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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown

Mate just told me he puts bi on his profile because more guys message him. Does anyone else do this? Until now I never thought it would make a difference. Are us bi guys more desirable?

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

Not in my book but then I'm gay. Maybe other bi guys see it differently

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By *ixer61Man
1 week ago

Aycliffe

I have bi on mine but truth is I'm probably gay, I just havn't bothered changing it

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By *imon_hydeMan
1 week ago

Stockport

Makes no difference to me on this site, we all like cock to some degree ')

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
1 week ago

Whitley Bay

I have actually found that being Bi puts more guys off.

There is an assumption that most Bi-Guys are in a relationship with a woman and are cheating on her.

There is also an assumption that if you are in a relationship with a woman you aren't taking care of your sexual health. Which puts guys off.

Personally I am in a non monogamous relationship, my wife knows I enjoy being fucked by men. I am tested every three months and have had all the vaccines on offer, I am on PrEP and Doxy PEP. I still find some guys are hesitant.

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By *excessMan
1 week ago

Sleaford

I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense.

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By *iBobOxonMan
1 week ago

Thame/Aylesbury


"I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense."

I love cock but don’t fancy men, why do you consider that to be nonsense ?

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By *poolBiTopMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

As with all these it's the personal preferences of the people involved. I've had no negativity about having bi on my profile nor have I had any saying they find it more desirable. I receive and respond to messages as one person to another having a polite, albeit sexually explicit for the majority, conversation.

Fabswingers on the other hand, I'd say I find more negative attitude.

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By *eefandfurMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Bi is probably better than Bi-curious.

Lot's of Bi-curious guys still have hang-ups about their sexuality, more likely to freak out and bale when it actually comes to a meet.

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"I have actually found that being Bi puts more guys off.

There is an assumption that most Bi-Guys are in a relationship with a woman and are cheating on her.

There is also an assumption that if you are in a relationship with a woman you aren't taking care of your sexual health. Which puts guys off.

Personally I am in a non monogamous relationship, my wife knows I enjoy being fucked by men. I am tested every three months and have had all the vaccines on offer, I am on PrEP and Doxy PEP. I still find some guys are hesitant. "

See my pal said the opposite. He reckoned bi guys liked it more as they perceived him to be more masculine. Also that he’d be more careful Because he may or may not be in a MF relationship. He said bi guys are perceived more manly and a lot of guys prefer this. I suppose it’s just down to interpretation and personal preference

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"Bi is probably better than Bi-curious.

Lot's of Bi-curious guys still have hang-ups about their sexuality, more likely to freak out and bale when it actually comes to a meet. "

Yeah never thought of it like that but it makes a lot of sense

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"As with all these it's the personal preferences of the people involved. I've had no negativity about having bi on my profile nor have I had any saying they find it more desirable. I receive and respond to messages as one person to another having a polite, albeit sexually explicit for the majority, conversation.

Fabswingers on the other hand, I'd say I find more negative attitude."

I could see why in swingers you’d come across that. Funny how people are so open minded they will have multiple sexual partners or orgies but sexuality or sexual preference bothers them. The mind boggles

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense."

Very interesting see my friend was saying kind of the same but in a bi context and the gay guys in the opposite role in terms of context. I love how we all form our opinions and stereotypes from our personal experience and how they shape us. I guess for me I just try to treat everyone on a person by person basis. I think that’s what made me post this. I didn’t really understand the logic in the way he approached his profile.

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"I have bi on mine but truth is I'm probably gay, I just havn't bothered changing it "

Fair enough lol 😝

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By *verageguy2 OP   Man
1 week ago

ferndown


"Makes no difference to me on this site, we all like cock to some degree ')"

lol 🥰

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense.

I love cock but don’t fancy men, why do you consider that to be nonsense ? "

It becomes a case of "I've cum, I need to go" almost every time. Often not worth the effort

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Try it. Doubt it makes any difference.

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By *anleybeatonMan
1 week ago

london

Bi guys are masculine

Bi guys who are camp are gay guys

I prefer bi guys for this reason

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
1 week ago

Didcot


"Bi guys are masculine

Bi guys who are camp are gay guys

I prefer bi guys for this reason "

Nonsense, there are very masculine gay guys and very effeminate bi guys, how someone present isn't always an indication of whether they gay or bi, most of the 'gurls' on here are bisexual, not gay and most gay men are not attracted to effeminate men.

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By *oxymusicMan
1 week ago

Cowbridge

I’d fuck anything

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By *i chanceMan
1 week ago

Durham

It makes a difference to some. I used to have a regular guy who was gay and he said he preferred bi guys because of the straight vibe we have.

On the other site, there’s plenty of gay guys who specifically ask for bi/straight.

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By *igerboyxxxMan
1 week ago

Welwyn

Married to a female - not interested!

"Discrete" i.e. cheating on your wife - not interested!

I will stick with real gay guys, thank you very much!

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Bi guys are masculine

Bi guys who are camp are gay guys

I prefer bi guys for this reason "

Do you not mingle much?

