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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " If you don't like it you are welcome to leave x. We are welcome here regardless of whether you get it or not. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. Most people like to think of this site as a safe place for gay/bi/bicurious. Not all guys who dress do so all the time and often also meet in male mode. If you open a profile and find that person likes to cross dress, move on, block and don’t bother messaging. It’s that simple. Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like. 🤔 Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? " Yes I know he was actually Austrian. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Because that’s what they like to do. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " They still have cocks if that what you’re looking for! | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. ... ... Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? " Wow! that escalated quickly: not being attracted to blokes in women's knickers equals hitler adjacent. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. ... ... Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? Wow! that escalated quickly: not being attracted to blokes in women's knickers equals hitler adjacent. Godwin's law kicked in early on this one | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. Most people like to think of this site as a safe place for gay/bi/bicurious. Not all guys who dress do so all the time and often also meet in male mode. If you open a profile and find that person likes to cross dress, move on, block and don’t bother messaging. It’s that simple. Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like. 🤔 Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? " "Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like." | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. Most people like to think of this site as a safe place for gay/bi/bicurious. Not all guys who dress do so all the time and often also meet in male mode. If you open a profile and find that person likes to cross dress, move on, block and don’t bother messaging. It’s that simple. Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like. 🤔 Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? "Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like." The question was placed with the emphasis on “guys” with a clear implication that the OP didn’t welcome cross dressers and the like. If this was not intended to oppress then why bother even asking the question? The fact that you refer to “the cross dressing crowd” is also quite telling. The “cross dressing crowd” you refer to don’t attempt to limit the participants on the site. What comes next? Maybe ostracise those who practice bareback sex, or Watersports, people with beards or hairy backs. You also obviously missed (or deliberately ignored) the last words of my post which were “Live and let live” | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. ... ... Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? Wow! that escalated quickly: not being attracted to blokes in women's knickers equals hitler adjacent. Not an escalation just an example of how small prejudices can balloon in a short time. If you don’t get the comparison try reading some books. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. ... ... Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? Wow! that escalated quickly: not being attracted to blokes in women's knickers equals hitler adjacent. and the insults keep coming, thick and fast. | |||
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"Well that escalated quickly. I’m still none the wiser. It fascinates me how a simple question can provoke so much talk of “oppression and rights”, I find that quite ironic. " You are none the wiser because it's not for you, it's that simple, it really isn't that deep. We are not all the same, we all like different things, we don't all dress the same or think the same, we are all individuals, we do not live in a 1984 style dystopia (yet) | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Each to there own If they are happy and enjoying life | |||
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"Well that escalated quickly. I’m still none the wiser. It fascinates me how a simple question can provoke so much talk of “oppression and rights”, I find that quite ironic. " What did you expect? Especially with so many crossdressers on here. They, and there admirers were bound to get very defensive. This question has been asked many times and got a similar response. Whilst I empathise with your view I also go by the old saying of live and let live. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. Most people like to think of this site as a safe place for gay/bi/bicurious. Not all guys who dress do so all the time and often also meet in male mode. If you open a profile and find that person likes to cross dress, move on, block and don’t bother messaging. It’s that simple. Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like. 🤔 Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? "Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like." Yikes, you also obviously missed (or deliberately ignored) that my (delberate) use of "crossdressing crowd" was qualified by "in this thread, so far"! I WAS NOT referring to crossdressers generally!! Rather, there seems to be a small, vocal minority in the forum who are all too prepared to 'jump down the throat' of anyone who doesn't share that fetish and join together, in a crowd to shut down any hint of disagreement/curiosity/lack of understanding… | |||
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"Well that escalated quickly. I’m still none the wiser. It fascinates me how a simple question can provoke so much talk of “oppression and rights”, I find that quite ironic. You are none the wiser because it's not for you, it's that simple, it really isn't that deep. We are not all the same, we all like different things, we don't all dress the same or think the same, we are all individuals, we do not live in a 1984 style dystopia (yet) "The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " For some , you may have answered your own question ,,"why do lads feel the need to dress up as women ?" ,,, *probably because they feel the need to* , probably because they enjoy doing so , for me personally I am a TV admirer so glad they feel at ease being on FAB , enjoy them if you like them pass onto the next fabber if you don't ,, the main thing for everyone on FAB is to enjoy it , | |||
