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By *uvfeetluvcock2 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Sunningdale

Don’t you hate it when you go to the trouble of reading a profile and sending a message, only to find that the person has read your mssg and cannot be bothered to reply even to say No! And they’re still online

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

Maybes they're thinking of what to put or chatting to a few others at the time?

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By *issy OliveTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Corby ish

Meh, I'd say not ever message deserves a reply. Might not be for them

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By *ridayguyMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

either / or X

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By *.N.D.YMan
4 weeks ago

erdington Birmingham

Only don’t reply when they don’t read my profile

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By *ose_QuartzTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Berkshire

More often than not even when you have explained everything clearly in detail on your profile of what you’re looking for and the guy has decided to send a message regardless knowing full well they don’t meet the criteria. It’s nothing personal or you can’t be bothered especially when it’s all stated in black and white before hand. Just my opinion

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By *reddy1510Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

Sometimes they have limited messages. They may be using them carefully or not wanting to waste them sending polite No Thanks replies.

On here no reply = no. You just have to get over it

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By *elshgloryholeMan
4 weeks ago

Pontypridd

It’s always a little bit disappointing but I also do it myself. Especially those who clearly haven’t read my profile. If they’re not interested, they don’t owe you a response. Just because you messaged, they’re not obligated to respond. If someone holds open the door, it’s nice to say thank you, but they didn’t ask you to hold it open…

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By *mudgeMan
4 weeks ago

NEWBURY

It's when they send u a message I reply then silence

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By *atOralChubMan
4 weeks ago

London

Not on here all the time. Sometimes it takes me a while to get around to replying, especially because I like to put a bit of thought into it.

Hate it when people follow a message minutes later with “Not interested then?” or “Timewaster”. Give me a minute!

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By *_nottslad_xTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

I’ve pretty much learned that most people don’t bother to read profiles before they email and when you email back to say “thanks but no thanks” they either see that as an invitation to keep emailing you, assuming you will miraculously have a change of heart or you usually get a follow up email with an insult or abuse. If you stay silent then there’s no where to go. Not something i like to do but it’s something I have found works for me.

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By *ondonjeansMan
4 weeks ago

London WC1

Much easier if they just block you, then it's clear they're not interested - assuming you even remember having messaged them.

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By *upertedMan
4 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

That's why there is a wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"I’ve pretty much learned that most people don’t bother to read profiles before they email and when you email back to say “thanks but no thanks” they either see that as an invitation to keep emailing you, assuming you will miraculously have a change of heart or you usually get a follow up email with an insult or abuse. If you stay silent then there’s no where to go. Not something i like to do but it’s something I have found works for me. "

Yeah this is a thing that really bugs me. I turn a guy down, he keeps pestering me over and over again. One time I actually started to relent because the guy was hot but as soon as I expressed a change of heart and wanted to meet, he made some stupid excuse and I ended up blocking him. So irritating.

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By *aid2TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Swindon

As long as they have read my profile they get a reply.

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By *ilke500Man
4 weeks ago

edinburgh

At the end of the day whether we like it or not there is no requirement to respond to any messages.

Of course it would be polite if they did but there is no obligation to do so.

People may not reply for various reasons and don’t have to explain their decision. I admit to not replying myself on occasion where the person has clearly not read my profile or they have little or no information on their own.

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By *_nottslad_xTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Mansfield


"As long as they have read my profile they get a reply. "

And what a great profile you have as well with s lovely “peachy ass”

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

middlesbrough

I stopped replying to all messages, as some people take any reply as a lead to start a conversation to meet , and in faq it says no response is a not interested, and previously pointed out people get a limited number of messages 300 if you don’t subscribe and people who have put new pictures on can get a lot of messages fast , so don’t take it personally when someone hasn’t replied

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