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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East

Should the Uk legalise assisted dying for terminally ill adults?

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By *arridMan
6 days ago

Brighton

Yes with extensive and robust safeguards.

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By *ichey6Man
6 days ago

aberdeen

Such a bill was recently rejected in the Scottish Parliament following a febrile debate.

Had I been an MSP (sic) I would have voted in favour.

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By *ensualblokeMan
6 days ago

London /Colchester

Yes, without a doubt.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"Such a bill was recently rejected in the Scottish Parliament following a febrile debate.

Had I been an MSP (sic) I would have voted in favour."

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By *usan jonesTV/TS
6 days ago

Wolverhampton

Am unsure on this a bit 50/50

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By *obnobbonMan
6 days ago

conwy

It’s all about dying with some dignity and self respect

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By *hisMeMan
6 days ago

the woods, maybe naked, Forfar

Having just been into the hospital a couple of days ago to visit a dying relative, my vote is and always will be Yes.

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By *tuNEMan
6 days ago

North Tyneside

We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it. "

Agreed

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By *ildwestheroMan
6 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Difficult one. Is I was an MP and had to vote on this bill I think I would abstain. There would have to be some very stringent safeguards in place.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
6 days ago

Glasgow South

Yes, yes and yes again. Having watched someone suffer I would want to be able to say 'I've had enough" and take my leave knowing what I was doing rather than wait for nature to do the job

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By *tar33Man
6 days ago

North London (outer)

Very much for it, and it's also about time we stopped Christian and other religious groups from having a say in the matter. Likewise abortions, it's none of their business.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"Very much for it, and it's also about time we stopped Christian and other religious groups from having a say in the matter. Likewise abortions, it's none of their business."

Well said 👏

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By *reddy1510Man
6 days ago

Preston

I don’t think it will ever get through. Even allowing assisted dying for one criteria would open the floodgates for more and more criteria to be included. All the legislation costs money. All the debates about it cost money. Money that could be better spent elsewhere.

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By *aceyswallowsTV/TS
6 days ago

south oxon

I think it should be allowed just get an ai to give you ok then no one could be sued I am being sarcastic there but truely believe we should be allowed options

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By *ometimes cd300Man
6 days ago

leics

I think it's got to happen but the difficulties are that the original safe guards are being watered down.

In my opinion a specialist team of doctors,lawyers welfare professionals should approve or not individual cases to try and ensure safe decisions.

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By *ydneyMan
6 days ago

Birmingham

When that time comes i think my last holiday will be to Switzerland

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By *bear67Man
6 days ago

Aldershot

Yes, definitely. I've seen too many loved ones die in pain.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"Yes, definitely. I've seen too many loved ones die in pain."

Yep my Gran springs to mind it was absolutely heartbreaking to sit next to her and hold her hand when she was begging to be let go and pain free 😞

No loved one should have to suffer like that especially when you can’t do anything to help them it’s so heartbreaking to go through for all concerned

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield

Not under the current legislation. It needs to be taken back to the drawing board and written up again. The original bill was a good start but it kept changing, forcing doctors to advertise it on the NHS and removal of doctors on the board to sign off on orders,and there came a breaking point. To force the same bill through would be a waste of time and money in all honesty.

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By *IPMANMan
6 days ago

West London

Do you think members of the Royal Family suffer a prolonged departure ??

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

Poor QE2 died during the plague . 2020 / 22 .. the whole thing was staged.. rip mam ..

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By *lasbiMan
6 days ago

LONDON

Yes I am for it and I am sure in the very near future (decade or so) it will come.

I know of people who have ended their lives in such awful ways which was probably extremely scary and painful for them, and highly distressing for those left behind.

The same end could be reached with such kinder means.

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By *elpless2024Man
6 days ago

acle

If anyone has seen someone close to them suffering then I don’t think they have second thoughts about if they where seriously ill or passed any kind of fulfilling life that they would not agree with it how you die should be your choice if you know what is ahead and want to avoid it you should be able to

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By *uton JohnMan
6 days ago

Luton

Let's be honest here.

