FabGuys.com forum: Do you always douche?

By *ick123469 OP Man
3 weeks ago

STRABANE

As a bttm I always make the effort to be spotlessly clean for a meet but it does kinda rule out that spontaneous meet that id so love. What's everyone's opinion. Douched, not douched does it make a big difference to a quickie?

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

If I've arranged a meet off this or any other site, then I douche. Even though I am not into anal sex I like to be prepared just in case he wants to.

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By *andwich200Man
3 weeks ago

sandwich

I always douche

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By *our-slaveMan
3 weeks ago

nottingham

Always

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson

For a hookup...always.

Different when in relationship.

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By *ndtimeMan
3 weeks ago

spalding

I do 90% of the time but have had spontaneous sex without douching.

It ultimately all depends on the situation and the top. I’ve met tops who prefer a natural arse and the other week, I topped a guy at a cruising site who obviously had not douched. I accepted it was likely to be messy and just cleaned myself up afterwards.

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By *ibuddy200Man
3 weeks ago

leominster

Had a meeting with guy I was ment to do oral he asked to fuck me felt very self conscious and obviously there was some mess but he didn't seem bothered though it was deep hard and perlonged fucking...think he was to horny to care.

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By *ittlecock321Man
3 weeks ago

Southwell

Never destroys all spontaneity a bit of brown stuff goes with the territory

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By *iBi FunMan
3 weeks ago

St Leonard's on Sea

I generally always douche , whatever goes up my bum usually goes in my mouth so I like to keep it clean if meeting.

However spontaneous meets just let the top know

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By *udiboy1Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Yes

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By *obnobbonMan
3 weeks ago

conwy

Always before arranged meets but if out and about not always possible

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By *55 ManMan
3 weeks ago

Roscommon

I always douche for prearranged meets. I often douche as a matter of course in the morning shower if I think there's any chance of a spontaneous meet during the day. I find that a morning douche is enough to get me through until at least late afternoon/evening.

I seldom top because I've had too many messy experiences with guys who hadn't properly prepared, and nothing quenches my fire like mud on my helmet!

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By *ocalMan
3 weeks ago

North West

I always douch and deeply douche at that, I don't meet guys to close to home so I like to try to make sure am still ok after an hour or so if driving, I don't chat guys up in my everyday life so I have never had a spontaneous meet, I know I am missing out

So yes always a deep douch, it's time consuming and tedious but it helps me relax knowing that I have done the best I can for no "accidents"

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By *nchsolentMan
3 weeks ago

Fareham

I always douche for a preplanned meet, cpl of spontaneous meets I will tell the top I'm not prepared. On both occasions I was fucked regardless.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Pre-arranged meets, yes always. Sauna trips, yes always. Quickie when out cruising, no. Seldom get fucked ourdoors but.....

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By *ubtitsMan
3 weeks ago

hyde

I douche for a meet and sometimes if going out in my own just in case.

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By *umboy50Man
3 weeks ago

Wallasey

Its a must do

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By *reddie12345Man
3 weeks ago

Bridgend

Always, that's why I prefer arranged meets so I can shower, clean and be completely ready for the meet.

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By *eff101Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

Although I havent had a real meet for a long time I always douche when meeting someone just in case..

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By *cky49Man
3 weeks ago

sheffield

always

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By *estOxonBottomMan
3 weeks ago

Carterton

I've always douched before a meet except for two guys. One wanted to do the cleaning and used his shower attachment to clean me out before I dried and then he took me to the bed. The other guy liked the musk of the male body and asked me not to shower for three days and not douche before going to his. I fucked me relentlessly and with no mercy but amazingly there was no mess...

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By *innesMan
3 weeks ago

out of

Usually prefer to douche but if a guy is really wanting to fuck then it's his choice

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By *udiboy1Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Always

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By *excessMan
3 weeks ago

Sleaford

If Im not prepared, noone is going back there!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Yep always clean as a whistle xx

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Nearly always for a pre-arranged meeets. My husband (bttm) never douches and hes always good to go.

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By *enjonMan
3 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Yes. not happening unless I do

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By *mallNcutMan
3 weeks ago

Weymouth

I only wouldn’t douche if he asked me not to, otherwise I’m always douched.

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
3 weeks ago

London

I always douche.

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By *ranform71Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley

Because I love the anal experience. I always douche. I’m always smooth especially around my butt hole. I’ve fucked guys who hadn’t. But, as with every act. You take it in your stride. A bit of water and soap, sorted. I find most men impulsive and act on a given situation. I’ll always mention it discreetly to them, so they can clean up aswell.

