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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof

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By *ewBrumBiMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham B15

Because they ain't straight

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow


"Because they ain't straight "

Yes i agree but many say that there is no romantic feeling, they just love the feeling of their prostate being massaged by a hard cock, I don't believe them?

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Exploring there feminine side maybe

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By *upertedMan
4 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly


"Exploring there feminine side maybe "

I dont think it's that - sub/dom is in no way feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I am bi but I really want to try a nice cock up me

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
4 weeks ago

Didcot


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof"

No one on here is straight, sorry but anyone thinks they are is deluded, however how you present is not directly connected to your sexuality, some guys are very masculine, some very feminine with most somewhere between the 2 extremes and I'm guessing it's the case with most guys on here, especially the bisexual ones that outside fab and close friends, no one would know they weren't straight.

As for being penetrated, straight guys also like being pegged by their wives, I'm guessing the reason is that little old P spot.

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By *hehandyman66Man
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

I was happily married to a very vanilla women . I loved playing with my arse . Always toying myself in secret . I suppose like lots of straight guys you come to a point in your life where curiosity gets the better of you and you feel the need to try a real cock for once . Thats how I felt . Now very bi and even happier . This is my experience x

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no

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By *hehandyman66Man
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

I dont actually find guys that attractive . Some of course . Im more intrested in their cock and how big it is and how it feels in me . Hope that makes sense x

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By *ighairybearbumMan
4 weeks ago

cornwall


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no"
I don’t find men attractive at all and yet when I’m really horny I’m happy to play with guys!! I’d never kiss a guy but there is something about a guy cumming in me or over me ( not my face) that’s a turn on.. I think it’s just sex where physical and mental attraction for me is 100% women

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By *ourinmydreamsMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof"
call me old fashioned but if a guy likes cock up him hes certainly not straight

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Strange that they insist they are still straight yet being penetrated, submitting fully to another man, is the ultimate gay act. Even totally gay men, such as myself, are not that keen on being penetrated.

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan


"Exploring there feminine side maybe

I dont think it's that - sub/dom is in no way feminine. "

you sure

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I’ve been fucked once but I didn’t get to enjoy it he cum to quickly . I’m married to a woman in a sexless marriage now but have been into cock since my teens guess I’ve been suppressing my feelings.

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By *arried68Man
4 weeks ago

ilford

Feels amazing been penetrated once your bum gets use to it

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Exploring there feminine side maybe

I dont think it's that - sub/dom is in no way feminine. "

I agree. Plus I don't think many women are into anal sex.

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By *arried68Man
4 weeks ago

ilford

Totally agree I’m def bi love being with men

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By *hynikkifulTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Essex

One doesnt have to be gay to enjoy anul sex.i might be a tv but love anul play with other tvs or women for that matter.its all about penertration and the sensation

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By *eginer96Man
4 weeks ago

Kildare, Naas, Newbridge

Anyone who's on this website and try to find someone for sex, definitely is not STRAIGHT!!!

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By *teelballsMan
4 weeks ago

orpington


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no"

My opinion, for what it’s worth.

Many guys on here can’t accept that a lot of people, both men and women, enjoy sex of some sort without much physical attraction being involved. The fact that a guy finds it exciting to get fucked by a man occasionally doesn’t mean necessarily that he has any interest in any sort of relationship with him.

It can be simply an exciting pleasurable act he enjoys and then quite happily walks away from back to an everyday life that he has no intention of changing.

Seems obvious to me but apoarently plenty of people don’t want to accept it.

Personalky i’ve had loads of exciting sex of all sorts with both men and women with who i have no interest in having any sort of relationship with other than the sex.

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By *os001Man
4 weeks ago

Oxford

Had a couple of different instances recently when guys have messaged me via different platforms saying they are straight but want to fuck me.

I've continued to chat but said to them, you definitely aren't straight if you want to fuck a guy.

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By *haftloverMan
4 weeks ago

Wiltshire Dorset Hampshire border

I'd love to get fucked real good by a nice cock. Other than the actual sex I'm not really interested. Not even kissing

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By *uneatonBiguyMan
4 weeks ago

nuneaton


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no"

Can honestly say I have never looked at a guy and thought 'phwooor, I fancy him' nor have I ever wanted to date a guy... Now with women, I AM attracted to them and will definitely go 'phwoor, look at that!'and immediately be attracted to them... I just want a cock to play with no strings when that itch needs stratching.. this is why I dislike labels so much.. not gay because I love pussy n tits too much, have to label myself Bi even though would never have a relationship with a guy just because i occasionally like a bit of cock fun.. Should be a Greedy fucker label

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I'm guessing this is the age old argument between actual sexual attraction and just plain sex. A lot of guys deny being gay/bi imply because they don't find other guys attractive/don't want relationships with other men, yet enjoy being penetrated by other men's cocks whether in the mouth or anus, and, of course, vice versa. However there id no getting away from the simple fact that in doing so it is what is classified as a gay act.

With some of us--perhaps you would call us the real committed gays--it is all about attraction. I really need to fancy a guy to some extent before I have sex with him. Of course my idea of sex involves kissing, cuddling, fore-play etc. I don't have sex with women simply because I just don't fancy them. Tried it in the past but didn't like it. Turned down offer and avoided situations where I could have had sex with very nice women but the attraction just wasn't there.

Animal instincts? Desperate need for sex with anyone who has a pulse? New sensations? 'Any hole's a goal scenario"? We are all wired up differently.

One thing for absolute certainty is that if you enjoy penetrating another man or being penetrated by another man then you are not straight however much you kid yourself.

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By *ighway expressMan
4 weeks ago

Campbeltown

"Get a cock up ye"....

You don't have to be gay to enjoy something up your arse ..

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By *teelballsMan
4 weeks ago

orpington


"I'm guessing this is the age old argument between actual sexual attraction and just plain sex. A lot of guys deny being gay/bi imply because they don't find other guys attractive/don't want relationships with other men, yet enjoy being penetrated by other men's cocks whether in the mouth or anus, and, of course, vice versa. However there id no getting away from the simple fact that in doing so it is what is classified as a gay act.