For me I am not afraid of dying, I'm afraid how I am going to die. if 8 had to choose 8 would 100% want this

So I can just go to sleep........ And not wake up. No pain plus save the NHS money

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

That song in the year 2055 in the whole sang it

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By *ammymacMan
6 days ago

Durham

I’m in favour and those opposed to it can opt out rather than pushing their own agenda.

It should be an individual choice and people should have the right to make that choice.

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

Live long and da best yes can ..

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By *tar33Man
6 days ago

North London (outer)


"Do you think members of the Royal Family suffer a prolonged departure ??"

Well a few have had their heads chopped off, normally leading to a quick death.

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By *tar33Man
6 days ago

North London (outer)


"That song in the year 2055 in the whole sang it

."

If you mean 'In the Year 2525', you're 470 years early.

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By *arcus BezzantMan
6 days ago

North Ayrshire

Yes, anyone who opposes this is a sadist.

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

Time flys buy ... . Its ahead Time...

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By *ockFunUpmMan
6 days ago

Upminster

Yeah absolutely 100% behind this after having to care for my elderly father for over a year, who died recently of cancer, he had a tumor in his brain. For the last 3 months of his life he lost all movement in his body except in his left arm and couldn't speak at all. It was absolutely hell just having to watch him go downhill so slowly without being able to communicate with him.

Nobody should have to suffer like that, and nobody should have to go through witnessing it either.

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By *omo2026Man
6 days ago

Liverpool

💯 yes its disgusting that we can pro long the agonising suffering some people go through with no chance of recovery

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By *amjam10Man
6 days ago

essex


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it. "
totally agree

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

Pillow ..

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By *hyguy62Man
6 days ago

Brentwood


"Pillow .. "

🤭😂

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By *hyguy62Man
6 days ago

Brentwood

Of course we should be allowed to. We don’t, well most of us don’t, allow our pets to suffer and that’s how it should be for us as well 🙂

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By *aster islandMan
6 days ago

navan

It's all a sad time greff . Spelled it wrong.

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By *ockFunUpmMan
6 days ago

Upminster


"Of course we should be allowed to. We don’t, well most of us don’t, allow our pets to suffer and that’s how it should be for us as well 🙂"

Exactly what I said about my dad, if he was a dog we would have put him down a long time ago 🤣

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it. "

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules. "

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes "

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible. "

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question "

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans."

Well if it was a loved of mine lying in a hospital bed suffering in unimaginable pain with no chance of recovery then I’d give the decision to let them go peacefully instead of watching them continue to suffer

And if it was me lying there in the same position then I’d hope my loved ones would do the same for me

No loved one should ever have to suffer in pain and no loved one should ever witness a loved one suffering

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans.

Well if it was a loved of mine lying in a hospital bed suffering in unimaginable pain with no chance of recovery then I’d give the decision to let them go peacefully instead of watching them continue to suffer

And if it was me lying there in the same position then I’d hope my loved ones would do the same for me

No loved one should ever have to suffer in pain and no loved one should ever witness a loved one suffering "

This is the exact thing this bill doesn't protect. "Sorry grandma, ya times up off ya go" The only person who has that decision is the one who is suffering not relatives or random people. This bill will abused because relatives believe it's another person's time to go.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans.

Well if it was a loved of mine lying in a hospital bed suffering in unimaginable pain with no chance of recovery then I’d give the decision to let them go peacefully instead of watching them continue to suffer

And if it was me lying there in the same position then I’d hope my loved ones would do the same for me

No loved one should ever have to suffer in pain and no loved one should ever witness a loved one suffering

This is the exact thing this bill doesn't protect. "Sorry grandma, ya times up off ya go" The only person who has that decision is the one who is suffering not relatives or random people. This bill will abused because relatives believe it's another person's time to go."

So sit back and watch that relative continue to suffer 🤦🏻

Aye that’s the way 👍

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By *026fuckfestMan
6 days ago

Mansfield


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans.

Well if it was a loved of mine lying in a hospital bed suffering in unimaginable pain with no chance of recovery then I’d give the decision to let them go peacefully instead of watching them continue to suffer

And if it was me lying there in the same position then I’d hope my loved ones would do the same for me

No loved one should ever have to suffer in pain and no loved one should ever witness a loved one suffering

This is the exact thing this bill doesn't protect. "Sorry grandma, ya times up off ya go" The only person who has that decision is the one who is suffering not relatives or random people. This bill will abused because relatives believe it's another person's time to go.

