FabGuys.com forum: How to identify when cruising/dogging

By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

Hi all.

First off, thanks for taking the time to read my post.

Just looking for any advice on how to identify myself while out cruising or dogging.

As you can guess, am pretty new to this type of fun and wanting to meet tops. I am bottom and would rather avoid the confusion about who is receiving lol.

Am very friendly and would prefer not to have that uncomfortable situation, lol. Hope I have made sense and most of all wish everyone all the best in whatever their preference.

Thanks for any replies in advance

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By *lan82Man
4 weeks ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

Red baseball cap.

Odd socks.

Yellow shorts.

Orange t shirt.

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By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

"Red baseball cap.

Odd socks.

Yellow shorts.

Orange t shirt. "

Well thank you, very helpful. Which would you go for in order,? Not sure I would look to good in all those, lol

Many thanks

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By *amie2018cMan
4 weeks ago

N Cambs, W Norf

Rainbow flag and blow a whistle

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By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

"Rainbow flag and blow a whistle "

Hmm, not too discreet that. Or did you mean dog whistle 😂

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By *annyDanielleMan
4 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

"Red baseball cap.

Odd socks.

Yellow shorts.

Orange t shirt.

Well thank you, very helpful. Which would you go for in order,? Not sure I would look to good in all those, lol

Many thanks "

There's always the naked option.

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By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

"Red baseball cap.

Odd socks.

Yellow shorts.

Orange t shirt.

Well thank you, very helpful. Which would you go for in order,? Not sure I would look to good in all those, lol

Many thanks

There's always the naked option.

Seriously???

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tetbury

Once you find someone who is obviously "looking"

Just ask.

I have always found these places quite polite.

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By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

"Once you find someone who is obviously "looking"

Just ask.

I have always found these places quite polite. "

I agree, just wondered if there was a way to make my intentions more obvious.

Thanks for the reply

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By *tillinrg4Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

When I have been cruising places, I have had a walk up and down once.

After that I might have my hands in my pockets but slowly moving over my cock for someone to notice then stop behind some trees or something. If the other guy is interested he'll come over.

I generally ask 'are you top or bottom?' because I'm vers and will go either way.

Sometimes I am in mood for one or the other so I will say 'I am bottom so are you top?'.

If they are not we just politely say 'cheers' and move on.

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By *oreskinlpoolMan
4 weeks ago

Foot taping, playing at urinals

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By *roy1701dMan
4 weeks ago

London

I usually cruise the nature reserves or woods, wait until dark and be seen walking into the open spaces from the car park, then strip off. Guys usually come over if interested

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By *umover4uMan
4 weeks ago

anytown

Well I will definitely be wearing odd socks from now on.

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By *0yguyMan
4 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Once you find someone who is obviously "looking"

Just ask.

I have always found these places quite polite. "

Not always. Sometimes I’ve just walked past a car looking and been met with aggressive and rude comments. No call for it.

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By *uck my bumMan
4 weeks ago

walsall

Sometimes they are in a car with cock out wanking

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By *ick ZuckerMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

There’s no generally recognised was of signalling what you want to do (like top or bottom). There’s methods of suggesting you’re there for fun but ultimately once chatting you have to ask or tell. I generally ask what are you into?

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By *atureTransTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Waterlooville

After cruising for over 20 years.

First dogging is with normaly a couple, male and female.

Cruising is for male and male sex.

If you find a location where you think gay sex goes on. I would first go there in the middle of the day, for a recognition survey, have a look around and familiarise yourself with the surroundings.

When you go cruising, the worst thing you can do, is just sit in your car. Sit for a few minutes and look.

If there are other cars there some may well be there for the same thing as you, but others may not.

The best way to hook up is if any one gets out of thier car and goes into any trees, get out you car and follow him.

If there are trees he will probably go deeper to a quiet spot, stand behind a tree and look like he is having a piss.

Get a bit closer, if he is interested, he will probably turn around and have his cock out. Or will rub his hand over his cock.

I have been in that situation many times and it normally leads to sex.

But dont forget to ask him what sex he is looking for. His wants might not be the same as yours.

Also before you go cruising, decide 100% what you feel safe with, like sex acts, age etcetera. I would never follow two guys from the same car.

Good luck

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Cruising is pretty much hit and hope in my experience

The easiest thing is just be polite and ask

The worst that will happen is the other fella will walk away if it’s not what he’s looking for

I can’t say I know of any signals that equate to the role you are or looking for

I’m led to believe that few decades ago the was a coloured hanky hanging out your back pocket but I’ve never seen or experienced anything that

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By *etterbiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Well I will definitely be wearing odd socks from now on.

The good news is you have another pair exactly the same at home for future dogging fun

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By *hyguy62Man
4 weeks ago

Brentwood

"Sometimes they are in a car with cock out wanking "

Yeah, I find that a dead giveaway lol xx

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By *ust4inchesMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Hi all.

First off, thanks for taking the time to read my post.

Just looking for any advice on how to identify myself while out cruising or dogging.

As you can guess, am pretty new to this type of fun and wanting to meet tops. I am bottom and would rather avoid the confusion about who is receiving lol.