With some of us--perhaps you would call us the real committed gays--it is all about attraction. I really need to fancy a guy to some extent before I have sex with him. Of course my idea of sex involves kissing, cuddling, fore-play etc. I don't have sex with women simply because I just don't fancy them. Tried it in the past but didn't like it. Turned down offer and avoided situations where I could have had sex with very nice women but the attraction just wasn't there.

Animal instincts? Desperate need for sex with anyone who has a pulse? New sensations? 'Any hole's a goal scenario"? We are all wired up differently.

One thing for absolute certainty is that if you enjoy penetrating another man or being penetrated by another man then you are not straight however much you kid yourself."

Probability is that anyone who spends something like 99% of their life happily leading a straight lifestyle likely will describe themselves as straight and couldn’t care less what anyone on here has to say about it.

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By *eorgesdadMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham

My ex wife was into anal, loved it, now I understand why 😛 ooh and I kiss the men who penetrate me xx

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By *ana in LingerieTV/TS
4 weeks ago

South East


"Because they ain't straight "

100% exactly this x Once you've even played with cock you are no longer straight.

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By *enjonMan
4 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof"

The many men you mention are simply deluded, sexuality is fluid in all.

I love being penetrated, I am Bi and have known it for as far back as I can remember.

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By *eicJonMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

i had thought of being penetrated way back in my 20s, happily married but still curious, i never thought i get to try it. until the day it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Whatever us men who identify as gay or bi might feel about men calling themselves straight, yet continuing to have sex with men; who are we to deny a self imposed label? Research, including sociological studies like those by UBC Dr. Tony Silva, has shown that a significant number of men who have sex with men continue to strongly identify as straight. Not believing something to be true does not negate its existence.

My miniature Dachshund quite obviously identifies as a Doberman. I can tell him till I’m blue in the face that I don’t think he is, and could provide fairly conclusive evidence to the contrary. I don’t think I’ll ever change his mind. I feel similarly about the ‘straight’ men I fuck. Whatever mental gymnastics they have to go through in order to allow themselves to take my cock up their arse is absolutely fine with me.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Not all totally gay men enjoy being penetrated/penetrating another guy. Used to regard myself as being some thing of a top and always found being penetrated more painful than pleasurable. Wish I enjoyed it more. To me its the intimacy of having another man inside you or being inside another man. You are completely united in an intimate act.

The vast majority of straight men [and let's do a reality check probably 90% of all men are totally straight] penetrative sex would be degrading and disgusting. Those that do like it fall somewhere in the vast spectrum of being bisexual whether it's 50/50, 90/10 or 10/90.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof"

Gay or straight it feels good to be fucked!

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

West London

Who said they're straight to start with.

Do they hold a Degree in Heterosexuality ?

Would a REALLY straight man let another male of any sexual orientation perform a sex act upon him ?

There are only _hades of grey...

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By *ichey6Man
4 weeks ago

aberdeen

Some of 'em dook in an Egyptian river.

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By *ichey6Man
4 weeks ago

aberdeen

Nipper has a 1:1 in tumult 🥳🤔

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By *ertieBMan
4 weeks ago

Downton


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The vast majority of straight men [and let's do a reality check probably 90% of all men are totally straight] penetrative sex would be degrading and disgusting. Those that do like it fall somewhere in the vast spectrum of being bisexual whether it's 50/50, 90/10 or 10/90."

That’s my take too. I can’t say I’m gay as I’ve never been romantically interested in men and I enjoy sex with women too much, but the sheer fact is I’m here because I’m turned on by elements of masculinity - whether that’s a stiff cock, cum or simply an older guy with a beard and deep voice telling me “good boy”.

So whatever the ratio, I’ve accepted I’m bi, simple as.

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Da anal pinch .

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Under the right surcumstanses we will have whatever sex is going.

All boys schools.

Prison.

Armed forces etc

No-one is truly straight.

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By *hil96Man
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Im in a sexless marriage with a woman. But. I love naked men, i love kissing men, i love suckimg cock and i love being fucked.. in fact its all i think about. What would you say that makes me?

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By *lagainMan
4 weeks ago

Airdrie

Horny

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By *aldgaperMan
4 weeks ago

south

ive been taking it in my arse for 40 years ish , im married but im deffo not straight lol, bi ,nope just bent or queer

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

My experience with men is that quite a lot of them after fucking me still think they are straight as they don't receive anal

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

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By *ardly blueMan
4 weeks ago

Perth


"Im in a sexless marriage with a woman. But. I love naked men, i love kissing men, i love suckimg cock and i love being fucked.. in fact its all i think about. What would you say that makes me?"

I think that makes you a typical fab user

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By *e4rMan
4 weeks ago

Bingham-Nottingham


""Get a cock up ye"....

You don't have to be gay to enjoy something up your arse .."

No, you have to be bi at least 🙂

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By *matoMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere around there


"Strange that they insist they are still straight yet being penetrated, submitting fully to another man, is the ultimate gay act. Even totally gay men, such as myself, are not that keen on being penetrated."

What makes you think that you have to **submit** if you want a cock in your ass?

An assumption that makes about as much sense as when those guys claim they are still straight.

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By *ayhubbyMan
4 weeks ago

liverpool

Feels good getting fucked by my mistress and her strap on - need cock now

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By *aged_kiraMan
4 weeks ago

Downham Market

Some very good points made already - but another that I think is relevant is that putting anything up your arse is, to some, seen as somehow "naughty" or taboo - and a lot of men will chase those things for a variety of reasons.

So it's the thrill of doing something "naughty" that's behind it

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By *hin white dukeMan
4 weeks ago

North Tyneside

Simple. It's where the gspot is.

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By *aucey04TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bletchingley

I can't see how anyone who derives pleasure from being fucked is straight

I have masqueraded in various modes from curious to TV

BUT

My present profile now truly reflects my persona that of a Bottom Gay Dresser

I derive HUGE pleasure from dressing and being fucked and intend to continue this way

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By *owerplay823Man
4 weeks ago

Lewes

It was always the thrill of being caught

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By *ickplease76Man
4 weeks ago

York

Straight to the wife. Very btm to men. Cant always live as we want tho can we. Ive recently found huge joy in pleasing me.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Under the right circumstances we will have whatever sex is going.

All boys schools.

Prison.

