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By *eagain2026 OP   Man
1 week ago

Stockport

Genuinely no judgement here, just a serious question!

Why are people on here who can’t meet and can’t accommodate? How do you meet? Are you just here to Cam? I’ve seen a few of these and it just makes me wonder

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By *reeandcurious2000Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth

Sauna is always a good option

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By *luteus maxMan
1 week ago

North of Havant

They collect pics for fake profiles, and get off by winding people up. On the other hand, I guess it's difficult if you are living with your mum and can't travel.

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By *ooking 4 fun77Man
1 week ago

Dodworth

If they're honest about accommodating and travelling, I guess it's easy to filter them out... It's when profiles aren't entirely correct and they say they can, when they can't... That's when it gets annoying.

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By *astenotimeMan
1 week ago

Gedling

Can't see the point.

I'm not interested in anyone who states this.

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By *mdikdaveMan
1 week ago

Canterbury

My profile says can't accom, can't travel but I've managed to meet. I believe you can if you want to! In my case I can't travel too far...20/30 miles but have travelled 10 ish miles

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By *cott5555Man
1 week ago

Aberdeenshire

I’m not in here to meet, just love horny chat. I always tell people if they ask for a meet as well.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"They collect pics for fake profiles, and get off by winding people up. On the other hand, I guess it's difficult if you are living with your mum and can't travel."

I think this weirdly immature reply tells us far more about you than any people who can’t accommodate and can’t travel.

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By *aulMichaelMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

I guess some just enjoy, and are happy with just camming and enjoy the kink of being anonymous, each to there own .

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford


"Genuinely no judgement here, just a serious question!

Why are people on here who can’t meet and can’t accommodate? How do you meet? Are you just here to Cam? I’ve seen a few of these and it just makes me wonder "

I go to saunas its all in my profile I I don't travel to meet anyone. Sometimes they may be in same hotel or travel to the hotel I'm in xx

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By *DC2000Man
1 week ago

Coningsby

If I'm contacted by "can't accommodate or travel" I tend to politely finish the conversation. I've been asked too many times "can you pick me up?". Well, that's two return trips for me, so, thanks, but no....

I understand why some folk can't accommodate or travel and it must make meeting extremely difficult unless they're in a city or suburb.

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By *excessMan
1 week ago

Sleaford

I'm assuming they just want to cam, or it's a less than subtle hint they want picking up 🤷

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By *ranform71Man
1 week ago

Hinckley

I only ever accommodate, this way if they don’t turn up, I’ve only lost my time. I needed a shower anyway and needed to tidy up. If they turn up, they’re in for a treat. If I’ve arranged a meet. I always go through with it.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx

The inability of people to do a quick Forum search… We’ve had many threads in the “can’t accommodate, can’t travel” theme and all the myriad reasons behind which do not need rehearsing here yet again. What it continues to do is show up people who make blithe assumptions, often awry, about others without even trying to find anything out.

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By *arriedbiMan
1 week ago

Aldershot

When I put can't travel what I actually mean is I don't drive n have rely on public transport so I go for those who near x with in bus route or they can pick up x but can't accommodate is genuine

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford

People should read profiles. go to saunas get a sauna and a several fucks. Beats travelling for 20 minutes of fun including coffee that is. If you are lucky

NB the coffee takes fifteen minutes xx

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells

Perhaps they expect you to pick them up, send your chauffeur round or pay their taxi, bus or train fare. Had one guy, who had this on his profile, say there was a park a few hundred yards from his house. Because it was the dead of winter and inclined to snow that day, he said we wouldn't be disturbed. I turned him down.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford


"Perhaps they expect you to pick them up, send your chauffeur round or pay their taxi, bus or train fare. Had one guy, who had this on his profile, say there was a park a few hundred yards from his house. Because it was the dead of winter and inclined to snow that day, he said we wouldn't be disturbed. I turned him down."
oh you horrid time waster lolxxx

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By *DC2000Man
1 week ago

Coningsby


"People should read profiles. go to saunas get a sauna and a several fucks. Beats travelling for 20 minutes of fun including coffee that is. If you are lucky

NB the coffee takes fifteen minutes xx "

Sammy, you're right about saunas. Unfortunately, some of us don't have one near. My nearest is a 3 hour return drive so I need to put aside at least 6 hours for the experience. 3 hours at the sauna to make the trip worthwhile.

I was in London last week and certainly made the most of it lol

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Perhaps they expect you to pick them up, send your chauffeur round or pay their taxi, bus or train fare. Had one guy, who had this on his profile, say there was a park a few hundred yards from his house. Because it was the dead of winter and inclined to snow that day, he said we wouldn't be disturbed. I turned him down.oh you horrid time waster lolxxx "

I know. Hangs head in shame

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
1 week ago

London

Sometimes can accommodate, sometimes can meet in hotels, sauna etc. Depends on my situation. If the guy lives outside London, we just do webcam and meet when we can travel. My only hobby now is sex with guys and I can travel to meet them. No problem.

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By *reddy1510Man
1 week ago

Preston

All the info on profiles is a bit sus. I’m sure some people just tick enough boxes to be able to get their profile online. And tell themselves they’ll go back to do it later, but then never do. Pics are usually a good indicator. As is a good bit of ‘bio’ at the bottom of the profile.

At the end of the day, the person is putting their own info on the profile. You’re relying on what they say to be true. Just bear in mind that not everyone is as honest band forthright as yourself and you won’t be disappointed too much.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 week ago

Bargoed


"The inability of people to do a quick Forum search… We’ve had many threads in the “can’t accommodate, can’t travel” theme and all the myriad reasons behind which do not need rehearsing here yet again. What it continues to do is show up people who make blithe assumptions, often awry, about others without even trying to find anything out. "

This has been asked a few times.

