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Why do some guys get shook up when a top wants to give oral occasionally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago

I’m strictly top…but sometimes I actually want to suck as well as top occasionally. I prefer mutual oral. But I’ve had a few guys now get freaked out by a top wanting to do this. They don’t seem to understand that a top can perform oral as well?

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By *ountainMan
4 weeks ago

ipswich

I only meet tops and just about all of them want to suck my cock. And as a good girl I have to let them. They are the boss.

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By *olves404Man
4 weeks ago

Tipton

As a sissy slut its my purpose to let the alpha male do as they want

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By *teelballsMan
4 weeks ago

orpington

I never understand this. I always assume the terms top and bottom refer to fucking.

Surely a guy who describes himself as top is as likely to fancy sucking a cock as a guy who terms himself as bottom.

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By *itherMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't get hard anymore but by all means suck away - a sixty nine is nice, but I always want your cock in my bum.

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By *aynie-MarieTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Reigate

For me personally it’s down to part of my transition. I genuinely don’t like even having mine. Let alone having it touched or even sucked. I’m going through a full medical transition and when the opportunity comes I will be opting for it to be removed

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By *oddess_MelissaTV/TS
4 weeks ago

I’m top & like the occasional cock to work on when I feel like it.

As you said some folk struggle to get their head around it.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"I never understand this. I always assume the terms top and bottom refer to fucking.

Surely a guy who describes himself as top is as likely to fancy sucking a cock as a guy who terms himself as bottom. "

This I'm top but love sucking cock, can happily pass over the fucking for a really good oral session.

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By *os001Man
4 weeks ago

Oxford

It's a preference for me, I don't enjoy being sucked.

If a top insists on it as part of a meet, we probably won't connect.

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By *actilePigMan
4 weeks ago

LINCOLN

Labels schmabels. I’ve had a few men recoil in horror and denounce my notions of being a top because I sucked their cocks. As I am aware we all have different understandings of what certain terms mean, I never felt the need to enter into a conversation to try and convince them otherwise. I just smiled to myself when they tapped out on me, which most men do, after a few hours of fucking, with the question “I thought you said you were a power bottom?”.

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By *opguy11Man
4 weeks ago

frodsham

I’m a top and enjoy sucking a cock to

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By *ubtitsMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

I think if you set out what you want and expect from the start the meet should be go OK but some guys think when you meet you will change your mind and I wonder why??

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By *DC2000Man
4 weeks ago

Coningsby


"I’m a top and enjoy sucking a cock to"

Same here. It's only polite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"I think if you set out what you want and expect from the start the meet should be go OK but some guys think when you meet you will change your mind and I wonder why??"

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
4 weeks ago

London

Reasons:

Feeling hot and horny.

Lustful

Horny sensation or energy round the navel, cock, perineum, anus.

Nipples dilated and horny

Tongue salivating

All happened with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Never sucked a cock myself but eaten pussy, and I don't see any kind of oral as related at all to top and bottom dynamics, or dominant/submissive dynamics. I'm not that big into being sucked as I cum way too fast from it, but I would have assumed more gay/bi guys than not would actively want to suck cock?

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By *DC2000Man
4 weeks ago

Coningsby


"I’m a top and enjoy sucking a cock to

Same here. It's only polite!"

As a top, I like the reversal of roles in that moment, me sucking and feeling sub but then taking control again. As for having my cock sucked, is it a little odd that what turns me on more than the feeling is watching the guy do it? Knowing that he's enjoying it?

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

All men want there cocks sucked and you can't expect others to suck n swallow yours if you can't suck n swallow there's.

Only known one guy that didn't want to suck me and he's straight. Yeah he will fuck me and let me suck him off but he's never Evan touched my cock.

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