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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

So what’s yours ? I wasn’t gonna bother getting dolled up today but thought sod it and headed out for a couple of hours. All was going well but a guy in shorts caught my attention and I obviously caught his anyway long and short of it after making my way to somewhere quiet with him in tail and beginning to getting to know each other a little better I soon discovered he had the biggest ring through his bell end 😩

Just not for me 😂

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
5 days ago

North East

Bad kept feet and bad body odour

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By *hehandyman66Man
5 days ago

Plymouth

Really hairy bodies x

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By *altnsand60Man
5 days ago

Dover

Same here, make's me wince seeing that.

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By *ust me 101TV/TS
5 days ago

Inverness

Yep. That is a no no. Also a big hairy ass is an instant boke for me. A nice shaved one is a thing of beauty tho

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By *itefox60Man
5 days ago

dublin

Smokers fir me

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By *ecretlyGayMan
5 days ago

Birkenhead

Bad hygiene body odour etc

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By *effnwbiguyMan
5 days ago

bolton

Cheesey dicks and bad breath.

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

He was fine with it as I was embarrassed lol. It felt painful just to see it plus it just didn’t seem practical 🫣

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By *airyDivDadMan
5 days ago

Whiston

Lingerie.

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By *ubmybelly20Man
5 days ago

Peterborough

Clingy guys

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By *loudnineMan
5 days ago

Hereford/Powys

Big beards.

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By *roy1701dMan
5 days ago

London

Hairy cock and balls

Any bad odours

black dirt under the finger nails

Cigarette breath

🤮🤮🤮

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By *ust me 101TV/TS
5 days ago

Inverness

Does anyone actually turn up for a meet with a cheesy dick. This surely cannot be true.. a swift kick in the balls would be required if anyone did

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By *roy1701dMan
5 days ago

London


"Does anyone actually turn up for a meet with a cheesy dick. This surely cannot be true.. a swift kick in the balls would be required if anyone did"

Unfortunatly they do I had one who when he opened his trousers up a really nasty smell came from his groin area that made me leave

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By *ndieguyMan
5 days ago

Marton, Gainsborough

A bossy twat that loves himself

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
5 days ago

cockermouth

Being called mate, pal, dude.

Stinking

Anything to do with dru*gs

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By *ust me 101TV/TS
5 days ago

Inverness

Omg. What was this person actually think was gonna happen. Wow. It amazes me the things that humans do or don't do n expect the world. Ooft

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By *eversayNever200Man
5 days ago

Kendal

Bad personal hygiene, foreskins that don’t retract and pierced cocks all huge turn-off.

Shaved pert bums and long slim legs biggest turn-on.

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By *ubtitsMan
5 days ago

hyde

Hate smelly guys and feet

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By *ancman2Man
5 days ago

Carmarthenshire

Men in women’s clothing sorry

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By *ockanonamasMan
5 days ago

Manchester

Foreskins that don't retract fully past the bellend and very bushy pubes. Instant turn off! 🤢

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By *DPDRTMan
5 days ago

Bristol

Drug users abound on here. Daddy talk and any kind of roleplay is a no no for me.

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By *amelaXTV/TS
5 days ago

Swindon

Hairy pant wearers, but will make an exception if they're a top

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By *hitebriefsMan
5 days ago

Chard

Bad personal hygiene and all that entails.

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By *4BearsMan
5 days ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

Guys in women's clothes

Completely takes away from the masculinity that I tend to look for in guys

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru

Facial and body hair, smokers, neglect of hygiene, lack of good manners.

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By *excessMan
5 days ago

Sleaford

Femme guys, PAs, twinks, bad teeth and breath, poor hygiene.

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By *moother1Man
5 days ago

Port Talbot

Hairy guys, pubes of any manner and guys with a knob that’s red and unclean when the forskin is pulled back ( yeah had to walk away from that one …)

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Men in women's clothing whether pretending to be a woman or just a fetish. Effeminacy or campness. Poor hygiene, bad breath etc can be a turn-off but they can be overcome. Bad attitude and arrogance can make the sexiest of men suddenly unappealing.

