FabGuys.com forum: Time Wasters

By *ustina OP TV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

I really hate them !

Arranged a meet for today. I couldn't find his messages anywhere. Seems like he's deleted his account.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Aren't we all just wasting time?

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By *sxSuckerMan
2 weeks ago

Southend

The time wasting isn’t so much the issue for me it’s when you get ghosted that I really hate. At least be man enough to say something, the changing your mind I can understand as we all say things when we get horny, saying them online and actually going through with it very different.

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By *ustina OP TV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

"The time wasting isn’t so much the issue for me it’s when you get ghosted that I really hate. At least be man enough to say something, the changing your mind I can understand as we all say things when we get horny, saying them online and actually going through with it very different."

Before I arranged the meet, I actually asked him if he was a time-waster, as getting dressed and putting on my make-up is time consuming. He assured me he wasn't. More fool me for believing him.

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

"Aren't we all just wasting time?"

I don't see the problem, I had 4 meets in 4 days until yesterday!

You lads need to up your game😁

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By *eedsbearmanMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Aren't we all just wasting time?

I don't see the problem, I had 4 meets in 4 days until yesterday!

You lads need to up your game😁"

Well i get zero interest as a guy, thinking of becoming a gurl they seem to get all the fun

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Tetbury

"Aren't we all just wasting time?

I don't see the problem, I had 4 meets in 4 days until yesterday!

You lads need to up your game😁

Well i get zero interest as a guy, thinking of becoming a gurl they seem to get all the fun

Thats what I did.

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By *-skinMan
2 weeks ago

Weymouth

Only meet local traveled before to meets and no one there.

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By *sually_stuckMan
2 weeks ago

Slough

The last meet I arranged saw me message for a postcode a couple of hours before I was due to arrive and get completely ignored... Horrible feeling

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Really annoys me. Arranged a meet for Monday, chatted during the day then he went silent. Waited for tw hours before I gave up. Came back on claiming he had to take work calls. Shouldn't be organising a meet when he was supposed to be working. What would have happened if I had been fucking his brains out when the phone rang. Came on later and didn't see what he had done wrong

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

"Aren't we all just wasting time?

I don't see the problem, I had 4 meets in 4 days until yesterday!

You lads need to up your game😁

Well i get zero interest as a guy, thinking of becoming a gurl they seem to get all the fun

I refer you to my profile, I'm could hardly be described as fem wouldn't you agree.

And I know several sexy masculine guys who all get plenty of action.

😉

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Set your due diligence boundaries and do not waiver. Check, check again, and then again. Pics (face), phone numbers, chat on another App.

Red flag and wide berth profiles;

-new profile

-no detail on profile

-no pics

-no veris

-dull one word, one sided conversation.

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

"Aren't we all just wasting time?"

Yes, but at least we're not doom scrolling.

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By *ustina OP TV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

"Set your due diligence boundaries and do not waiver. Check, check again, and then again. Pics (face), phone numbers, chat on another App.

Red flag and wide berth profiles;

-new profile

-no detail on profile

-no pics

-no veris

-dull one word, one sided conversation."

Your last point is particularly apt. It was a bit like getting blood out of a stone with his single (short) sentence answers.

I've had lots of offers lately but I accept I've been a bit picky. Unfortunately I keep picking the wrong one. My bad.

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By *anDadBodMan
2 weeks ago

Speke

What goes through my head when some new contacts me:

are they just after wank fodder (usually yes)

verified by a meeting in person

pics

well written profile

the above for me does help me make good decisions when arranging to meet.

I never leave the house without an exact location on where i’m going, none of this postcode only and will give house number when you arrive, that screams timewaster to me, i also prefer to meet somewhere public first, if they don’t turn up, then i just go for a coffee, no loss really.

Also, the short word messages, as said before, like getting blood from a stone i know they aren’t really interested, ive had one guy who just keeps relying with hi whenever i respond to his hello message, i know that’s going nowhere 🙄

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By *orny700Man
2 weeks ago

Brackley

We really dont

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By *ittlecock321Man
2 weeks ago

Southwell

What is to be done with them? Just driven four miles to park on the street he lives on and he won’t give his house number. Honestly

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By *inchesterGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Winchester

Trying to meet actual guys of the type I’m interested in, is a cul-de-sac. Yet we still somehow keep trying hoping the next guy will be different.

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By *ustina OP TV/TS
2 weeks ago

cardiff

"Trying to meet actual guys of the type I’m interested in, is a cul-de-sac. Yet we still somehow keep trying hoping the next guy will be different. "

The irony is that I've met that guy and we both like each other a lot but he has recently started dating a woman. We both still want each other but I won't put any pressure on him to meet me while he is still in a relationship with his lady friend.

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By *iki CDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

North Tynside

Lazy profile equates to a Lazy Lover

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By *ohnsy2022Man
2 weeks ago

Chorley

Had a string of them over the last couple of weeks. I'm beginning to feel like I can't give it away.

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By *hyguy62Man
2 weeks ago

Brentwood

I don’t get much free time so I’m not impressed with time wasters. I don’t mind being let down with a bit of notice, I know things can change, especially with married guys, that way I can try and make other arrangements xx

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By *antyLover66Man
2 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Might help if you showed some cock on your pics

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

"Aren't we all just wasting time?"

That's deep, man.

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