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Why do so many men love to wear ladies lingerie

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?

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By *ig3Man
5 weeks ago

Maldon

Well it does look and feel good on

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By *eedsbearmanMan
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Because they are norty

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By *earlyrichTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in time

It's the frill

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By *hyguy62Man
5 weeks ago

Brentwood

Why should women have all the nicer things to wear! Panties on a guy are lovely xx

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By *hitesageMan
5 weeks ago

withywood

I have made a post about this. Masculinity Still Matters to Some Men

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bangor

Woman’s clothes are far more attractive and feel lovely to wear

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By *hanclaMan
5 weeks ago

Bridgend area

It hides imperfections too

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By *IPMANMan
5 weeks ago

West London

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *earlyrichTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Somewhere in time


"I have made a post about this. Masculinity Still Matters to Some Men"

Each to Their own I guess

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By *api 999Man
5 weeks ago

North

No they don't especially if ur chubby and hairy n bearded it looks frigging ridiculous and pathetic unless ur very feminine and smooth n attractive convincing and younger

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By *otdirty123Man
5 weeks ago

leeds

I find it so horny and makes me very submissive

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

Born naked and the rest is drag.

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By *utoday24TV/TS
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Most guys who wear female attire start wearing from a young age at the start of puberty and hormones are all over the place.

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By *iPantiesMan
5 weeks ago

Louth

For me it's the allure,the fabric,detail how it looks and feels when you're wearing it, it has always elicited strong sexual feelings from a young age,add into the equation it is quite naughty when you expectedly or unexpectedly let someone whom you think might be interested a glimpse of what you're wearing creates a certain frisson shall we say?

I get it's not everyone's thing and that's fine but for us that do indulge and for me personally it gives me a great thrill.

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

You and they have a fetish. We all have something or other. Its no big deal.

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By *ingerieloverMan
5 weeks ago

Congleton

I’ve always had a thing for stockings, I love the feel of them, nothing about the feminine side, and they feel so sexy on as well & make my legs look hot

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By *uriousdreamerMan
5 weeks ago

Telford

Personally I love dressing up. It’s such a turn on. The feel, the look. Often thought I was weird but thought fuck it. I enjoy it. Especially enjoy it if it turns someone else on seeing me.

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By *usan 749ukTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bangor


"No they don't especially if ur chubby and hairy n bearded it looks frigging ridiculous and pathetic unless ur very feminine and smooth n attractive convincing and younger"

Not so much the chubby bit as I am but definitely hairy and bearded is definitely a no from me too

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By *aturebarneyMan
5 weeks ago

Sale

I get more meetings if I wear lingerie.

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By *luttychicaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Marbella


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

For me, as a bi guy, I think it's a bit controversial, it helps me feel submissive when I dress up which is what I'm looking for in my meets. The clothing helps emphasize the vulnerability.

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By *atietv1TV/TS
5 weeks ago

co. Durham

Can only answer for me but just makes me feel good along with the dresses shoes etc its very relaxing and let's me unwind. Can enhance sexual pleasure to be treated as a woman

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
5 weeks ago

Halesowen

Don't know about anyone else but I love the feel of lace panties against my skin and tucking my little cock so there's barely a bump let alone a bulge.

And holdups or tights, rubbing my legs through them is devine or wanking in them and seeing the cum pushed against my softening cock when I finish.

Oh god I've got horny just writing this

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By *arti G xTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

I just enjoy wearing it

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By *excessMan
5 weeks ago

Sleaford


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

Tbh I was always under the impression that gay .men who dress would be very much in the minority!

I thought that was more of a bi guy thing.

Im clearly wrong about that.

You live an learn 😏

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By *evinmanMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I find it a turn off

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By *ust4inchesMan
5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"I have made a post about this. Masculinity Still Matters to Some Men"

Not a relevant comment here then.

But there’s always one.

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By *hiteroseMan
5 weeks ago

Neverwhere

Experience the pull of a tight suspender strap on the back of the thigh when you walk ... then ask why we wear lingerie.

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By *avenMan
5 weeks ago

Stoford


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?

