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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this." My point proved - a bisexual guy who states in his profile he doesnt like Cumdumps trying to invalidate my lived experience | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this." Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. My point proved - a bisexual guy who states in his profile he doesnt like Cumdumps trying to invalidate my lived experience" You haven't proven anything, my preference is for guys who like a slow passionate build up, with a little foreplay, rather than waiting with their arse up in the air for the next person to come along. I'm not into production line sex. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun." For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things?" No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point." So you made up all the stuff about the messages? | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point." To be fair it did seem like it was being said they came from him..so can see why he's a bit irked shall we say. I take it they are from others over time? Yeah not great... | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point. So you made up all the stuff about the messages?" No. Nobody accused you of anything. You diminished the OPs experience by saying he is overthinking it. I gave my real (paraphrased) examples of how he is not overthinking it, and I agree with him as my experience aligns with his. Its fine if you dont believe that some men here experience abuse from other members because of their sexually abundant lifestyle. The abuse does happen regardless of what you believe. The post was not about you, he was not seeking approval of his lifestyle and it is about his experience of being judged by people who really are not in a place to judge. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point. To be fair it did seem like it was being said they came from him..so can see why he's a bit irked shall we say. I take it they are from others over time? Yeah not great..." In which case, I apologise to _tar33 if he has interpreted my comment to suggest he sent me the messages I mentioned. As said, he didn't. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point. To be fair it did seem like it was being said they came from him..so can see why he's a bit irked shall we say. I take it they are from others over time? Yeah not great... In which case, I apologise to _tar33 if he has interpreted my comment to suggest he sent me the messages I mentioned. As said, he didn't." Fair play I still can't get my head around that people get these messages. | |||
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"I couldn't care less what other people are or aren't up to. I suggest the OP is overthinking this. Says the man who won't meet cum dumps but who's been used by men who i know saw him as nothing.l more than a hole to dump in. Thats cool. Is it overthinking it when messages are received along the lines of "you're disgusting i hope you get aids" (I won't BTW lol), "I hope your wife finds out" (she won't, i'm not a cheating closet bisexual), "you're a sick fantasist" (but have veris to demonstrate im not)? There are indeed some very jealous hateful people on here, but thier behaviour says more about them then anything im doing for fun. For fuck sake are you seriously insinuating that I've done any of those things? No. You challenged that the OP is ovethinking things, and dont care what others do, yet explicity state you dont want to meet people with his lifestyle. I didn't accuse you of anything, my comment was to confirm the OP has a point. To be fair it did seem like it was being said they came from him..so can see why he's a bit irked shall we say. I take it they are from others over time? Yeah not great... In which case, I apologise to _tar33 if he has interpreted my comment to suggest he sent me the messages I mentioned. As said, he didn't." Thanks for clearing that up, it was the 'Says the man who....' that triggered my response. Also, the OP homself never said he'd received such messages either, and I took it that he'd implied a certain attitude from other responses in this group. | |||
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"Is this thread just OP claiming to have more sex than average? I'm confused about what the message is " Average means different things to different people but I think at the heart of it, some people have a lifestyle that involves a lot of sex, and some have received judgemental, critical or abusive comments because of that lifestyle. | |||
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"Is this thread just OP claiming to have more sex than average? I'm confused about what the message is Average means different things to different people but I think at the heart of it, some people have a lifestyle that involves a lot of sex, and some have received judgemental, critical or abusive comments because of that lifestyle. " Fair enough Or rather not fair, as the matter may be...
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