, he used to say to me he'd do anything with me but I had to stay away from his bum.

I'd tried to slip in a finger giving a blowie once or twice.

Lazy rainy Sun morning sex and he once said (and I think boosting his own ego a little!) "I know I'm not the smallest of fellas but you always amaze me how you take me...

I couldn't do it like you. I can be in you balls deep and I feel masculine passion from you..."

In my head too...I am a man. Nothing feminine as I'm a large chunky bear! 🧸

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"Playing with who is now an ex, he used to say to me he'd do anything with me but I had to stay away from his bum.

I'd tried to slip in a finger giving a blowie once or twice.

Lazy rainy Sun morning sex and he once said (and I think boosting his own ego a little!) "I know I'm not the smallest of fellas but you always amaze me how you take me...

I couldn't do it like you. I can be in you balls deep and I feel masculine passion from you..."

In my head too...I am a man. Nothing feminine as I'm a large chunky bear! 🧸 "

Yes as i said earlier, its a matter for each individual, getting shagged and retaining full masculinity

Getting shagged, and like me, my feminine side is greatly aroused to the extent I would love being female

Or getting shagged and just enjoying the great pleasure and experience of a hard cock up your bum

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By *ub4daddyukMan
2 weeks ago

Hindon wilts + Weymouth

Ps

I can see why it's been used in the context of this thread but masculinity isn't all about the act of fucking

What it is would be another thread so let's not go there lol

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Got to admit I love a masculine top to dominate me and even feminise me in any way he desires

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By *illgossardTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Now and theen I come across what I assume is normal gay porn. they all look very masculine. It can be a very brave and big strong man thing to bend over for someone exposing the delicate bits.

I dont know.

my view as a TV I just love how it makes me 'feel' ever so much more like a girl.

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By *ottomBarebackBoiMan
2 weeks ago

Brentford

I don't see it as masculine or feminine, but having a hairy chested man fucking my ass and pumping his sperm into me feels somehow right

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By *onstant.Man
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I just love being spanked while being fucked.

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral


"The mental aspect of being penetrated by another male creates a division of opinion amongst men who receive.

Some may say it is a total masculine thing to do showing that you are your own man and feel secure in your masculinity . Others would say that it's not a masculine act to be shagged by another man, in fact many men ,myself included, would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally male or somewhat female in being penetrated or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?

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I would lean toward the latter way of thinking.

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By *lim_biMan
2 weeks ago

Dorking

The times that I have been penetrated, it definitely brings out my feminine, passive, submissive side.

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By *unglincolnimpMan
2 weeks ago

Lincoln

Being able to take a dick up my arse made me feel more manly than ever, let’s not lie it bloody hurts to start but to get through that makes me feel like a real man

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By *ray_UKMan
2 weeks ago

Worcester- ish

Not at all a submissive act to me, im vers so see it as just mutual sexual pleasure.

No way am I submissive in any way shape or form.

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

Naturally submissive,I love the feeling of cock and cum in me

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By *onstant.Man
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Love the feeling of warm sticky cum sliding down my legs after being fucked.

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By *ustinaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

I love feeling feminine, it's what makes me me. Call it submissivenes, vulnerability or however you wish to label it. When I'm having sex with a man I want him to treat me as a lady not dominate me. If he's unable to do that, he's not for me.

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By *eyourselfMan
2 weeks ago

Southend

I think it is entirely a personal thing. Some guys will see it as a "feminine" act as you're more vulnerable and taking the cock. Others will see it as being totally in control and therefore more masculine.

Personally, I just don't think I could ever do anything to a guys arse, they don't turn me on, but love a cock and would love one day to feel one inside me. I don't think that makes me feminine but could be wrong?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I love feeling feminine, it's what makes me me. Call it submissivenes, vulnerability or however you wish to label it. When I'm having sex with a man I want him to treat me as a lady not dominate me. If he's unable to do that, he's not for me."

I agree mostly with you when I'm having sex with a man i also want him to treat me as a lady, tell me that he is going to penetrate my vagina, but I do like to be dominated

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By *omyorksMan
2 weeks ago

Nr York


"Definitely masculine for me. I don't see bottoming as feminine or topping as masculine at all, it's a ridiculous and outdated binary.

My favourite position to be fucked is riding cowboy/girl, with me in control of depth and speed of penetration. It doesn't feel remotely feminine or submissive. "

Yes to me it's sharing giving and taking. The arse tells you what it wants. The cock, too.

If it's giving pleasure go with the flow.

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By *ilke500Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Definitely masculine for me. I don't see bottoming as feminine or topping as masculine at all, it's a ridiculous and outdated binary.

My favourite position to be fucked is riding cowboy/girl, with me in control of depth and speed of penetration. It doesn't feel remotely feminine or submissive.

Yes to me it's sharing giving and taking. The arse tells you what it wants. The cock, too.

If it's giving pleasure go with the flow."

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By *eversayNever200Man
2 weeks ago

Kendal

I don’t feel feminine or submissive when I’m taking cock. I’m getting what I need and so is the guy fucking me. Equally when I’m fucking another guy I don’t see him as a female or as a sub, unless he’s very very convincing!