I know a bi man who dresses to go to clubs,as he is a bottom,and gets more interest,then he does as a man.He is not bad looking as male,and pretty good,dressed🤪

For me, as a bi guy, I think it's a bit controversial, it helps me feel submissive when I dress up which is what I'm looking for in my meets. The clothing helps emphasize the vulnerability."

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By *xmareMan
5 weeks ago

Norwich

"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

I think Jung was close, with his concept of the anima. Submerged in the unco nscious (censored word!) of a man is a meta-female personality, perhaps based on his mother. Jung reckoned that falling in love with a woman involved the projection of the man's anima on the object of his love, regardless of her actual nature. The theory seems to be that a homosexual has swapped his male persona for his anima...this is extremely debatable, of course. The equivalent in a woman is called the animus (being male)

Later psychologists suggest that the balance between anima and persona is smoothly variable, rather than consisting of simply two states.

Personally, putting on female lingerie and looking at a mirror is sexually arousing. My anima's rather pretty!

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By *agedinknickersMan
5 weeks ago

Downham Market

There are several sides to this for me - but both lingerie and chastity play into my submissive side and put my mind in that place.

Secondly I love the way lingerie feels when I put it on, and the way it makes me feel.

Then I love the pictures I take when wearing it - it allows me to express myself much more than the pics I used to take for the other site before I discovered the joy of lingerie.

Now I wear knickers most days and it makes me feel good about myself.

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By *atasscdTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Love the way it feels and make me feel

and mens clothes are so boring

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Leics/Warks

I tried them on cos I liked the look of them.

When I tried them on I loved the feeling.

Then I discovered how hard it makes guys cocks get when im dressed like a slut.

Now im hooked and love nothing more than dressing slutty and servicing the cocks ive made hard

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By *xmareMan
5 weeks ago

Norwich


"Love the way it feels and make me feel

and mens clothes are so boring "

There's another thread waiting to be put up, isn't there?:

"Why do so many men wear dull and boring clothes?"

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By *ornynylonfan1761Man
5 weeks ago

London

Have always loved seeing nylon legs and feet of women and at an early age was curios as to what they felt like to wear. Over the years have done more with them with me wearing and other wearing and it is just such a turn on.

Love seeing women in them for sure but also love a man who wears. Not a full cd but a guy in nylons with a big hard cock. Also love guys who wear out under their male clothes too

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By *evonboysCouple (MM)
5 weeks ago

south west

They are weird

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By *ishchaserMan
5 weeks ago

creswell

They look sexy

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By *londebiguyMan
5 weeks ago

near Southport

Most just look ridiculous.

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By *mptyspace80Man
5 weeks ago

Cambridge

I always feel like it's a bit transgressive. We're being naughty which is a thrill.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot


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For me, as a bi guy, I think it's a bit controversial, it helps me feel submissive when I dress up which is what I'm looking for in my meets. The clothing helps emphasize the vulnerability."

Personally I don't think that's controversial at all, I think it's a very good reason and probably quite common.

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By *lueoscarMan
5 weeks ago

alfreton/chesterfield

Its not for me but it seems a lot of you guys absolutely love it so fair play.

Its must be be very annoying if you spend ages getting ready for a meet dressing, make up hair etc and the man doesn't turn up for the meet also what if you are dressed up to the eyeballs and a mate or family unexpectedly pop in, my ex sister in law was a fucker for turning up at my place whilst I'd got a gentleman on all fours on my bed naked or one on the way banging on my backdoor its not good

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By *astDevonGuyMan
5 weeks ago

Seaton

Female hormones in drinking water?

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By *ammy57TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Stevenage and Telford

Because as a female I'm allowed to feel sexy?

No idea how it works but as a guy a man touches my bum I automatically want to say sorry mate you got the read wrong.

But if I'm wearing panties and he knows I am then it's different

I feel accepted and guilt free and while I can still say no, if I do so it's because I don't fancy it or I'm busy not because I'm hiding something about me.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Leics/Warks

Love nothing more than a smartly dressed man taking his trousers down to reveal a big cock squeezed into knickers and lingerie, as soon as its free from the knickers its going in my mouth

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Female hormones in drinking water?"

I thought it was a problem only for people that eat salmon more than once a week? Someone should tell the Daily Fail about it.

