FabGuys.com forum: Advice to Younger Self

By *ugged Northerner OP Man
3 weeks ago

North East

What Advice would you give to your younger self?

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Herefordshire

Avoid the carbs.

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

"Avoid the carbs. "

That would be bad advice if you are even moderately active!

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By *hayg1Man
3 weeks ago

navan

Discover cock before ur 40

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By *eorgesdadMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

Admit to yourself that you are gay and have sex with males

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By *astguy7Man
3 weeks ago

Herefordshire

"Avoid the carbs.

That would be bad advice if you are even moderately active!"

I'm not. That's why!

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Berkshire

Listened to my parents and purchased my nans old gaff in Shoreditch but no I knew best 😩

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By *dstefiMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Don't be so shy. Confidence is attractive.

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By *MB9Man
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Don't marry that psycho!

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By *rowserMan
3 weeks ago

East Kent

Drop pushy deadbeats and bores sooner, they'll only drag you down.

Pay more attention to attractive guys who were letting you know they were interested, you could have had more fun.

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By *punk loverMan
3 weeks ago

Dunstable

"Discover cock before ur 40"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Get more cock it’s more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Be brave, be strong have the courage of your convictions

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By *ibuddy200Man
3 weeks ago

leominster

"Avoid the carbs. "

This x2 brilliant...also have more confidence and take opportunities while you can they won't present so much when you get older.

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By *astenotimeMan
3 weeks ago

Gedling

Taken up the offer of being a porn star.

Not thumping the manager of a department for sacking me for being gay in the 70s at Selfridges.

Now gay qualifies you a job there. Lol lol

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By *hilmeMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Just go for it 😁

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By *lan82Man
3 weeks ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

Hmm.. maybe do better in school.. so you wouldn’t be stuck in a DEAD END JOB FOR TWENTY + YEARS..

maybe learn to drive..

Take more of an interest in physical education.. and keep up that interest ..

Don’t waste precious time telling at least four girls you liked them.. when they didn’t like you back

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By *ugged Northerner OP Man
3 weeks ago

North East

"Be brave, be strong have the courage of your convictions

Love this 👌

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By *oundmyarse1970Man
3 weeks ago

South norwood

Take as much over 65 yo cock as you can while you a slutty teen

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By *om Tom ABC99Man
3 weeks ago

Murcia., Spain.

Don't hold back.

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By *zaxzCouple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bolsover

End it all

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By *urphys LawMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

Don't worry.... You'll be fine!

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By *aciallover5Man
3 weeks ago

wrexham

I would have gone on more gay holidays and been outrageously promiscuous. O would have put a bit of effort in work as my. Bossesdid less work than anyone More talking to friends family to make th feel loved. And fucked a lots more women who looking back wanted a good fucking

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By *ilke500Man
3 weeks ago

edinburgh

Don’t stress about stuff….everyone else is thinking the same they just hide it better than you….

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By *L72Man
3 weeks ago

bridgend

"Admit to yourself that you are gay and have sex with males "

Good advice

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By *ittlefishMan
3 weeks ago

S Yorks

It is what it is. It wasn’t your fault. You’ll get through this.

And come out about your sexuality

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By *rackie bulge loverMan
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

Would 100% be to stop resisting and try guys sooner. I was a late starter not having my first experience with cock till I was 29. I swore that day I’d never do it again. Yeah that didn’t work

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By *elly_leKTV/TS
3 weeks ago

corby

Embrace my feminity and desire to dress much earlier and more fully. But, even if I had, the world was a lot harder for my kind before the Internet.

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By *airythighs61Man
3 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Don't take life so seriously....

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By *bbillMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Come out

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By *ckermanMan
3 weeks ago

worcester

Relax, just go with it.

On the whole i dont regret decisions, every decision is by definition the best one that you at that moment can make given your unique personality and the information available at the time. I did however have the chance to go much further with a friend several times in my mid 20's and didn't take it then, i do rather wish i had sometimes

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By *ickwayverMan
3 weeks ago

sw London

Wouldn't get married

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By *ockednikiMan
3 weeks ago

Newhaven

Don't deny who you are nor what you want x

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By *gvbiMan
3 weeks ago

Brigg

Be kind to yourself and don’t worry about what other people think

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By *raig_KJMan
3 weeks ago

Southport

Taking or giving cock, doesn’t affect your masculinity.

Be yourself

Be happy

Be Content

Remove toxic people from your life.

Material things don’t matter.

Stay out of debt.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Wanking is great... But try and stop doing it multiple times every day 🤣

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By *iPasserMan
3 weeks ago

bangor

That guy who tried to chat you up after you got out of that phone box in Elgar Rd Reading in 1986? Tell him, 'Yeah, why not.'

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By *ver45Man
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

A Town near You!

"Wouldn't get married "

👆🏼

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By *ammi TrashTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Totton/Southampton

Don't get rid of that original beetle for a pittance when I could of stored it at my folks ...