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"I do think some of the above rather sums up the old adage that there is a difference between crossdressers and cross dressers. " Quite! 😤😁 | |||
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"I do think some of the above rather sums up the old adage that there is a difference between crossdressers and cross dressers. " I’ll never look feminine I just like wearing the tight stuff and being felt up while doing so 😂 | |||
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"IT doesn't bother me but I guess it would be useful to be able to filter photos out of "top photos" if you don't want to see them. That goes for other subjects as well." And apparently you can | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. Most people like to think of this site as a safe place for gay/bi/bicurious. Not all guys who dress do so all the time and often also meet in male mode. If you open a profile and find that person likes to cross dress, move on, block and don’t bother messaging. It’s that simple. Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like. 🤔 Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? "Ironic that some gay men try to suppress tendencies they don’t like." The use of “so far” does not negate your use of “the cross dressing crowd” (Which certainly implies all cross dressers). If you meant just a small element of cross dressers you could have said that but you referred to the entirety. Where is the evidence of cross dressers “jumping down the throat” of anyone? If you mean cross dressers defending their rights when questioned or attacked then say so. Defending their right to be on the site when this is questioned is most certainly not “jumping down the throat” | |||
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"I do think some of the above rather sums up the old adage that there is a difference between crossdressers and cross dressers. " Exactly. I can be a very cross dresser if I put my foot in the wrong hole in my trousers or fall over whilst putting my socks on | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Yes, most of them look shit doing it too. Far too many of them here. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups. ... ... Remember the days when homosexuality was illegal and people objected (and worse) to certain practices? Live and let live? Wow! that escalated quickly: not being attracted to blokes in women's knickers equals hitler adjacent. Apparently so! Very weird seeing to that conclusion I thought too. I cannot really see the connection myself. | |||
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"It’s a simple case of freedom to express one’s self in a way that makes the individual happy and comfortable. There are lots of reasons no one reason is more or less valid than another though. It’s a personal preference it’s not always don’t for the benefit of others though there are clearly men who find men dressed as women to be something they find exciting. We all have our likes and dislikes it’s what makes life interesting and sparks debate. But fabguys is a site for men who seek to connect with men whether straight, bi, gay or trans. I think the very notion of men’s & womens clothes exists is insane as we are basically the same apart from genitals. " It isnt the underwear or even clothes for me but the wigs and makeup. | |||
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"I'm not a fan either but I thought you could just filter TV/TS out when you search for people? " You can, but a lot of them label their profiles and pics as "Man" so the filter doesn't work for those. | |||
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"I do think some of the above rather sums up the old adage that there is a difference between crossdressers and cross dressers. Exactly. I can be a very cross dresser if I put my foot in the wrong hole in my trousers or fall over whilst putting my socks on I did once fall over my drum kit trying to put heels on 👀🤦🏻♂️ | |||
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"It’s a simple case of freedom to express one’s self in a way that makes the individual happy and comfortable. There are lots of reasons no one reason is more or less valid than another though. It’s a personal preference it’s not always don’t for the benefit of others though there are clearly men who find men dressed as women to be something they find exciting. We all have our likes and dislikes it’s what makes life interesting and sparks debate. But fabguys is a site for men who seek to connect with men whether straight, bi, gay or trans. I think the very notion of men’s & womens clothes exists is insane as we are basically the same apart from genitals. It isnt the underwear or even clothes for me but the wigs and makeup. " And that’s ok you are free to admire, appreciate or dislike subject to your ideals and perspectives | |||
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"I just block them if they message me. One of the problems is you can't block pictures. Would be much better if a block covered everything they post, including pictures and videos" I totally get it I’m the same with fat hairy lads, shame I can’t filter out the photos | |||
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"I'm not a fan either but I thought you could just filter TV/TS out when you search for people? You can, but a lot of them label their profiles and pics as "Man" so the filter doesn't work for those. " Maybe because they will meet in either mode. | |||
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"I'm not a fan either but I thought you could just filter TV/TS out when you search for people? You can, but a lot of them label their profiles and pics as "Man" so the filter doesn't work for those. Maybe because they will meet in either mode." Can they be trusted. | |||
