FabGuys.com forum: Looking back at gay sex life

By *avigaay OP Man
2 weeks ago

castleford

Well I have done my bits, but I believe I could have done more. I’m Bi and things that stopped me from doing more was gf relationships, privacy and privacy and privacy and not coming out of the closet, which the all do still exist now as well, I was just wondering are you having the same drama? How is it for you?

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By *mudgeMan
2 weeks ago

NEWBURY

Having the same issues sometimes wish I was single and free

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By *ndyfy7Man
2 weeks ago

Fleetwood

I didn’t have any gay sex till was in my 40’s but didn’t feel the need. So I just embraced it and never felt that it was wrong

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
2 weeks ago

West London

I was curious for years but didn’t do anything until I was 39, wish I had embraced it sooner especially when young and single

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By *atalie1963TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herne Bay

I am married and closet tv. I have been for over 20 years. I married young before I fully appreciated my true self. Two grown up children later I feel some regret for suppressing the gay femme me.

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Why feel any remorse or guilt. You all probably knew when younger but confirmed - as did I.

First full experience in my 40’s and have never looked back.

Still happily married but just enjoy fun elsewhere, because as so many guys, the sex dries up, but if you are fortunate, the friendship and companionship continues.

Don’t embarrass her, keep it cool and enjoy the man side of sexuality.

It’s brilliant - twice the fun !!!!!

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By *airyscot72Man
2 weeks ago

scotland

No regrets, late to gay sex but enjoying it when I can.

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By *owerplay823Man
2 weeks ago

Lewes

Enjoyed it mostly xx and usually in secret

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By *ygah49Man
2 weeks ago

Healing

Started only with guys but ended up with girls married and hidden meetings of sex with guys wish it different just find cock so much more enjoyable

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By *hisoldguyMan
2 weeks ago

Staffs

I had my cock first sucked by a man and fucked my first guy when I was 21. I have had a very prolific sex life with both sexes, but mainly men for the last 20 years. I have sucked and been sucked. Rimmed and been rimmed! Fucked and been fucked. Had threesomes and more-some's. Frequented the saunas up and down the country.

I now suffer from Ed and can no longer take the little blue pills as they interfere with my other medication. I still enjoy the occasional wank and enjoy giving myself prostate orgasms while riding my dildo.

Looking back I have enjoyed every minute and don’t regret a thing.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Seaton

Better late than never !

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By *V ShazTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Haydock

I never for a moment regret having a sex life and the love of a good woman in my marriage.

But priorities change and life takes a new direction. I think I get better more enjoyable sex now with men.

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By *ent4funtimeMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Yep same

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By *aged_kiraMan
2 weeks ago

Downham Market

First step past bi-curious was when I was 40 - then nothing till I was 50...then had a couple of years of intermittent experiences and nothing till the last month or so (apart from a d*unken thing a couple of years back).

Don't necessarily feel I've missed out but am definitely embracing my bisexuality fully now and going forward.

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By *JwithoutDuncanMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I've managed to have quite a varied sex life, wish I'd started taking double anal or a fist sooner as I know I'm not as desirable as I was when younger and could have had a lot more experiences, had plenty gangbangs and took a lot of cock but pushing my limits is a fairly recent thing, I don't feel attracted to guys at all, only cocks, so when I think what being more open about my sexuality at a younger age would have been like I don't really see much benefit, other people are more bothered about trying to put a label on me and giving me rubbish advice on how to live my life that I tend to think life would have been much more complicated and lonely for the sake of a bit less sneaking about.

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By *ilke500Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

At my age now the way I look at life is “no looking back no regrets” I made the choices I did and had the experiences I had. All part of life and made me the person I am today. I’m in the last stretch of life now and I know what I like and what I don’t. The bucket list is complete and now it’s all about enjoying those things on the list that were great. 😁

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By *ixer62Man
2 weeks ago

Aycliffe

I started gay sex long before sex with girls but back in the seventies and early 80's being a "queer" was a no no, and so I did the "right thing" and went with girls, started family etc. The attraction to men and cock never went away though and I started cruising in laybys in my early thirties. Nowadays I am only into cock and although my profile says bi, I have no interest in women. Although I don't regret the way things went I often wonder if I had grown up in a more accepting world would I have been purely gay all these years

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

The years when I should have been sexually active were actually a sexual desert for me. In the army--which I loved--where being gay was totally illegal. Entered into a virtually sexless marriage just to conform. The AIDS/HIV threat led to self imposed celibacy. I did resume my gay sex life in my 40s and 50s with a secret FWB and then a live-in boyfriend, plus random encounters in gay venues and more recently via the internet. Seems to have dried up completely again

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By *ISTERiousMan
2 weeks ago

Trimdon

My first male sexual experience was in my late 30’s with an older experienced man. It was wonderful.

