FabGuys.com forum: Difficulty getting meets.

By *ission50new OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gorleston

Hi Guys just wondering if anyone else finds it difficult to get meets on here?

Any advice on what I might be doing wrong is there any better way of presenting my profile to guys. Much appreciated.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

Your profile blurb gives a clear indication of what you like and what your looking for, so that's ok. But I'd delete the legal disclaimer bit at the end, it's meaningless.

Id suggest some extra pictures though, maybes a couple of frontal pictures with your top off in a pair of pants or jeans.

Bonus points if the jeans are half undone with the belt unbuckled

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Your profile is littered with negatives. Don't say you can travel, and then say you need to be picked up. The list of who you won't meet rules out 90% of the guys available, so think about that. You're top so why does it matter if they have a beard or carry a bit of weight? Drop the mention of attitude - everyone has one, and with that line your profile screams that you have one which some wpuld find off-putting. Also, have you simply exhausted all the available guys near you who match your self-limiting criteria? Pics are ok.

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

your pic comes across nice. Appreciate you are offering constructive criticism but remember, there's a person behind the profile. Be nice X

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By *ridayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Your profile blurb gives a clear indication of what you like and what your looking for, so that's ok. But I'd delete the legal disclaimer bit at the end, it's meaningless.

Id suggest some extra pictures though, maybes a couple of frontal pictures with your top off in a pair of pants or jeans.

Bonus points if the jeans are half undone with the belt unbuckled

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your pic comes across nice. Appreciate you are offering constructive criticism but remember, there's a person behind the profile. Be nice X

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By *ission50new OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gorleston

Thankyou for your advice.

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By *dysseus1969Man
2 weeks ago

Beckenham

It’s a good start. I’d suggest framing things more positively.

Example: instead of ‘I'm not into overweight guys quick meets,bad hygiene,watersports,just not my thing sorry’, maybe try ‘I’m into longer sessions with in-shape guys with good hygiene’. I wouldn’t worry about the WS warning. You’ll know from most people’s profiles when they’re into WS, and you can politely decline.

Also, fix the spacing. Put spaces behind the commas. It’s a bit jarring to read visually.

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By *rient_topMan
2 weeks ago

Huntingdon

I think not being able to accommodate is the number one deal breaker (and applies to many on here).

This is primarily a sex site, so guys are looking for relief without fuss or things. You need to be able to offer a solution to their needs

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By *ajkumarkapoorMan
2 weeks ago

London

Nothing wrong with your profile at all.

In fact your profile is good. Brief introduction of yourself, what you are looking for. That's good enough. With regards to photos, you can always text them with your face and more body photos if they asked.

It is important to understand that we are not everyone's favourites. Just accept this fact. Likes and love cannot be forced. Good thing is there are others who will like you. Continue communicating. Be patient, the time will come.

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By *ission50new OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gorleston

Thanks for the advice guys.

Very much appreciated.

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By *ub4daddyukMan
2 weeks ago

Warminster

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By *ub4daddyukMan
2 weeks ago

Warminster

Similar comments really..but I'm no expert and keep meaning to update mine 🙄

But try not to have a negative slant on things

You don't need to say "must be able to accommodate" sounds like an order lol ...you don't have to say it like that you can just say...I can't host unfortunately..and everyone understands..not earth shattering but I think little things like that feel nicer.

And not so much of the what you don't like....no need to mention watersports ( you could just say you're quite vanilla, guys would understand) or attitude and the overweight and bad hygiene....you could say it like...bit of a dad bod here but keep active (not saying you are either lol) and like to be shower fresh for meets, like similar in other guys....

You've basically said the same but in a nicer way?

Not adding no overweight or quick meets also rules out less people to meet.

I'm not saying drop what you like or want but I think it's good to have some wiggle room, especially if you can't host which can have a big impact.

You might end up trying a bit of quick meet, really like each other and that turns into something better.

Overweight could be dad bod to super chub....perhaps guys nearer but not quite dad bod could be ones you'd actually have fun with?

So think of ways of saying the same thing but from a positive angle...be open to a bit more wiggle room? But like I say don't compromise out of your comfort zone...well not too much lol

Pics wise I think a front torso/chest is quite nice or torso cock thighs all in one?

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By *ission50new OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gorleston

Thanks for the advice I appreciate it

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By *iassloverMan
2 weeks ago

Rugby

"Thanks for the advice I appreciate it "

Looks good and friendly now.

I've trimmed mine to cut out half a dissertation lol!

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By *excessMan
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Profile looks fine but it can't be emphasised enough how much not being able to accommodate is a barrier to getting meets.

There's a large contingent of married guys on fab who all have the same issue

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By *iassloverMan
2 weeks ago

Rugby

"Profile looks fine but it can't be emphasised enough how much not being able to accommodate is a barrier to getting meets.

There's a large contingent of married guys on fab who all have the same issue

Yep. I'm in the unable to accommodate boat but it's out of my hands. It's why I visit saunas.

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