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By *ersfredMan
2 weeks ago

Ct3

I’m masculine the guys I meet are masculine and I feel very masculine when being fucked

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

It's for each individual to decide whether he wants to feel that being penetrated isn't a threat to his masculinity or for others who feel that it induces femininity within him.

It's like the gay spectrum, at one end you have almost totally heterosexual males who still have a dalliance with gay sex and at the other end you have the considerably very camp and effeminate men.

Either way its an individual choosing the way he is most happy in having penetrative sex with men.

Personally for me I'm somewhere in that spectrum where my femininity is exploited greatly by being shagged

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Its simply mutual sexual pleasure, but obviously those who lean feminine might see it as a way to make them 'feel' more like a pretend woman, seeing as its women who get penetrated in the heterosexual world. I would say though in general bttms who dont lean feminine arent doing it to make them feel more feminine, as theres really nothing feminine about the act. The opposite is often true as it is a masuline act. The top invariably doesnt give a fuck how it makes you feel, and is not thinking that him fucking is making the bttm fem in any way at all. Its all about how it makes you feel.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"Its simply mutual sexual pleasure, but obviously those who lean feminine might see it as a way to make them 'feel' more like a pretend woman, seeing as its women who get penetrated in the heterosexual world. I would say though in general bttms who dont lean feminine arent doing it to make them feel more feminine, as theres really nothing feminine about the act. The opposite is often true as it is a masuline act. The top invariably doesnt give a fuck how it makes you feel, and is not thinking that him fucking is making the bttm fem in any way at all. Its all about how it makes you feel."

Yes i agree mostly with you, but there are tops who love to humiliate as they ride you, telling you that you are a whore, slut , just a worthless girl, and I've got to admit I love this type of top

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By *iMarkGregCouple (MM)
2 weeks ago

Angel, London

For us it’s neither.. we like to flip flop fuck: frequently swapping to fuck each other.

There is nothing more intimate and pleasurable than having a hard cock slowly rock inside while kissing each other passionately.

It’s the epitome of love making between two men.

It’s beautiful.

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Its simply mutual sexual pleasure, but obviously those who lean feminine might see it as a way to make them 'feel' more like a pretend woman, seeing as its women who get penetrated in the heterosexual world. I would say though in general bttms who dont lean feminine arent doing it to make them feel more feminine, as theres really nothing feminine about the act. The opposite is often true as it is a masuline act. The top invariably doesnt give a fuck how it makes you feel, and is not thinking that him fucking is making the bttm fem in any way at all. Its all about how it makes you feel.

Yes i agree mostly with you, but there are tops who love to humiliate as they ride you, telling you that you are a whore, slut , just a worthless girl, and I've got to admit I love this type of top "

Ive never met a top who does that because I don't attract that sort. Can see how some do though, and get off on it in the play to make them feel more fem. Tbh, if a top said anything like that to me he'd likely be introduced to my fist and not in a sexual way 😆 And I imagine if he said anything like that to a real woman, he'd never be able to have sex again, so perhaps your idea of what is making you feel fem is not feminine at all as its a wholly masculine interpretation of it?

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Not been fucked that often. Used to consider myself a top. Been more into mutual sucking, frottage etc for a lot of my sex life. Certainly never felt the slightest bit feminine or really submissive when I've had another guy's cock pounding my arse. Just enjoyed the intimacy.

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By *orcester GuyMan
2 weeks ago

Worcestershire North

Is it not just animalistic part of being a male that goes back to cave man days

Ancient times where women were deemed to be there for babies procrrate etc where men for pleasure ?

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

wickow

I suppose, one could argue it varies depending on the person and what goes on in their head.

But, just the basic act of gay anal sex is by definition not feminine. It's 2 men engaging in sex. There are no females.

Whatever goes on in the person's head is a seperate matter imo. Even with oral, some guys like to face fuck and be in charge. I like to like back and be edged or milked. You could argue my preferred way is more submissive - it's certainly not feminine. It's a man sucking and jerking another guy off. What goes on in my head is irrelevant. Wearing a pair of panties is irrelevant. I think so anyway.

Ever been with a very sexually dominant woman? Does that make straight sex more masculine or more feminine ?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I suppose, one could argue it varies depending on the person and what goes on in their head.

But, just the basic act of gay anal sex is by definition not feminine. It's 2 men engaging in sex. There are no females.

Whatever goes on in the person's head is a seperate matter imo. Even with oral, some guys like to face fuck and be in charge. I like to like back and be edged or milked. You could argue my preferred way is more submissive - it's certainly not feminine. It's a man sucking and jerking another guy off. What goes on in my head is irrelevant. Wearing a pair of panties is irrelevant. I think so anyway.

Ever been with a very sexually dominant woman? Does that make straight sex more masculine or more feminine ? "

Never been with a woman, never mind a sexually dominating woman, I am 100% gay , only attracted to men, perhaps that goes someway to explain my female sexuality

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By *an24Man
2 weeks ago

dundee

I feel very fem and sub when the top mounts me x for me it’s about that, the top being dominant x

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I feel very fem and sub when the top mounts me x for me it’s about that, the top being dominant x"

Yes you're just a girl like mev

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By *englooMan
2 weeks ago

Brighton

I’ve only been fucked once but when I came the involuntarily panting/moaning noises I made surprised me, as it did seem quite feminine in a way. It’s happened since when I’ve cum while fingering etc, without needing to touch my cock.

