FabGuys.com forum: Who likes expression "bumming"

By *uvcok400 OP Man
6 days ago

Caerphilly county

Such an evocative phrase ,reminiscent of a time when Summers were long and hot and the only shade was the park toilets or woods xx

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Quite like the expression.

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By *om51Man
6 days ago

edinburgh

Something that apparently happened pre 1960s or else as part of jolly japes among public school chaps. A bit like fagging…

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By *hubbyman10Man
6 days ago

Bloxwich

The term bumming takes me back to my youth

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By *ayPonty1Man
6 days ago

Pontypridd

Its an old saying! Nothing offensive about it though, its very....British I think

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By *uck my bumMan
6 days ago

walsall

I love being bummed lol

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By *avid1066Man
6 days ago

Birkenhead

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By *ornybisubslutMan
6 days ago

Coventry

I haven’t hard that phrase since school lol

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By *osie888Man
6 days ago

Bathgate

love it do like my bum being handled

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
6 days ago

Didcot

I was always bumming fags

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By *hubbyGayTraffordMan
6 days ago

Stretford

I like the expression

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By *arcus BezzantMan
6 days ago

North Ayrshire

Yes, I like it.

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By *excessMan
6 days ago

Sleaford

When I was 12 maybe!

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By *dstefiMan
6 days ago

Solihull

I absolutely Love a Bummer in the Summer, especially a Heavy Cummer

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By *amie1402Man
6 days ago

Liverpool

And we also bad the term bum boy for those we now call bottoms on here

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By *ubtitsMan
6 days ago

hyde

Yes love it

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By *eefandfurMan
6 days ago

Edinburgh

Yes, it sounds nice and fun. Neither pornographic nor medical.

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By *0yguyMan
6 days ago

Cumbria

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By *ampell1Man
6 days ago

Liverpool

Heard it when younger by old,guys didn't really like it but did.

In after a while

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By *airyDivDadMan
6 days ago

Whiston

"When I was 12 maybe!"

Yeah - that's what I associate it with too, when it was almost universally used disparagingly. Whilst I've warmed to other words that were used in the same way back then - like queer, for example - bumming/bummer just sounds too twee now. I can't remember when I last used the word bum with an adult, so it almost follows I wouldn't use bumming/bummer.

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By *rum39Man
6 days ago

Birmingham

I like it

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By *eedsguyforfunMan
6 days ago

Leeds

Love it. My gay mates and I use it all the time…”getting bummed this weekend then?”

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By *k_bi_bikerMan
6 days ago

CHATTERIS

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By *eardedbiblokeMan
6 days ago

scunthorpe

I rember fondlyolder guys asking if they could bum me mm happy days

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By *lueEyesKinksterMan
6 days ago

Cheltenham

Yes, love it. The thought of being called a “bummer”. Oh er missus.

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By *ollyMan
6 days ago

Downham market

I love being bummed

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By *odge66Man
6 days ago

rotherham

I like the expression, I've never been bummed though

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By *reddie12345Man
5 days ago

Bridgend

Do you want to be bummed? That's the question that turned my onto cock, so of course I like the word

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By *rownriverMan
5 days ago

Crawley

The old term bum boy was used a lot years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
5 days ago

Love a guy saying I’m wanting to bum you

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 days ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Some expressions are so childish it sounds absurd when an adult says it. This is one.

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By *rownriverMan
5 days ago

Crawley

"Some expressions are so childish it sounds absurd when an adult says it. This is one."

Fortunately words and sayings have changed over time

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By *ardforall56Man
5 days ago

belfast

I remember in my youth the 60s been called a bum boy and loved it

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By *ordladMan
5 days ago

Wrexham

Oh not been bummed in ages

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By *uriousAgain71Man
5 days ago

Nuneaton

I love hearing the old fashioned 'B' words the old men used to use. Takes me back to some fond memories.

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By *ampell1Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

Yes was called bum boy

When going to the toilets

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By *astenotimeMan
5 days ago

Gedling

Never used it

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By *ennthebigMan
5 days ago

Erdington

I’d love someone to tell me they’re going to bum me

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By *ediumsized2Man
5 days ago

furze platt

i prefer being sodomized or buggered

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By *itherMan
5 days ago

Leeds

Bumming, It's a happy expression. Let's have a good bum session. ♥️

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By *ice Guy 46Man
5 days ago

leicestershire

Traditional English word and I don’t mind it gets to the point rather than anything else.

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By *upertedMan
5 days ago

Nelson

For many I think it's kinda like a term of endearment.

I'm single atm, but when I was in a long term relationship term term was used for sex. Arse is arse but sometimes its a bit of a harsh word. My partner would just nibble my ear lobe and ask me if I was up for a bumming and I'd be straight in the shower 🚿

He did nightshift sometimes too, home at 7am. I'd often wake up at 6am to an SMS stating he wanted to bum me.

Just a nice word.

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By *etmepants offMan
5 days ago

dartford

I like being bummed

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By *ubmanpaulMan
5 days ago

near ripon

Yes I love being bummed

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By *aul349Man
5 days ago

North of the Tyne

"I was always bumming fags"

Lovely turn of phrase.

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By *eter169Man
5 days ago

stoke

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By *eter169Man
5 days ago

stoke

Only been bummed twice.

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By *adlad95Man
5 days ago

Evesham

I love it..

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By *9CumLover69Man
2 days ago

Cotswold

I love it and I love being bummed

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By *enry77Man
2 days ago

North Ayrshire

My very first experience of cock was with my mate. When his parents were at work i went to his house and we took it in turns to try bumming each other.

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