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By *laytimefun69 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Launceston

Do you think it polite to reply to a message even if it’s a no thanks?

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By *rownriverMan
3 weeks ago

Crawley

Of course

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By *ishop666Man
3 weeks ago

ls19

I try my best to to reply

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

Problem is there are so many immature manchilds on this site who get abusive at the politest rejection, that guys don't bother to avoid abuse.

And I know, a 50, yes 50year old man accused me of making up my verifications because ( couldn't /wouldn't meet him.

So next time flying get silence it's probably not personal, the guys protecting himself from upset!

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Nobody is owed a response.

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By *aul349Man
3 weeks ago

North of the Tyne


"Do you think it polite to reply to a message even if it’s a no thanks?"

Yes.

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford


"Problem is there are so many immature manchilds on this site who get abusive at the politest rejection, that guys don't bother to avoid abuse.

And I know, a 50, yes 50year old man accused me of making up my verifications because ( couldn't /wouldn't meet him.

So next time flying get silence it's probably not personal, the guys protecting himself from upset!"

Apologies for the odd typo. I should review messages before sending!!

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By *luteus maxMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

I'm often a bit tardy in replying

If I'm on the phone then tippy tapping a reply is a bit of a pain so I only do it if it's essential. If I'm on the computer, then it's a lot easier, so I can send a late reply. Sometimes I just delete a message if, for example, it's from a bottom 400 miles away, and the guy just says " hi how r u".

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By *k0014Man
3 weeks ago

belfast

Def yes rude not too

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By *ibblefishMan
3 weeks ago

louthish

I always reply to messages unless they persist after a polite no thank you

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By *aid2TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

The only ones I ignore are the low effort profiles from guys who clearly haven't bothered reading mine. Everyone else gets a reply.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull


"Do you think it polite to reply to a message even if it’s a no thanks?"

If somebody addresses me in fem terms from the off and just uses a bare handful of words and has fuck all on their profile, my response will run the gamut from bin & ignore to "you haven't read my profile" to "fuck off", depending on how much rage I'm feeling in the moment.

Just because somebody messages doesn't mean they are entitled to a polite reply if they've made no effort.

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By *riefsMan
3 weeks ago

gorey

I away reply to. To message winks etc

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

I dont always respond. Sometimes I don't even need to look at thier profile. If they've not read my profile its a no response from me, and usually a Block as well.

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By *usterMan
3 weeks ago

Cramlington

It’s courtesy yes

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By *arlperksMan
3 weeks ago

nottingham

I reply if they've been members for a long time not just a couple of weeks

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By *PH1956Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester

To acknowledge and a polite reply is the decent thing to do.

Unless their message was rude or disrespectful. Then fuck'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Absolutely. I have hundreds of blocks just because of their ignorance

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By *im le2Man
3 weeks ago

aylestone leic

One word text definitely no reply.

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

As said before

Saying “no thank you” on here is a minefield.

Most of the time you get abuse. I’ve had the usual “ you’re fat /old/ugly anyway“ responses to declining an offer of sex. Most recently I was told that they “bet your husband died rather than fuck you, you fat cunt”

So, I tend to reply then block.

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By *ndy61hMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

I find that the other person appreciates the fact that you've made the effort to reply, even if it is a negative. That doesn't mean that it's set in stone that you should reply, it's an individual choice.

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By *issy SiMan
3 weeks ago

Horsham


"Nobody is owed a response. "

I am...

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By *usicmanxxxMan
3 weeks ago

WN8

I often send messages, complimenting them

On their profile and pics

Some reply some don’t

I find mainly tv/cd don’t reply

Some do

That’s life

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By *DAnnetteTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Enstone

If a guy has read my profile then I always reply. If not, then I hit delete.

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By *oodpeckerMan
3 weeks ago

Visiting


"Do you think it polite to reply to a message even if it’s a no thanks?"

Yes, but it doesn't necessarily follow that it's rude not to reply

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