So sit back and watch that relative continue to suffer 🤦🏻

Aye that’s the way 👍"

If that's what they wish then thats how it goes. If you don't it will lead down a path of eugenics and we left that in the 20th century

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By *uteCub86Man
6 days ago

Swindon

If you have a condition that's just going to get worse I think it's a valid option.

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By *illybeachboyMan
6 days ago

Guernsey

Yes, and not just in the last few weeks of life. If I was diagnosed with something terminal I would like the option to take 'the pill' as soon as the illness started impacting my quality of life.

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By *uititnowMan
6 days ago

thornaby

I watched my mother go from a normal full bodies person into a skeleton couldn't eat. Stomach cancer very much in favour, as she would have welcomed it, and now my father 94 yes assisted dieing

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"We do this for our pets, where is the quality in watching a loved one spend months in pain that is only numbed by morphine, and having that dose increased until they become catatonic and drowning in their own secretions. In end stage with no chance of a U-turn this option should be available. You don't have to take it, but it's there if you need it.

The problem with the pet argument is that WE decide not the pet. You may think your doing a kind thing but how do you know the pet doesn't wanna fight or they wanna see out their days on by their rules.

If you know your pet then you will know when the time is right it’s all in the eyes

But your still making the decision for them. It's not assisted dying it's a pure execution. Im not saying it's not from kindness but trying to relate the two is not eligible.

It’s doing what is right for the pet in question

No use that same scenario but for your relative. They have incurable disease and the doctor turns to you and says "it's time to put them down, it's your decision, not theirs, yours." The person in question as no choice it's in your hands. It'll be seen as abuse in the eyes of humans.

Well if it was a loved of mine lying in a hospital bed suffering in unimaginable pain with no chance of recovery then I’d give the decision to let them go peacefully instead of watching them continue to suffer

And if it was me lying there in the same position then I’d hope my loved ones would do the same for me

No loved one should ever have to suffer in pain and no loved one should ever witness a loved one suffering

This is the exact thing this bill doesn't protect. "Sorry grandma, ya times up off ya go" The only person who has that decision is the one who is suffering not relatives or random people. This bill will abused because relatives believe it's another person's time to go.

So sit back and watch that relative continue to suffer 🤦🏻

Aye that’s the way 👍

If that's what they wish then thats how it goes. If you don't it will lead down a path of eugenics and we left that in the 20th century"

So you would happily sit by a loved one’s bedside for days possibly weeks on end watching them suffer in pain known fine well there is no cure and no chance of recovery??

Or you could have the decision end their suffering and let them go peacefully.

I could be wrong but I think most would choose to let them go peacefully I know I would and nothing will ever change my opinion

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By *otterMan
6 days ago

Ellon

So long as it is suitably monitored and enforced, totally in support. Having watched a loved one suffer with MND, begging to be allowed to die as he was in so much constant pain with no quality of life, it was horrendous. But legislation needs to be very strict and monitored

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford

Suppose its easy to say yes I agree, but ive had a life ,family will be okay financially.everything sorted so ican die and I would like to be the one to say I'm ready to go xx

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By *ndieguyMan
6 days ago

Marton, Gainsborough

Yes 100%. My life. My choice

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"Yes 100%. My life. My choice "

Exactly 👍

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford


"Yes 100%. My life. My choice

Exactly 👍 "

disagree when your gone your gone it who you leave behind to deal with it you have to think about .its not all about you xx

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By *edBearMan
6 days ago

Manchester

I think so but it needs not to be rushed through like they tried last time. The safeguards need to be robust of course but I think as long as you can be verified as compos mentis then you should be able to decide if you are terminal and in pain.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"Yes 100%. My life. My choice

Exactly 👍 disagree when your gone your gone it who you leave behind to deal with it you have to think about .its not all about you xx "

I understand that but surely your family wouldn’t want to see you suffer

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford

No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx "

I understand which is why I’d give the one person I know would be strong enough to deal with the decision