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"I do think some of the above rather sums up the old adage that there is a difference between crossdressers and cross dressers. Exactly. I can be a very cross dresser if I put my foot in the wrong hole in my trousers or fall over whilst putting my socks on Ahhh, there opens the old question 'do you sit or do you stand'... personally I always sit whilst putting my socks on | |||
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"Don't mind the odd cross dresser it's the fanny licking daughter in law perving that I find off putting. " Yeah idk how I forgot about that. I once had a guy send me, unprompted, pics of his "wife and stepdaughter" naked. I can only thank God the daughter was of legal age. Still gross either way | |||
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"Don't mind the odd cross dresser it's the fanny licking daughter in law perving that I find off putting. " Some of those lads need their hard drives checked | |||
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"I'm not a fan either but I thought you could just filter TV/TS out when you search for people? You can, but a lot of them label their profiles and pics as "Man" so the filter doesn't work for those. " Another problem that has been discussed before. CD/TV/TS are lumped together yet are not the same thing. Greg the groundworker who likes to wear his wife's bra and knickers for a thrill and Brendan the brickie who calls himself Brenda in private all weekend and dresses as as a woman as an alter ego, are not the same thing. Also neither are transsexual as they are both happy to be men and are probably married and bi. When I was a picture mod on a now defunct site anyone wearing any type of female attire automatically got put under cd/tv/ts even though they categorised themselves as 'Man'. We gay men have nothing at all against cd/tv/ts but we would probably rather not look at pictures of them. The filtering system certainly needs updating. | |||
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" Also neither are transsexual as they are both happy to be men and are probably married and bi. " Sorry, that is not what a transexual is, a transexual is someone who identifies as a gender different to that assigned at birth, I think you mean transvestite. | |||
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" Also neither are transsexual as they are both happy to be men and are probably married and bi. Sorry, that is not what a transexual is, a transexual is someone who identifies as a gender different to that assigned at birth, I think you mean transvestite. " I thought that was what I was implying. CD/TV are not transsexual because they identify as men and have no intention of trying to change sex even if they doll themselves up in women's clothing, make-up etc as either a thrill or an alter ego. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups… Yikes, you also obviously missed (or deliberately ignored) that my (delberate) use of "crossdressing crowd" was qualified by "in this thread, so far"! I WAS NOT referring to crossdressers generally!! Rather, there seems to be a small, vocal minority in the forum who are all too prepared to 'jump down the throat' of anyone who doesn't share that fetish and join together, in a crowd to shut down any hint of disagreement/curiosity/lack of understanding… You seem to wilfully misconstrue things by selectively quoting, creating new meaning to fit into a victim mindset: your 'replies' are a confection spilling out from your own prejudices | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups… Yikes, you also obviously missed (or deliberately ignored) that my (delberate) use of "crossdressing crowd" was qualified by "in this thread, so far"! I WAS NOT referring to crossdressers generally!! Rather, there seems to be a small, vocal minority in the forum who are all too prepared to 'jump down the throat' of anyone who doesn't share that fetish and join together, in a crowd to shut down any hint of disagreement/curiosity/lack of understanding… The very first reply (from a TV) to this thread certainly has some "jumping down the throat" vibes. | |||
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"Some German bloke in 1933 tried to marginalise and oppress certain groups… Yikes, you also obviously missed (or deliberately ignored) that my (delberate) use of "crossdressing crowd" was qualified by "in this thread, so far"! I WAS NOT referring to crossdressers generally!! Rather, there seems to be a small, vocal minority in the forum who are all too prepared to 'jump down the throat' of anyone who doesn't share that fetish and join together, in a crowd to shut down any hint of disagreement/curiosity/lack of understanding… Unfortunately, I agree and I'm now thinking it's pointless trying to have an exchange where there is a minimal understanding, and major distortion of language! | |||
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"It's really simple. As I said in my initial post, we are welcome here regardless of you being into us or not. You can either quietly ignore us the same way I and other sensible users on this site treat any profile we aren't into, or you can whine in the forums and expect replies exactly like this. " Welcome, you say?: This U? - "If you don't like it you are welcome to leave" | |||
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" The very first reply (from a TV) to this thread certainly has some "jumping down the throat" vibes. And can you blame them? There are a few very vocal people on this forum that dislike TV/CD/TS and like to make it abundantly clear that they don't belong here. | |||
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"It's really simple. As I said in my initial post, we are welcome here regardless of you being into us or not. You can either quietly ignore us the same way I and other sensible users on this site treat any profile we aren't into, or you can whine in the forums and expect replies exactly like this. " I don’t think the OP really said anything about being welcome or unwelcome, just that he didn’t understand it. Instead of just saying that dressers are welcome so you can be here if you want, explain why you like to dress, how it makes you feel, and why you choose to do it. He may not agree still, but he may understand why a little better. | |||