Armed forces etc

No-one is truly straight. "

Respectfully beg to disagree with you. I still reckon the vast majority are truly straight and revolted by the idea of man-on-man sex. Especially anal sex. I'm not saying it does not go on in the institutions you mention but its not that widespread.

I only have an ex prison officer's word for it but he reckoned it was not that widespread in prisons unless two inmates sharing a cell did it after the doors were locked at night.

Went to a public school and wasn't aware of much 'gay activity'. Yes boys had crushed on each other but rarely reciprocated.

During my time in the army being gay was illegal and an instantly dismissible offence. Not saying it never happened , and I am guilty of having a discreet affair with another soldier but strictly off camp, but not very widespread.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Very true. One straight guy married with a wife asked ne to fuck him.

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By *fcdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Southend

Enjoying anal doesn’t make you gay. Enjoying it with men does though.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

If you're pegged by a female , its experimenting but if you're entered by a male and enjoy it so much you want more then join the 'gurls'

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"I dont actually find guys that attractive . Some of course . Im more intrested in their cock and how big it is and how it feels in me . Hope that makes sense x"

Now if I am not attracted to them I don't fuck or let them fuck me. I have to fancy the guy to play with him. But I am fully bisexual. If they don't kiss I am not interested.

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By *oltzMan
4 weeks ago

Bispham

Having stuff up the arse doesn't make you gay or bisexual but if it's another man doing it then it certainly is.

A straight man would be repulsed by the idea of taking part in any man on man sex.

The mental gymnastics of believing a man can have consensual sex with another man and be straight must be tiring.

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By *uriousBiWalesMan
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

Its a very submissive thing and a role switch from being the more dominant with a woman. That and the feeling of vulnerability having done to you what you do to others... and that P-Spot... mmm

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By *eversayNever200Man
4 weeks ago

Kendal

I love being fucked. It’s nothing to do with sub/dom dynamics: it’s just very very sexy and deeply pleasurable when he hits the spot.

Even better if he pulls out & comes in my mouth to finish.

But I’d never describe a guy who is taking cock as straight.😂😂

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By *wanseatwo.2Man
4 weeks ago

swansea

As said by a few others already it is purely sex. Enjoy the feeling of being fucked but do not fancy men in any way and once they have finished happy to see them leave. Also enjoy being pegged by my Mrs

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By *teelballsMan
4 weeks ago

orpington


"As said by a few others already it is purely sex. Enjoy the feeling of being fucked but do not fancy men in any way and once they have finished happy to see them leave. Also enjoy being pegged by my Mrs "

Doesn’t matter how often this obvious truth is repeated on here there are always some guys who want to believe that anyone who ever sucked a cock and walked away is forever after leading a life of denial and anquish. Pretty pathetic really.

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By *treyu500Man
4 weeks ago

wickow


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no"

I'm bi and for the most part attraction for me is rarely just physical. It comes later when I get to know them a bit and I'm often attracted to men or women that are not on my radar at all because of this. So I often have sex without the "attraction" they may be speaking of.

However , when I look at a nice cock or pair of tits, I definitely know , I like it. I wouldn't persue it otherwise. I find it attractive.

But as for the lads on here that say they have no attraction to the male form at all. With no disrespect intended , I think it's completely nonsense and they should talk to a counsellor.

The straight websites are not crawling with gay men who are just curious about playing with fanny. No attraction is no attraction. You're going out of your way to have sex with men. Most of you literally have a preferred body type and age lol.

It's ok to admit you like it , especially on here. Strap a didlo on the wall or on a woman if the man being there plays no purpose for you.

It's totally possible im wrong but I've been around long enough to hear dozens of men speak those words and then figure out years later that they were only fooling themselves. I was guilty of it myself a long time ago.

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By *emptowncoupleCouple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Carrigart

Because they're not straight despite their elaborate mental gymnastics of "I'm not gay, I just like cock". Then then they come on this site looking for other gay men to fuck them (but God forbid that they're addressed as anything other than straight!) and they comment in the forum, voicing their support for political parties and figures who are against the very existence of the men they want to be fucked by. Which further shows how fragile their egos are. In truth they're not straight, they just can't admit it to themselves. They've been conditioned by society to think that being queer makes you less than. So they perpetuate the story by subscribing to it.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

West London

And so many of rhe older ones have the Best CD's fro Elton John, Queen and Geoge Michael

not gay at all......

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By *ustPeekinMan
4 weeks ago

Alresford

Because enjoying the sensation of being fucked in the bum does not make you gay 🙄

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Because enjoying the sensation of being fucked in the bum does not make you gay 🙄"

If it is being fucked up the bum by another man's cock---as opposed to a dildo or a woman pegging you---then it is a gay act, a homosexual act or at least a bisexual act. If you think otherwise you are just kidding yourself.

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By *artokMan
4 weeks ago

Wokingham

The lure of the forbidden.

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By *aulMichaelMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof"

It doesn’t matter if your str8 or gay, in my opinion, it just feels great when your wanking same time, my ex gf used to love putting her finger up my ass while she wanked and sucked me, it’s just another enhancement to sex play.

Some gay/Bi guys adopt the fem position so enjoy the submission aspect , but it’s all good regardless of your motivation

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By *wanseatwo.2Man
4 weeks ago

swansea

For me I admit I may be bi when it comes to sex. But as I said also enjoy my mrs pegging me and also my fucking machine. So it is quite literally the pleasure feeling I get from anal. Plus with a man it is just stress relief and a release where as with my Mrs it is part of our sex life and foreplay

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By *uneatonBiguyMan
4 weeks ago

nuneaton


"Because enjoying the sensation of being fucked in the bum does not make you gay 🙄

If it is being fucked up the bum by another man's cock---as opposed to a dildo or a woman pegging you---then it is a gay act, a homosexual act or at least a bisexual act. If you think otherwise you are just kidding yourself."

Ha ha ha

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By *luvnylonstockingsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

portsmouth


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no"

Im in that group,i dont fancy men at all but as cherry ,i become her and enjoy men ,would i have a relationship no ,i still prefare women .

I use to swing with my ex wife and in that senario i just acted out a play and we were just charecters

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By *r AdventurousMan
4 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I would class myself as bi-playful!

I do love to suck cock, have my cock sucked by a man, and have sex with me.

But I'm only really interested when horny. If I look a man I don't find them attractive, but get them naked and I'd be all over them.