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By *ollMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Interesting thread. Im glad its not drifted into some of the more toxic areas of masculinity. !!!!

Im a bottom and slightly sub, but men do nothing for me other than i like cock and enjoy being fucked. And yes i do ask a guy to fuck my pussy/ arse/ cunt. Treat me like a bitch/ slut/ whore and dont object if he calls me that when hes fucking me. Does that make me more feminine or just a dirty old man!!!!

Is there an element here of aligning aspectsof sexuality with where people are on the masculine/feminine spectrum. Often men are described as being in touch with their feminine side when they show emotions, when they cry etc, reveal feelings etc.

For me being fucked is just sonething i enjoy, never considered it bei g a feminine act!!!

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By *4BearsMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

I've never derived masculinity from or attributed masculinity to sexual acts

I don't particularly subscribe to either masculinity or femininity if I'm honest, I see them more as something akin to tropes/clichés and nothing much more

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By *ustinaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff


"For us it’s neither.. we like to flip flop fuck: frequently swapping to fuck each other.

There is nothing more intimate and pleasurable than having a hard cock slowly rock inside while kissing each other passionately.

It’s the epitome of love making between two men.

It’s beautiful. "

Other than the flip flopping, you've hit the nail on the head. It's the intimacy between two men making love that appeals to me. I don't need to be dominated. Two different roles and I choose to be a bottom and with the right man you play as one. And yes you are right, it is beautiful.

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I suppose, one could argue it varies depending on the person and what goes on in their head.

But, just the basic act of gay anal sex is by definition not feminine. It's 2 men engaging in sex. There are no females.

Whatever goes on in the person's head is a seperate matter imo. Even with oral, some guys like to face fuck and be in charge. I like to like back and be edged or milked. You could argue my preferred way is more submissive - it's certainly not feminine. It's a man sucking and jerking another guy off. What goes on in my head is irrelevant. Wearing a pair of panties is irrelevant. I think so anyway.

Ever been with a very sexually dominant woman? Does that make straight sex more masculine or more feminine ? "

Some good points. Okay hardly an expert but if you have sex with a woman you insert your cock in her fanny not her arse though some go in for that evidently. You cannot insert a cock into a cock. Nearest yo can achieve to that is docking and frotting which is quite erotic and very satisfying.

Some more 'effeminate' men might consider being fuck submissive and taking a female role. For the rest of us it is sex between two equal men plus you might indulge in role reversal. I very much enjoy giving a blow job but with his legs over my shoulders and me clutching his arse cheeks I don't feel the slightest bit submissive.

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By *onduMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus

Think it was the comedian Steve Hughes who said it takes a real man to have sex with a man 🤔😂

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By *ardforall56Man
2 weeks ago

belfast

I love to be the one doing the fucking.It makes me feel so manly having total control over cunts or cocks.

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By *ndsotobedMan
2 weeks ago

Towcester

It gives me butterflies when I open the door for a man who wants to fuck me. It’s lovely to kiss and hug. And I don’t feel submissive when I’ve got his cock down my throat.

I am submissive when he’s laid on my back, his hard cock balls deep inside me. I don’t feel manly. Not girly either, just scrumptious and orgasmic!

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I’ve only been fucked once but when I came the involuntarily panting/moaning noises I made surprised me, as it did seem quite feminine in a way. It’s happened since when I’ve cum while fingering etc, without needing to touch my cock. "

Yes I agree with you with regards to the panting and moaning noises as he thrusts his cock deep. I just feel that I'm involuntary mimicking the female response to being shagged which I'm pleased I do so

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By *luteus maxMan
2 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

I'm a fairly positive person, and I love the feeling of being fucked. I don't feel submissive, as I want to be fucked and enjoy the sensations. I don't even think of it as being penetrated. I just think of it as the guy giving me the pleasure I want.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

My favourite meets are flip fucking, but in every attitude I do it as a red blooded male.

I can play passive or in control but essentially it's about the pleasure I give and receive in both positions.

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bangor

I’m a tv so when I’m Susan I am naturally the feminine part of the partnership and being fucked is just so fulfilling for me. 💋

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By *immySplashMan
2 weeks ago

Coventry

I just want to try it so I can be sure about how I feel about it

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By *umdumpster2Man
2 weeks ago

Maidenhead

Totally sign of submission being fucked by another man

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I would guess that Tgirls would feel more feminine and submissive during anal than many gay men.

Seems natural to me that if you dress like a woman you’re more likely to feel like a female when being penetrated.

This being the site it is no doubt there will now be shouts from some Tgirls who proclaim their feelings of masculinity and dominance while being fucked.

But I’m sure they’re not the majority.

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne


"I would guess that Tgirls would feel more feminine and submissive during anal than many gay men.

Seems natural to me that if you dress like a woman you’re more likely to feel like a female when being penetrated.

This being the site it is no doubt there will now be shouts from some Tgirls who proclaim their feelings of masculinity and dominance while being fucked.