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By *ighway expressMan
5 weeks ago

Campbeltown


"No they don't especially if ur chubby and hairy n bearded it looks frigging ridiculous and pathetic unless ur very feminine and smooth n attractive convincing and younger"

Big,masculine, hairy bearded guys in lingerie are the one's that turn me on. Not smooth feminine guys, that does nothing for me ...

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By *obert xMan
5 weeks ago

Thankfully a minority

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By *raggahboyMan
5 weeks ago

stoke

Several i know especially if from the 60s and 70s years was because all underwear for men was boring cotton y fronts or Aertex full stop So i can understand wear they like the feel of silk satin etc I remember as a 13 year old finding a pait of my nans satin 1930s bloomers stripping naked and trying them on my young erect cock I was so glad when Hom Wo

lsey and and others brought out nylon Polyamide lycra etc So i no longer had to rely on fem wear as i found them uncomfortable for a mens tackle something always fell out of the top or the bottom

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Love the men's lingerie from x-dress online. Made to fit the man bulge and so many colours and designs

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5 weeks ago

Im married and wear the wifes worn knickers

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By *ancman2Man
5 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

Sorry it’s a turn off for me

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By *ntoniaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Kettering

For me its the material and how they feel when I put them on . I dont dress fully but I appreciate the effort and how a lot of the lovely girls look on here .

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By *ornynylonfan1761Man
5 weeks ago

London


"For me its the material and how they feel when I put them on . I dont dress fully but I appreciate the effort and how a lot of the lovely girls look on here ."

The feel of nylons are amazing, both on myself and on others.

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By *hris-in-WiltsMan
5 weeks ago

Chippenham


"Several i know especially if from the 60s and 70s years was because all underwear for men was boring cotton y fronts or Aertex full stop So i can understand wear they like the feel of silk satin etc I remember as a 13 year old finding a pait of my nans satin 1930s bloomers stripping naked and trying them on my young erect cock I was so glad when Hom Wo

lsey and and others brought out nylon Polyamide lycra etc So i no longer had to rely on fem wear as i found them uncomfortable for a mens tackle something always fell out of the top or the bottom "

So right! Boys clothes were heavy thick cotton. Girls had sheer nylon and satin in nice colours. I discovered it at 11/12 and never looked back. It feels lovely and is 'relaxing' plus it always made me hard, especially if I wasn't alone xxx

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By *westbiMan
5 weeks ago

West Dorset

It's just erotic.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow


"For me its the material and how they feel when I put them on . I dont dress fully but I appreciate the effort and how a lot of the lovely girls look on here ."

I appreciate you saying how lovely girls look on here, just wish more users would appreciate us as girls

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By *d seekerMan
5 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

Having looked at lingerie in catalogues when I was a lot younger, thinking this was what girl friends would be wearing for sex and then being disappointed, I thought I would try it for myself.

I am glad I did as it feels amazing, pulling stockings up and attaching suspenders to them.

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Guys who dress up are and always have been a huge turn on for me!

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By *V ShazTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Haydock

They are not just any ones bras, knickers, tights, skirts and dressers.

These are my bras, knickers, and tights, and I love wearing them 24/7

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By *rytonTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Chatham

Couldn't tell you why but love to do it . Only another cd will understand.

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By *ana in LingerieTV/TS
5 weeks ago

South East

Wearing nice lingerie and dressing is so sexy. Even for us non-convincing it does attract some lovely attention and guys appreciate it. Yes there are some twats on here giving nasty comments, you know the ones, blank profile, no pics, no verifications. I love to dress, and it's all my own. I choose it, I buy it. Thank you to the decent guys who enjoy the alternative side of life xx

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By *aytime KatyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Clacton

I'm instantly turned on and feel moist as soon as I put my bra on each morning . If I'm getting dressed for a boy, I get intensely horny and desperate for cock after I've put all my lingerie on, made up, put my wig on and stepped into those heels, lifting my bum up ready for cock, once my butt plug has been removed. It awakens a whole new sexual identity, arousal and satisfaction.