I do find women very attractive though.

TV/CD are the best of both and I do love playing with them (and find them attractive!).

Difficult to explain really.

I've been pegged which i love, but not taken a real cock..... YET! Sometime soon I hope though

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By *lansubNWMan
4 weeks ago

warrington

Im bi when it comes to sex

i am always looking at women and finding them attractive, but very rare with guys. I do like a guy in a nice suit though

Regarding sex ive always been assertive with ladies, so maybe thats why i go for dominant guys

I admitt i love the cock more than the guy

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By *art8Man
4 weeks ago

mid Cheshire


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no

Can honestly say I have never looked at a guy and thought 'phwooor, I fancy him' nor have I ever wanted to date a guy... Now with women, I AM attracted to them and will definitely go 'phwoor, look at that!'and immediately be attracted to them... I just want a cock to play with no strings when that itch needs stratching.. this is why I dislike labels so much.. not gay because I love pussy n tits too much, have to label myself Bi even though would never have a relationship with a guy just because i occasionally like a bit of cock fun.. Should be a Greedy fucker label "

I could of written that myself . I'm exactly the same

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow


"Im bi when it comes to sex

i am always looking at women and finding them attractive, but very rare with guys. I do like a guy in a nice suit though

Regarding sex ive always been assertive with ladies, so maybe thats why i go for dominant guys

I admitt i love the cock more than the guy"

So its the hard erect penis that attracts so many bi-men, not the man himself, I wonder if women feel the same way about this wonder part of the male anatomy

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By *eed2pleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Conwy

I oftened wondered what it felt like for the woman as she was being penetrated. Then via a number of small steps, I found out. It was absolutely mind blowing awesome.

The foreplay, the lube, the nudge, the entry, the strokes, the pounding, the orgasm.

Absolutely love being fucked.

So now, pussy gets me hard, cock doesn’t, but it gets my mouth and arse hungry for it.

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By *oddyealingMan
4 weeks ago

Ealing

Because we love cock. Kissing it and having it inside us!!

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I oftened wondered what it felt like for the woman as she was being penetrated. Then via a number of small steps, I found out. It was absolutely mind blowing awesome.

The foreplay, the lube, the nudge, the entry, the strokes, the pounding, the orgasm.

Absolutely love being fucked.

So now, pussy gets me hard, cock doesn’t, but it gets my mouth and arse hungry for it. "

I'm no expert on women though I have talked to a few of them about sex. A woman's vagina is sensitive to sexual penetration. She has a clitoris which is, in many ways, the female version of a man's penis. A pleasure zone. However anal penetration is different. We have a prostate which is the pleasure zone inside our anus. Women don't have this. Although some women seem to like anal sex those I've spoken to hate it. Painful and no pleasure whatsoever. Men and women are quite different.

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By *ornymwellbiMan
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

Because we love the cock lol love being naked with another man or dressed up getting fucked by one

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By *hitesageMan
4 weeks ago

withywood

To be honest, I'm tired of guys saying they're straight and wanting everything done to them, but nothing can return. If you want to meet up, it's a two-way street.

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By *oek26TV/TS
4 weeks ago

surrey and hampshire

Bi means you just love both just be bi

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By *spenMan
4 weeks ago

St Leonards on sea

I've been having sex with men and women since my early teens.

Still do, more with men now than women.

Really enjoy both giving and receiving.

I still consider myself Bi.

Although I love being penetrated.

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By *annyDanielleMan
4 weeks ago

Street, Somerset


"I've been having sex with men and women since my early teens.

Still do, more with men now than women.

Really enjoy both giving and receiving.

I still consider myself Bi.

Although I love being penetrated."

Same here and still very much bi.😊

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By *aul 88Man
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I’m straight but playing with guys is very good

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By *uck my bumMan
4 weeks ago

walsall

Because they aren’t straight if you put a cock in your mouth or bum as a male your not straight

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By *rpington BottomMan
4 weeks ago

ORPINGTON

I am bi sexual and my girlfriend loves watching me with guys, however I never get hard when I am sucking a cock or being fucked but as soon as my girlfriend touches me I’m rock hard, figure that out, I love cock

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Some straight women love it in the ass 2

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By *ike 57Man
4 weeks ago

clonmel

it does not take much to figure out lol

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I’m straight but playing with guys is very good "

Hate to tell you but you are not straight if you enjoy playing with guys.

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By *ayboy1966Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I dont actually find guys that attractive . Some of course . Im more intrested in their cock and how big it is and how it feels in me . Hope that makes sense x"

I’m very much the same, I’m very interested in another man’s cock, to fondle, stroke, wank, love to suck, then if he’s up for it, fk me, the feelings amazing, men just like sex, I don’t like labels.

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By *ristolbi_bs5Man
4 weeks ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Everyone is different. I consider myself bi. I love fucking female and eating pussy. I love sucking cock. I love cum. I like taking anal, but only enjoy fucking female ass. I don't find men attractive, just their cocks. Who cares about labels.

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By *inkyGuy321Man
4 weeks ago

stockport


"Everyone is different. I consider myself bi. I love fucking female and eating pussy. I love sucking cock. I love cum. I like taking anal, but only enjoy fucking female ass. I don't find men attractive, just their cocks. Who cares about labels."

Same

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By *inkyGuy321Man
4 weeks ago

stockport

Men are like spaghetti…. Straight until they get wet.

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By *ubguy501Man
4 weeks ago

Near you

If you like being fucked by another guy, then you aren’t 100% straight.

I am not attracted to to men the way I am attracted to women, but I love sucking cock and getting my ass fucked. I’m not straight, I’m bi.

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By *exualCumeleonMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

If you are a man and love being penetrative then you are not straight.

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Even a finger 👉

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

If it's a woman doing it with a strap on or a dude doing himself with a toy it's not really gay.

Lots of guys into BDSM and fetish love a good pegging but wouldn't consider going with a guy.

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By *eicester-lukeMan
4 weeks ago

leicester

Im hoping to get my straight side fucked out of me soon

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By *ubguy501Man
4 weeks ago

Near you


"If it's a woman doing it with a strap on or a dude doing himself with a toy it's not really gay.