But I’m sure they’re not the majority. "

As someone who dressed in the past I'm not sure how anyone can have "feelings of masculinity and dominance while being fucked." Especially in a LBD and their older sister's stockings and suspenders.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"This being the site it is no doubt there will now be shouts from some Tgirls who proclaim their feelings of masculinity and dominance while being fucked."

Maybe I'm stupid but I think the very essence of the phrase t-girl pretty much defies masculinity as a t-girl wants to identify as feminine by definition.

Now if you use the less lazy and more specific descriptor of male-identifying men with a lingerie fetish, then yep, you're right and many will say they feel masculine.

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By *aulBiBottomMan
2 weeks ago

nr Longbridge


"The mental aspect of being penetrated by another male creates a division of opinion amongst men who receive.

Some may say it is a total masculine thing to do showing that you are your own man and feel secure in your masculinity . Others would say that it's not a masculine act to be shagged by another man, in fact many men ,myself included, would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally male or somewhat female in being penetrated or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?

"

I personally love being fucked either acting manly or being dressed and being treated like a slut, for me it's not about masculinity it's about horny sex

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

As someone who dresses I feel very feminine and submissive when being fucked.

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By *reddie12345Man
2 weeks ago

Bridgend


"I love the feeling of submission by being fucked, the top taking me as he wishes

Even better if he holds me down. "

Exactly this!

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By *he pleasure giverMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I just thing it's the most natural thing in the world to be dom as sub , it's so good to be in both positions at times and just enjoy it

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Why criticise anyone because they want to identify as female while having sex with a man, its all about what's in our mind , what we want to wish for and fantasise for , we know we are physically men but doesn't mean that we are nor sexually female

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By *arlperksMan
2 weeks ago

nottingham

I love a cock and come in me

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By *arlperksMan
2 weeks ago

nottingham

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By *reenbinMan
2 weeks ago

Portishead

It is submission for me, it just adds to my arousal.

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By *arlperksMan
2 weeks ago

nottingham

I got hooked when I decided to try it love to hear a man moan when he comes in me

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By *iny cock xMan
2 weeks ago

Chester

Love being a sub

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By *bsingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I don’t get much action of the penetrating type, but when I have, I have always felt it quite empowering weirdly, I always think it’s going to the opposite but I always feel empowered and in control by giving of myself and then taking away my reward within me.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I identify sexually as female and if I was a lot younger particularly in this modern day culture I would be trans and would be happy to have breasts and a vagina

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By *extoy69!Man
2 weeks ago

Newton

I’ve only had limited experience, but as a total bottom, I’d say that submitting to someone and allowing them to satisfy their needs is very empowering.

Yes, I dress up if I want to, but by having the confidence to be who I need to be in that moment is also being able to control the encounter.

If I start telling my dom to go harder, you bet he will. If I ride him, I’m in control but still submitting.

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By *mblerMan
2 weeks ago

Goole

My first time happened unexpectedly, I didn’t go out thinking it was going to happen- it just did. I didn’t stop it so I must have been ready and I didn’t think too deeply afterwards about what it meant in terms of a masculine hierarchy.

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

It’s all just passion

Taking a pounding or giving one for me has never been linked to femininity.

Anyone who has tried to act hyper masculine while fucking me or started talking about their pussy while I was fucking them has been a turn off.

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross

For me it would be a lovely feeling of surrender and submission and the effeminate feeling of feminism when he holds me and takes me

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By *hubbyman10Man
2 weeks ago

Bloxwich

I knew from an early age when experimenting with various objects that I would prefer to be a receiver and once I had my first real cock it just confirmed my feelings, does it make me less masculine? not in my opinion others may think differently

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By *mrmarkMan
2 weeks ago

Tavistock

I do like the feeling of surrender as a cock is inserted and I am given a good fucking.

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By *hil96Man
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I love t9 be penetrated and fucked. And if that nakes me sub and feminine then so be it. Ill wiggle my arse all thw more if it gets me fucked.

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By *oodpeckerMan
2 weeks ago

Visiting


"The mental aspect of being penetrated by another male creates a division of opinion amongst men who receive.

Some may say it is a total masculine thing to do showing that you are your own man and feel secure in your masculinity . Others would say that it's not a masculine act to be shagged by another man, in fact many men ,myself included, would claim that it implies submissiveness and vulnerability amounting to feminisation and reduced masculinity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally male or somewhat female in being penetrated or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?"

A woman pegging a woman - a sign of femininity or not? The mental aspect creates a division of opinion amongst women who penetrate men. Some may say it is a total feminine thing to do showing that you are your own woman and feel secure in your femininity. Others would say that it's not a feminine act to shag another woman, in fact many women would claim that it implies domination and supremacy amounting to masculisation and reduced femininity.

I suppose it's an individual's choice to decide whether you feel totally female or somewhat male in penetrating or is it just the case of enjoying what is a very pleasurable pastime?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"For me it would be a lovely feeling of surrender and submission and the effeminate feeling of feminism when he holds me and takes me "

I agree, someone once said if we men could be a woman for one day then we would all go for it

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By *ngel50TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Kinross


"For me it would be a lovely feeling of surrender and submission and the effeminate feeling of feminism when he holds me and takes me

I agree, someone once said if we men could be a woman for one day then we would all go for it"

Totally and we would want to remain a woman forever

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"For me it would be a lovely feeling of surrender and submission and the effeminate feeling of feminism when he holds me and takes me

I agree, someone once said if we men could be a woman for one day then we would all go for it

Totally and we would want to remain a woman forever "

Yes from yours pics Angel I can see that with your figure you would be a sexy looking woman , just wish I had your choice of female dress

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By *ocbigMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I would suggest it means that you like having a cock up your bum. "

Indeed it is just sex…

After all the pseudo scientific word salad analysis bollocks, where does a flip fuck stand..or lie…?

