FabGuys.com forum: gay sauna

By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

often think this would be a good place to meet like minded blokes but worried I would get hit on uncomfortably so never been

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

although condoms would mitigate, still blokes/ couples who want to share cum..

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Wouldn't you want to get hit on?

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By *op07041952Man
3 weeks ago

birmingham

"Wouldn't you want to get hit on?

Would definitely hit on you

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I've followed a few threads on here and if I was brave enough to go I would be very disappointed if nobody hit on me

would just be really shy!

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"often think this would be a good place to meet like minded blokes but worried I would get hit on uncomfortably so never been"

People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna.

The End.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

more about being "hit on" in a nice, feels comfy way

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By *ock006Man
3 weeks ago

near okehampton

Oh yes off to steamers on Saturday

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"often think this would be a good place to meet like minded blokes but worried I would get hit on uncomfortably so never been

People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna.

The End.

Not the end, people go to sauna's and have the right to be respected and treated nicely. They always have the right to their own wants and needs and should never pander to anybody else's wants. People do not always go to sauna's in order to be "hit on" some people go just to see and be with people in a relaxed, non threatening enviroment

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

You've nothing to feel shy about.

Saunas are pretty easy you places in my experiences

Just rock up, take your clothes off, wrap a towel around your waist, grab a drink, say hi to the guy next to you... Maybe get a blow job

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm very inexperienced..

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"I'm very inexperienced.."

Things will only go as far as you want them to

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I agree, just worry about blokes who won't take no for an answer but a firm o should suffice!

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

a firm no will suffice x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I've never encountered a bloke at a sauna that didn't understand the word no...

Everyone is usually quite polite.

Other people might have different experiences

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

good to hear X never been X

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By *rum39Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I’ve been to a couple and I can honestly say that everyone I’ve come across has been nice and respectful

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

never been but hopefully blokes'd be nice to each other and respect each other's boundaries..

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By *ocktosuckMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I went to one for the first time and a guy tapped my foot in the Jacuzzi which I naively didn’t respond to as I didn’t realise he was interested in me. He then came up to me and apologised if he offended me. I then realised what he was doing and said I am not at all offended and mentioned it was my first time. We then chatted and ended up in a booth and gave me a blow job. People there are very polite in my opinion and act very respectfully towards each other. A great place to visit based on my limited experience.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I went to one for the first time and a guy tapped my foot in the Jacuzzi which I naively didn’t respond to as I didn’t realise he was interested in me. He then came up to me and apologised if he offended me. I then realised what he was doing and said I am not at all offended and mentioned it was my first time. We then chatted and ended up in a booth and gave me a blow job. People there are very polite in my opinion and act very respectfully towards each other. A great place to visit based on my limited experience. "
sounds lovely X

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I had a fantasy / dream like this last night

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By *tar33Man
3 weeks ago

North London (outer)

I reckon the OP is talking bollocks here. I don't know where in Cheshire he's from but he can't be far from Northwich, which has a well regarded sauna and is bang in the middle of the county.

If he's really interested in easy fun with other guys it doesn't take much to man up and walk through the door, there's stacks of advice on here about what to expect and how to behave.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"I'm very inexperienced.."
just go and look around .Most saunas have a bar cafe where you can chill have some lunch a coffee and actually just have a sauna. Once you've got the gist of how it all works you will be absolutely fine. Ive been using them for years never had any bother. Xx

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By *uck my bumMan
3 weeks ago

walsall

I just go to my local greenhouse and parade around for a while then find a room door open ass on show and see what happens most times it only takes a short while before I’m getting my ass pounded

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By *otonFellaMan
3 weeks ago

Eastleigh

"a firm no will suffice x"

Be polite too as that will likely go further to them getting the message. A "no thank you" usually works fine.

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By *lonzo MoselyMan
3 weeks ago

Houghton

"I just go to my local greenhouse and parade around for a while then find a room door open ass on show and see what happens most times it only takes a short while before I’m getting my ass pounded "

The power of advertising!

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By *ollo007Man
3 weeks ago

Pontefract

I've yet to visit one and I realize that they have a strict no means no rule but I have also read that there's usually little talking and more signals. Like the guy earlier mentioned touching his foot. The thing is I know for a fact that I will be walking around with a raging hard on in my towel purely at the thought of being in a place that you only visit for sex with men haha!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"I'm very inexperienced.."

Consent is key, no one will push you into stuff you are not comfortable with, a polite no is all it takes, also you can go and just watch, people do that and maybe join in as you get more confidence, that said, you'll be fine, there really isn't anything to be nervous about.

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By *PH1956Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester

Would luv to experience a gay sauna sometime.