Lots of guys into BDSM and fetish love a good pegging but wouldn't consider going with a guy. "

What would you class a guy who likes women with cocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"If it's a woman doing it with a strap on or a dude doing himself with a toy it's not really gay.

Lots of guys into BDSM and fetish love a good pegging but wouldn't consider going with a guy.

What would you class a guy who likes women with cocks?"

If they are trans they identify as a woman. So it a guy exclusively like them and biological females I'd hesitate to call him gay.

If he's railing transvestites or crossdresser, femboys or twinks I'd say he's bi at the very least.

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By *aster islandMan
4 weeks ago

navan

Just enjoyable sex hopefully...

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By *hyguy62Man
4 weeks ago

Brentwood


"I’m straight but playing with guys is very good

Hate to tell you but you are not straight if you enjoy playing with guys."

This 👆😘

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

West London

Maybe all men are really gay, and straight sex is only there for reproduction and not for enjoyment ?

I am sure if you could guarantee total anonymity and disease free sex, gay venues would be busy 24/7

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By *irralGuy20Man
4 weeks ago

Wirral

For me it's about that feeling of submission and handing over of control - a total aphrodisiac in itself

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Could be lots of so called straight men have tried being penetrated but put off by the pain and never tried it again, the real enjoyment of getting a cock inside you is when you are used to it and can take a cock with ease

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By *bonybucksMan
4 weeks ago

High Wycombe

They are not straight and I met a married guy off here and once he just really p*ssed me off with all his straight macho nonsense. I shouted at him for the entirety of the journey back to his house. Didn’t seem to put him off me though.

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By *obbydoMan
4 weeks ago

Costa Blanca Spain..


"Everyone is different. I consider myself bi. I love fucking female and eating pussy. I love sucking cock. I love cum. I like taking anal, but only enjoy fucking female ass. I don't find men attractive, just their cocks. Who cares about labels."

Exactly this.

I don't really find men attractive I would much sooner look at a naked woman than a man. Every time. And I absolutely love licking pussy.

But I also love sucking cock, swallowing a load and when in the mood being fucked.

That is why I "label" myself Bi-sexual.

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By *ubtitsMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

Not straight but married but prefer cock not touched a pussy for over 20 years.

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By *ike919Man
4 weeks ago

Grimsby

Curiosity gets the better of you after id tried a few things knew what I liked and didn't then I decided that I wasn't straight and then just went forward as bi! Greedy for men and women haha

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Does a straight or gay or bi-man think that he compromises his own masculinity by allowing another man to ride him repeatedly thus assuming a submissive sexual role

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Does a straight or gay or bi-man think that he compromises his own masculinity by allowing another man to ride him repeatedly thus assuming a submissive sexual role"

I think you may have hit the nail on the head there. Too a totally straight man it would be the ultimate humiliation. Evidently in ancient times, after a battle the winning warriors would perform anal sex upon their defeated opponents to emasculate them prior to killing them or selling them into bondage.

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By *ibeariusMan
4 weeks ago

Greenock

Haha straight

Maybe it’s a forbidden thing they’ve been told not to do

It’s fun when they penetrate you for a few meets then suddenly you flip them as a reward

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By *ike-59Man
4 weeks ago

malaga

I would say I'm not attracted to men, but when it comes to it Sex is always on my mind with a guy, I don't care on looks and age, as long as they have a good sized cock that I love to play with. wink

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By *IPMANMan
4 weeks ago

West London

As Linda La Hughes said in Gimmee Gimmee Gimmee

" they're ain't no such thing as a gay man, they're just lazy"

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By *ucker4U992Man
4 weeks ago

Stockton

I never really understood the need for labels but if it makes a person happy let them do as they wish

I do remember my first time getting fucked, guy had just cum and was still inside, went to kiss me and I squirmed as if that would be the thing that made me gay

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By *anillamanMan
4 weeks ago

Dalbeattie


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no

My opinion, for what it’s worth.

Many guys on here can’t accept that a lot of people, both men and women, enjoy sex of some sort without much physical attraction being involved. The fact that a guy finds it exciting to get fucked by a man occasionally doesn’t mean necessarily that he has any interest in any sort of relationship with him.

It can be simply an exciting pleasurable act he enjoys and then quite happily walks away from back to an everyday life that he has no intention of changing.

Seems obvious to me but apoarently plenty of people don’t want to accept it.

Personalky i’ve had loads of exciting sex of all sorts with both men and women with who i have no interest in having any sort of relationship with other than the sex."

Sums up my views/feelings

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By *nythinggoes13Man
4 weeks ago

rainham


"I was happily married to a very vanilla women . I loved playing with my arse . Always toying myself in secret . I suppose like lots of straight guys you come to a point in your life where curiosity gets the better of you and you feel the need to try a real cock for once . Thats how I felt . Now very bi and even happier . This is my experience x"

Agree totally

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow


"What i can't understand is, if, as many guys say there is no attraction towards the male form then how does a guy initially invite a another male to penetrate him , I would have thought being penetrated would be a no-no

My opinion, for what it’s worth.

Many guys on here can’t accept that a lot of people, both men and women, enjoy sex of some sort without much physical attraction being involved. The fact that a guy finds it exciting to get fucked by a man occasionally doesn’t mean necessarily that he has any interest in any sort of relationship with him.

It can be simply an exciting pleasurable act he enjoys and then quite happily walks away from back to an everyday life that he has no intention of changing.

Seems obvious to me but apoarently plenty of people don’t want to accept it.

Personalky i’ve had loads of exciting sex of all sorts with both men and women with who i have no interest in having any sort of relationship with other than the sex.

Sums up my views/feelings"

Yes i can agree with what you say here, I've had regular sex partners over the years, married men mostly. Who have phoned me on a regular basis for sex , wanting to fuck me , but after the sex , thats it , no engaging talk, no wanting to socialise in any way but have really enjoyed fucking me, I believe they are more than bi but almost 100% gay

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bristol

I think the majority of straight men do not enjoy being penetrated.

Even a finger from their gf would not appeal to them.

This site is not a good demographic to draw conclusions from.

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By *ooking4fun87Man
4 weeks ago

near you

Love my Mrs fucking me up the ass

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By *treyu500Man
4 weeks ago

wickow


"I think the majority of straight men do not enjoy being penetrated.

Even a finger from their gf would not appeal to them.