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By *iPasserMan
3 weeks ago

bangor

"Wanking is great... But try and stop doing it multiple times every day 🤣"

And not on public transport.😄

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

How much younger? Go back 44 years I wouldn't get married but that would mean a fine 42yo guy wouldn't exist today. Go back a mere 5 years and I would tell myself not to put my then lovely home on the market.

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By *jw58Man
3 weeks ago

Newport

Like so many here admit to myself it's actually men I'm attracted to not women and have done it much earlier in my life .

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By *eefandfurMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Every person that you meet may have something to teach you.

Travel more.

Time and experiences are more valuable than things.

Avoid carbs.

Your employer is not your friend.

Drop people that take more than they give. They are not your friends.

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By *ntj69Man
3 weeks ago

eastbourne

Stop trying to please everyone else.

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By *PIGMan
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Let the guy in the back row of the cinema run his hand right up the inside of your thigh..

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By *ipirateMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Don't wait till your in your forties to have cock fun

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By *enjamin2018Man
3 weeks ago

Gosfield

"Stop trying to please everyone else. "

Good advice

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By *enjamin2018Man
3 weeks ago

Gosfield

"Don't take life so seriously...."

...it's over in a flash .

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By *lbert BelkinMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I should have listened to my parents more.

When the mature sexy cougar offered it on a plate, I should have taken her. Damn she was hot

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By *ugged Northerner OP Man
3 weeks ago

North East

"Don't take life so seriously....

...it's over in a flash ."

Yep life isn’t a dress rehearsal so embrace every day

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By *ridayguyMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

do something nice for older you like hide some money in your suit pocket and look after yourself better! X

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By *ugged Northerner OP Man
3 weeks ago

North East

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By *ewBrumBiMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

You're right; It's literally everybody else who's in the wrong.

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By *bearcalledbobMan
3 weeks ago

Birstall, West Yorkshire

"Take as much over 65 yo cock as you can while you a slutty teen"

100& in agreement with this

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By *ewbie23400Man
3 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Just say yes more often

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Warminster

Embrace being yourself

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By *ustPeekinMan
3 weeks ago

Alresford

"Just say yes more often "

This

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Warminster

"Taken up the offer of being a porn star"

It's not too late, you'd sell!!!

And if you needed a costar....lol

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By *ryan2000Man
3 weeks ago

London colney

Be yourself whatever makes you happy

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By *ardnutsMan
3 weeks ago

Pensby

Move to a warmer climate. Dont say yes so quickly without thinking about the consequences. Do say yes more quickly and to hell with the consequences.

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By *ub4daddyukMan
3 weeks ago

Warminster

"Embrace being yourself

Unless you're a serial killer or something untoward!!

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

West London

Get as much education as you can.

Learn to speak clearly and properly (and I don't mean lose your accent)

Choose your friends wisely (your extended family are not necessarily your best friends)

Learn to cook, if only at a basic level

Maintain a contact book, address book and a diary (or at least keep it updated on your mobile

Develop a fucking good bullshit detector and trust only yourself.

Never start smoking.

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By *xperienced_suitMan
3 weeks ago

essex and London

Take that chance.

Use your gut feelings.

Dont get tied down to that one person

Travel and experience everything you want to

Play the field with whomever you want to and they reciprocate

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By *lex-novaMan
3 weeks ago

Ellon

Follow your dreams. Go for it. Don't let others side track you.

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By *asonbelfastMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

Share it or swallow

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By *haron4465TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Hull

To have been honest with myself earlier so i could have embraced who i am when i was younger and more in my prime. I love my partner but she cannot give me what i desire but also dont want to hurt her

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By *mypeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yes to stay away from Women

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By *recumsterMan
3 weeks ago

somewherenear

Fuck everyone you can, and enjoy sex.

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By *ooking4CDTVMan
3 weeks ago

sidcup

Say yes to the threesome!! Enjoy playing more and dressing up with the 1st & only person you have ever played with more

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 weeks ago

London

Let go, enjoy life and have more sex with many different guys.

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

When you're 19 an older fella (only 32) will ask you 5 times to go back to his. You do eventually on the 5th time.

Go when he 1st asks!!!

He'll teach you how to take his cock and your eyes will roll back in your head. He'll teach you things you'll still be doing when your 50 that'll get the tops saying "Fuck! What are you doing??? 😉

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By *aynie-MarieTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Reigate

Don’t suppress yourself. It will only hurt down the line. Be yourself and enjoy it

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By *couseJay123Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

You only live once

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By *estafellaMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Don't leave the keys to your Mercedes where your brother can find them!

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By *ayrubberloverMan
3 weeks ago

wisbech

Having gay sex always fantasized about it from a young age

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By *ugged Northerner OP Man
3 weeks ago

North East

"Don't leave the keys to your Mercedes where your brother can find them!"

Sounds intriguing 🤔

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