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By *ay4300Man
5 weeks ago

Salisbury

Because soo many many men are massively turned on by men in ladies lingerie maybe , I certainly am 😉

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By *aragurlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

paington

Being bi, I love dressing and being Tara and am massively turned on by other gurls..... I do think we all have to a greater or lesser extent a female side..... x

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By *-skinMan
5 weeks ago

Weymouth

I just love the feeling .

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By *teelballsMan
5 weeks ago

orpington

Apparently i’ve got decent legs. It makes me feel slutty and vulnerable AND i get far more offers if i have the pics of me in stockings than i ever do if i remove them.

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By *raggahboyMan
5 weeks ago

stoke

Ive got satin vests and briefs from the male part of Xdress called body aware

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By *luttychicaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Marbella


"It must be be very annoying if you spend ages getting ready for a meet dressing, make up hair etc and the man doesn't turn up for the meet"

People seriously get placed in a fucktard category at that point! It's a bit frustrating...like at least say that's what's happening. The funny times is when they reappear two weeks later without acknowledging their flake. At that point no thanks '99 guy!

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By *kxdressTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Stafford

As a transvestite, I've asked that question often. Having never come up with an answer, I thought, fuck it, just enjoy yourself..

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By *luttychicaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Marbella


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For me, as a bi guy, I think it's a bit controversial, it helps me feel submissive when I dress up which is what I'm looking for in my meets. The clothing helps emphasize the vulnerability.

Personally I don't think that's controversial at all, I think it's a very good reason and probably quite common. "

Controversial I guess for suggesting the female role is submissive by itself. It could be seen as controversial I guess.

Love women, think they're very sexy, just sometimes I think I do it better.

Tongue firmly in cheek for that last one!

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

Seems to be a well known fact that a great number of straight guys just love when the wife or girlfriend allows them to wear her lingerie

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By *ightskink131313Man
5 weeks ago

near

It just feels so sexy and makes me feel like a sissy I am

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By *jchrisMan
5 weeks ago

winsham , ,Chard.

I love the feeling of sexy underwear as I'm getting sucked off mmmm so horny here's hoping x

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By *ames 1984Man
5 weeks ago

Langbank

Maybe they want to play the naughty girl and get fucked by the top makes it even more of a turn on with the lingerie on

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By *ini1440Man
5 weeks ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

I love the feel of wearing x

Especially when a guy feels my nylons

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By *am187Man
5 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I love the feel of wearing x

Especially when a guy feels my nylons "

Mmmm

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By *ene2000Man
5 weeks ago

brum

I don't care as a top it's a bonus for me..no disrespect

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow


"Maybe they want to play the naughty girl and get fucked by the top makes it even more of a turn on with the lingerie on "

Love to play the naughty girl with you

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
5 weeks ago

London

Beautiful and sexy in lingerie.

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By *amsoonMan
5 weeks ago

stornoway

I like wearing a body stocking. Hides a multitude of sins

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

I love to wear my white frilly satin panties under my white mini skirt

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By *ello 1000Man
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

From a slightly different angle , I am not so much into wearing myself ( I don't look right ) but do enjoy seeing others and it's not just lingerie but other lady clothes as well , be it a pretty dress , blouse or skirt ,I do think ( and appreciate this is an over generalisation) that TVs do realise the beauty of the items more than women do ,

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By *teve the beastMan
5 weeks ago

leeds


"Thankfully a minority"
thankfully more and more,it takes these girls time and effort to look as good as they do,and I for one appreciate it

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By *oothlessTigerMan
5 weeks ago

Reading

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By *oothlessTigerMan
5 weeks ago

Reading

I can’t think of anything more repulsive seeing a man in lingerie but I guess that’s just my personal opinion

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By *teve the beastMan
5 weeks ago

leeds

Yes,and everyone is entitled to there opinion,for myself there’s nothing sexier than a gorgeous cd/tv and I’m glad I’ve shared a bed with the best girl on fab

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By *ad Bod ManMan
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

My fantasy is to suk a guy off who’s wearing stockings and knickers

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By *i60subMan
5 weeks ago

Northampton

Feels sexy - also I find it humiliating and degrading

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By *oodsman2Man
5 weeks ago

Galashiels

Just looks and feels good. Allows me to express another side of my personality

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By *ovechix69Man
5 weeks ago

north Northumberland

Love the feeling of nylon on my skin

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By *ooyoome5TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Lanark

Love dressing and the attention i get from men who like to see others wearing and personally love to see fellow wearers minority maybe yes but we are happy

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By *afcexileMan
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Feels so good, only buzz I get now.