This site is not a good demographic to draw conclusions from."

A large cohort of gay men don't enjoy bottoming or infact anal at all. I really don't think enjoying anal is the point here anyway- to me it's like saying that wanking yourself off is gay because it's touching a dick. It's about seeking and engaging in anal WITH A MAN.

On some level - there has to be attraction - because why do it?. I have met men I'm not attracted to. But at the very least when I have sex with them , I'm attracted to the act of sex with another man- for example if I got sucked off at a glory hole.

To all these guys that feel they have no attraction. I'm curious as to what's going on in your head as a man is fucking you ? A scenario or fantasy ? You wouldn't consider that attraction? Perhaps lust?

If it was a woman in the fantasy would you find it easier to call it attraction?

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By *arla999 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

glasgow

Yeah, guys cant deny the pleasure they get from a hard cock deep in their 'male pussy', once penetrated , it becomes addictive, the perils of experimentation and exploration, just like a woman they hanker all the time for their next shag

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By *ulio69Man
4 weeks ago

Thirsk


"I dont actually find guys that attractive . Some of course . Im more intrested in their cock and how big it is and how it feels in me . Hope that makes sense x"
100%! I’m not sexually attracted to guys but yearn for a dom I can relate with to own me so I can serve cock! TV and CD I can get sexually attracted to. Probably doesn’t make sense to lots but it’s what it is

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By *ustPeekinMan
4 weeks ago

Alresford

Lots of gay guys don’t like to be penetrated but that doesn’t make them any less gay. Lots of straight guys like to be fucked in the bum yet still consider themselves to be straight. As long as both are happy, who cares about the labels!

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By *ockFunUpmMan
4 weeks ago

Upminster

I'm very much bi, but still don't really find the make form attractive, it's mostly about the cock for me, some feminine guys or smooth slim guys I do find attractive, maybe they are my type who knows. I don't have any feelings towards a guy, I just enjoy sex with a guy and that definitely makes me bi.

I don't really care how anyone identifies, whatever makes them feel comfortable with themselves to do what they do.

I meet guys because they have dicks, but that's it, still classify myself as bi, I take a dick in the ass, I'm clearly not straight, I used to refer to myself as hetexible, but I was just lying to myself.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"I think the majority of straight men do not enjoy being penetrated.

Even a finger from their gf would not appeal to them.

This site is not a good demographic to draw conclusions from."

I think you are right. Not all gay men enjoy being penetrated either. I never have done and in my 'long career' of being an active gay man I doubt I've been penetrated more than ten times. I used to do quite a bit of penetrating of willing guys but would struggle now with ED. With I enjoyed anal penetration more as love the intimacy of having another man inside you. Still plenty of other enjoyable and satisfying things to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Why do guys like their girlfriends sticking a finger up their ass during sex? Pegging? Anal penetration is an enjoyable physical sensation

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By *obbydoMan
4 weeks ago

Costa Blanca Spain..


"

To all these guys that feel they have no attraction. I'm curious as to what's going on in your head as a man is fucking you ? A scenario or fantasy ? You wouldn't consider that attraction? Perhaps lust?

If it was a woman in the fantasy would you find it easier to call it attraction? "

My attraction is only for the cock.

The feeling of that first moment when I take one into my mouth then working it until I get a mouthful of cum.

When being fucked it's just the feeling of having it inside me.

I've never seen a guy in the street (or anywhere else) and thought I'd love him to fuck me. But I look at women almost on a daily basis.

Even on nudist beaches I've never looked at a "guy" thinking he's nice I'd like him to fuck me. But I've seen a good few cocks and thought I wouldn't mind having a go at that one.

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By *artlepool 321Man
4 weeks ago

Hartlepool

I don't know but I like it

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By *arethwallaceMan
4 weeks ago

portsmouth


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poof

No one on here is straight, sorry but anyone thinks they are is deluded, however how you present is not directly connected to your sexuality, some guys are very masculine, some very feminine with most somewhere between the 2 extremes and I'm guessing it's the case with most guys on here, especially the bisexual ones that outside fab and close friends, no one would know they weren't straight.

As for being penetrated, straight guys also like being pegged by their wives, I'm guessing the reason is that little old P spot."

I totally agree I am bi I live both sides but equally the first time my wife pegged me I knew I loved it and wanted more so I wanted to meet more that would penetrate me it feels so good

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By *hrisk75Man
4 weeks ago

gateshead

Often wondered this myself

Is it nature or nurture

I’ve had things happen in my life, did they make me who I am or was I always destined to be like this

Guess it’s all about the difficult choices

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By *wanseatwo.2Man
4 weeks ago

swansea


"

To all these guys that feel they have no attraction. I'm curious as to what's going on in your head as a man is fucking you ? A scenario or fantasy ? You wouldn't consider that attraction? Perhaps lust?

If it was a woman in the fantasy would you find it easier to call it attraction?

My attraction is only for the cock.

The feeling of that first moment when I take one into my mouth then working it until I get a mouthful of cum.

When being fucked it's just the feeling of having it inside me.

I've never seen a guy in the street (or anywhere else) and thought I'd love him to fuck me. But I look at women almost on a daily basis.

Even on nudist beaches I've never looked at a "guy" thinking he's nice I'd like him to fuck me. But I've seen a good few cocks and thought I wouldn't mind having a go at that one. "

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

I just can't understand why so many replies of men on this post who say they are not attracted to men but its the cock that they want. Surely initially there must have been a degree of attraction to another male in order to have sex with him, you just don't want cock with anyone unless something stirs within you about the male shape and form.

Where I would agree with some of the replies on here is that tasting and receiving cock is very addictive and once that addiction develops then you must have cock. Personally I've had sex with men I just don't fancy and could never ever have a relationship with but on seeing their erect cock I just know I want that in my mouth or in my pussy.

Its the addiction possessing me but saying that sex is far more fullfilling when there is an attraction to another man.

But going back to my point what is it that stirs within you if you are not attracted to men but have sex with him for your first sexual encounter ever with a man ?

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By *arried68Man
3 weeks ago

ilford

Mine was the curious seeing cock but also cos he wa solder and lots more loving than my dad

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By *teelballsMan
3 weeks ago

orpington


"I just can't understand why so many replies of men on this post who say they are not attracted to men but its the cock that they want. Surely initially there must have been a degree of attraction to another male in order to have sex with him, you just don't want cock with anyone unless something stirs within you about the male shape and form.

