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By *wej1 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Grantham

Anything you like from a book,to advice,an activity...anything u want

Grey trackies in the sun is mine to start

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I can recommend getting an allotment and just digging and planting soooooo relaxing xx

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By *eepeter4Man
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"I can recommend getting an allotment and just digging and planting soooooo relaxing xx "
I second that growing you own Vegetables .I am going to sterm on the quay in Poole (mini steam traction engines) then the bus over to Swanage via Wareham then back to Bournemouth on the famous open top bus (50) via Studland.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Ive recently taken up painting

Go out in the countryside set up my paints and easel just love it on my own a packed lunch. And sit there in my own little bubble lol xx

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
3 weeks ago

North East

Go for a walk listen to the birds enjoy nature

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
3 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

I can recommend flotation tanks. I have ADHD and am absolutely awful at just being still but my other half booked me into a flotation tank experience, I wondered what I had done to upset her this time. I was walked the rough the process, I had to strip and have a shower then climb into the tank and shut the lid. Once lying in the tank the lights would stay on for a few minutes with gentle music playing and then the lights would dim and the music would fade then I would be left floating in the dark in silence and a few minutes before my 45 mins were up the music would fade up and then the lights would come up. I thought yeah right, I will be out of that thing well before the lights come back on. So I followed the instructions and was soon floating in the dark feeling oddly relaxed and calm. What felt like 10 mins later the music started playing and the lights faded up. I was convinced I hadn’t been in there any more than 15 mins max but when I showered to was the salt off and retrieved my phone from the locker I had been in there almost 50 mins. I don’t know if I had fallen asleep floating on the water or what but I was feeling very chilled. I will be going back again. Small note, definitely don’t shave anywhere before you go 😱🤣

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By *eepeter4Man
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"Ive recently taken up painting

Go out in the countryside set up my paints and easel just love it on my own a packed lunch. And sit there in my own little bubble lol xx "
you have got me singing that famous Brian and Michael song from the 70s now .

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By *issy OliveTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Corby ish

"I can recommend flotation tanks. I have ADHD and am absolutely awful at just being still but my other half booked me into a flotation tank experience, I wondered what I had done to upset her this time. I was walked the rough the process, I had to strip and have a shower then climb into the tank and shut the lid. Once lying in the tank the lights would stay on for a few minutes with gentle music playing and then the lights would dim and the music would fade then I would be left floating in the dark in silence and a few minutes before my 45 mins were up the music would fade up and then the lights would come up. I thought yeah right, I will be out of that thing well before the lights come back on. So I followed the instructions and was soon floating in the dark feeling oddly relaxed and calm. What felt like 10 mins later the music started playing and the lights faded up. I was convinced I hadn’t been in there any more than 15 mins max but when I showered to was the salt off and retrieved my phone from the locker I had been in there almost 50 mins. I don’t know if I had fallen asleep floating on the water or what but I was feeling very chilled. I will be going back again. Small note, definitely don’t shave anywhere before you go 😱🤣"

I have done this and I couldn't relax at all that 45 mins was like hell for me!! Glad it worked for you!

I recommend a good book (malazan book of the fallen) and some background metal !!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"Ive recently taken up painting

Go out in the countryside set up my paints and easel just love it on my own a packed lunch. And sit there in my own little bubble lol xx you have got me singing that famous Brian and Michael song from the 70s now ."
matchstalk men and matchstick cats and dogs lol hello peeps xx

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Go got a walk, stop, watch nature.

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By *eepeter4Man
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

"Ive recently taken up painting

Go out in the countryside set up my paints and easel just love it on my own a packed lunch. And sit there in my own little bubble lol xx you have got me singing that famous Brian and Michael song from the 70s now .matchstalk men and matchstick cats and dogs lol hello peeps xx "
yes you right my fav artist LS Lowry and my favourite portrait of all time the portrait of Ann

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By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

I would recommend buding a cheap camping hammock, going for a walk somewhere bright and sunny with trees, and just putting it up for 10 minutes, lying back and watching the trees above sway in the wind with a clear blue sky behind them.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Plus you get a shed in case you want to plant a cock somewhere x

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Lying in the park in the sun doing nothing

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"I would recommend buding a cheap camping hammock, going for a walk somewhere bright and sunny with trees, and just putting it up for 10 minutes, lying back and watching the trees above sway in the wind with a clear blue sky behind them."
nice one I'm going to try that asap xx

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

Last Saturday when not a cloud in sky I sat in garden in my pants soaking up the sun.

A bit dark and chilly where I am today, but I've cracked open a bottle of red 🍷, country choons on the radio, and I've emptied 3266 pieces of lego over my dining room table and I'm constructing Tudor Corner.

🍻 ⏰️ 🧱

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By *ohnbi1965Man
3 weeks ago

Aberfeldy

I recommend anyone visiting near me cum experience my oral skills and maybe more

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I can recommend setting your alarm an hour earlier than you usually would, waking up and doing your usual coffee/tea/morning ablutions etc and then...

Going back to sleep for another half hour or so, a catnap. Ready for work but just allowing your mind that one more chance to unravel and wander in semi-dream state. Ignore that you're going to have to go to work shortly and practice mindful unconsciousness.