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By *bbillMan
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Feels great

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
5 weeks ago

Didcot


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Tbh I was always under the impression that gay .men who dress would be very much in the minority!

I thought that was more of a bi guy thing.

Im clearly wrong about that.

You live an learn 😏

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There's is not a box marked gay where everyone inside thinks and acts alike, has the same outlook on life, the same traits, the same politics etc, etc, we are all different, some are very masculine some are at the other end of the spectrum and very feminine, though most will sit somewhere between those extremes. Whilst gay men who dress and act feminine may overall be in the minority, neither is it uncommon.

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By *ristolfun500Man
5 weeks ago

Bristol

Gets my dick hard the second i pull on a pair of panties.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

As such, I don’t wear panties when meeting guys. However, my Wife has two identical pairs of knickers made from lovely tight, silky material. Occasionally we wear a pair each and rub up against each other. It really turns her on, and me too! Always ends up with us fucking, hers pulled to the side, mine with my cock out the side. Me pulling out and cumming over them.

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By *ailou22Man
5 weeks ago

Milford Haven

I enjoy the feeling it creates and the effect it has on alpha males who enjoy seeing me dressed this way

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By *ampell1Man
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Been wearing on of since a teen love the feel them

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By *rawnsMan
5 weeks ago

manchester

Love wearing wife’s thongs. Love the feeling between my arse cheeks

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

It's a mystery to me but then again so many things in life are. I knew an army staff sergeant--tough Glaswegian, married but would still shag any female he could, a bit homophobic as well--who wore lingerie under his uniform and had an array of female clothing. I was dressed up once for a vicars and tarts party. Absolutely hated it.

Clothing fetishes are quite common. Back in my days of being a keen motorbiker I loved wearing my one-piece leathers and invariably got a hard-on just putting them on.

It is, I suppose a bit of an alter-ego, a fetish, a 'whatever turns you on'. To each their own.

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By *eefandfurMan
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Cross-dressing is one of the most common fetishes among straight and bisexual men.

Estimated at around 5-6%.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

glasgow

I do get excited when footballers take off their shirt , only wearing shorts, and reveal their GPS sports bra , bet there are quite a few footballers love wearing their bra?

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I do get excited when footballers take off their shirt , only wearing shorts, and reveal their GPS sports bra , bet there are quite a few footballers love wearing their bra?"

Don't quite get those sports bra thingies that some footballers and sportsmen wear. What does it do for them and what is it all about?

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By *apitano 76Man
5 weeks ago

newcastleemlyn

Tried the wifes thong

Surprisingly i enjoyed the feeling of them

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By *ordladMan
5 weeks ago

Wrexham

Cause im a sissy and love feeling feminine even though id never look it

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By *ustinaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

cardiff

For me it is a natural desire to want to feminise myself, whether it is lingerie, dresses, even nail polish. The woman inside me is never far from the surface and needs to make her presence felt as often as possible. It is not tied into sexual urges, I'm just being me.

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By *V-SLUT1968TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Sheffield


"For me it is a natural desire to want to feminise myself, whether it is lingerie, dresses, even nail polish. The woman inside me is never far from the surface and needs to make her presence felt as often as possible. It is not tied into sexual urges, I'm just being me."

Everything above but it does make me a complete slut once im fully dressed

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By *PH1956Man
5 weeks ago

Colchester


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

Beats me!!

Prefer a guy to be a guy.

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By *ello 1000Man
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I do get excited when footballers take off their shirt , only wearing shorts, and reveal their GPS sports bra , bet there are quite a few footballers love wearing their bra?

Don't quite get those sports bra thingies that some footballers and sportsmen wear. What does it do for them and what is it all about?"

