FabGuys.com forum: Still on the hut for my first experience

By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

So I’m a 35 year old male. (Think I’m BI) but I’ve never been with a guy. I put a post up a few weeks back about this and I got some really good tips. The only problem is I still can’t buck up the courage to try being with a guy / tv. I think I would like my first to be with a TV as I have only been with ladies before.

Any advice on how’s best to dip my toe in would be greatly appreciated.

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By *exy deeMan
2 weeks ago

manchester

Try a club meeting

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By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

Was thinking this I’m just not a fan of the thought of paying lol.

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By *aulBiBottomMan
2 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

The reality is everyone is nervous the first time regardless, so just go for it it's either something you'll enjoy or you won't if you enjoy it then crack on if you don't mark it down to experience at least you'll know rather than always wondering. If you have thoughts about cock and having fun with guys TVs TS etc then I can tell you this you certainly are bisexual as I believe every man is anyway

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By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

Haha some good advice there thank you and I have definitely though a lot about cock

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By *ayhartMan
2 weeks ago

chesterfield

Just go with an open mind. If it’s for you, it will quickly become apparent. Ditto if not. Don’t be scared, but be excited at the prospect, excitement will enhance the experience.

Do you want to be top or bottom. Make sure you discuss what you want and your lack of experience with your potential hook up.

Enjoy it good luck xx

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By *r HendersonMan
2 weeks ago

South of the river

Keep trying, but be careful.

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By *awtynick1Man
2 weeks ago

mansfield/london

Me too. The last few months I’ve been more and more bi curious. Dressed up in my wife’s knickers. Loved camming, cumming and watching guys cum for me on can but never gone any further.

I stay in London a fair bit with work and been so tempted to try an actual meet but never gone though with it. Yet!

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By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

This is me all over. I haven’t dressed as I don’t think that’s for me.

I also work in London every so often and have been so tempted to bring someone back to my room I juts never seem to get the courage and end up juts wanking 😂

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By *aySub99Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm usually nervous meeting someone new but I always say "I'm always nervous until there's a cock in my mouth".. If you can find someone normal (good luck there) and set something up, you'll have fun, just don't rush it and go over everything with the other person.

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By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

Thanks for the advice

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By *agedinknickersMan
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

For anyone nervous, I'd recommend either getting along to a local swingers club "bi night" or to a sauna - in both cases there's no pressure to do anything but it puts you in an environment where you're likely to see things happening, and can decide if you're comfortable with it, and to do anything.

Just be careful and keep yourself safe

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

wickow

"So I’m a 35 year old male. (Think I’m BI) but I’ve never been with a guy. I put a post up a few weeks back about this and I got some really good tips. The only problem is I still can’t buck up the courage to try being with a guy / tv. I think I would like my first to be with a TV as I have only been with ladies before.

Any advice on how’s best to dip my toe in would be greatly appreciated. "

If you're on here and wanking over pictures of cocks and mens asses. Ding ding. You're BISEXUAL buddy. You're not a teenage girl with a cherry to pop. Just message someone and meet up , play with their cock or let them play with yours and move up to other stuff when you're comfortable. My Adobe is Don't over complicate things and don't let anyone pressure you into doing things you're not ready for. I had that when I started - a guy rimmed men a public place when I really wasn't in the right headspace for it yet and it set me back in my journey of exploration because it was a bad experience.

I totally understand the overthinking and nervousness. I suppose , I started like most on here, out doors.

Perhaps, Have a look online go to a busy cottage/beat/cruising area. Have a good look at what goes on. Get more comfortable with the idea and seeing guys play together. At some point pull your dick out and wait for someone to come over or approach someone and ask if they want a play.

I would advise going to a sauna or something but that's probably far too daunting.

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By *ames_mtb OP Man
2 weeks ago

Ashton

Really appreciate this advice thank you

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By *assoMan
2 weeks ago

cumbernauld

Trust yourself

I never sucked a cock until my mid twenties

I took a chance mm best decision I’ve made

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By *idfielderMan
2 weeks ago

north west

I'm the other way I've had experiences but now in a settled relationship and she doesn't know which makes it daunting and nervous to go out and meet guys

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
2 weeks ago

Halesowen

If I was to head out solo to Hurst Street in Birmingham on a Saturday would I get approached or propositioned, or would I need to make the first move?

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By *eicsbarneyMan
2 weeks ago

Hornsea

Maybe try a local sauna. You're not obliged to take part in any sexual activity and it's a safe environment. Get comfortable sitting in the jacuzzi/sauna or watch a film or others engaging is sex before taking the plunge yourself...

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By *axfactorMan
2 weeks ago

annan

I have been guys firsts on more than one occasion. I usually start in the kitchen with a coffee and chat , let the nerves settle down. Then move on when he is ready

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By *ee04Man
2 weeks ago

North Essex

I remember a lot of firsts and how nervous I was.

My first experience of a partner with a cock was at uni back in the late 80s, it was a TV but still remember how nervous I was.

First group, again back at uni but same butterfly’s but once underway it was fine.

First sauna again butterfly’s, I was older probably mid to late 20s again nervous. I still get nervous going to a sauna especially one I’ve not been to before. This is because I think “you don’t know what to expect”.

Don’t think I’ll ever stop being nervous but hey you never know until you try.

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By *ellhunglow001Man
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Nerves is the biggest stumbling block, I get that. The only positive advice I can give is: (a) the other person will also be nervous, especially as a 1st time meet for both of you. (b) at least you both know what you are meeting for, ie cock. So you know you/him won't be offended by each others advances? Lastly, go at YOUR own pace, the other guy will respect that and should understand.

Good luck and keep safe.

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Honestly mate as soon as you’ve done it it won’t feel like such a big deal anymore. It took me ages to build up the courage for my first meet but I loved it and felt loads better after finally doing it. So glad I tried it and explored this side of myself, wish I had done it sooner

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