I do this every morning and it's amazing how much of a conscious and awake and aware yet dreamlike state I can get into and feel my mind disintegrating before I have to resume full awareness and get on with the day like an adult. Especially now the mornings are getting brighter and I can feel dawn and the lightening beyond my eyelids. It feels like waking up properly if that makes any sense. I hate being rushed and dominated by the tyranny of the alarm. Allowing myself that extra half hour of sleep feels like a luxury that's a massive boon to sanity throughout the day.

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By *otterMan
3 weeks ago

Ellon

This. Definitely. So relaxing

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By *unginhoveMan
3 weeks ago

Kingston

Book: the Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

Piece of music to just switch off to for 15 minutes: The Lark Ascending by Ralph Vaughan Williams

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By *wej1 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Grantham

Rose prosecco

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By *0yguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

I recommend a bbq with a few friends on Bank Holiday Monday - it’s traditional.

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Book: sci-fi.

Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky. If you're a hard sci-fi fan this will be right up your street. I won't give spoilers but it's brilliantly written and brilliantly imaginative.

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By *aynie-MarieTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Reigate

I can recommend listening to some of the stories of Americans posting dumb shit on the Tube of You whilst walking the dog. Some really dumb ones on there. Makes me wonder if education is illegal sometimes 🤣

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By *hyna HutchMan
3 weeks ago

valleys

I think that's what the Japanese call forest bathing.

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By *55 ManMan
3 weeks ago

Roscommon

Supporting your local, independent businesses; shops, cafes, bakeries, butchers, breweries et al. The multiples and multinationals have had enough of your hard earned already, spend it where it's going right back into your community, not into some remote shareholders dividend cheque.

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By *utcock61Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Listen to music you love.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedford

Stepping out of your comfort zone, And taking a walk on the wild side. XX

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By *eardedfella76Man
2 weeks ago

London Essex

Masturbating a lot of it’s good for you

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Sadly, I can't paint a shed door without making a mess so art is out for me

My head is all over the place and I try to do too many things at once... we Geminis never switch off

Swimming is relaxing if there aren't too many shouty people or marathon men/women in the pool, and I like a bit of gardening/pottering about

After a bout of depression years back, I can no longer sit happily with a book, and newspapers are miserable but I enjoy some cookery

Please don't laugh, but I can spend a happy hour doing cross stitch in the evening . I never do anything with the end product, just start the next... it beats chain smoking or watching crap TV

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East

Checking in on someone you know just to make sure they are well and you are thinking of them

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By *ustinabitMan
2 weeks ago

dromahane

A surprising range of advice.

A nice read first thing in the morning and thanks to all the contributors.

I'm replying wile listening to the birds and having a cuppa.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Seaton

Live it as if it’s your last …

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By *lawioMan
2 weeks ago

Caernarfon

Go on holiday as much as you can this world is big lol

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By *aucey04TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bletchingley

For me it would be slipping into my lingerie and taking a walk into the countryside to find a discrete spot where I could discard my top clothes and lay in the sun in just a little thong

or better still completely naked

In the hope of 'scoring' a lovely precum dribblin cock

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Drinking tea

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By *enri du lacMan
2 weeks ago

Coventry

... buying shares/funds/bonds that pay good dividends/interest - at least 5%.

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By *elen_BellsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

somewhere in Sussex

Slipping under the duvet and sucking my husband off until he gives me my morning protein

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By *ndyfy7Man
2 weeks ago

Fleetwood

TM twice a day first meditation is before 8.30 and the second about six in the evening

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

A mug of Fortnum & Mason’s Smoky Earl Grey and some outstanding paperwork.

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By *onville BromheadMan
2 weeks ago

Upholland

Dusted off my camera and long lenses to go out photographing the birds and other wildlife

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Out in a classic car or modern classic

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By *oungWantedMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle - Throckley

Play the guitar

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Berkshire

Definitely a few Madri’s in town 🍻

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By *tar33Man
2 weeks ago

North London (outer)

If you're over 50, I would recommend taking up Walking Football.

There are clubs everywhere these days, it's great exercise and can often have a good social side as well. Matches are usually mixed abilities, and there are plenty of opportunities to play in tournaments or leagues against other teams.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedford

Have a nice breakfast one that makes you feel good xx

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By *etterbiggerMan
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Highly recommended. I used to lay in a hammock look up through the green leaves at the blue sky. Listen to the birds while the hammock moved slightly in the breeze and just drift away into myself. We had to cut the trees down they were old and diseased. I hadn't thought of going out and finding a suitable place. Thank you

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By *tar33Man
2 weeks ago

North London (outer)

"Have a nice breakfast one that makes you feel good xx "

I've been in North Africa for the last 17 days. I have a nice breakfast every day, this morning it was a falafel wrap, but I'm really yearning for bacon and decent pork sausages.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stevenage

Fresh air

say hello to someone

Practice something

Learn something

Remind yourself that finance or circumstance or loss aside

You have done something to make yourself and your situation better

Personally I'm practicing for an interview, making soup and probably watching an episode of something on netflix!

(Bonuses point for side quests all the way!)

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