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire


"Hairy guys, pubes of any manner and guys with a knob that’s red and unclean when the forskin is pulled back ( yeah had to walk away from that one …) "
I know that feeling as well and it’s absolutely rank 🤢

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

Another one is totally pointless profiles on here that mean absolutely nothing. Just a mix match of badly taken pics that pretty much guarantee no one will ever take an interest in but they love to jump on the bandwagon lol

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By *iganbiguy1963Man
5 days ago

Wigan

Bad hygiene and a guy who doesn't wipe himself clean after going to the loo.

I once turned up for a meet at a local garage. The guy I was meeting had been to the loo and had not cleaned himself up.

Made my excuses and left.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
5 days ago

In a galaxy far far away

Arrogance, rudeness, entitlement

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By *loke1Man
5 days ago

london

Men in lingerie and/or women’s clothing and referring to male genitalia as “clitty”

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

My clitty swings around like a wrecking ball 😉

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By *ana in LingerieTV/TS
5 days ago

South East

Cock piercing real deal breaker for me. Makes me cringe seeing them. Sorry to all the guys who have them x

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By *anee77TV/TS
5 days ago

Brentwood

When you look in the background and it looks like a drug den

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By *ana in LingerieTV/TS
5 days ago

South East


"Does anyone actually turn up for a meet with a cheesy dick. This surely cannot be true.. a swift kick in the balls would be required if anyone did"

I went to see a guy in his hotel. Fuck sake it was like a sty, and he had the personal hygiene skills of a polecat. Excuse made and out the door.

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

Terrible tattoos are another one, but hey who am I to judge if matey down the boozer does em cheaper 👍🏼

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By *weddolMan
5 days ago

Chester

The racism, transphobia and homophobia that frequently gets expressed on these forums.

This is why I have over 300 on my block list, so there's no chance of meeting them.

Plus there are regular waves of new profiles into scat.

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By *ecky34TV/TS
5 days ago

navan

Too much hair down below

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By *os001Man
5 days ago

Oxford

Bad Hygiene and Smokers definitely aren't great.

Not into really hairy men or those who like to dress, you do you gurls, just not personally for me.

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By *utcock61Man
5 days ago

glasgow

Crossdressers.

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By *yleLMan
5 days ago

Burnley


"So what’s yours ? I wasn’t gonna bother getting dolled up today but thought sod it and headed out for a couple of hours. All was going well but a guy in shorts caught my attention and I obviously caught his anyway long and short of it after making my way to somewhere quiet with him in tail and beginning to getting to know each other a little better I soon discovered he had the biggest ring through his bell end 😩

Just not for me 😂"

Shaved pubes is my biggest turnoff.

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire


"So what’s yours ? I wasn’t gonna bother getting dolled up today but thought sod it and headed out for a couple of hours. All was going well but a guy in shorts caught my attention and I obviously caught his anyway long and short of it after making my way to somewhere quiet with him in tail and beginning to getting to know each other a little better I soon discovered he had the biggest ring through his bell end 😩

Just not for me 😂

Shaved pubes is my biggest turnoff."

oh that’s a must for me, pubes make me gag just like cut cocks

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By *heffbagMan
5 days ago

Rotherham

Drugs of any kind (bar alcohol) and that includes the brown bottle

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By *aregay31Man
5 days ago

Marchwood Southampton

Controversial i know but cross dressers/people who get a kick out of wearing ladies clothes

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By *rum39Man
5 days ago

Birmingham

Big beards

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By *DC2000Man
5 days ago

Coningsby


"He was fine with it as I was embarrassed lol. It felt painful just to see it plus it just didn’t seem practical 🫣"

I agree, it makes me squirm to see it. Not for me.

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By *azadarMan
5 days ago

North Birmingham

Smoking, drugs, women's clothing, bad hygiene and casual racism.

Oh, and ad nauseum protestations of straightness.

