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The Life of a Crossdresser

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By *ustina OP   TV/TS
1 week ago

cardiff

I'm going through a phase at the moment where I am ambivalent whether to meet or not. Do other CD's feel like this ?

I seem to be satisfied dressing up every day without having a strong urge for sexual contact. I am sometimes looking for reasons not to meet; no face pics, no verifications, too tall, bearded, etc. Possibly because I've had a few no shows this has tempered my desire to go through all the effort of getting dressed and made up.

There is a group sex event in Cardiff every Monday for TV's and admirers and this seems to be the way to go for me. No no-shows, what you see is what you get. It's in a private house, which in my opinion should be better than Newport sauna, which I dislike.

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By *luteus maxMan
1 week ago

North of Havant

I think you are being sensible. With regard to no shows. I assume everybody is s no show now. I just do things for myself and don't put myself out. If someone actually turns up, and sometimes they do, then it's a bonus. If you can find a regular, then that moves you into a different area. You could also host a girls night.

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By *ustina OP   TV/TS
1 week ago

cardiff


"I think you are being sensible. With regard to no shows. I assume everybody is s no show now. I just do things for myself and don't put myself out. If someone actually turns up, and sometimes they do, then it's a bonus. If you can find a regular, then that moves you into a different area. You could also host a girls night."

In a perfect world hosting a girls night sounds good but I'm not keen on having a group of strangers in my house

There is a special person in my life, sort of. We both have a strong desire to spend time with each other but him meeting a woman has put a spanner in the works. We've met quite a few times and had wonderful sex together. He wants to take my bareback virginity, which now I'm on Prep I want as well. Maybe that's another reason why I'm not putting in too much effort to meet other men.

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By *V-SLUT1968TV/TS
1 week ago

Sheffield

I become a different person once im fully dressed . ....but dont get much chance to fully dress love to share my experiences with others

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By *ustina OP   TV/TS
1 week ago

cardiff


"I become a different person once im fully dressed . ....but dont get much chance to fully dress love to share my experiences with others "

I know exactly what you mean. For a very long time Justina had faded into the background and I thought she had gone for good. How wrong can you be. Now I am her whenever I am dressed, which is all the time. She feels real, I am her.

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By *omethingExciting41Man
1 week ago

Somewhere

I can understand it's very difficult to be let down by a no show, especially when a girl such as yourself has put so much time into getting ready. Perhaps you have found your way with your private Monday meets, sounds better than just randoms not living up to expectations

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford

Seems the op is a smidge confused cross dresser there's a clue there,a person that likes to dress in women's and men's clothes. Transvestite a person that lives as the opposite sex on a permanent basis. Transsexual a person that has had surgery and now lives as the opposite sex ti what they were born. XX

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
1 week ago

mk


"Seems the op is a smidge confused cross dresser there's a clue there,a person that likes to dress in women's and men's clothes. Transvestite a person that lives as the opposite sex on a permanent basis. Transsexual a person that has had surgery and now lives as the opposite sex ti what they were born. XX "

This is very very outdated opinion of the trans umbrella (about 30 years out of date!)

If you wrote this same statement on a dedicated trans website you would be hounded for such derogatory comments and slurs

The op isn’t confused at all

The op seems pissed off with time wasters the same as everyone else on this site

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford


"Seems the op is a smidge confused cross dresser there's a clue there,a person that likes to dress in women's and men's clothes. Transvestite a person that lives as the opposite sex on a permanent basis. Transsexual a person that has had surgery and now lives as the opposite sex ti what they were born. XX

This is very very outdated opinion of the trans umbrella (about 30 years out of date!)

If you wrote this same statement on a dedicated trans website you would be hounded for such derogatory comments and slurs

The op isn’t confused at all

The op seems pissed off with time wasters the same as everyone else on this site "

so what in your opinion is an up to date opinion of a cross dresser? X

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
1 week ago

Berkshire

I’ve never really had the urge to get dolled up for nothing, that’s not to say I haven’t. Long and short of it is if I’m going to dress then I’m making sure I have company or I’m going out on the prowl. Either way I’ll get what I want xx

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford


"I’ve never really had the urge to get dolled up for nothing, that’s not to say I haven’t. Long and short of it is if I’m going to dress then I’m making sure I have company or I’m going out on the prowl. Either way I’ll get what I want xx"
nailed it that's a cross dresser not a transvestite xx

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
1 week ago

Berkshire


"I’ve never really had the urge to get dolled up for nothing, that’s not to say I haven’t. Long and short of it is if I’m going to dress then I’m making sure I have company or I’m going out on the prowl. Either way I’ll get what I want xxnailed it that's a cross dresser not a transvestite xx "
nailed what ? What’s the difference between a cross dresser and a transvestite, none whatsoever the last time I checked. I impersonate being a woman for sexual gratification nothing more and nothing less.

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