FabGuys.com forum: Ghosted after years of meeting

Banbury

Strange one and interested on others thoughts. I was meeting an older guy for around 6-7 years, semi regularly. Sometimes weekly other times months between. Had a really good role play of daddy and son going on. Felt like we had a great connection and would meet where ever we were free. Invited others to join us and be part of our fun. It was a perfect regular FWB that felt great and had a good connection.

Then out of nowhere ghosts me about a year ago, doesn’t respond to messages or anything. I’ve asked if I’ve done something to upset or create a situation but no reply.

I’m more puzzled than anything and would like to understand what I did

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By *3243Man
3 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

Could it be his interests have changed and you no longer fit into what he's looking for?

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By *elenaCDTV/TS
3 weeks ago

In the sticks Somerset

Dead?

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By *r.blue.eyes.86 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Banbury

It could be interests have changed and no longer a turn on or to his likes. I’d like to think after over 6 years and maybe 40 plus meets, a little something. Even a straight message, it’s been great and fun but found something else.

I wouldn’t mind and not overly sensitive, find it strange is all.

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By *r.blue.eyes.86 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Banbury

"Dead?"

No as pops up on who’s nearby as we’re only 5-10 minutes apart.

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By *ilfriderMan
3 weeks ago

Started to fall in love and got scared?

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By *licequeenbear891Man
3 weeks ago

Teddington

It might be that their interests have changed, I wouldn't take it to heart. It's also maybe their home life. They're married so trying to be discreet

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By *upertedMan
3 weeks ago

Nelson,, Caerphilly

It is very rarely you in a situation like this.

It could be any number of things from being caught, to not great with technology and the profile is lost.

Don't dwell. Protect your peace.

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By *onkfish10Man
3 weeks ago

Shropshire

It's common I just had it don't over think it move on

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By *ntographerMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

Personally I couldn’t ever ghost someone. Everyone deserves an explanation if you’ve been meeting regularly. Don’t stress it - it won’t be you.

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By *eryCuriousGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Tidworth

Maybe his wife found out 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Maybe you are now too old...

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By *ieranXXXMan
3 weeks ago

Beckingham

If it's ghosting after so long I would most likely say catching feelings he can't afford to have, if it's ghosting cause he lost interest then he's a coward and you will find better.

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By *oosterladMan
3 weeks ago

ipswich

Maybe he got a nasty dose...

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By *iowaMan
3 weeks ago

Bideford

Happened to me years ago, never got any replies from him. A few months later I called to his home and he's wife answered and told me that he died months ago.

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By *r.blue.eyes.86 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Banbury

Yeah it could be a hundred different reasons, I think it’s the curiosity of not knowing that nags at me.

But each to the own and everyone should just enjoy themselves

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By *ittlefishMan
3 weeks ago

Im here

Life changing or limiting diagnosis.

People often keep those things to themselves as they don’t want to worry the people they care about

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By *arridMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton

Unlikely to be you otherwise he would have stopped ages ago, more likely his circumstances have changed. Maybe not what you would do or expect but you maybe didn’t know him that well to know that he’d do something like this. Don’t overthink it.

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By *3versMan
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Got a new "son"

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By *rickie-dickieMan
3 weeks ago

South Durham

It happens. It happened to me. I was seeing a guy regularly, I thought things were going nicely then, no communication, wouldn't answer messages. I figured I must've pissed him off. He's a nice bloke, I liked him but he chose to end it.

It's a shame, but it happens.

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By *ootsockMan
3 weeks ago

Earl's Court, London

Late in life, health problems come thick and fast for many people, especially ones that they find hard to talk about, that cause impotence or incontinence, for example.

His reasoning may be that he only wants you to remember him as he was. The fact that he's still online may just mean he's looking with no intention to meet, as we know many do, alas!

Or as others have said, there are many possible explanations. Find one you are comfortable with and move on.

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By *DCambsMan
3 weeks ago

Cambridge

"If it's ghosting after so long I would most likely say catching feelings he can't afford to have, if it's ghosting cause he lost interest then he's a coward and you will find better."

Good shout

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By *ibeariusMan
3 weeks ago

Greenock

he may have caught feelings for someone else, its horrible when it happens sadly

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By *ressmesissyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Had similar, found out he had started a relationship with a woman.

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