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"Although I agree with the OP I won't give my face pic until a meet has been agreed. Even then the other guy can still change his mind if he doesn't like the look of me, and that's fine. Often guys who are married have to be discreet. " that’s understandable but who in their right mind would agree to meet someone if they haven’t seen what they look like ? | |||
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"Not like you aren’t going to see their face at the front door…" they’ll turn up wearing a Balaclava | |||
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"Put it this way if you get a message minus a face pic especially if you request one prior to messaging then you know straight from the off they are complete time wasters. Simple as that lol xx" You can’t say that - at all. The vast majority ig guys on here don’t give out face pics and they get meets. I have face pics but only my give one of I get one - and sone of the best meets I have had were with guys who didn’t have one because they didn’t want to send one. | |||
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"Although I agree with the OP I won't give my face pic until a meet has been agreed. Even then the other guy can still change his mind if he doesn't like the look of me, and that's fine. Often guys who are married have to be discreet. that’s understandable but who in their right mind would agree to meet someone if they haven’t seen what they look like ? " Answer: the majority of guys on here. That is a simple truth. Some of the best meets I have had was with hot guys who simply did not want to send a face pic - for a variety of reasons. Get off your high horse. | |||
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"Don't get me wrong I absolutely fully understand why some guys need to be discreet and I respect that but we had agreed a meeting with him and his friend both coming but neither of them were prepared to show me what I can expect.Bit strange I think " You can think it’s strange but it applies to the majority of guys on here | |||
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"Put it this way if you get a message minus a face pic especially if you request one prior to messaging then you know straight from the off they are complete time wasters. Simple as that lol xx You can’t say that - at all. The vast majority ig guys on here don’t give out face pics and they get meets. I have face pics but only my give one of I get one - and sone of the best meets I have had were with guys who didn’t have one because they didn’t want to send one." Agree. Ive stopped with face pics years ago, so no longer request / send a face pic. A) i am not actually interested what they look like (body & cock are more important) B) after a run-in with a shady individual, I don’t want it collected by a timewaster / bl@ckmailer C) i usually found that what they do send is either fake, or must be their best ever, and unrealistically flattering, pic. I cant remember the last time my ‘policy’ prevented a meet. Regardless, plenty of fish in the sea!  | |||
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"I have met men without a face pic but would prefer to see who I'm meeting. I would be a bit wary of inviting someone into my home without one. One man was very unwilling to share one but I got a good feeling for him and met him out for a coffee before going to his. I understood his reasoning because he has a 'sensitive' job. But generally I'd feel it's not worth the hassle if they someone won't share one. " Having a ‘sensitive’ job or staying private I understand but they’re not turning up in a balaclava and I’m not going to advertise it | |||
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"I've operated a policy of no face pics no reply, has saved so much time x" Me too but that's my choice and I'm happy with it. If someone is happy to meet someone without a face pic, their choice. Neither is right nor wrong. We all decide what is right for us. | |||
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"Put it this way if you get a message minus a face pic especially if you request one prior to messaging then you know straight from the off they are complete time wasters. Simple as that lol xx You can’t say that - at all. The vast majority ig guys on here don’t give out face pics and they get meets. I have face pics but only my give one of I get one - and sone of the best meets I have had were with guys who didn’t have one because they didn’t want to send one." I’m sure they do, I’m just speaking from experience and I’ve made it my decision that I won’t respond to anyone who sends a message without one. So the married guys turn up with a brown paper bag over their heads cause they need to be discreet 🤣 | |||
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"I will never provide a face pic. I think that associating a face pic with an Internet sex site is madness. It's on a par with using contactless credit cards, or having the covid or flu jab. Given the number of picture collectors there are here, and the misuse by some people online, it is an unacceptable risk IMHO. Also, how do you know that the picture is recent, or even one of the member. It could have been scraped from another profile or be AI generated." Tinfoil hat time !! | |||
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"Don't get me wrong I absolutely fully understand why some guys need to be discreet and I respect that but we had agreed a meeting with him and his friend both coming but neither of them were prepared to show me what I can expect.Bit strange I think " I don't think it's possible for you, or anyone else, to "fully understand why some guys need to be discreet" (It may even not be about discretion!). Everyone's situation, opinions, choices are unique. I think it's a "bit strange" to jump to conclusions, make assumptions about people you've never met and with whom you've exchanged a few messages via this platform. It may also be a bit strange to expect someone to accept an invitation from a profile user with only one verification that joined the site very recently? 
Personally, I find it strange that some on here get so hung up about face pics. It's perfectly normal to want to see a face, but it's also easy to understand a reluctance to show one: there's room on the site for those adopting either position  | |||
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"I've operated a policy of no face pics no reply, has saved so much time x" It really does. The site may not have any strict face pic rules but my place of residence sure does. | |||
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"What if someone's a right minger? "Get them to wear a hood? | |||
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"I kill the conversation pretty quickly if a facepic is not forthcoming. I don't ask, I just expect someone to introduce themselves..."  | |||
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"I am fed up with guys who wants to meet but do not share face pic. Sometimes I ask them what's the point you driving 30 mins I dont fancy you ? I am always saying I am not looking for drama just fun be fair and polite. No face pic no show" Agree. Also, when they ask " Do you kiss?" And you haven't seen them. | |||
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"Am I the only one who finds it so bloody annoying that after tooing and throwing with messages and a guy asks to come over but as soon as I ask for at least a face pic they go really quiet?Do these idiots seriously think I'm going to invite him or them into my home when I haven't got a clue what they look like?" I always insist on swapping face pics before a meet or they dont get my address simple | |||
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"Put it this way if you get a message minus a face pic especially if you request one prior to messaging then you know straight from the off they are complete time wasters. Simple as that lol xx" No it's not a simple as that! I don't share face pics but have shown up at every meet I've arranged. | |||
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"So what do you picky guys do when the guys turns out to have sent s pic from 30 years ago. Or it's AI modified, or it's one scraped from another profile." If someone misrepresents their current self then there is always the option to decline having sex with them. If A does not match B, I will not engage in C. | |||
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Get them to wear a hood?"Lol..that tickled me Or have your own blindfold! | |||
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and I’m not ugly or something (actually been told I’m good looking) but I want to keep my sex life and regular life completely separate. So I’m happy to show everything from the neck down, but the face stays private. Hope that makes sense | |||
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"Put it this way if you get a message minus a face pic especially if you request one prior to messaging then you know straight from the off they are complete time wasters. Simple as that lol xx You can’t say that - at all. The vast majority ig guys on here don’t give out face pics and they get meets. I have face pics but only my give one of I get one - and sone of the best meets I have had were with guys who didn’t have one because they didn’t want to send one." I agree, I've given face pics twice and and got blocked. Now this first guy might not have fancied me but the second guy was just a malicious time waster who clearly had no intention of meeting me and thought it was great fun to string me along. The problem for me is that I have no idea where that face pic is now, given his behaviour. I've met a lot of guys on here without either of us exchanging face pics and I'll keep it that way. As someone else posted, if you want a face pic that's fine, go with it. But if you don't want to give one that's equally valid for me. We all have our reasons, I don't think it should be something to get hung up on, just move on. | |||
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