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By *eneral distanceMan
2 weeks ago

aigburth

I always douched for a planned meet, although a guy I used to meet in his canal boat in Warrington who I had met about 6 times messaged me out the blue and asked me for fun,

I went meeting him at his boat near London Bridge knowing I had not douched, he was fine with it I was mortified with the mess, have had undouched fun plenty of times in the past when spontaneous meets happened but without sounding too vulgar, he literally “fucked the shit out of me”

So I assume this is where the phase came from lol

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By *moothUnderMan
2 weeks ago

Always douche. Has to be worry free and the idea of any mess is soo gross. There’s lots you can do on a spontaneous meet that doesn’t require a douche but if you’re serious about taking cock you’ve got to be clean

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By *1NKRMan
2 weeks ago

London

Douche… Maybe, depends on who/where/what

Drop the lads off at the pool… yeah usually

Just remember, shit happens. In the event of a Code: Brown Eagle, act like an adult not a kid, and for the love of Pooh, don’t shame/guilt trip the bottom. It’s an occupational hazard for anyone doing anal.

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By *shubMan
2 weeks ago

manningtree

Always want to be clean down there if anything is likely to happen, even if it's just me and a dildo having some fun.

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By *e4rMan
2 weeks ago

Bingham- Notts

I do not always douche. Most of times I can get away with just washing really good.

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

barton

I'll be honest no i don't as sex should be natural

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By *andwich200Man
2 weeks ago

sandwich

Yes I douche every time

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By *ottomsleazeMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

I generly douch but always ask if the person I'm meeting wants me undouched, quite a few prefer undouched sex, although that could be due to my profile attracting the type of guys that prefer undouched

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By *andy4uTV/TS
2 weeks ago

London Bermondsey

Always want to be scrupulously clean. Couldn’t possibly enjoy myself if concerned about an accident.

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By *ipstick_n_HeelsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

Depends what the guys preferences are, I've done both but mostly douch

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By *hubbyman10Man
2 weeks ago

Bloxwich

Always shower before a pre arranged meet but ask the top what he prefers and some do like playing in the mud.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Always before a meet

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By *uck my bumMan
2 weeks ago

walsall

Always as I like long sessions

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By *ernne2Man
2 weeks ago

shoebury

Always

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By *evansmileMan
2 weeks ago

Macclesfield

Always, except in the very (very) rare event of a truly spontaneous meet

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By *andifanMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

I think I over clean, using the shower, so worried about mess

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By *issy SiMan
2 weeks ago

Horsham

I don't even wipe myself lol!!

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By *irtytrukkaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

barton

Sometimes when sex is spontaneous its not always possible

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By *uangshanMan
2 weeks ago

jarrow-fellgate

Pretty much clean before a meet otherwise I wouldn’t feel happy

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By *bearcalledbobMan
2 weeks ago

Birstall, West Yorkshire

Before a planned meet yes, I also douche before a night out just in case I get lucky.

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By *ove2come2Man
2 weeks ago

Welsh/Borders,

"Always douche. Has to be worry free and the idea of any mess is soo gross. There’s lots you can do on a spontaneous meet that doesn’t require a douche but if you’re serious about taking cock you’ve got to be clean "

Please elaborate any knowledge would be appreciated.. Thank you.

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By *allsdeep75Man
2 weeks ago

dunmow

I’m always spotless for a meet

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By *untimesahead99Man
2 weeks ago

Clacton on Sea

"Douche… Maybe, depends on who/where/what

Drop the lads off at the pool… yeah usually

Well said

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By *eversayNever200Man
2 weeks ago

Kendal

I will always douche before planned meets. Spontaneous ones are pot luck for tops, so if you’re going there it may get messy. It wouldn’t stop me fucking.

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By *hocchipMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

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By *hocchipMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

Every time it's a must for me

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By *tmguylookingMan
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I always douche and use a few different dildos before a planned meet just to make sure theres no mess at all. Having said that, you can get the runs at anytime, you can't always guarantee it's gonna be clean. Most tops know this, and any top worth his salt won't have a big problem with it. You need to remember what the primary function of that particular orofice is. You play with fire, you may get burnt.

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By *aySub99Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Always, I even do it earlier in the day and then again before a meet sometimes to extra make sure

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By *wadbisexualMan
2 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Yes always, I did have one guy ask me not to douch, I refused,

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By *astenotimeMan
2 weeks ago

Gedling

I'm a top but I "douche" every time I use the toilet anyway as I bought the Turkish style toilet with integrated water spout from Amazon.

Always again before a meet in case someone wants to rim or go near.

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By *andwich200Man
2 weeks ago

sandwich

Yes always

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By *ard8onMan
2 weeks ago

Darwen

I struggle.

I can't seem to get it right. I do douche before meeting, however, I never seem to be completely clear. Some embarrassing mess is always the result.

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By *eePee123Man
2 weeks ago

CloseBy

ALWAYS... would NEVER fuck otherwise...perhaps its just me

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By *cunnySucker69Man
2 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Yes always

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By *he Wanderer2Man
2 weeks ago

Travels around a lot!

Absolutely always!!

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By *eman_DemonMan
2 weeks ago

East londin

I always douch but would love to get fucked without being douched, anyone into this?

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

"I always douche for a preplanned meet, cpl of spontaneous meets I will tell the top I'm not prepared. On both occasions I was fucked regardless."

This is the way of it.

It's not always possible.

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By *aulMichaelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

When me and my ex GF did anal we would both fast for 12 hours after our last toilet visit, no one likes surprises , hygiene for me, is everything ! so yes , douche every time !

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