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By *urreyWant2SuckMan
3 weeks ago

Haslemere

As I’ve not been to one myself yet, I have often wondered if - as someone trying a sauna out - if just watching is ok; I had somehow thought it would be frowned upon

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
3 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

"As I’ve not been to one myself yet, I have often wondered if - as someone trying a sauna out - if just watching is ok; I had somehow thought it would be frowned upon "

Just watching is totally fine, but most people who go along saying they are just going to watch very quickly end up joining in

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
3 weeks ago

Didcot

"As I’ve not been to one myself yet, I have often wondered if - as someone trying a sauna out - if just watching is ok; I had somehow thought it would be frowned upon "

some people go just to watch, no one will judge

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By *urreyWant2SuckMan
3 weeks ago

Haslemere

"As I’ve not been to one myself yet, I have often wondered if - as someone trying a sauna out - if just watching is ok; I had somehow thought it would be frowned upon

some people go just to watch, no one will judge"

Thanks - that’s good to know, may make my first time less nerve wracking

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By *0yguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cumbria

Not really sure what you mean by “ hit on uncomfortably”. If you mean guys propositioning you, then you can just say “no thanks”. If you experience anything “uncomfortable” just remember that “no” means “no”. Simple.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

fair enough, I'm bad enough with chuggers trying to sell me broadband when I go to town!

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By *ayrubberloverMan
3 weeks ago

wisbech

Have been to gay saunas several times and love every minute I'm in them. Love the dark rooms .so horny mmmmmmmmmmm

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By *ornydad1Man
3 weeks ago

Horncastle

yummy

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By *arlos 0511Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

I went to sauna in Northwich a few months ago for the first time. Sitting bricks before I went in but 5 mins in , it was great. Guy stroked my cock in the steam room and I asked him to show me around. Ended up sucking each other off. Sucked 4 other guys and just b4 I left I got drained. I only went to watch for the first time. Saunas are great and you don't have to do anything you don't want to 😈

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By *urreyWant2SuckMan
3 weeks ago

Haslemere

This could be the encouragement I need to finally get myself into one

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By *arlos 0511Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"This could be the encouragement I need to finally get myself into one"

" the hardest thing the first time is getting through the front door. I sat in the car for half an hour before I went in. My urges superceded the fear lol. Going for my second visit next week. Just do it Sussex "

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By *punk loverMan
3 weeks ago

Dunstable

Go for it ….you only live once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to go again

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

"I agree, just worry about blokes who won't take no for an answer but a firm o should suffice!"

That doesn't really happen, there are rules in saunas so if this happens you'd report the offender and they'd get kicked out, also most people want mutual consent otherwise it's going down a sinister route. Just because people go to a sauna doesn't mean the expectation of consent is diminished

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I know most people aren't like this, but, earlier in the thread somebody posted..

"People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna."

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"I know most people aren't like this, but, earlier in the thread somebody posted..

"People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna."

What do you actually want to happen at the sauna?

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm pretty sure he didn't mean it to come across like this, wish people would be more mindful X

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By *obby_000Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

I like the idea of being g hot on, but guys being respectfull if I'm shy. Thanks guys. You've been a reassurance

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By *ridayguy OP Man
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

"often think this would be a good place to meet like minded blokes but worried I would get hit on uncomfortably so never been

People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna.

The End.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

Never been to one and honestly not really that interested. But then again I never thought I'd be interested in cock and here I am. So who knows lol.

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By *appylondonMan
3 weeks ago

West London

"This could be the encouragement I need to finally get myself into one

the hardest thing the first time is getting through the front door. I sat in the car for half an hour before I went in. My urges superceded the fear lol. Going for my second visit next week. Just do it Sussex "

I think everyone goes through that on their first visit. I certainly did, but within a few minutes of going through the door I was in my element and loving it.

I’ve lost count of my sauna visits (dozens and dozens), but I’ve only ever had 1 guy bother me after I said no the first time, he eventually gave up.

Chaps are there for sex, and a soak in a jacuzzi, but mainly for sex. Except for that one time, everyone has been perfectly lovely.

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I posted, "often think this would be a good place to meet like minded blokes but worried I would get hit on uncomfortably so never been.

a user posted

People go to saunas IN ORDER TO be hit on. If being hit on could or would make you uncomfortable, DON’T go to a sauna.

The End.

My response,

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I'm pretty sure he didn't mean it to come across like this, wish people would be more mindful X

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By *illiam martinMan
2 weeks ago

Fermanagh Enniskillen

Been to a good few saunas, Bristol and bath a few years ago. Loved sucking with guys watching. In the glory hole cubicles I would open the door so people could watch. Never had a problem.

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By *wadbisexualMan
2 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

I've been interested in a gay sauna for 2 decades.. never been because I'm scared.. I'm not sure if I'm scared of rejection.. nothing happening, or scared that shit does happen & it's good & i like it & it begins to dominate my life...

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

more fab guys than knobheads out there X

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By *iLee321Man
2 weeks ago

Carterton

Love visiting my sauna. Always end up leaving sticky and full.

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By *ames 1984Man
2 weeks ago

Langbank

Been to northwich about twice in last few years expected more to happen maybe just went on wrong days or maybe its me xx

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By *ridayguy OP Man
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

must have been eyes closed day fella, you look nice X

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