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Do toys ruin you for anal sex?

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By *luteus max OP   Man
3 weeks ago

North of Havant

I see a lot of guys wanting to stretch their sphincters to accommodate larger and larger insertions. I've never enjoyed this, and I don't use any toys. I don't like fingers of fists going into me either. I don't want to fight my muscles, but I want to train them to give me ( and my partner ) maximum pleasure. Fortunately I still have very responsive muscles, even at the age of 84. I'm fairly tight, but able to expand to take any length or girth of cock. This means I can get please from small cocks as well as large ones. I do need a cock to be well lubed though.

I've fucked a few stretched arses in the past, and in one case it was a bit like waving it around in a hot tunnel. I much prefer a tight responsive hole that provides a pulsating sheath for my hard cock.

So, I guess my question is - should you be fighting your body reflexes with traffic cones, or should you train your mind to relax and enjoy the wonderful sensations of a hard cock moving deep inside you?

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By *iguy2456Man
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

I've often wondered the guys who stretch their hole , do they have trouble controlling body functions

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By *uangshanMan
3 weeks ago

jarrow-fellgate

Not at all the help open me up for some fun and other times it’s better for after fuck fun.

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By *napperMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton and Hove

A pity you're so judgemental about what others enjoy but each to their own. There's quite some difference between a guy who likes his hole trained to take larger cocks more comfortably and one who likes to ride street bollards so I'm not sure why you're basically saying we're all the same. Some people might want things a bit different from how you like them, others will want things very different indeed. It's all good.

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By *owerplay823Man
3 weeks ago

Lewes

My body does misbehave now after the bigger usage

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By *luteus max OP   Man
3 weeks ago

North of Havant

@_napper

I'm not judgemental at all. I guess that some guys like the pain that they get from fighting the will of their sphincter. I started this thread because I believe that the ability to work with you sphincter muscles may give more pleasure to both parties. I've never had to "train" my arse, and I've taken sonme really girthy cocks in my time. If a guy is really large, then lots of lubrication, and a slow insertion are all it takes for my muscles to adjust. I have had a couplke of guys go soft because they decided I was too tight, and that was a shame, as I was enjoying the sensations from their entering me. This is why selfish tops make the best fuckers.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"... So, I guess my question is - should you be fighting your body reflexes with traffic cones, or should you train your mind to relax and enjoy the wonderful sensations of a hard cock moving deep inside you?"

There's no doubt I primarily needed to patiently train my sphyncter to relax and take any size of cock large or small. After years of practice It still takes some time to slide a large cock in, but once in it feels exquisite. Small cocks still feel good so I wouldn't want to be stretched so much I couldn't feel them any more.

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By *hitesageMan
3 weeks ago

withywood

It depends on what size they are. People normally use toys to stretch themselves for more extreme anal play, for example, fisting or extreme toy play. Be wise about what you use. And I won't recommend using them excessively.

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

As I type I'm currently stretched to my limit with an XXL horsecock.

Enjoying a grind.

Once it's out, in a very short space of time all returns to normal size. Your sphincter is just a muscle.

Feels good for both those giving and taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I’ve only been fucked once the first guy that tried could not enter me said I was too tight , the guy that fucked me had a small cock and cum quick he said I was nice and tight to

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By *hitesageMan
3 weeks ago

withywood

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By *hitesageMan
3 weeks ago

withywood


"As I type I'm currently stretched to my limit with an XXL horsecock.

Enjoying a grind.

Once it's out, in a very short space of time all returns to normal size. Your sphincter is just a muscle.

Feels good for both those giving and taking. "

This is true, the sphincter is a memory muscle. It will loosen up when you insert a large item back up. So future toy play would be a lot easier without all the stress or pain and stretching.

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By *xmareMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Initial practice makes perfect, I find, and muscle memory does the rest. The sphincter will naturally let a big stool out, once it unlearns the difference between "out" and "in" it will let a big tool in.

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By *aulsmith69TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Maidenhead

Used to find it painful taking a cock but after a lot of practice with a 10 in dildo just love it. Pushing a cock in now feels so good and no pain x

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