Where I would agree with some of the replies on here is that tasting and receiving cock is very addictive and once that addiction develops then you must have cock. Personally I've had sex with men I just don't fancy and could never ever have a relationship with but on seeing their erect cock I just know I want that in my mouth or in my pussy.

Its the addiction possessing me but saying that sex is far more fullfilling when there is an attraction to another man.

But going back to my point what is it that stirs within you if you are not attracted to men but have sex with him for your first sexual encounter ever with a man ?

"

In one word - excitement. The thought of being submissive, sucking cock or being fucked was what did it for me and it’s still the same.

There have been men who’s physical appearance has occasionally put me off, ie very messy , unkempt or actually ill looking, but otherwise physical appearance in tterms of attraction is not an issue at all and never has been and I don’t see why some on here claim not to understand that. After all we pretty much all form friendships with people without any physical attraction so why should it necessarily be different just because you suck someones cock ?

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
3 weeks ago

West London

Because it feels great?

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By *om9Man
3 weeks ago

Saint Helens

Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say"

Suppose we are all different but if you really was 100% straight you wouldn't even get an erection with another man. I certainly wouldn't get one with a woman.

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

wickow


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say"

The vast majority of my interactions with men were just getting sucked off where I didn't reciprocate. That's doesn't make me any less bi though. For me every hole isn't a goal. I really prefer a bit of a connection to enjoy anal at all and I mainly engage in anal as a means to make them feel good in the moment.

I'm actually a little grossed out by anal if it's a total stranger. Obviously, in terms of here I'm more of a minority in that regard and I'm not judging - it's about personal preference and often the anonymity is a kink.

But, I suppose my point is still, why would you engage in anal with a man at all if there wasn't something drawing you to it?

Do you like looking at their ass? The manly smells like balls and armpits? Their cock and balls hanging there as you bend them over. The feeling of making them take your cock deep inside.

I suppose I just struggle to picture or reduce the act of sex with man as just a floating asshole that I want to put my dick in. I've done it and was bored. I've also looked at so many gaping ass pics and thought "that's disgusting" lol.

And I have had 100's of instances of meaningless sex where I don't even know their name and never see them again lol.

I think if I was totally straight - even with a very open mind, anal would be a step too far for me. I would be pushing rope. I wouldn't have the motivation to do it.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say

The vast majority of my interactions with men were just getting sucked off where I didn't reciprocate. That's doesn't make me any less bi though. For me every hole isn't a goal. I really prefer a bit of a connection to enjoy anal at all and I mainly engage in anal as a means to make them feel good in the moment.

I'm actually a little grossed out by anal if it's a total stranger. Obviously, in terms of here I'm more of a minority in that regard and I'm not judging - it's about personal preference and often the anonymity is a kink.

But, I suppose my point is still, why would you engage in anal with a man at all if there wasn't something drawing you to it?

Do you like looking at their ass? The manly smells like balls and armpits? Their cock and balls hanging there as you bend them over. The feeling of making them take your cock deep inside.

I suppose I just struggle to picture or reduce the act of sex with man as just a floating asshole that I want to put my dick in. I've done it and was bored. I've also looked at so many gaping ass pics and thought "that's disgusting" lol.

And I have had 100's of instances of meaningless sex where I don't even know their name and never see them again lol.

I think if I was totally straight - even with a very open mind, anal would be a step too far for me. I would be pushing rope. I wouldn't have the motivation to do it. "

I agree with you if I was too fuck a guy there must be something drawing me to him ( although I don't fuck,) but the opposite applies when I get fucked especially in the doggy position, a hard cock that wants to fuck me , answers my addiction

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By *eicJonMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

I live a straight life, but my deep dark secret is that im fully bisexual, but only in the sexual sense, this may sound quite harsh or emotionless but I have no interest kisses or cuddles or exploring the male body, I'm a very nice easy going guy but I only enjoy the sex part of being bisexual, its hard to explain without making myself sound like some selfish arsehole, which im most definitely not

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By *teelballsMan
3 weeks ago

orpington


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say

Suppose we are all different but if you really was 100% straight you wouldn't even get an erection with another man. I certainly wouldn't get one with a woman."

Surely that’s nonsense. If you we’re pushing your cock through a gloryhole and got a good sucking you would get hard without knowing anything about the person on the other side.

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By *hop SuiCouple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Dublin


"Many men on this forum say that they are straight but love being penetrated, why, I love being bottom but openly admit I'm gay , 100% poofcall me old fashioned but if a guy likes cock up him hes certainly not straight "
...Your 100% CORRECT....you like/want cock...you AIN'T STRAIGHT !!

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say

Suppose we are all different but if you really was 100% straight you wouldn't even get an erection with another man. I certainly wouldn't get one with a woman.

Surely that’s nonsense. If you we’re pushing your cock through a gloryhole and got a good sucking you would get hard without knowing anything about the person on the other side. "

Well if you are stupid enough and desperate enough to stick your cock through a glory hole [might be a nutter on the other side with a pair of garden sheers] then chances are you are bisexual anyway.

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By *iss and no tellMan
3 weeks ago

camberley


"I was happily married to a very vanilla women . I loved playing with my arse . Always toying myself in secret . I suppose like lots of straight guys you come to a point in your life where curiosity gets the better of you and you feel the need to try a real cock for once . Thats how I felt . Now very bi and even happier . This is my experience x"
I agree with that statement 👏

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

wickow


"I was happily married to a very vanilla women . I loved playing with my arse . Always toying myself in secret . I suppose like lots of straight guys you come to a point in your life where curiosity gets the better of you and you feel the need to try a real cock for once . Thats how I felt . Now very bi and even happier . This is my experience x I agree with that statement 👏 "

No offence but we were bi before we tried sex with men. Playing with your ass isn't gay or bi. I was bi when I was a virgin because I was interested or "curious" about cock and fanny. I just hadn't discovered it in depth yet.

When I walked though the underwear aisle I would have a peek at the women's lingerie and then also the bulges on the male models. I loved looking at cocks in the changing room and would pause movie scenes with tits on VHS tapes lol.