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By *icuriou69Man
2 weeks ago

blackpool

want to experience my feminine side and have cum in me but nervous about doing it for the first time

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

I suppose one drawback about being a woman would be the unwanted attention from some sad lecherous dirty men but attention from young athletic studs would make up for it

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

So many young men who maybe totally heterosexual but their way of dress and hairstyles would give the impression of femininity , seems to a culture change recently with younger people towards being unisex in their outlook

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I suppose one drawback about being a woman would be the unwanted attention from some sad lecherous dirty men but attention from young athletic studs would make up for it"

You have a very strange perception of what's right. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, unwanted attention from anyone whether they be old and dirty or a young stud is completely wrong

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By *arla999 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow


"I suppose one drawback about being a woman would be the unwanted attention from some sad lecherous dirty men but attention from young athletic studs would make up for it

You have a very strange perception of what's right. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, unwanted attention from anyone whether they be old and dirty or a young stud is completely wrong"

I never like your comments. You always seem to be just critical and intolerant of other people's views.

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I suppose one drawback about being a woman would be the unwanted attention from some sad lecherous dirty men but attention from young athletic studs would make up for it

You have a very strange perception of what's right. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, unwanted attention from anyone whether they be old and dirty or a young stud is completely wrong

I never like your comments. You always seem to be just critical and intolerant of other people's views. "

He's not wrong though is he? You've portrayed lecherous attention as ok, so long as its from a "young stud". Normalising lecherous attention from anyone is wrong.

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By *ue KingTV/TS
1 week ago

Welwyn

I am a gay man who loves the attention of other men.

I dress for intimacy as I like men to feel attracted to me. It’s probably more a self confidence thing than submissive (although I can see the dividing line is a little opaque)

I’m not and don’t want to be a woman, I’m a male. I actually feel empowered when a guy wants to have sex with me. This can either be dressed in traditional male clothing, clothing designed for females or good old harness, jock and boots. I get off on guy’s getting off on me.

So for me at least (and I am sure nobody else judging by the other posts) it’s about loving sex and empowerment. I am bottom because I enjoy it, I don’t particularly enjoy being top.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

Perhaps I don't want to be a woman but having sex with a man particularly a top who wants to shag me , I want to assume the female role, pretend I'm a woman and want him to treat me like a woman, this is where I feel I lose all traces of my masculinity

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By *ldhamAreaMan
1 week ago

OLDHAM

Think I an with Carra on this. For me, having a man penetrate me really takes away my masculinity and brings out the submisive in me, feels great.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"Think I an with Carra on this. For me, having a man penetrate me really takes away my masculinity and brings out the submisive in me, feels great."

Thanks for your support, we girls just love it

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By *atty70Man
1 week ago

port erin

It’s a submissive thing for me, the Top taking control of my body

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By *ubblebootyTV/TS
1 week ago

Wakefield

As soon as I put on my stockings and suspenders, I definitely turn submissive and feel like a total sub. I just want to let a man use me any way he wants to xx

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By *eneral distanceMan
1 week ago

st helens

I get the submission side feeling a guy take me is a turn on

But the feeling as a cock slides into me and all the nerve endings gets me turned on, plus the prostate pressured mmm fuck

Plus I love sometimes to be sub as I’m dom in my life as a professional and person

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By *ouncyMan
1 week ago

Bromley

I like the physical sensations of fucking and of being fucked.

Being in control is a large part of it as well. I enjoy fucking for instance but don't enjoy being ridden as much

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

I love the feeling of a hard cock just motionless inside my pussy , the guy lying on top of me and suddenly he shudders as he unexpectedly cums inside me

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By *ewBrumBiMan
1 week ago

Birmingham

I don't feel very masculine with another man inside me

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"I don't feel very masculine with another man inside me"

You shouldn't feel very masculine with a cock inside your beautifully shaped girly bum after your pussy hole has been rimmed

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By *oshergyMan
1 week ago

Grimsby

The feeling of allowing a guy to gain pleasure from your body is very hot.

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By *ardy62Man
1 week ago

Weymouth

Some tops do like to top masculine guys

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By *enjamin2018Man
1 week ago

Gosfield


"Some tops do like to top masculine guys"

I definitely do .

