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Best recommended positions for first-time sex

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By *eryCuriousGuy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Tidworth

So, still waiting (and very much looking forward) to being fucked for the first time. Very, very tight, never even used toys on myself.

Have had so many differing opinions from guys (tops mainly) as to the ‘best’ position for a first-timer to be fucked in to avoid pain and discomfort. So what’s the consensus from all you tops and bottoms out there? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I did it laying g face down

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By *mptyspace80Man
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

My first time I assumed that the best way would be for me to straddle my partner's hips and lower myself onto them. I didn't realise that unless they've got very narrow hips, this can cause you to tense up and makes it all a bit tricky.

If I had to recommend a first time position, I'd say to stand facing a sofa, bend forward and put one foot up on the cushions. They can then take you from behind and you're quite open. Just remember to relax as much as you can, even if you go limp, and use PLENTY of lube.

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By *laze69Man
2 weeks ago

Coventry

For me, I was on all fours that way i could reverse back on to his cock and control him entering me. Also could move forward when something did not feel right.

But remember, lots of lube. If you wonder if you have used enough, you have not!

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

You on top puts you in control.

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By *eekeeper1000Man
2 weeks ago

Richmond. North Yorkshire

Whatever position, plenty of lube. Take your time. Don't feel pressured into something if it's not working for you or your partner. Have a break & try again. Relax & enjoy.

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By *un100Man
2 weeks ago

IPSWICH

My first time was on my back with my knees up and I got well and truly rodgered.

Hurt like hell and he used spit for lube and I bled.

Still gave me a fantastic orgasm and as you can imagine it’s only got better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Bent over I was felt great

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By *andyhandymanMan
2 weeks ago

Barking

Easiest for me have been

On my knees, bum up and head down resting on forearms. Find this easy to relax and take it deeper.

Riding on top. I can work him in, control the stroke, squeeze, lean down for a snog.

Kneel on sofa or stood in front, leaned over with hands on the back. Simple to coordinate, top can just stand behind and enter while holding my waist.

I really recommend experimenting with a dildo or three get accustomed to the sensations and find out what you like. Have you never played with anything in you?

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By *eryCuriousGuy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Tidworth


"Have you never played with anything in you?"
No, never have. Tempted many a time of course but really, really prefer and want a really nice hard cock to be the first thing to enter me fully and stretch out my ass. Of course I’m expecting there’s likely to be some level of pain but I definitely want a real cock to do the stretching out, not a fake one 👍

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By *eversayNever200Man
2 weeks ago

Kendal

Lots and lots of lube. Lots of foreplay. More lube. I had my first cock lying flat on my stomach with a couple of pillows under my hips. Meant he couldn’t just go balls deep straight away. It gave me a chance to get used to it before I pushed my bum up in the air and pulled my cheeks wide for him to pound me hard.

Seemed to work quite well for me.

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By *ayboy1966Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Front spoon, him behind, lots lube, point him in right direction then slowly ease back, till fully inserted, then relax and enjoy the ride

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

mk

It doesn’t matter what anyone else’s position recommendation is

It’s about how you feel comfortable

We all like different positions

My advice is try the position you think is best

Plenty of lube

When you think you have over done it with lube use a bit more and that should be enough

Take it slow and don’t let the stinger put you off

Get past the stinger and just hold still for a short while

Then gently build up a slow gentle rhythm

I won’t lie to you the 1st time when a cock pushes past the muscle it is extremely uncomfortable

Just breath through it , it gets way way better

Good luck

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By *airless man pussyMan
2 weeks ago

West newcastle

My first time was lying down on my stomach and him ontop so I couldn't move and had yo take his cock

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By *iscreet999Man
2 weeks ago

norfolk suffolk C Colville

My first time the top just bent me over pulled down my pants n took me roughly in a toilet cubicle

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By *ustinaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

If you've never inserted anything inside you before, you're in for a very uncomfortable and painful experience when a hard cock penetrates you.

The feeling of cock inside you takes a lot of getting used to, even more so when you are, as you have admitted, very tight. I was once like you, desperate to receive anal but knowing that I was too tight to receive cock. I tried it once or twice and nearly hit the roof the pain.

I was so determined that I bought myself a dildo and lube and spent the best part of a month or two regularly loosening myself. It worked but even then it was a bit of a shock when I felt cock inside me for the first time.

Now of course, I know exactly what to expect and love being fucked by a nice cock, even a very big one, but I would strongly recommend you start by loosening yourself first. I promise you will not regret it.

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By *ight Willing AssMan
2 weeks ago

Jesmond

I was on my back! He thrust it into me & it hurt like hell!!!!

He then penetrated me again slowly & I relaxed then it was amazing x

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Get a small - around 1 or 1 ¼” diameter soft plug, loads of lube and get used to the initial insertion. Once it is in the shaft is way smaller and more comfy but it gets you used to it. Try keeping the plug in for 10 mins and then work it in and out a few times.

Loads of lube !

I still think one of the best first positions is sort of a spoon - slightly on one side drawn the top knee up and let him enter from behind. Should work fine but tell him to be gentle !!!!

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By *ittlefishMan
2 weeks ago

S Yorks

I was on all fours with my bum in the air , he was super gentle and we had loads of lube. He’d fingered me first whilst kissing me which got me so incredibly horny and after the first insertion I was reaching back to pull him in and begging him to fuck me ….

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By *ardforall56Man
2 weeks ago

belfast

I started doggy style and lots of lube it will always hurt first time.once you get going it will loosen up.

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By *eryCuriousGuy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Tidworth

Some great suggestions here. I’ll be sure to come back and report how it went… WHEN I’ve found a decent guy to fuck me

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By *teve_SouthMan
2 weeks ago

Romsey

All good advice on here.

I was fortunate enough that I found a caring guy for my first time who really knew what he was doing and apart from a very small twinge at one point it didn't hurt at all.

Priority number 1 should be fine the right guy

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By *obMaleBpoolMan
2 weeks ago

Poulton

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I find riding a cock best for first timers. It's much easier to take and you have some control over how much you take. XxxxX

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