They are fitted with gps technology allows coaches , medical staff to see how players are coping during the match

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By *hong loverTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Wilton near Malton

I feel so sexy when dressed, it’s such a thrill transforming from a guy to a tgirl xx

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
5 weeks ago

Strood

For me it’s just an occasional bit of fun.

I do think it looks ok with my smooth body, but it’s just for my pleasure, tbh.

Though I did wear the knickers to a boring family party, they cheered me up each time I thought ‘You’d be shocked if you could see what’s under my jeans’

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By *ustinaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

cardiff


"I feel so sexy when dressed, it’s such a thrill transforming from a guy to a tgirl xx"

That's exactly how I used to feel whenever I dressed and put on make-up, the thrill of transforming oneself into a passable t-girl. Now however I don't get that thrill anymore. I just feel more comfortable in women's clothes and hate having to wear male clothes when I go shopping etc.

I am more daring nowadays however and will put on a small amount of eye shadow and maybe some face powder. Not enough to make people stare but enough to make me feel I'm still in female mode.

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By *cr MannixMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *cr MannixMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester

I only started wearing lingerie and other 'women's' clothing about 5 years ago but I'm totally hooked on it now. Initially it was for the sexual thrill and transgressive nature of it. But now I'll often dress when I'm alone or wear knickers or tights under 'male' clothes out of comfort as much as anything else.

I've shied away from describing myself as TV/TS on my profile but I find myself more and more seeking out meets that allow me to dress. Also, while trying to have a balance of pics showing me dressed and just naked on my profile it's the one's where I'm dressed that get fabs the most, which encourages me to do more. A virtuous circle?

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Berkshire

I’ve no idea…..I find it all a bit weird TBH !!

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

I have at times when trawling thru a park at night worn a bra and panties.

Interestingly when I've met someone in the park and they open my shirt and find I'm wearing a bra then they seem to know I want my nipples played with and sucked, Also without asking they seem to know I'm ready to be fucked

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By *eliaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Doncaster


"I’ve no idea…..I find it all a bit weird TBH !! "

Lol lol lol

I think it's something to do with personal choice.

As n those who want to, do and those who don't quite simply, don't.

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By *arriedbiMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

I just think you sexy gals and guys look so sexy in lingerie a big turn on

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

So many young athletic guys look great in frilly panties and matching tight fitting bra

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By *erscumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

For the bi and straight folks, I think it is bugger all to do with feeling feminine. Its merely another fetish that feels a bit naughty and secret in the very long list of fetishes. I asked a meet to leave not too long ago as he turned up wearing knickers under his Adidas. He looked like a right twat and my urge to be fucked by him was instantly nullified.

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By *anting2suckseniorcockMan
4 weeks ago

Nr High Wycombe

Don’t anymore but when younger I’d often wear my sisters

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By *iguy73Man
4 weeks ago

Oldham

Ladies underwear is made to be sexual were as mens underwear is made for practicality in my opinion

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By *P73Man
4 weeks ago

east Mids

Not wore lingerie in a good few years, but the feeling of lace to me felt amazing, especially in suspenders

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By *filthyMan
4 weeks ago

North Berwick

Loved it since playing dares years ago x

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot


"Ladies underwear is made to be sexual were as mens underwear is made for practicality in my opinion "

Um no not entirely, everyday underwear whether male or female is made for practicality, what is perceived as "sexy" is subjective.

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By *urious44walesMan
4 weeks ago

South Wales

Im very male, but have always had a thing gor wearing lingerie. It turns he on, and I feel very feminine (even though I dont look it!!) when wearing, Judst my thing is guess!

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By *avebiuk99Man
4 weeks ago

Kings Lynn

For me it's a million miles from my normal life when I wear my wife's lingerie. Ever since I was first asked to put some on for an older guy I was quite surprised how turned on I was wearing it which was a combination of how it felt wearing it on my skin the naughtiness of wearing it and how it turned on the guy that asked me to wear it.

After watching a few porn videos with my wife of men wearing lingerie my wife has since asked me on occasions to wear it for her which was a real turn on but she doesn't know that I wear it for men.

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By *ewbie42Man
4 weeks ago

Loughton

I actually like feeling a thong up my arse crack. Depends on the occasion tho

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By *issy crystalTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Hook

I fibd it more of a mystery why so few men wear feminine clothing. Though I guess the true number is not so few.