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
1 week ago

barton

I class myself as bi even though these days its men that I fancy

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By *ensualblokeMan
1 week ago

London /Colchester

Both are good, in my experience

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By *oose1Man
1 week ago

doncaster

I’m bi and have enjoyed pleasure with gay men

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By *nterestingtimes2Man
1 week ago

High Wycombe

Let’s be honest the site is very outdated and despite may suggestions rarely does anything happen

It would be so easy to update fields without a site rewrite and make life easier for everyone

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By *luteus maxMan
1 week ago

Waterlooville at night

Bi means 2, so it is indeterminate in the modern arena. Choose any two from bi hetero,auto, pan,poly and non binary. There are probably some others. So, in theory a homosexual guy who masturbates is bisexual.

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By *4BearsMan
1 week ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

Doing gay things with a bi guy is less gay

Internalised homophobia is real and current, especially in older generations

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By *luteus maxMan
1 week ago

Waterlooville at night

I don't know about homophobic but a lot of guys here seem to be gerontophobic

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By *rpheus69Man
1 week ago

Ebbw Vale


"I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense."

Couldn't agree more.

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By *rpheus69Man
1 week ago

Ebbw Vale


"Bi is probably better than Bi-curious.

Lot's of Bi-curious guys still have hang-ups about their sexuality, more likely to freak out and bale when it actually comes to a meet. "

Never had a bi curious guy turn up for a meet yet.

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By *inaCD66TV/TS
1 week ago

Wimbledon


"Let’s be honest the site is very outdated and despite may suggestions rarely does anything happen

It would be so easy to update fields without a site rewrite and make life easier for everyone "

Says he who isnt even a paying member. Tut !... its a great site.. and sister site.

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By *amoralbottomMan
1 week ago

Newport (Tonight)

No difference

If you are bisexual then you are bisexual

If you are gay then you are gay.

No one who has sucked a cock or had their cock sucked by another man is bicurious.

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By *ranform71Man
1 week ago

Hinckley

I’m a bisexual man with the wife’s permission to play my literal arse off. I love cock ann enjoy being fucked and doing the fucking. I like to be sucked to completion and I’ll do same. I’ll snog the face off a man. I’ve no shame about what and who I am. If I meet a worthy bi guy and he’s good at playing well. I’ll invite him to join with me and my mrs. Even gay guys are welcome.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"I’d fuck anything "

The only properly honest and non judgmental reply in the whole thread.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"Bi guys are masculine

Bi guys who are camp are gay guys

I prefer bi guys for this reason "

Well, if and when fantasy ever finally becomes a reality for you, I’m sure you will have the chance to calibrate your blithe assumptions.

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By *olfstarMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

How would you categorise essentially gay and in a long term MM relationship but have previously had sex with multiple women and wouldn’t necessarily rule out the possibility of having sex with a woman at some indeterminate time in the future? That’s why my profile says bi

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"… Even gay guys are welcome... "

*Even* gay guys… Goodness, we’re blessed.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"Bi means 2, so it is indeterminate in the modern arena. Choose any two from bi hetero,auto, pan,poly and non binary. There are probably some others. So, in theory a homosexual guy who masturbates is bisexual."

I think you need to see a philologist. Or a doctor.

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By *ighway expressMan
1 week ago

Campbeltown

Bi or gay ....makes no difference to me. Played with plenty of both over the years , as long as it's fun, who cares ....

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

aylestone leic

I'm bi on swingers it's a good way to get chatting to married men.

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By *imonJohnsonMan
1 week ago

Worthing

I'm bi amd im extremely desirable!!! (Well maybe mot really 😆)

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By *anDadBodMan
1 week ago

Speke

i’ve always had bi on my profiles so couldn’t really say either way 🤷‍♂️

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By *atty70Man
1 week ago

port erin

I prefer Bi guys, there is something deeply sexy about knowing a guy has sneaked away from his wife/gf to fuck me. I like being a guys dirty secret.

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By *ornyKent48Man
1 week ago

kentTown

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By *ornyKent48Man
1 week ago

kentTown


"Married to a female - not interested!

"Discrete" i.e. cheating on your wife - not interested!

I will stick with real gay guys, thank you very much!"

Yeah I’m the the same with judgmental gingers who still live with mummy.

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By *977mkMan
1 week ago

Lancs

I’m bi and have bi on my profile and I’ve met more gay men on here than bi. I’m not fussed either way, we’re all here for cock.

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By *eam Bi MatureMan
1 week ago

Leamington

I just wish people could look past this; I mean does it really matter given that we’re here for the same thing?

One of the joys of sauna meets is just that. No one walks around with a label on their forehead.

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By *0thirtyMan
1 week ago

Redhill

That’s exactly why going to a sauna is so much better than sitting on here clicking clicking all day / you’re really guaranteed a result at a sauna .

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
1 week ago

Didcot


"That’s exactly why going to a sauna is so much better than sitting on here clicking clicking all day / you’re really guaranteed a result at a sauna ."

Yeah, if you can't pull at a sauna there really is no hope

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By *wanseajack2014Man
1 week ago

Neath


"I prefer gay men because they're easier to meet, can often accommodate, generally less drama and more likely to not view me as a cock with legs and like intimacy.

Too many bi guys are of the love cock don't fancy men attitude, and I've no interest in that nonsense."

Very true. The best meets I have had are with gay men. The intermucey I find is better.most bi guys don't kiss where I love kissing during playing. The sex has generally been better with guy men.

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By *ibeariusMan
1 week ago

Greenock

Lots of men are married to women so really are bi

Bi curious with lots of male verification is silly

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By *eversayNever200Man
1 week ago

Kendal

😂😂😂😂

I’m still amazed that some people see it like that!

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