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By *aster islandMan
5 days ago

navan

Switches

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By *astenotimeMan
5 days ago

here and there

Long hair/ buns

Bad breath

Filthy cocks/ arses

Stinking of cigarettes

Bad attitude

Warts and moles

Rotten teeth

Blubber

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By *cwgenMan
5 days ago

Glasgow

Women’s underwear

Tight foreskin

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire


"Controversial i know but cross dressers/people who get a kick out of wearing ladies clothes "
but you’ve been verified by one 😂

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By *omo2026Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

Anyone turning up with out getting a shower can't stand meffs i always shower and brush my teeth and smell nice for my man its just good practice

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By *manMan
5 days ago

wiltshire near stapleford


"Foreskins that don't retract fully past the bellend and very bushy pubes. Instant turn off! 🤢"
Absolutely agree...not natural

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
5 days ago

Berkshire

Another thing is those strappy things the “gay guys” wear on various parts of their bodies along with those weird pants with the arse cut out. Don’t get me wrong I would appreciate it if they purchased the right size instead of choosing a couple sizes too small just to have their love handles bulging over the elastic 😂

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
5 days ago

cockermouth


"Another thing is those strappy things the “gay guys” wear on various parts of their bodies along with those weird pants with the arse cut out. Don’t get me wrong I would appreciate it if they purchased the right size instead of choosing a couple sizes too small just to have their love handles bulging over the elastic 😂"

Yeahhhhh agree 🤭🤭 A struggle occurred for some of them!

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By *autiously_curiousMan
5 days ago

Craigavon

An unmanaged bush of pubes. Particularly if they are ginger or white/grey. Just really wouldn't do it for me

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By *wansmickMan
5 days ago

Belfast

Apart from the obvious hygiene problems cock rings are a turn off for me.

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By *ippBiManMan
4 days ago

South Tipp

An ear piercing can stink when not cleaned properly and regular so I dread to think what many of those pierced helmets are like, definitely not for me.

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By *excessMan
4 days ago

Sleaford


"He was fine with it as I was embarrassed lol. It felt painful just to see it plus it just didn’t seem practical 🫣

I agree, it makes me squirm to see it. Not for me. "

I'm with you guys, they're awful!

Increasingly I'm feeling that way about cock cages too.

Fortunately not met anyone wearing one as yet but they look dreadful from the pics I've seen😣

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By *iss Leanne BTV/TS
4 days ago

Manchester


"Controversial i know but cross dressers/people who get a kick out of wearing ladies clothes but you’ve been verified by one 😂"

Yes I noticed that as well 🤣

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
4 days ago

kent

Bf and I both don’t find cross dressing attractive, not our thing at all. We still get messages from time to time from men with profile pics in women’s underwear. The annoyance is that on our profile we respectfully decline such encounters (obviously not read)!

I have no qualms with men who are into cross dressing. They express themselves that way which is good for them… just not our thing.

If a cd guy says, ‘I know it’s not your thing and will just wear mens clothes’ we’re ok with that.

It’s not the guy, it’s the act that’s a turn off.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
4 days ago

Seaton

Shaved dicks , just look ridiculous.

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By *incschunkymonkeyMan
4 days ago

Grantham

Really hairy, verging on furry bodies, overly coiffurred and manicured men, anyone vain or with profile full of gym pics, anyone judgemental or demanding, anyone with a profile full of no this, no that, just get over yourself

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By *lli1234TV/TS
4 days ago

Abergele


"When you look in the background and it looks like a drug den"

This c..k piercing, and bad hygiene and finally masks they freak me out x

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
4 days ago

Visiting

Any trace of dr*gs

Cock piercings

Womens clothing of any sort

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By *ndy52Man
4 days ago

Hartlebury

Hairy cocks no one wants a face full of hair

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By *ndi99Man
4 days ago

BRISTOL

Bad hygiene and breath

Men in women's clothing

The they them.. don't know who I am pronouns.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 days ago

Birmingham B15

Tattoos

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By *ikeitrealMan
4 days ago

huercal overa SPAIN

Guys that are too full of their own self importance.

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By *ustPeekinMan
4 days ago

Alresford

Poor hygiene. Cock cages.

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By *tickyspunkMan
4 days ago

airdrie


"Women’s underwear

Tight foreskin "

Bad breath.

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By *ustOneBearMan
4 days ago

Neath

Smelling you before I see you. BO or perfume.