Am very friendly and would prefer not to have that uncomfortable situation, lol. Hope I have made sense and most of all wish everyone all the best in whatever their preference.

Thanks for any replies in advance

So you have been on here for 4 years or so, have several verifications, visited a sauna, but claim to be new to “this type of fun”

Your profile says you won’t meet people from here without any verifications but apparently you are now prepared to meet random men at cruising places.

Seems an odd post to me. Just saying.

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By *astguy7Man
4 weeks ago

Herefordshire

It's like the first night at a 5 star all inclusive hotel with one of those massive buffets. Sit and watch for a few minutes then follow someone. By the second visit you'll be helping yourself to everything you fancy.

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By *ust4inchesMan
4 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

"Red baseball cap.

Odd socks.

Yellow shorts.

Orange t shirt.

Well thank you, very helpful. Which would you go for in order,? Not sure I would look to good in all those, lol

Many thanks

There's always the naked option.

Seriously???"

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By *dickted2dickMan
4 weeks ago

middleton

I get my ass out n walk about or dress girly x

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By *ocktosuckMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

I always get asked ‘What are you into?’ and that normally works. My response is ‘Im looking for someone to give me a blow job’. Then what normally happens is the guy bends down with his face in front of my crutch, I take out my cock and the deed is done.

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By *aul349Man
4 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

"When I have been cruising places, I have had a walk up and down once.

After that I might have my hands in my pockets but slowly moving over my cock for someone to notice then stop behind some trees or something. If the other guy is interested he'll come over.

I generally ask 'are you top or bottom?' because I'm vers and will go either way.

Sometimes I am in mood for one or the other so I will say 'I am bottom so are you top?'.

If they are not we just politely say 'cheers' and move on."

This is how it used to work for years.

These days you are as more likely to get you collar felt than your cock at most cruising places.

You would think it's crime of the century....

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By *unseeker1977 OP Man
4 weeks ago

east riding

"Hi all.

First off, thanks for taking the time to read my post.

Just looking for any advice on how to identify myself while out cruising or dogging.

As you can guess, am pretty new to this type of fun and wanting to meet tops. I am bottom and would rather avoid the confusion about who is receiving lol.

Am very friendly and would prefer not to have that uncomfortable situation, lol. Hope I have made sense and most of all wish everyone all the best in whatever their preference.

Thanks for any replies in advance

So you have been on here for 4 years or so, have several verifications, visited a sauna, but claim to be new to “this type of fun”

Your profile says you won’t meet people from here without any verifications but apparently you are now prepared to meet random men at cruising places.

Seems an odd post to me. Just saying. "

Yes, the "type of fun" the post was all about...CRUISING! Most understood this obviously from some very good replies.

Meeting from Fab is abvioously different to meeting outdoor randomly. Asking for verifications from fab to a meet at yours or theirs is gonna be very uncomfortable if you find them to not be what they have said. You'll have given address details out or be at there place.

Out cruising you can just walk on.

Is this really that hard for you to understand? Others seem to no problem

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Leics/Warks

My method is to get out of car dressed like a slut and fetch something from my boot, when I bend over my suspender straps and stocking tops are on show.

If no one comes for a closer look I move on to the next location

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By *eicester-lukeMan
4 weeks ago

leicester

I use fab. Put it on your status that your looking for fun and you will be at this cruising spot at this time and say you will do something specific like leaving your car door open. Then at least guys on here will know what you want and how to identify you. Also you can use near me to find out if anyone on fab is there too check out their profile and maybe meet

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By *umover4uMan
2 weeks ago

anytown

"Sometimes they are in a car with cock out wanking "

Unless they are in transit size van, It's very hard to notice or be noticed with your cock out without getting very close to the car while waking past

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By *ampell1Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Out in cruising locations have walked past guys they have give a nod looked back then walked in the woods. I

Have done the same.

And it's game on.

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Berkshire

It’s eye contact, simple as that.

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By *aul648kMan
2 weeks ago

Minehead

"Hi all.

First off, thanks for taking the time to read my post.

Just looking for any advice on how to identify myself while out cruising or dogging.

As you can guess, am pretty new to this type of fun and wanting to meet tops. I am bottom and would rather avoid the confusion about who is receiving lol.

Am very friendly and would prefer not to have that uncomfortable situation, lol. Hope I have made sense and most of all wish everyone all the best in whatever their preference.

Thanks for any replies in advance

what's wrong with a bill board around your neck with: "Follow me" on the front and "in here" on the back?

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By *heerstockingsfem19TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

I just open my car door a little and place a stiletto heel and shapely stockinged ankle on show. This is safe and works very well.

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

depends on the day eh!

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By *onathan8300Man
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Park

Get out of car

Head to woods

Guys follow

Action happens

Pretty straightforward

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By *tephanie SomtimesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

South Derbyshire

The local cruising spot to me is a car park for country walks. There is a wooded ridge above and a footpath.

You can usually tell the guys looking for sex. Some will have suits on others more casually dressed. The walkers usually have boots on and a rucksack.

I've never done anything there but I've bought a ridiculously tiny pair of running shorts and a t-shirt so tight my nipples almost poke a hole through the material.

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