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By *ungbuddy9Man
1 week ago

york

imho there’s nothing feminine about getting fucked by another man or lad, it’s just guys having man fun doing what comes naturally

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By *mdikdaveMan
1 week ago

Canterbury

Love the feeling of cock in my butt. Not sure if I care if it's masculine or not.....ideally I'd say here's my body do what you want to it 😀

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By *andifanMan
1 week ago

Derby

I love it, for the same reasons

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Some tops do like to top masculine guys"

Definitely. Id run a mile from anyone wanting a fuck to feel feminine. Thankfully, I doubt I'd attract that kind anyway 😆 There is nothing fem about a cock up the arse. Its mostly bi guys with a dress up/CD fetish who think there is I think. Calling your shithole a pussy or a vagina is beyond weird.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"Some tops do like to top masculine guys

Definitely. Id run a mile from anyone wanting a fuck to feel feminine. Thankfully, I doubt I'd attract that kind anyway 😆 There is nothing fem about a cock up the arse. Its mostly bi guys with a dress up/CD fetish who think there is I think. Calling your shithole a pussy or a vagina is beyond weird."

Yes everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect what you say about your anus being called a pussy or a vagina but thats from your point of view.

Anyone is entitled to feel the way they want during the sexual act , it so happens that with me and many more guys we do feel that sexually we are more feminine than masculine when dominated by a top, we call ourselves by a girls name , in my case Carla, we generally are very used to being penetrated and we like to say we have a pussy or a vagina, so imitating the female sex. It's all down to role play which even straight men and women enjoy

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By *eorgesdadMan
1 week ago

Nottingham

I agree and willingly submit to Alpha mens wants 🤪

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

makes me feel very feminine but each to their own x

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Some tops do like to top masculine guys

Definitely. Id run a mile from anyone wanting a fuck to feel feminine. Thankfully, I doubt I'd attract that kind anyway 😆 There is nothing fem about a cock up the arse. Its mostly bi guys with a dress up/CD fetish who think there is I think. Calling your shithole a pussy or a vagina is beyond weird.

Yes everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect what you say about your anus being called a pussy or a vagina but thats from your point of view.

Anyone is entitled to feel the way they want during the sexual act , it so happens that with me and many more guys we do feel that sexually we are more feminine than masculine when dominated by a top, we call ourselves by a girls name , in my case Carla, we generally are very used to being penetrated and we like to say we have a pussy or a vagina, so imitating the female sex. It's all down to role play which even straight men and women enjoy "

Totally agree, you're playing a role.

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By *rbitchMan
1 week ago

Solihull

I certainly feel like im submitting to his desires and love that feeling

Although in another way an element of power allowing him or not

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By *traight.lad45Man
1 week ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv guys who submit

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By *ondon BiTV/TS
1 week ago

Woking

For me it is an act of submission and giving myself to someone.

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By *wanseatwo.2Man
1 week ago

swansea

For me being fucked by a guy or pegged by a woman is an act of stress relief. Do not fancy men in any way but do like to be fucked.and to suck a nice cock. Ideal for me is a convincing tv ts with a nice cock who is vers or top. But most on here are bottom or sissy.

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By *aulMichaelMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

I personally believe it’s a sub thing, you have to be, to submit !

Roman warriors would say , Only pussies just fuck pussies ! or maybe it was the Greeks, i’m not sure, but you get the meaning

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By *aulMichaelMan
1 week ago

Liverpool


"For me being fucked by a guy or pegged by a woman is an act of stress relief. Do not fancy men in any way but do like to be fucked.and to suck a nice cock. Ideal for me is a convincing tv ts with a nice cock who is vers or top. But most on here are bottom or sissy. "

Same !

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
1 week ago

Wakefield

End of the day the male "G spot" is up there so it feels good to stimulate it. Imo that's not inherently masculine or feminine, it just is lol.

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By *m3232Man
1 week ago

maidenhead

Only been fucked twice but I am there for the fun. I couldn’t care less what the view of what ever was happening.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"Some tops do like to top masculine guys

Definitely. Id run a mile from anyone wanting a fuck to feel feminine. Thankfully, I doubt I'd attract that kind anyway 😆 There is nothing fem about a cock up the arse. Its mostly bi guys with a dress up/CD fetish who think there is I think. Calling your shithole a pussy or a vagina is beyond weird.

Yes everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect what you say about your anus being called a pussy or a vagina but thats from your point of view.

Anyone is entitled to feel the way they want during the sexual act , it so happens that with me and many more guys we do feel that sexually we are more feminine than masculine when dominated by a top, we call ourselves by a girls name , in my case Carla, we generally are very used to being penetrated and we like to say we have a pussy or a vagina, so imitating the female sex. It's all down to role play which even straight men and women enjoy

Totally agree, you're playing a role. "

Yes I'm playing a role of course but its a role I like and if my partner commits fully to me acting like a woman, wanting my nipples sucked and played with and treating my anus as a vagina then that creates pure ecstasy

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells

I have heard a saying that "Only real men can take a real cock".

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By *bbieWAGTV/TS
1 week ago

Chingford

It always makes me feel very feminine when a guy penetrates me, like I am his for that instant.

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By *jp HungMan
1 week ago

Ferryhill Northeast.

Its nothing to do with masculinity you either bottom or top i enjoy fucking a man but wouldn't enjoy fucking a man dressed feminine its all about choice really what's nice for one person maybe not for another if you like to dress feminine thats fine same as if you want to dress in leather or work gear it's all individual types.

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By *arriedbiMan
1 week ago

Aldershot


"For me it is an act of submission and giving myself to someone."
but anal not sign of masculinity in my opinion

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"For me it is an act of submission and giving myself to someone. but anal not sign of masculinity in my opinion "

I tend to agree with you that anal isn't a sign of masculinity

It would be good to know what red blooded heterosexual males would think of a man bending over or lying on his back and getting penetrated by another man's hard cock?