You're not a-sexual until you touch that first cock or fanny . We are what we are. That's ok. I'm willing to bet you had a 1000 wanks thinking of a man fucking you as you played with your ass .

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By *obert112Man
3 weeks ago

Greenford

I am active with women but passive with men, and I find that pleasant.

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By *aster islandMan
3 weeks ago

navan

Anyone take a strapon

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By *om9Man
3 weeks ago

Saint Helens


"Deep down i think I'm straight but I don't want penetrative or to suck a cock instead I love my cock sucked and I love fucking every holes a goal as they say

Suppose we are all different but if you really was 100% straight you wouldn't even get an erection with another man. I certainly wouldn't get one with a woman."

On my profile I say I'm bi I prefer women or tvs the only reason I said every holes is a goal was down to an experience I had at a meet where a wife sat on my face and her hubby lowered himself on to my cock and rode me.i was shocked at the time but as he rode me I flipped him over and fucked him doggy really hard blew my full load in him instead of being wronged I felt horny as hell that was my 1st time fucking a man

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By *jp HungMan
3 weeks ago

Ferryhill Northeast. /visiting if south

Well how many men on here say looking for straight guys so obviously if you have straight on your profile it ups your chances of more meetings. But really does it matter people are people and can choose however they want to promote themselves.

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By *ishop666Man
3 weeks ago

ls19

It’s the enjoyment n feeling

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

If you kiss a guy and its an extended kiss, tongue in his mouth and vice-versa

If you suck his nipples and lick him all over

If you rim his anus and he rims you

If you suck his cock and let him suck your cock

If you ride him or he rides you

Any of the above constitutes a homosexual act so if you participate your gay not bi-sexual

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By *immewillyMan
3 weeks ago

Dundee


"If you kiss a guy and its an extended kiss, tongue in his mouth and vice-versa

If you suck his nipples and lick him all over

If you rim his anus and he rims you

If you suck his cock and let him suck your cock

If you ride him or he rides you

Any of the above constitutes a homosexual act so if you participate your gay not bi-sexual"

Congratulations on being the boss of the world and getting to decide the rules! If a straight guy who likes and of these identifies as straight that’s up to him. Not you. Labels applied by others are ridiculous.

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow


"If you kiss a guy and its an extended kiss, tongue in his mouth and vice-versa

If you suck his nipples and lick him all over

If you rim his anus and he rims you

If you suck his cock and let him suck your cock

If you ride him or he rides you

Any of the above constitutes a homosexual act so if you participate your gay not bi-sexual

Congratulations on being the boss of the world and getting to decide the rules! If a straight guy who likes and of these identifies as straight that’s up to him. Not you. Labels applied by others are ridiculous. "

And I suppose you're straight ,just a little bi-sexual, and you are just the type of hypocrite we've been talking about on this forum

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By *ildwestheroMan
3 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I guess this 'straight' claim is more to do with appearance than who you have sex with. The old stereotyping that gay men are camp/effeminate, walk and dress in a certain manner, talk in a certain way, hate sport and a lot of other things ordinary blokes like etc. etc. If that were the case then I could claim to be totally straight when in reality I am sexually 100% gay/homosexual.

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

I've always been gay. Tried topping but get nothing from it. In the past had a high powered corporate job and to come home and just bend over and take instruction was just the tonic I needed.

I think it's similar for most.

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By *urvMan
3 weeks ago

christchurch Dorset

Only a real man can take it up the Kiber

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow


"Only a real man can take it up the Kiber "

What do you mean by 'a real man'

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

The most talked about part of the human body is the penis, it holds an unmatched fascination not just for the female sex but equally for the male sex.

We've all been in a shower room and gay or straight ,everyone looks at each others penis.

I played football , I just loved in the dressing room, the sight of fit athletic naked bodies around me but the talk always came around to the size of so and so's penis and this was always initiated by the so called straight lads in the team.

It was the same talk week in week out discussing the size and shape of different lads genitalia.

Of course the talk ventured on to the females but the fascination for cock was ever present

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By *oek26TV/TS
3 weeks ago

surrey and hampshire

Because it’s super horny and feels sooooo good

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By *arla999 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

We gay and bi-guys on this forum , love to fantasise about a straight man having sex with us.

Sorry to disillusion you all but a straight man wouldn't give us a second glance

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By *aster islandMan
3 weeks ago

navan


"Because it’s super horny and feels sooooo good "
so true 👍

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By *eardedfella76Man
3 weeks ago

London Essex

It feels soooo damn fine

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By *poolBiTopMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

There's a video on YouTube worth a watch "They’re Straight, Not Gay: 10 Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men" by Dr Joe Kart (a licensed sex and relationship therapist).

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

wickow


"There's a video on YouTube worth a watch "They’re Straight, Not Gay: 10 Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men" by Dr Joe Kart (a licensed sex and relationship therapist)."

Is it by the same director of "they're gay' not straight":10 reasons why gay men have zero interest in sex with women and don't have sex with them.

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By *azadarMan
3 weeks ago

North Birmingham


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Is it by the same director of "they're gay' not straight":10 reasons why gay men have zero interest in sex with women and don't have sex with them.

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By *mblerMan
3 weeks ago

Goole

I enjoy it when I receive from smallish cocks, if they’re big I don’t enjoy it at all.

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

West London

As Quentin Crisp said ..there is no tall dark man....

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By *itherMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't claim to be straight but I do like it up me.👍😄

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By *aulBiBottomMan
3 weeks ago

nr Longbridge

We're all either bi or gay, by that I mean every man is whether they admitted to themselves or not

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By *ackeyMan
3 weeks ago

cheshunt

To have sex with either man or woman there as to be some attraction

Otherwise you'd be having sex with any age any race fat slim tall small

If a man says he doesn't find another man attractive he's in that place in the desert DENIAL.

Makes them feel better

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By *laything66Man
3 weeks ago

fife

Love the feeling of a man in me

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By *airless-slutMan
3 weeks ago

London

You seem to have an insecurity about your sexuality whereby everybody has to feel like you do. Maybe because society judges you so you more people to be like you.

I have an emotional connection to women that I simply dont have with men and probably never will, but there are also certain sex acts with men that I find incredibly erotic and appeals to a completely different part of my brain.

Who cares whether you are str8, bi, gay - or "a little bit" of these?

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