Marriage, girlfriends and fear of my interest becoming public meant I didn’t revisit my interest in sex with men until my 50’s and meeting my now wife. We had an open conversation about fantasies which resulted in us exploring the swinging lifestyle. Once in the lifestyle we both openly came out as bisexual and we’ve not looked back since.

My wife gets very turned on with the thought of me being with men so much so she encourages me to meet 121 as well as with her in a threesome.

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By *oshua.LMan
2 weeks ago

Slough

I didn’t start until I was in my early fifties…….

Several oral only meets; until the thought of receiving anal (watching too much porn! lol.) got the better of me. Lost my anal virginity to a really nice guy, with a very thick cock. One day, he suggested I could fuck him. Did feel good, sliding my cock into a willing _ole.

Still firmly in the closet, only those on here know my secret side. Can’t believe what I’ve done since that first meet! 😀

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By *IPMANMan
2 weeks ago

West London

The grass is always greener or pinker on the other side

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By *ralBiguy63Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

I have had 40+ years of gay Bi experiences, so many memories, and stories to tell, things i have done, positions i have found myself in, some good, some bad, some embarasing, but a lot of happy, sexual adventures.

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By *W9DaddyMan
2 weeks ago

Richmond

50 years of gay sex and I still want more.

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By *lphageminiMan
2 weeks ago

Folkestone

"At my age now the way I look at life is “no looking back no regrets” I made the choices I did and had the experiences I had. All part of life and made me the person I am today. I’m in the last stretch of life now and I know what I like and what I don’t. The bucket list is complete and now it’s all about enjoying those things on the list that were great. 😁"

Last stretch of life? Rubbish! You could live another 20 healthy years. I still get cock at 91. Join the new thing. Go to the gym, get skinny and eat a good diet. Good luck xx

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Happy with my lot wouldn't change it

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By *EE96Man
2 weeks ago

Folkestone

Very much the same. Family life, work, social life etc often got in the way. Even now I'm retired it's not always easy to find enough free time for meets, especially daytimes when so many guys are working.

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By *lamMan
2 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Whats a sex life ?

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By *ublatMan
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

I never thought of gay sex when I was young,always had girls throwing them self at me.Had a great sex life,then got married and after25 years she wanted to be single so divorced.Always loved rubber so so got into the kink scene and came across a gay kink app called Recon which changed my life, my first gay sex was at the age of 58 in rubber with a young guy who was top and gave me a good fucking.I thought wow what have I been missing since then I've taken 100s of cock,still get twinks chasing me and have a fairly regular top in his 30s. Getting as much sex as I want. Turn down more guys than I meet.

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By *c90Man
2 weeks ago

Windyplace

Married and had a life of gf. Occasionally found myself watching gay porn and finding it hot.

Got my first bj from a lad in my late 30s. Still very shy and conservative about meeting but have had a few oral/wank/voyeur meets with nice lads. A lot of younger lads seem to like my cock so enjoy the attention but definitely not enough.

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By *oleMan
2 weeks ago

Douglasa

I am married and I like women. That's what I thought until many years ago when I tried it for the first time with a man. It's true that once you try it you can never stop. I like it and I want more and more

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By *inkyexileMan
2 weeks ago

Near Scarborough

Only started exploring my feelings for men a couple of years ago. Wish I’d started sooner.

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By *mizhereMan
2 weeks ago

dorchester tuesday day

Gave up cock for 12 years and only got back to it at 27 with ex Mrs swinging

Wasted years when I wasn't enjoying it

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By *uck my bumMan
2 weeks ago

walsall

Always been gay and single so not got any regrets or issues with being who I am

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By *500Man
2 weeks ago

London

" I had my cock first sucked by a man and fucked my first guy when I was 21. I have had a very prolific sex life with both sexes, but mainly men for the last 20 years. I have sucked and been sucked. Rimmed and been rimmed! Fucked and been fucked. Had threesomes and more-some's. Frequented the saunas up and down the country.

Looking back I have enjoyed every minute and don’t regret a thing."

So Glad you enjoyed yourself and had a wonderful time ED has got me as well

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

So many guys explaining that they have recently found cock…. 🤔

Fellas - you always liked cock, however you either suppressed it to comply or thought it later in life.

Guilty myself - so no spikiness please.

Embrace the freedom of gay sex. You do not have to live with a guy, you can enjoy the sex you want and enjoy.

One life…… Live it !!!!!

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By *ackernestMan
2 weeks ago

Chatteris

My bi life started in my mid 30s too, pregnant wife and no sex so I turned to my best friend after many d*unken Friday nights out, been dabbling ever since I'm 70 now and I love a cock in my hand and in my mouth

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