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"They boil my piss. I bathed and shaved this morning, expecting a older gent to send me his address today and shave me, i agreed to many of his request, including letting him take completely naked photos of me playing with myself, posing naked all around his home, and the photos to include my tiny little willy and face. Waited and waited and nothing. At least i saved on fuel. " Those requests reek of a time waster. | |||
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"I have to admit...I time wasted someone but it was because I got too pissed before the meeting. I was scared, anxious that kind of thing but I think (can't remember) told him before he came round it was off" I don't think cancelling is timewasting that much, things genuinely do happen and it would be different if you just never showed up for messaged. I find that when that happens people still just get pissed off and block you anyway. I feel like that's more of dodging a bullet than anything. | |||
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"Perhaps they need a new site all of their own ?" I don't have an issue with time wasters.. Maybe I'm more sought after than you! | |||
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"Does giving 24 hours' notice of needing to cancel (or preferably postpone) make one count as a timewaster? I had a Tuesday night meet set up from a couple of weeks buildup and chats and was all going hunky dory and to plan until a particularly stressy work Monday hit and I knew Tuesday was going to be just as bad or worse, so I made the regrettable decision to blow it out for that week. Got a right cold shoulder when suggesting we might reschedule and I suspect as far as the other guy's concerned, I've joined the ranks." I don't think so, communications is everything and things happen as I said above. If they cancelled plans or something then it'll be annoying but in the nicest way it's also not your problem. It's your decision at the end of the day and if you're not up for it then it won't be good if you force it. | |||
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"Does giving 24 hours' notice of needing to cancel (or preferably postpone) make one count as a timewaster? I had a Tuesday night meet set up from a couple of weeks buildup and chats and was all going hunky dory and to plan until a particularly stressy work Monday hit and I knew Tuesday was going to be just as bad or worse, so I made the regrettable decision to blow it out for that week. Got a right cold shoulder when suggesting we might reschedule and I suspect as far as the other guy's concerned, I've joined the ranks." Nah that’ll be fine for me. Even better you make up for it next time. The endless chats and not even an offer of a meet and no shows with no notice pisses me off. Was left standing at a guys front door in the pissing rain hearing him behind the door. Tosser. | |||
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"Does giving 24 hours' notice of needing to cancel (or preferably postpone) make one count as a timewaster? I had a Tuesday night meet set up from a couple of weeks buildup and chats and was all going hunky dory and to plan until a particularly stressy work Monday hit and I knew Tuesday was going to be just as bad or worse, so I made the regrettable decision to blow it out for that week. Got a right cold shoulder when suggesting we might reschedule and I suspect as far as the other guy's concerned, I've joined the ranks." ...in my opinion that dont make you a time waster..shit happens and you gave more than sufficient notice....a timewaster just wouldn't show without a word said  | |||
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"Does giving 24 hours' notice of needing to cancel (or preferably postpone) make one count as a timewaster? I had a Tuesday night meet set up from a couple of weeks buildup and chats and was all going hunky dory and to plan until a particularly stressy work Monday hit and I knew Tuesday was going to be just as bad or worse, so I made the regrettable decision to blow it out for that week. Got a right cold shoulder when suggesting we might reschedule and I suspect as far as the other guy's concerned, I've joined the ranks. I don't think so, communications is everything and things happen as I said above. If they cancelled plans or something then it'll be annoying but in the nicest way it's also not your problem. It's your decision at the end of the day and if you're not up for it then it won't be good if you force it." Yeah, aside from being physically and mentally drained I knew that if I had a late Tuesday night I was going to have an even worse Wednesday work day. Disappointed that it got me written off but whatever, I guess. | |||
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"I admit to have wasted quite a few people’s time, not by failing to turn up for a meet or cancelling last minute, but by spending days, sometimes weeks messaging guys but then deciding meets are not going to work out … I am wondering if others see this as a waste of time or just beinvg indecisive ?" I don't see that as either. Not everyone has the meet-now mindset, and many need to feel that a meet's going to be safe and satisfying for both. I've done both, long chats before meeting and fairly spur of the moment meets, and honestly while they've all gone OK, there's always that nervousness about a quickly arranged meet like, what if they are actually a Dennis Nielsen? | |||
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"They boil my piss. I bathed and shaved this morning, expecting a older gent to send me his address today and shave me, i agreed to many of his request, including letting him take completely naked photos of me playing with myself, posing naked all around his home, and the photos to include my tiny little willy and face. Waited and waited and nothing. At least i saved on fuel. Those requests reek of a time waster. " Wank fodder. I've had similar stupid requests and I just don't play | |||
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