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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract

I get my pubes waxed monthly by a really nice gay guy. He doesn’t know I’m bi. He’s aLeo a masseuse and has made it quite clear he’d love to give me a full body massage with a happy ending. I’m really tempted but I keep my bi play very discreet and I’m not sure if I want to share this side of me with someone who knows who I am. But he’s waxed me loads of times and we get on very well. Should I throw caution to the winds and go for it or be sensible and not indulge?

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By *sxladMan
5 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I think as long as both of you lay down what you're comfortable with beforehand it shouldn't be a problem. If he's a decent guy then he'll be quite understanding. The fact he's offering shows he's open

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By *enjonMan
5 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Do you get erected when he is waxing you? He obviously handles your cock and balls when doing it so guess he probably knows your Bi?

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract

No I don’t

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By *kindian200Man
5 weeks ago

wednebury

Sounds hot just go for it you never know you might love it

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"Sounds hot just go for it you never know you might love it "

I probably would!

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By *ig3Man
5 weeks ago

Maldon


"I get my pubes waxed monthly by a really nice gay guy. He doesn’t know I’m bi. He’s aLeo a masseuse and has made it quite clear he’d love to give me a full body massage with a happy ending. I’m really tempted but I keep my bi play very discreet and I’m not sure if I want to share this side of me with someone who knows who I am. But he’s waxed me loads of times and we get on very well. Should I throw caution to the winds and go for it or be sensible and not indulge?"

DO IT 💯

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By *owestoftBiCdMan
5 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Up to you both

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By *reddy1510Man
5 weeks ago

Preston

Maybe you need to accept your bi side first. In the meantime let him down gently; act like he’s joking. Keep it friendly but aloof.

If the massage and happy ending goes bad you’ll lose what sounds like a good waxer. So just keep it professional.

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"Maybe you need to accept your bi side first. In the meantime let him down gently; act like he’s joking. Keep it friendly but aloof.

If the massage and happy ending goes bad you’ll lose what sounds like a good waxer. So just keep it professional. "

I do accept my bi side that’s not a problem. It’s being open about it with someone I see regularly, that knows me, is my concern

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"I get my pubes waxed monthly by a really nice gay guy. He doesn’t know I’m bi. He’s aLeo a masseuse and has made it quite clear he’d love to give me a full body massage with a happy ending. I’m really tempted but I keep my bi play very discreet and I’m not sure if I want to share this side of me with someone who knows who I am. But he’s waxed me loads of times and we get on very well. Should I throw caution to the winds and go for it or be sensible and not indulge?

DO IT 💯"

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

He's not stupid, he knows what you are and he knows you are receptive to his suggestion. About as subtle as the forth rail bridge.

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By *excessMan
5 weeks ago

Sleaford

I had a similar situation with a guy who had a sports therapy business.

Wed met several times for sex, and it was awesome, but I was having back trouble and asked if it would be weird if could see him in a professional capacity.

He was happy to do that and and I guess somewhat inevitably, we had some fun after the treatment.

He wouldn't take any money.

I booked again for a therapy session the week after, which once again led to some extra curricular activity.

This time I insisted I paid him.

I get his argument that shagging your patients might compromise his professional integrity😁 but the treatment was really effective and well worth the money.

The sex was just a very nice bonus😊

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
5 weeks ago

Newmarket

Do it, I think you know you want to

In terms of intimacy there’s not much difference between waxing and a happy ending after a nice massage. And it could lead to more…

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"He's not stupid, he knows what you are and he knows you are receptive to his suggestion. About as subtle as the forth rail bridge."

Ha yeah I think you might be right!

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"I had a similar situation with a guy who had a sports therapy business.

Wed met several times for sex, and it was awesome, but I was having back trouble and asked if it would be weird if could see him in a professional capacity.

He was happy to do that and and I guess somewhat inevitably, we had some fun after the treatment.

He wouldn't take any money.

I booked again for a therapy session the week after, which once again led to some extra curricular activity.

This time I insisted I paid him.

I get his argument that shagging your patients might compromise his professional integrity😁 but the treatment was really effective and well worth the money.

The sex was just a very nice bonus😊"

Sounds like fun!

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By *ibloke88 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Pontefract


"Do it, I think you know you want to

In terms of intimacy there’s not much difference between waxing and a happy ending after a nice massage. And it could lead to more…"

True. I think I do want to, can’t beat a good massage with a happy ending!

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By *ustPeekinMan
5 weeks ago

Alresford

I don’t think he’s in any doubt about your situation. If you can trust him, and he’s already waxing you, go for it!

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By *iassloverMan
5 weeks ago

Rugby

Look at it like this. If you decide to go for it then it's between you two alone. Nobody else needs to know.

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By *arwick1Man
4 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I would imagine that - as he is gay - he may well be on Fabguys. If he’s on here, he’s probably seen your profile if you’re local to him? If he’s seen your profile he will have recognised you (given that he’s already intimately acquainted with your body).

I say: Go for it & Good Luck!

Come back and let us know all the steamy details?!

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By *nthebuffMan
4 weeks ago

Liskeard

Probably better that it's someone you know, albeit through waxing. If you're not embarrassed that he's obviously seen everything (there's no shyness when having a wax) why worry about taking it a little further.

You could always agree to a massage and see how things are at the time as to any extras

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 weeks ago

London

The decision is yours to make.

If it's me I would go for it.

Flip flops massage as I am a very good masseur too.

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic


"I get my pubes waxed monthly by a really nice gay guy. He doesn’t know I’m bi. He’s aLeo a masseuse and has made it quite clear he’d love to give me a full body massage with a happy ending. I’m really tempted but I keep my bi play very discreet and I’m not sure if I want to share this side of me with someone who knows who I am. But he’s waxed me loads of times and we get on very well. Should I throw caution to the winds and go for it or be sensible and not indulge?"

If your happy as it is stay that way. After you might get embarrassed and need to find someone new to wax you.

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By *attersbyMan
4 weeks ago

cotswold


"I get my pubes waxed monthly by a really nice gay guy. He doesn’t know I’m bi. He’s aLeo a masseuse and has made it quite clear he’d love to give me a full body massage with a happy ending. I’m really tempted but I keep my bi play very discreet and I’m not sure if I want to share this side of me with someone who knows who I am. But he’s waxed me loads of times and we get on very well. Should I throw caution to the winds and go for it or be sensible and not indulge?"

Are you capable of making any other decisions for yourself such as which way round to put on your underpants? Or which foot goes in which shoe?

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By *aul648kMan
4 weeks ago

Minehead

FUCK! What are you waiting for?????? Just do it and report back on here so we can all enjoy it too.

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By *agerforcockMan
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

I totally understand your dilemma. I have a guy in the next street who's messaged me and said fancy some fun. He's married too but I always try not to go to local. I'd love to but apprehensive.

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By *orthcumguyMan
4 weeks ago

Carlisle

Yeah…. Why not…. Just go for it….

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By *itherMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah,gerrin there lad.

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