Shaved pubes or shaved body hair

Bad mouthing your wife/ husband

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By *owerplay823Man
4 days ago

Old Town

Consistent delays

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By *etstalkMan
4 days ago

liverpool

-Less than excellent hygiene standards

-Men in women’s underwear (preferred only on ladies)

-“Hey daddy” messages

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By *hropmMan
4 days ago

shropshire

Poor hygiene

Don't call me daddy

Unfriendy guys

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By *4BearsMan
4 days ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester

I had a meet where the guy kept saying "good boy" and "nice boy" every 5-10 seconds

Alright, I'm petite, but I'm in my 30s now

I couldn't get over the thought of being used in place of an actual "boy" 🤢

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By *ro4hoes2Man
4 days ago

Newport

I'm pretty much into anything, but I don't like a pierced bellend,and I'm certainly not into a bloke in lingerie/ bra or knickers etc.

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By *ose_Quartz OP   TV/TS
4 days ago

Berkshire


"He was fine with it as I was embarrassed lol. It felt painful just to see it plus it just didn’t seem practical 🫣

I agree, it makes me squirm to see it. Not for me.

I'm with you guys, they're awful!

Increasingly I'm feeling that way about cock cages too.

Fortunately not met anyone wearing one as yet but they look dreadful from the pics I've seen😣"

I couldn’t agree more, I’d walk away simple as that 😂

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By *owerplay823Man
4 days ago

Old Town

Faceless profiles

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By *wladMan
4 days ago

high wycombe

vapers or smokers

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
4 days ago

Bedford

Ive been fucked by several guys that have a pa, and it doesn't feel any different .I also wear a cock cage when I get told. And I like it. For me above all else the guy/guys must be squeaky clean inside and out as I am .any sign of port personal hygiene and I'm off xx

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By *tephsheffTV/TS
4 days ago

Sheffield

Same people viewing my profile countless times bit unwilling to engage in conversation

Socks

Hairy cocks and arses

Filthy houses

Stubble

I could go on, yes I'm very choosy!!

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By *M82YorksMan
4 days ago

Leeds / West & North Yorks

Pics with toilet in the back ground or even worse sat on the loo

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By *uriouscdingTV/TS
4 days ago

FALKIRK

Hairy guys,

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By *DC2000Man
4 days ago

Coningsby


"Pics with toilet in the back ground or even worse sat on the loo "

So true! Toilet seat up is often the way...

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By *M82YorksMan
4 days ago

Leeds / West & North Yorks


"Pics with toilet in the back ground or even worse sat on the loo

So true! Toilet seat up is often the way... "

What makes them think folk want to see that? All it tells me is theres a secret been hidden soemwhere

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By *hyguy62Man
4 days ago

Brentwood


"So what’s yours ? I wasn’t gonna bother getting dolled up today but thought sod it and headed out for a couple of hours. All was going well but a guy in shorts caught my attention and I obviously caught his anyway long and short of it after making my way to somewhere quiet with him in tail and beginning to getting to know each other a little better I soon discovered he had the biggest ring through his bell end 😩

Just not for me 😂"

Doesn’t do anything for me either lol xx

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By *incschunkymonkeyMan
4 days ago

Grantham

Very true my friend, a few on this thread I'd wager

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
4 days ago

North East

Unkept feet ie long toenails

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By *iwarwicksguyMan
4 days ago

Warwick

Bad hygiene,smelly feet,smelly armpits as if they haven't at least showered,smelling of fags even though their profile says they don't smoke,messy houses if you're going to their place,once went to a guys house and it was a fucking tip!Rubbish everywhere,so much to the extent that it really put me off and I instantly said 'no thanks mate' and left in a hurry...

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By *DC2000Man
4 days ago

Coningsby

Bad hygiene seems up there on the list. This and obesity for me. I like solid, rugby, man bod but not when the stomach is hanging....

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By *ucker.27Man
4 days ago

Swansea West

Smokers, bad breath, dick piercings, unwashed.

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By *ucker.27Man
4 days ago

Swansea West

Forgot to add daddy and mmmmm

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By *dysseus1969Man
4 days ago

Beckenham

Over-reliance on ‘aromas’ when it feels like I’m having a three-way with the guy and his bottle.

Nail hygiene especially long, jagged fingernails. Don’t even think of coming near my hole with those. They can do major damage. After being scratched up once, it’s now something I look at right away with a guy.

To go along with hygiene theme, guys who don’t trim their nose and ear hair, and it’s all sprouting out. It’s strange, some guys will be well-groomed in all other aspects but seem blind to this (especially if they have facial hair),

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By *3243Man
4 days ago

EDINBURGH

Poor personal hygiene.