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By *RW68Man
1 week ago

Northallerton

I am yet to find someone who will do it to me in a way that I enjoy my first time and want more xx

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By *upupu2Man
1 week ago

dundee

Thinks it's both. Laying on my back and legs wide I want penetrated by a big cock. It may be painful and the fucking hard to take to begin with. If the guy can last, I become like him, I enjoy that full feeling and that fullness moving. It is neither feminine nor masculine at that phase. Perhaps slightly more masculine as it can be rougher than a feminine sense of any kind of closeness or romantic experience in a pure feminine way. The kind that a female may like or prefer. This is particularly true with guys who find female sex difficult due to size. This very full movement continues to orgasm, and to me is a very masculine act as the bottom as some powered as the guy fucking loses control in his full manly freedom when he cums Is that why so many hung guys like both sex with male and females? Does the man experience give them more freedom to be tha man they want?

So with very hung guys I'd say masculine if the guy lasts and gets what he is after with more freedom. The bottom to has manly expectations to satisfy that joint objective.

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"For me it is an act of submission and giving myself to someone. but anal not sign of masculinity in my opinion

I tend to agree with you that anal isn't a sign of masculinity

It would be good to know what red blooded heterosexual males would think of a man bending over or lying on his back and getting penetrated by another man's hard cock?

"

It isn’t a sign of masculinity for you, but it certainly is for me, and tbe men I fuck. There's no heterosexual men in here to ask, but I have plenty of heterosexual male (and female) friends, and I'm pretty sure none of them see my sex life as any way feminine. The opposite is probably true. Feminine doesnt even part of the equation. Is for you tbough, obviously.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford

I think unless it's considered role play and requires submission or dominance. Its got nothing to do with masculism. Its just the way gay men have sex or make love no different to a hetro couple a woman doesn't feel submissive when her partner is having sex with her she feels wanted desired and loved. Its the same with man to man sex is an act of enjoyment with someone you like xx

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By *lectricTeaMan
1 week ago

Hereford

I’ve always been bottom and enjoy it. I tried to top once when young and it wasn’t good haha.

For me it depends on the other guy. Some like more feminine guys (or those that act the part) and I’m happy to go along if he’s decent.

Likewise a good fuck is a good fuck and I don’t always think of power dynamics

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By *harlotte SometimesMan
1 week ago

Leamington Spa

I have been thinking about this and my answer is "it depends". If I'm cross dressing and getting fucked then it does bring out something of the feminine side of me but also I have an old guy who fucks me man on man quite regularly and then it doesn't give me any feminine feelings. Maybe I'm just a slut however I get it?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"I have been thinking about this and my answer is "it depends". If I'm cross dressing and getting fucked then it does bring out something of the feminine side of me but also I have an old guy who fucks me man on man quite regularly and then it doesn't give me any feminine feelings. Maybe I'm just a slut however I get it? "

Would anyone argue that gay men don't have a strong feminine side?

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"I have been thinking about this and my answer is "it depends". If I'm cross dressing and getting fucked then it does bring out something of the feminine side of me but also I have an old guy who fucks me man on man quite regularly and then it doesn't give me any feminine feelings. Maybe I'm just a slut however I get it?

Would anyone argue that gay men don't have a strong feminine side?"

Being gay has sod all with femininity

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I have been thinking about this and my answer is "it depends". If I'm cross dressing and getting fucked then it does bring out something of the feminine side of me but also I have an old guy who fucks me man on man quite regularly and then it doesn't give me any feminine feelings. Maybe I'm just a slut however I get it?

Would anyone argue that gay men don't have a strong feminine side?"

Of course. Whether they would bother to defend who they are here is another matter though.

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By *oodpeckerMan
1 week ago

Visiting


"I have been thinking about this and my answer is "it depends". If I'm cross dressing and getting fucked then it does bring out something of the feminine side of me but also I have an old guy who fucks me man on man quite regularly and then it doesn't give me any feminine feelings. Maybe I'm just a slut however I get it?

Would anyone argue that gay men don't have a strong feminine side?

Being gay has sod all with femininity "

👍

Objectively, being gay/being shagged has no association with femininity

Subjectively, feel free to post anything at all which makes no real sense but floats your own boat.

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By *ollyMan
1 week ago

Downham market


"For me, sex is purely an act of submission, vulnerability and letting the man have power over me. I shave my body to make it look less masculine, and present as submissive, tending towards effeminate in the bedroom. I am bottom only snd always ensure the top cums at least once. My climax is not that important, I get enough pleasure from feeling the man inside me"

I'm similar in that I don't have to cum, I get great satisfaction at making a sweet man cum for me, preferably in my mouth or bum x

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By *ollyMan
1 week ago

Downham market

I also love shaving and dressed up while loving my feminine side x

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

So many men on this site , like myself , have a girl's name, in think that's evidence enough for a feminine side

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By *oodpeckerMan
1 week ago

Visiting


"So many men on this site , like myself , have a girl's name, in think that's evidence enough for a feminine side "
It's simply 'evidence' of a belief/wish, in most cases.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"So many men on this site , like myself , have a girl's name, in think that's evidence enough for a feminine side It's simply 'evidence' of a belief/wish, in most cases."

