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By *illyboy999 OP   Man
6 days ago

lancaster

what am i doing wrong just don’t seem to get any meets messaged loads but no response

starting to feel depressed tried older and younger

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
6 days ago

Tetbury

Well, take some better pics, in focus and not blurry and explain a bit more about what you are looking for in your profile.

Even here we have to sell ourselves a bit.

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
6 days ago

Dublin


"what am i doing wrong just don’t seem to get any meets messaged loads but no response

starting to feel depressed tried older and younger "

What about going to a sauna

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By *umCustardMan
6 days ago

Warrington St Helens

Helps if your fat and ugly

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By *aid2TV/TS
6 days ago

Swindon


"what am i doing wrong just don’t seem to get any meets messaged loads but no response

starting to feel depressed tried older and younger "

Your profile doesn't say anything. Blurry pics don't help and not everyone likes a big belly.

Write something about who you are and what you are looking for. Add some better pics and you'll stand more of a chance. Good luck.

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By *dstefiMan
6 days ago

Solihull

Agree with all the above. Shockingly bad pics and your profile says nothing about you.

It all comes across as zero effort, and surprise, nobody likes zero effort.

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By *owzerMan
6 days ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name


"what am i doing wrong just don’t seem to get any meets messaged loads but no response

starting to feel depressed tried older and younger "

Consider wearing ladies underwear

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By *luteus maxMan
6 days ago

North of Havant

As others have said. Your photos are a bit turn off. Also, your profile says you want group sex. If that is so, then go to a sauna. If you want 1 to 1, then say a bit more about you interests and ambitions.

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By *arridMan
6 days ago

Brighton

Better photos. For a start.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
6 days ago

Wakefield

The Fabguys paradox. Don't put effort into the profile - get no interest. Put effort into profile - no one reads it anyway.

If you're after group sex just go to a sauna or other similar venue.

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By *uriousguynottsMan
6 days ago

nottingham

Works every time for me,ugly guys are the bespoke fucks lol

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By *PH1956Man
6 days ago

Colchester

Your profile and photos are your shop window. Try and make the most of them.

You need to sell yourself.

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By *ridayguyMan
4 days ago

Cheshire

be nice to people even if they are not your type and be honest about what you want X

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By *dstefiMan
4 days ago

Solihull


"The Fabguys paradox. Don't put effort into the profile - get no interest. Put effort into profile - no one reads it anyway.

"

I actually disagree with this. Sure not everybody will read a detailed profile if they're the sort that just wants instant gratification, but then if you're the sort to write a longer and more thoughtful profile they're not what you're after anyway.

And nicely lit full body and face pics get more attention than shitty cock closeups or worse, gaping arses.

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By *dstefiMan
4 days ago

Solihull


"Works every time for me,ugly guys are the bespoke fucks lol"

Surely just a posh wank?

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By *uck my bumMan
4 days ago

walsall

I struggle sometimes too

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By *londebiguyMan
4 days ago

near Southport


"what am i doing wrong just don’t seem to get any meets messaged loads but no response

starting to feel depressed tried older and younger "

Clean your camera lens on your phone before you take the pics.

Write a bit more about yourself and what you want.

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
4 days ago

Wakefield


"The Fabguys paradox. Don't put effort into the profile - get no interest. Put effort into profile - no one reads it anyway.

I actually disagree with this. Sure not everybody will read a detailed profile if they're the sort that just wants instant gratification, but then if you're the sort to write a longer and more thoughtful profile they're not what you're after anyway.

And nicely lit full body and face pics get more attention than shitty cock closeups or worse, gaping arses. "

You have a point. I suppose I'm just bitter about it because I often can't tell if they read my profile or not. A lot of the time they seem sound, we get chatting, it's going well! Then they say something that makes it obvious I just had my time wasted as they did, in fact, not read my profile before messaging me. And I step away from the interaction fed up and deflated.

It's why I keep my profile hidden now. Can't be arsed with it.

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By *ridayguyMan
4 days ago

Cheshire


"The Fabguys paradox. Don't put effort into the profile - get no interest. Put effort into profile - no one reads it anyway.

I actually disagree with this. Sure not everybody will read a detailed profile if they're the sort that just wants instant gratification, but then if you're the sort to write a longer and more thoughtful profile they're not what you're after anyway.

And nicely lit full body and face pics get more attention than shitty cock closeups or worse, gaping arses.

You have a point. I suppose I'm just bitter about it because I often can't tell if they read my profile or not. A lot of the time they seem sound, we get chatting, it's going well! Then they say something that makes it obvious I just had my time wasted as they did, in fact, not read my profile before messaging me. And I step away from the interaction fed up and deflated.

It's why I keep my profile hidden now. Can't be arsed with it."
keep your chin up fella X

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By *uriousAboutCock1996Man
4 days ago

Wakefield


"The Fabguys paradox. Don't put effort into the profile - get no interest. Put effort into profile - no one reads it anyway.

I actually disagree with this. Sure not everybody will read a detailed profile if they're the sort that just wants instant gratification, but then if you're the sort to write a longer and more thoughtful profile they're not what you're after anyway.

And nicely lit full body and face pics get more attention than shitty cock closeups or worse, gaping arses.

You have a point. I suppose I'm just bitter about it because I often can't tell if they read my profile or not. A lot of the time they seem sound, we get chatting, it's going well! Then they say something that makes it obvious I just had my time wasted as they did, in fact, not read my profile before messaging me. And I step away from the interaction fed up and deflated.

It's why I keep my profile hidden now. Can't be arsed with it.keep your chin up fella X"

Thank you. I'm being proactive and trying to get the few guys I talk to that aren't like this to chat off-site. Not much luck yet but worth a try.

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By *addy7x6Man
4 days ago

High Wycombe

Just focus on the fact that your profile is your advert -your sexual CV. You have to make clear what you like, what you want, what you can do for others.

Less is certainly NOT more where profiles are involved.

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By *ewbiestokeMan
4 days ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I wish

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