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" The very first reply (from a TV) to this thread certainly has some "jumping down the throat" vibes. What type of user posted the "invitation to leave" ? | |||
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"It's really simple. As I said in my initial post, we are welcome here regardless of you being into us or not. You can either quietly ignore us the same way I and other sensible users on this site treat any profile we aren't into, or you can whine in the forums and expect replies exactly like this. Welcome, you say?: This U? - "If you don't like it you are welcome to leave" What is the problem? We all see users on the site we aren't into but most of us ignore them. Op has been here a while so it's not like they aren't aware this site welcomes TV/ts. If they showed genuine interest in learning why we dress I would happily give my own reasons but instead it's just another tedious 'why do people dress post'. Check ops post history, it's not the first time they have moaned in the forums about people who look like me. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Just scroll past the profiles then. Just like many will do to you because you live in Cyprus… | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. As we all are. However most of us have the sense not to go to the forums and bemoan things we aren't into or don't understand and instead we keep those opinions to ourselves. Op came here for discourse and got it. It's like a vegan going into a butchers and moaning that they don't like meat when there is a grocers next door. | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. Or is it like a vegan on a vegan site bemoaning all the pics and chat about meat. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " It feels sexy. It appeals to my dress sense. It allows my more soft dirty side to have a channel. Its fun. x | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. It’s more like a vegan on a vegan site asking why all the chat and pics of fake bacon and sausage. The opening question wasn’t really moaning, just that the OP didn’t get why. ‘Mountain’ in the reply above has answered perfectly. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Like many on here you just can’t understand why everyone doesn’t want exactly the same as you want. | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. This site isn't exclusively for vegans though so that argument doesn't work. If this was a site that excluded TV/TS and there were some of us in here you would have a point. | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. Fabvegans.com ...fun, free & fabulous for vegan guys. | |||
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"He is welcome to his opinions and his preferences. 👍 | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " That old chestnut again . This is just to get a reaction .youve been on here a year so you know what reaction this will provoke lol | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. That old chestnut again . This is just to get a reaction .youve been on here a year so you know what reaction this will provoke lol" Yes…it’s not even worth commenting on !!! | |||
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"You can't fuck a guy wearing knickers or tights. Not unless you rip them. I tried fucking a guy wearing panties once. I moved them aside, and slipped in. Rubbing on the panties mad me sore for a couple of days." You can pull thrm down or just remove them. It’s not rocket science as they say | |||
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"Still baffled but I now understand how unaccepting many of those that do are of any kind of question." No, not at all, it's you that's the problem. Even though people have answered your question you still come back with "I'm still Baffled" I'm beginning to think you are trolling. | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? " Put it this way. If a CD made a post deriding masculine men who wear jocks, harnesses or just present as naked hunks etc and called them a right turnoff, they would rightly be laughed off the forum. Maybe you haven't noticed but it's a thing that doesn't happen. | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? Put it this way. If a CD made a post deriding masculine men who wear jocks, harnesses or just present as naked hunks etc and called them a right turnoff, they would rightly be laughed off the forum. Maybe you haven't noticed but it's a thing that doesn't happen. " but they do - and it always gets brushed away- some of us on here like our men to be male “presenting” - if you’re allowed your fetish - we can have our flavour of man surely ? | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? " No one is saying that, we all have our preferences, the problem is there are some on here that don't just say they it's not for them, they make it abundantly clear how much they dislike TV/CD/TS, even saying they don't belong on this site. Saying you don't find men in women's clothes is one fine, bigotry aimed at that group is totally unacceptable. | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? Put it this way. If a CD made a post deriding masculine men who wear jocks, harnesses or just present as naked hunks etc and called them a right turnoff, they would rightly be laughed off the forum. Maybe you haven't noticed but it's a thing that doesn't happen. " ' Really? check out the 'What puts you off when browsing someones profile?' forum thread, it happens. | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? No one is saying that, we all have our preferences, the problem is there are some on here that don't just say they it's not for them, they make it abundantly clear how much they dislike TV/CD/TS, even saying they don't belong on this site. Saying you don't find men in women's clothes is one fine, bigotry aimed at that group is totally unacceptable." but they are saying we can’t have an opinion on it - shut down immediately- kinda proves the point | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Totally agree with you | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Totally agree with you " 👍 | |||