Yes i agree with you, maybe I should have been born female, always had that feeling of wanting to be a woman

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By *cky49Man
1 week ago

sheffield

L just love taking cock and cum

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"So many men on this site , like myself , have a girl's name, in think that's evidence enough for a feminine side "

They are bi, not gay.

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By *heekyheadMan
1 week ago

Yorkshire

For me it’s about pleasing the top

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By *ub365Man
1 week ago

Telford

If I’m honest I don’t truly think it matters it’s all about what you enjoy, liking how if feels to be fucked doesn’t affect masculinity.

I love the humiliation of the role play but know when the fun is over I’m back to the normal me.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow


"If I’m honest I don’t truly think it matters it’s all about what you enjoy, liking how if feels to be fucked doesn’t affect masculinity.

I love the humiliation of the role play but know when the fun is over I’m back to the normal me. "

Yes you are so correct it's all about what you enjoy and every bottom loves a hard cock but in my case I love being treated in a feminine way

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

Surely there's nothing more manly than two men having sex?

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By *ust4inchesMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

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By *omcantMan
1 week ago

canterbury

My motto is fuck or be fucked.

It’s all good, I just feel like I feel when I’m doing it not fem of dom

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By *eversayNever200Man
1 week ago

Kendal

I’ve come to the conclusion that it really doesn’t matter.

I’ve really enjoyed fucking guys in stockings & panties as much as guys who are definitely the straight-acting type.

I’ve taken cock from both those types too and also had a great time as well as a couple of big hands free ejaculations while being fucked.

If they are my type ( to suit my mood at the time ) and nice warm horny human beings, it’s probably going to be very sexy.

Bring it on.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

What chance have I of retaining any semblance of masculinity when my regular fuck buddy texts me , calling me Carla, telling me to wear my 34b bra with panties, loves sucking my nipples, loves me sucking his cock and balls for ages, rims me, spanks me, then fucks me hard and fast and all the time he totally ignores my cock then when he cums , he withdraws and shoots his cum over my face, saying this what a bitch like you loves

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"What chance have I of retaining any semblance of masculinity when my regular fuck buddy texts me , calling me Carla, telling me to wear my 34b bra with panties, loves sucking my nipples, loves me sucking his cock and balls for ages, rims me, spanks me, then fucks me hard and fast and all the time he totally ignores my cock then when he cums , he withdraws and shoots his cum over my face, saying this what a bitch like you loves

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You're fulfilling his fantasy kink of fucking a fake woman slut. I say run with it, sounds fun for both of you!

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

Yes you are right, funny thing is he's not bi but 100% gay , I got annoyed with him when we had a threesome and he sucked the other guy's cock, in all the time I knew him, he always ignored my cock,

Ho told me I was pure bitch and he would never suck my cock, anyway I enjoy being his bitch

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Yes you are right, funny thing is he's not bi but 100% gay , I got annoyed with him when we had a threesome and he sucked the other guy's cock, in all the time I knew him, he always ignored my cock,

Ho told me I was pure bitch and he would never suck my cock, anyway I enjoy being his bitch "

I doubt he's as gay as he say/thinks he is

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By *eorgesdadMan
1 week ago

Nottingham

I love to passionately kiss the masculine guy who is fucking me to satisfy his needs, I love being held in his arms as he trusts into me riding me to reach the orgasm he needs. I love to kiss and cuddle after he has cum🤪 Does this mean I am feminine in the moment 🫣 I don’t mind as long as I satisfy him.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

As he fucks ne i always tell him I want to change my sex ,that i would feel so horny being his woman

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By *3versMan
1 week ago

glasgow


"As he fucks ne i always tell him I want to change my sex ,that i would feel so horny being his woman "

Go for it, you know it will make you feel better

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"As he fucks ne i always tell him I want to change my sex ,that i would feel so horny being his woman "

You won't be a woman though obviously, as you are a man in a role pretending to be a woman, and what he wants is a man in a role pretending to be a woman. You're proposing turning yourself into something he doesnt even want. Your fantasy kink is yours, and his fantasy kink is his. Great while it works.

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By *ockanonamasMan
1 week ago

Manchester

When I'm fucking or being fucked I don't see it as masculine or feminine. It's the moment and pleasure for both of us that I'm concentrating on.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

Who wants to feel masculine as a total power top drills your pussy hole and doesn't cum for ages

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Who wants to feel masculine as a total power top drills your pussy hole and doesn't cum for ages "

I will, and do. You do you, and others will do things how they want to do them. Its not a competition about who feels more masc or fem - as ultimately, thats your private opinion about yourself, and nobody really cares about that at all. Its not like your top is thinking "oh I do hope I'm making this man feel more feminine" 😆

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By *arla999 OP   Man
1 week ago

glasgow

I never have mentioned competition and not interested in rating guys to see who treats me more like a woman.

It's my personal preference to take on the female role and if I meet a guy who likes that then its a bonus

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By *ayboy1966Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

I don’t overthink it, I just like getting shagged, simple! No tags, no stigma no nothing, just sex and very enjoyable regardless of labels

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