I've had two similar scenarios.

1 guy early 20s, still lives with parents so can't accom and doesnt drive so can't travel, so only arranges meets within walking distance.

2nd similar, older guy who lives with his elderly parents so again can't accom. He does drive but as they live in a bungalow his car is parked right outside of the parents window, so he can't meet at night as him going out in the car would wake up his parents and difficult to meet during the day unless his parents are out which is rare as he is their carer. So again has to arrange meetings within walking distance. This guy we have met as his parents were out for the day with other family members.

Best advice for someone who 'can't travel',' can't accommodate' is to have some explanation in the profile text. Not everyone is a timewaster/pic collector.

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By *amie1402Man
1 week ago

Liverpool

Basically they want you to pay for a hotel and also to collect them and take them home afterwards

As if !!

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"… Basically they want you to pay for a hotel and also to collect them and take them home afterwards … "

Have you actually met someone who asked you to collect them, take them to a hotel, pay for the hotel, then take them back home afterwards..?

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By *amie1402Man
1 week ago

Liverpool


"… Basically they want you to pay for a hotel and also to collect them and take them home afterwards …

Have you actually met someone who asked you to collect them, take them to a hotel, pay for the hotel, then take them back home afterwards..? "

Not met no.

But had a few requests to do so all of which I kicked into touch

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By *ostie55Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth

Yeh so many time wasters on here and if you talk to them after a while they block you and if re join they talk again soon as try and arrange a meet block you again so odd.

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By *ildwestheroMan
1 week ago

Llandrindod Wells


"… Basically they want you to pay for a hotel and also to collect them and take them home afterwards …

Have you actually met someone who asked you to collect them, take them to a hotel, pay for the hotel, then take them back home afterwards..? "

Not the hotel but I did once go and collect this guy, bring him to my place and then take him home afterwards. A grand total of 112 miles in two round trips. Nice enough guy. Sex not that good though. He wanted it to become a regular thing but I declined.

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By *ammi TrashTV/TS
1 week ago

Totton/Southampton

When I see this ..i assume they're not wanting a "physical encounter" and here to cam or chat or just browse..which they are entitled too..I wouldn't approach them as I have zero interest in virtual "fun" ..and at least they're being honest as opposed to those that say they can but have no intention of doing so except to try and lead yu a merry dance.. so its a positive filter for me

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By *sexMan
1 week ago

ipswich

I used to meet a guy who could not accommodate or travel. No car and was a carer for the person he lived with. I would pick him and travel to a quiet spot and suck the most gorgeous cock I have ever had, so well worth the effort.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 week ago

Bargoed


"I used to meet a guy who could not accommodate or travel. No car and was a carer for the person he lived with. I would pick him and travel to a quiet spot and suck the most gorgeous cock I have ever had, so well worth the effort. "

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
1 week ago

middlesbrough

Someone might just be chatting with friends or using the forum, and when actively looking to meet they adjust it accordingly, is what I’ve done in the past

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By *ral b..Man
1 week ago

.

Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 week ago

Bargoed


"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk "

You've obviously not read the previous comments then.

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By *ral b..Man
1 week ago

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"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

You've obviously not read the previous comments then."

except I stated there is no facility for cam only meets option on the last 3 ( or 4 ) threads on the same subject..( can't accommodate can't travel subject) ...

.you've only read this particular thread on the subject then..

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 week ago

Bargoed


"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

You've obviously not read the previous comments then. except I stated there is no facility for cam only meets option on the last 3 ( or 4 ) threads on the same subject..( can't accommodate can't travel subject) ...

.you've only read this particular thread on the subject then.."

Nope seen many threads on this subject.

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By *wej1Man
1 week ago

Grantham


"They collect pics for fake profiles, and get off by winding people up. On the other hand, I guess it's difficult if you are living with your mum and can't travel.

I think this weirdly immature reply tells us far more about you than any people who can’t accommodate and can’t travel. "

Some of them have a wife who is depriving them of sex

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By *ral b..Man
1 week ago

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"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

You've obviously not read the previous comments then. except I stated there is no facility for cam only meets option on the last 3 ( or 4 ) threads on the same subject..( can't accommodate can't travel subject) ...

.you've only read this particular thread on the subject then..

Nope seen many threads on this subject."

The green arrow is your friend.. and why try be a nasty piece of **** when my post was obviously a humorous one

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 week ago

Bargoed


"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

You've obviously not read the previous comments then. except I stated there is no facility for cam only meets option on the last 3 ( or 4 ) threads on the same subject..( can't accommodate can't travel subject) ...

.you've only read this particular thread on the subject then..

Nope seen many threads on this subject.

The green arrow is your friend.. and why try be a nasty piece of **** when my post was obviously a humorous one"

Wasn't nasty, just a comment.

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By *enior service.Man
1 week ago

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"Cant accomm or travel....

It'll be Someone on the space station or my names not Captain James T Kirk

You've obviously not read the previous comments then. except I stated there is no facility for cam only meets option on the last 3 ( or 4 ) threads on the same subject..( can't accommodate can't travel subject) ...

.you've only read this particular thread on the subject then..

Nope seen many threads on this subject.

The green arrow is your friend.. and why try be a nasty piece of **** when my post was obviously a humorous one"

..always negative people on forums..ignore them ..

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By *aucey04TV/TS
1 week ago

Bletchingley


"Genuinely no judgement here, just a serious question!

Why are people on here who can’t meet and can’t accommodate? How do you meet? Are you just here to Cam? I’ve seen a few of these and it just makes me wonder "

They are on a 'par' with those who Cannot Travel AND Cannot Accommodate

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By *heap charlieMan
1 week ago

Ringwood Hampshire

Crazy

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