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"Maybe you haven't noticed but it's a thing that doesn't happen. but they do - and it always gets brushed away- some of us on here like our men to be male “presenting” - if you’re allowed your fetish - we can have our flavour of man surely ? " I can only speak for myself. I'm fine with people presenting however they like and totally get that many men have a strong preference for their own sort. I'm even attracted to some bears myself (generally the ones who express their opinions civilly and non-judgementally) and have had some decent conversations even if they wouldn't touch me with a bargepole | |||
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"Maybe you haven't noticed but it's a thing that doesn't happen. but they do - and it always gets brushed away- some of us on here like our men to be male “presenting” - if you’re allowed your fetish - we can have our flavour of man surely ? I can only speak for myself. I'm fine with people presenting however they like and totally get that many men have a strong preference for their own sort. I'm even attracted to some bears myself (generally the ones who express their opinions civilly and non-judgementally) and have had some decent conversations even if they wouldn't touch me with a bargepole & I can only speak for myself- such a relief | |||
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"Yes, I've been on this site since 2011, it's like Japanese Knot Weed, same as the Gay and Lesbian movement has been infiltrated and poisoned by the "T"s." What a charming metaphor. So that'd make you the Paraquat or whatever is used to eradicate the vermin? | |||
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"Still baffled despite the lack of empathy for my question. " Lots of bi guys on here, many of whom enjoy cross-dressing and many are happy to play with cross-dressers, they don't understand that gay guys don't find it appealing. Gay guys generally are looking for masculine presenting males, notice the large number of posts and profiles from cross dressers, many of whom are very active on the forums. Often feels tedious if you need to wade through them, or discussion of wives or female celebrities or female underwear, on what is ostensibly a gay hook-up site, to find guys or posts that are of interest. | |||
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"Yes, I've been on this site since 2011, it's like Japanese Knot Weed, same as the Gay and Lesbian movement has been infiltrated and poisoned by the "T"s." Infiltrated and poisoned are probably a bit strong. I'm not a fan, but surely we can all coexist on one site. A lot will feel more welcome and safer amongst guys who have sex with guys than they would on other sites. If you don't like, then just block, it really is that simple. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. If you don't like it you are welcome to leave x. We are welcome here regardless of whether you get it or not. " Totally agree with you on that | |||
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"Still baffled despite the lack of empathy for my question. " Why does anyone do anything? Go with the flow of so-called normality [the majority] then we would all be straight. Gay/bi wouldn't exist. Go back in time and it almost didn't because it was either illegal, never talked about and very difficult to find some to have man-to-man sex with. Wonder how many gays/bi's went to their graves without ever experiencing gay sex. Even go back 20/25 years there were gay/bi sites but crossdressing was severely frowned upon. I don't understand it and it certainly does not appeal to me in the slightest. I find it a total turn-off BUT I accept it exists and if it makes some people happy then fair enough. You could also say why are some blokes, like me, instantly drawn to over blokes in full leather motorbiking gear, hi-viz, uniforms, sporting gear etc. I can't explain it. I like to wear it myself as much as look longingly at other guys in such gear. All a matter of personal taste which no one can really explain. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " As the OP has been on here for a number of years and regulary contributes to forums, it is more than likely he is fully aware of the effect of what his question would do. There have been other heated threads in the past. He is probably just doing it to sow discontent. I belive you can get paid for such actions. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. " Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. If you don't like it you are welcome to leave x. We are welcome here regardless of whether you get it or not. " Totally agree with the above | |||
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"Still baffled despite the lack of empathy for my question. " Jesus christ yes I think everyone gets that your baffled after letting us know about 10 times! Likely Dosnt take a great deal to baffle you after the numerous explanations on why some guys like to wear woman's clothes. I'm baffled as to why your still fucking baffled! Do I need to draw you a picture?? | |||
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"Still baffled despite the lack of empathy for my question. Jesus christ yes I think everyone gets that your baffled after letting us know about 10 times! Likely Dosnt take a great deal to baffle you after the numerous explanations on why some guys like to wear woman's clothes. I'm baffled as to why your still fucking baffled! Do I need to draw you a picture?? " The guy is a troll, probably time to report. | |||
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"So we’re not allowed to say we don’t find men dressed as women unattractive now ? " Yes you can but the way he has said it ,hes questioning why t.girls are on the site ,not tgat he dislikes them . | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂" There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't." If you are not 100% fully hardcore masculine manly man, then I don't know what you're doing on this site for MEN | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't. If you are not 100% fully hardcore masculine manly man, then I don't know what you're doing on this site for MEN" Female to Male, they may well wish to be male (and good luck to them). But they are not male. However they all others on this site have every right to be on here. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't. If you are not 100% fully hardcore masculine manly man, then I don't know what you're doing on this site for MEN Female to Male, they may well wish to be male (and good luck to them). But they are not male. However they all others on this site have every right to be on here." I am taking the piss by the way... | |||
