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By *55uk4yngr OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Chester

Your thoughts on going to "open door" meets on a first meet.

When horny you agree to most things.

When not you put your thinking head on, is it safe?

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By *tmforhungtopsMan
2 weeks ago

Haslemere

Not something I'd ever do with a random off the internet, maybe if it was through someone i have already met in person who could be trusted.

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By *lexieMan
2 weeks ago

Just north of Southampton


"Your thoughts on going to "open door" meets on a first meet.

When horny you agree to most things.

When not you put your thinking head on, is it safe?"

Most sensible advice seems to be, meet in a public place first... but COB (cock over brain) sometimes rules! Recently, on a first meet, one guy wanted me to leave my car in different street, then pick me up and take me to his house! I potentially could have been stranded... I bailed on that one!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedford

This is why I go to saunas and take it from there. Have made many a good friend and fuck buddy this way. Xx

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East

Always keep your wits about you and never let ya guard down

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By *oeyK11Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Common sense - be respectful if someone invited you into their home

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

Trust no one

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By *ucker4U992Man
2 weeks ago

Stockton

It’s shocking what my dick will agree to, have done a few anon meets - me naked on the bed, blindfolded guys walked in stripped down, fucked and left / still no idea of who they were - does make me politer in queues tho

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By *ogsy2026Man
2 weeks ago

Blackburn

Met a guy once and got a feeling for him to see if he was trustworthy. For our second meet I was naked and blindfolded in the hallway with the front door unlocked waiting for him to do whatever he wanted. I found it very hot and so did he, met him again since (blew him in B&Q toilets!)

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Been to loads and done loads. Went to one this morning in fact. As said, you just have to keep your wits about you. But these days you gotta do that to just step outside.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East


"Been to loads and done loads. Went to one this morning in fact. As said, you just have to keep your wits about you. But these days you gotta do that to just step outside. "

Bloody rights mate it’s all about being fully aware of your surroundings and being switched on all the time

If you haven’t got street sense ya asking for trouble especially these days the way our streets are now

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Been to loads and done loads. Went to one this morning in fact. As said, you just have to keep your wits about you. But these days you gotta do that to just step outside.

Bloody rights mate it’s all about being fully aware of your surroundings and being switched on all the time

If you haven’t got street sense ya asking for trouble especially these days the way our streets are now "

The only time I came unstuck was a time i did a walk-in anon and was bttm. The guy filmed it all, even my front door, and put it on the web for all to see. My moment of unwelcome fame 😆 It was online months before I realised.

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By *amantha111TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Beeston

Be safe with your address, I have lots of experience, both positive and negative, both give you experience one way or the other, but you'll have to develop a thick skin if you get the bad guys over and you don't know how to act in the moment of pressure. I care about everyone enough to try to pass my knowledge. Have fun and listen to your intuition and not your instinct. Bless you all and have awesome fun

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By *etstalkMan
2 weeks ago

liverpool

For a first meet … I always ask them to answer the door properly.

I good with discreet - not anon.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

North East


"Been to loads and done loads. Went to one this morning in fact. As said, you just have to keep your wits about you. But these days you gotta do that to just step outside.

Bloody rights mate it’s all about being fully aware of your surroundings and being switched on all the time

If you haven’t got street sense ya asking for trouble especially these days the way our streets are now

The only time I came unstuck was a time i did a walk-in anon and was bttm. The guy filmed it all, even my front door, and put it on the web for all to see. My moment of unwelcome fame 😆 It was online months before I realised."

Ffs 🤦🏻 they do say everyone will be famous for 15 minutes I’m guessing you weren’t expecting to be famous in that way though 😂

It just goes to show how you can’t trust anyone which is a sad thing really but sadly the way things are

I love to take risks for me it’s part of the buzz and excitement but I’m always on my guard and have my wits about me

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By *v1234567Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

There is something special about someone fully submitting to you. Leaving their door open, being lubed up and ready. Bent over vulnerable and waiting. Very horny.

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By *igroundassMan
2 weeks ago

Fife (KY11)

My first ever meet was from a guy I first skyped with several times. The meeting was in a flat, pretty close to the town centre. I was crapping myself, turned back a couple of times but finally went for it. It was the right call, I have to admit

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