Hate being called Daddy

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By *oody881Man
4 days ago

Exhall

Pubes! Need to be trimmed or shaved

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By *aturepervMan
4 days ago

Dunstable

Turning up to find it's an untidy and dirty house.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot


"Over-reliance on ‘aromas’ when it feels like I’m having a three-way with the guy and his bottle.

Nail hygiene especially long, jagged fingernails. Don’t even think of coming near my hole with those. They can do major damage. After being scratched up once, it’s now something I look at right away with a guy.

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I'm with you on both those, I am not keen on the use of the little brown bottle.

I spend a lot of time doing my finger nails, nicely filed and a little gloss, I hate my nails being jagged or split.

Generally speaking I tend to get an idea from a guys profile or messages as to whether they have traits I don't like.

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By *addy TopMan
4 days ago

Rustington West Sussex

Un retractable foreskins, huge turn off.

Men in womens clothes, feminine men, bad teeth, and bad hygiene. Use wet wipes and douche ffs.smelly feet yuk.

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By *illmymouth300Man
4 days ago

fleckney


"Does anyone actually turn up for a meet with a cheesy dick. This surely cannot be true.. a swift kick in the balls would be required if anyone did"

One guy did with me, sent him away

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By *norguyMan
4 days ago

W Norfolk/N Cambs

Hygiene, won't meet guys on the way home from work, after a bad experience

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By *udi222Man
4 days ago

Harrogate

Body hair, beards, overweight. I know i'm vain and picky but these are just a massive turn off.

If i meet someone and their personal hygiene is poor then its a no from me. Nothing kills my hard on faster than someone who isn't clean.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot

The OP was talking about something that happened on a meet, most of what people are suggesting as turnoffs are things that are not their thing so a meet in those circumstances would never happen because they would know if they viewed/read profiles, exchanged messages that they weren't suitable for each other.

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By *urvMan
4 days ago

christchurch Dorset

Smelly cocks

Smelly body

Smelly breath

Smelly everything really

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells


"The OP was talking about something that happened on a meet, most of what people are suggesting as turnoffs are things that are not their thing so a meet in those circumstances would never happen because they would know if they viewed/read profiles, exchanged messages that they weren't suitable for each other."

True. But some of us have had bad or disappointing meet. For me there was:

Good looking, hunky, sexy guy but rude, arrogant and had a bad attitude. We had sex but didn't really enjoy it.

Guy who claimed to be 48 but was probably more like 68. Plus he stank of cheap deodorant which I find off-putting.

Nice chunky young guy. Very tactile and a good kisser but his very thin greyish coloured cock put me off the idea of sucking it.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
4 days ago

North East

Bad manners and arrogance

Lack of conversation

Taken themselves too seriously

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By *DC2000Man
4 days ago

Coningsby


"Bad manners and arrogance

Lack of conversation

Taken themselves too seriously

"

Arrogance and vanity, not pleasant traits.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 days ago

Didcot


"The OP was talking about something that happened on a meet, most of what people are suggesting as turnoffs are things that are not their thing so a meet in those circumstances would never happen because they would know if they viewed/read profiles, exchanged messages that they weren't suitable for each other.

True. But some of us have had bad or disappointing meet. For me there was:

Good looking, hunky, sexy guy but rude, arrogant and had a bad attitude. We had sex but didn't really enjoy it.

Guy who claimed to be 48 but was probably more like 68. Plus he stank of cheap deodorant which I find off-putting.

Nice chunky young guy. Very tactile and a good kisser but his very thin greyish coloured cock put me off the idea of sucking it."

Sort of my point, you are listing stuff that's happened on a meet that you had no prior control of, a lot of people are saying they don't like beards, hairy men, effeminate men, men in knickers or men that dress as women, these are things they have control over, ie it's not their thing so why would they want to meet in the first place?

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By *immySplashMan
4 days ago

Coventry

Women on IG trying to dance to music

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By *aertalleMan
4 days ago

Sheffield

People who won’t respect boundaries.

Had a borderline assault threat today

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By *ustPeekinMan
4 days ago

Alresford

Guys who don’t wash. Chastity cages. Being called daddy.

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