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 weeks ago

London

Sexy !!! Better with _igh heels can sway my horny bottom from left to right abd right to left. Hahaha.

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By *nchsolentMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

At first it wasn't my choice to dress and I didn't want to play that game but now when I get the chance I dress

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By *igh heelsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

north east


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

Because it so sexy and felt amazing x

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By *verageMan123Man
4 weeks ago

Fylde

I only want to for tops to humiliate me

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By *orny747Man
4 weeks ago

andover

It feels so good

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By *illgossardTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Abergavenny

I know technically I am gay. I just enjoy feeling like a woman and dressing up as one is so nice.

As I got older the clothes were not enough and so I started to look for men to help me get closer to my perverted view of the perfect woman.

Foreplay for me is dressing up.

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By *ornyJosh_247Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

I’ve stopped trying to explain it tbh and just enjoy what we enjoy xx

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By *treyu500Man
4 weeks ago

wickow


"Most just look ridiculous."

I would agree with this but I suppose it not about what we think. It's about how it makes them feel and also for whatever reason , looking at them is appealing to others.

I find the whole thing quite interesting. And it definitely seems to be more common among bi men and men over a certain age. Im not basing that off of fab but from my experience of other apps too.

Since the OP asked, my guess about why people Cross dress could be that it has something to do with gayness traditionally being attributed to femininity/campness.

So it's manifested in some men as this kink or sexual persona (this could be true for some and not for others). I also think that, if born in recent decades , SOME of these men may identify as trans. I would be interested to hear if anyone in this thread that cross dresses would agree with that last statement - do you ever wish it was more than just dressing up ? I suppose the difference for trans people is that it's not actually (or solely) about sexual gratification.

For me, there's nothing more manly than sex with a man - there's quite literally no women present.

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By *862EastmidsMan
4 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

My kink definitely comes from stealing my mate's mum's used knickers. I went from smelling them to wrapping them round my cock to eventually wearing them to wank into.

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By *ondomhunterMan
4 weeks ago

hastings

Nothing more maculine than a fit guy in knickers and hold ups

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By *avewill1Man
4 weeks ago

melksham


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"
Often an act of submission, compliance. An escape from our real world of pressure and decision making

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

If it was just a pair of frilly panties, I can understand wanting to wear something more colourful, more silky than boring male underwear but when going the full road and dressing like a woman then there is something more deep in such a fetish but everyone to their own, variety is the spice of a good sex life

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By *in tin 25Man
4 weeks ago

west

Been wearing since my early teens and I'm 51 now, and still love it. Euphoric actually

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By *andysmithTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Poole


"Love the way it feels and make me feel

and mens clothes are so boring

There's another thread waiting to be put up, isn't there?:

"Why do so many men wear dull and boring clothes?""

Because that's what is percieved as the norm. People in generall want to fit in so they wear the clothes available in the shops. Mens clothing shops generally sell clothes that make me feel like they want me to dress as if I'm on my way to a funeral.

Men generally wear colourful clothes on holiday possibly because they are out of their normal social circle.

As a footnote in many countries in the world men do wear colourful clothes and in some countries heaven forbid men wear sarongs.

I don't possess any male underwear panties, thongs and suggestive lingerie are the norm for me.

Miss Smith 💋💋💋

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By *ngel50TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Kinross


"Woman’s clothes are far more attractive and feel lovely to wear "

Im a smaller effeminate shaped guy, all my wife's size 8 and size 10 clothes fit me and I like to fully dress as a girl when she's at work.

I like to surrender to a man and do all he asks to sexually satisfy him and dressing as a girl really gets cocks hard

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By *ylonplesureTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Stafford

Just love the feel and the look

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By *orkshireOralMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

A difficult one to explain by denying myself the pleasure of wearing it makes the wearing more of a temptation in the end why deny yourself the pleasure gleaned from it when it feels so good ?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Young handsome athletic in bra, panties, sussies, stockings is a pure Adonis, his panties showing his bulge and looking beautiful in lingerie

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By *erry7070Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

Its the feel i guess of lace and silk around your cock and a gusset or gstring cutting tight up between your ass cheeks..

