FabGuys.com forum: discovering my dominant streak

By *udi222 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Harrogate

I've never consider myself to have any kind of dominant side. Sex has always been about fun and mutual pleasure - both with men and women. However, very recently I had an encounter which has changed that.

I met a young guy for some oral fun. He was my type physically and I thoroughly enjoyed our mutual cocksucking session in which we both shot our loads.

A few days later I asked him if he'd like to repeat but sensed he wasn't that keen. Eventually he sent a message saying our meet was too vanilla for him but if i'd be dominant then he'd be interested in meeting again.

Over the next few days he told me what he was looking for. He wanted to be spanked, spat on, slapped, made to gag, be humiliated and degraded.

I wasn't sure this was my thing and I explained my reservations. He was understanding and said that he'd stop the session if it was clear either it wasn't working for either of us.

I was incredibly nervous when he arrived but decided to give it my best and went into dom mode as soon as he walked in.

I snarled instructions to him and made him strip slowly. I gave his arse a good spanking then put him on a dog lead and dragged him around my flat. At this point I realised i was massively turned on and my cock was at full mast. Over the next hour I slapped and spanked him, face-fucked him until he retched , ridiculed his cock (though it is actually very impressive) and took some video of him licking my balls. He was hugely turned-on and had an erection all the way through.

When i'd cum I told him to get dressed and fuck off without allowing him to cum. He messaged me later thanking me for a great session.

I genuinely didn't know I had that side to me and found it liberating but slightly worrying that I was able to be so sadistic so easily.

Does anyone else worry about their dominant streak and, if so, how do you deal with it to make sure it doesn't get out of control?

Can't wait for another session - he's asked if I can bring a friend along so he can serve us both.

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By *tevieboiMan
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Lucky guy my search for a Dom goes on

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By *addogsmithMan
2 weeks ago

Kettering

Wow, shame we’re not closer as that sounds like a fab session!

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By *aul349Man
2 weeks ago

North of the Tyne

I wish there were more doms out there.

I would absolutely love to be treated like that.

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Tetbury

Similar experience, guy wanted me dressed and to face fuck him and cum all over his face, was happy to do that but he wanted nothing in return, he messaged me again about meeting again, wanted it rougher and then to be pissed on, I had him up against a wall so he couldn't escape and pissed in his mouth and all over him, he loved it, couldn't stop messaging me that night.

Have met a few more times scince, its difficult to get my head around how he wants to be treated but he loves it.

Veri on the other site to prove it.

Xxx

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By *udi222 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Harrogate

yep i find it hard to understand why anyone would get off on being treated like that but he (and others i guess) clearly get hugely turned on by it.

He has requested another meet and has suggested some things he's like doing to him.

i enjoyed myself and got rock hard but i still worry about the fact that i enjoyed being sexually aggressive and cruel.

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By *luteus maxMan
2 weeks ago

North of Havant

It's a grey area as to whether a guy is dominant or selfish. I really like being fucked by a selfish guy. I really enjoy being fucked for the sensations I get from it. If a guy is worried about pleasing me, then it often reduces the pleasure for both of us. It's far better if a guy can immerse himself in his own pleasure, and not worry about pleasing me. I;m going to enjoy it anyway, and even more so if the guy is just using my hole to maximise his own pleasure.

That's a selfish top of course. A dominant guy who wants to introduce extra options just to boost his own self-esteem is not going to give as much pleasure as a selfish top. However, this is just related to my own sexuality, and I don't have guilt issue that require me to be dominated.

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