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"Cross-dressing is a very common fetish among the bisexuals and 'straight' guys. Shame, as it ruins a lot of otherwise sexy guys. Total boner killer. The site probably would be both popular and useful. But if you took all the ‘trannies’ off here and put them on to a separate site, would either of them be financially viable? So then instead of a decent site where the OP and his ‘sort’ could come and meet, and ‘trannies’ could do the same, there wouldn’t be a site for either, so we would all have to go to the swingers site where none of us would be happy. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't. If you are not 100% fully hardcore masculine manly man, then I don't know what you're doing on this site for MEN Female to Male, they may well wish to be male (and good luck to them). But they are not male. However they all others on this site have every right to be on here. I am taking the piss by the way..." If if I have missundetstood then I apologise. | |||
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"As this is Fab”guys”, why do lads feel the need to dress up as women? It baffles me. Honestly mate I have no idea either... Like, why don't they all just dress normally? This is a site for MEN!... Not some weirdo in knickers 😂 There are biological women on this site, do you object to them? As I don't. If you are not 100% fully hardcore masculine manly man, then I don't know what you're doing on this site for MEN Female to Male, they may well wish to be male (and good luck to them). But they are not male. However they all others on this site have every right to be on here. I am taking the piss by the way... If if I have missundetstood then I apologise." Don't worry yourself. It's hard to make sarcasm and humour come through via text... Or maybe I'm just not that funny 😂 | |||
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"I like cake 🍰" beefcake or flouncy lady-cake? | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. " the gaydacity! | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. " So how would you like help to succeed? | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. So how would you like help to succeed? " Maybe a session with O'Brien and a caged rat could persuade him to appreciate all the feminine loveliness. | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. " Why do you think some people choose to dress up as the opposite sex? You must have come to some conclusions regarding this... | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. Why do you think some people choose to dress up as the opposite sex? You must have come to some conclusions regarding this..." He's baffled! Didn't you know?! | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. " Hi, your new to the forum clique, where gave you been. Welcome | |||
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"I have now been called a troll and one poster has suggested that I be reported for my failure to understand whey men want to dress as women. Such a lovely open bunch. " Don’t take it to heart Lots of Prima Donnas on here. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Women are never aggressive 🤣 | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Women can often be aggressive but not a lady. The devil is in the detail. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike You'd be aggressive too if you had women's knickers squeezing your balls all day. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Ah typically the balls just plop out the side... It's still very annoying though 😂 | |||
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"Cross-dressing is a very common fetish among the bisexuals and 'straight' guys. Shame, as it ruins a lot of otherwise sexy guys. Total boner killer. There are plenty of gay guys that enjoy cross dressing too. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Does make one wonder: why you would do that? | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Fair enough. I mean there's no one here trying to act lady-like I guess... Did you think of an answer to my question? Why do you think some people choose to dress up as the opposite sex? | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Because knickers give me a stiffy that's why 🤣 | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Should have been here 10 hours ago, could have saved all the confusion and disagreement with your honesty. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike I never would have thought someone needed such a simple answer explained to them... But here we are 😂 | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike The gurls should make you their leader. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Perky can be my leader any day! ☺️.. Jus sayin | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike I would become d*unk with power... I would be a Tyrannical Tranny | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike Would there be a riding crop and nipple clamps. | |||
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"Why do a minority of lads who feel the need to dress up as women behave so aggressively? So unladylike I'm thinking more pink leather and crotchless underwear | |||
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"I do love that ragebait is universal" There's more wind ups here than a Swiss cuckoo clock factory. | |||
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"Who'd have thunk this would have been such ragebait?" Oh I think we all knew it would. Always happens when someone gets their nickers in a twist... 😉 | |||
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