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By *auraTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Rugby

Because we can and its a personal preference.

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By *ingbongMan
4 weeks ago

hull

I did when I was young slim and smooth, I looked good, not so much now lol

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

It also can be a macho thing wearing lingerie

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By *radleyMan
4 weeks ago

Ormskirk

I've worn stockings or occasionally tights since I was 10 years old. The feeling of shaving your legs and painting your toes and then sliding into a pair is a wonderful moment not only for me but for anyone else who appreciates the allure..!

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By *ornynylonfan1761Man
4 weeks ago

London

The feel of the nylon, the look and the fact it is naughty to wear. A big hard smooth cock framed or encased in sheer nylons is a very hot site.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

In terms of everyday knickers, be they thongs or briefs, they just feel softer and thinner than male underwear, to me this makes them much nicer to wear.

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By *arybonerMan
4 weeks ago

Budleigh

It’s kinky and they feel sexy

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By *anee77TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Brentwood

It's so comfy and makes me feel fem

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By *jsucksTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chesham

Lot of interesting responses although I present as female most of the time I am a gay man who since childhood have a very pronounced feminine streak. Don't want to have another p to chop off my small cock. I like women and as friends but don't want to have sex with them. Get on better with my x wife nnow then ever did when married.If was ever to get into a relationship it would be with another cd or trans women. But can see that happening so will carry on enjoy sex with guys.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Yes i think we envy women who have this wonderful choice of lingerie, different fabrics, different styles, so many colours , stockings and nylons fitting neatly over your cock and balls, giving a welcome view

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By *ager_to_pleaseTV/TS
4 weeks ago

East Anglia

I just feel comfier and sexier and it feels more natural to me x

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By *sker1TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Dagenham

Love wearing my wife’s panties

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By *hubby63Man
4 weeks ago

Great yarmouth

It's how it makes you feel especially if you are clean shaven such a great feeling

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By *oeyK11Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Just adds to the kink for me

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By *ayCDslut69TV/TS
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Just makes you feel more sexier, horny and more of a slut

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot

Could it be as simple as some of us were born that way? I have always had a fairly obvious feminine streak I'm sure I'm not alone. I spent a lot of wasted years being miserable trying to hide any trace of femineity, then realised we only get one shot at life, we need to live it in a way that makes us happy (obviously without negatively impacting others)

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By *rant69Man
4 weeks ago

Christchurch

I tried my mother's panties on when I was around 12 years old after I found her sexy stash of lingerie, I really don't know why I did it but have been unable to stop ,I am 58 now and a secret submissive sissy slut ,my wife knows nothing about it and i still can't stop...

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By *immySplashMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

i just love the soft sexiness of a skimpy pair of knickers

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By *traight.lad45Man
4 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Coz its naughty

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By *ordladMan
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

Cause it feels good and makes us feel sexy

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

We're all girls at heart when wearing sexy frillies

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By *ldbutEnthusiasticMan
4 weeks ago

Reading

I wasn't a man when I first tried on my mum's under wear.

I was about 12 and knew nothing. Still 3 years away from my first wet orgasm.

But I got an instant (tiny) rock hard erection and dry wanked myself half a dozen times.

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By *andalf69Man
4 weeks ago

location changes with work

I enjoy the feel and look of it but my menopausal wife has given up on sex so for me, it adds the excitement she used to give me but now I meet other men. Plus my legs look hellish in a pair of stockings and my smooth arse looks great in a thong #justsayin……

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By *rse banditMan
4 weeks ago

airdrie


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"
Everyone to there own but does nothing for me.

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By *effnwbiguyMan
4 weeks ago

bolton

I love the feel of nylon against my skin and seeing other guys wearing stockings or tights.

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By *aul648kMan
4 weeks ago

Minehead


"It's not so much the gay men like me who love to wear female lingerie but the bi-sexual men and married men who seem to be the majority. Why do we love to wear frilly panties , bras, suspenders etc, is there a feminine side to most of us ?"

Who cares once we're naked in bed.

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By *onman666TV/TS
4 weeks ago

doncaster

Its all just so nice to wear x

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