Respect your opinion and views by the way this is why I started the thread as it’s interesting to hear what people think

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford


"No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx

I understand which is why I’d give the one person I know would be strong enough to deal with the decision

Respect your opinion and views by the way this is why I started the thread as it’s interesting to hear what people think "

yeah not in any way trying tj offend just debating. Its a difficult one me personally if I was diagnosed with terminal illness I would find a nice way to do it myself. But of course that's not always the way. If for instance you had a bad accident and was in a coma you can't make the call great post by the way xx

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By *addy7x6Man
6 days ago

High Wycombe

When I was in ny teens, my mother returned ffrom visiting her father - my 80yo grandfather, in hospital.

She was distraught - she'd watched as doctors resuscitated him twice.

She begged them just to let him die in peace, but they said "It's what we have to do".

So she was in favour of assisted dying, and so am I, at least in cases where someone is very close to death anyway.

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx

I understand which is why I’d give the one person I know would be strong enough to deal with the decision

Respect your opinion and views by the way this is why I started the thread as it’s interesting to hear what people think yeah not in any way trying tj offend just debating. Its a difficult one me personally if I was diagnosed with terminal illness I would find a nice way to do it myself. But of course that's not always the way. If for instance you had a bad accident and was in a coma you can't make the call great post by the way xx "

Respect to you for your views and I fully understand and appreciate them it’s nice to see people’s views on the matter and good that everyone can have a view without it turning toxic x

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford


"No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx

I understand which is why I’d give the one person I know would be strong enough to deal with the decision

Respect your opinion and views by the way this is why I started the thread as it’s interesting to hear what people think yeah not in any way trying tj offend just debating. Its a difficult one me personally if I was diagnosed with terminal illness I would find a nice way to do it myself. But of course that's not always the way. If for instance you had a bad accident and was in a coma you can't make the call great post by the way xx

Respect to you for your views and I fully understand and appreciate them it’s nice to see people’s views on the matter and good that everyone can have a view without it turning toxic x

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good night handsome man xx

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By *ugged Northerner OP   Man
6 days ago

North East


"No and I wouldn't want them to. But when all said and done I'm dead they have to live with it and the mind is a very complicated thing. Just imagine some do gooder approaching one of your family with the comments shame on you your not god where there's life there's hope. Bit like anti abortion types, if you get my drift xx

I understand which is why I’d give the one person I know would be strong enough to deal with the decision

Respect your opinion and views by the way this is why I started the thread as it’s interesting to hear what people think yeah not in any way trying tj offend just debating. Its a difficult one me personally if I was diagnosed with terminal illness I would find a nice way to do it myself. But of course that's not always the way. If for instance you had a bad accident and was in a coma you can't make the call great post by the way xx

Respect to you for your views and I fully understand and appreciate them it’s nice to see people’s views on the matter and good that everyone can have a view without it turning toxic x

good night handsome man xx "

Goodnight x

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By *londebiguyMan
6 days ago

near Southport

Yes!

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By *evanianMan
6 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru


"Should the Uk legalise assisted dying for terminally ill adults?

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Having applied much thought to the question, I'm not convinced that assisted dying is the moral and ethical way of dealing with the best interests of terminally ill people. It is a highly complex question and not one that can be answered with a clear cut "yes" or "no".

The total focus has to be on the patient’s physical and mental welfare. As regards palliative care, the emphasis and focus at this stage must be on investing in the research and development of improving palliative care before the question of assisted dying can even be properly considered. We do not yet have universal access to high quality end-of-life care, and until we do, we cannot make a fair judgement about alternatives. If pain, anxiety and distress can be properly managed through medical care, support and compassion, then nature should be allowed to take its course.

I am also deeply concerned about the responsibility that assisted dying would place on doctors. Their prime role is to care and to heal, not to end life. I also do not believe any set of safeguards can fully prevent vulnerable people from feeling pressured, whether that pressure is overt or subtle. The question of convenience for family or carers should not be a factor at all.

I understand why people want choice and dignity at the end of life. But protecting patients and maintaining trust in healthcare has to come first. Invest in palliative care, get it right for everyone, and only then revisit the debate.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
5 days ago

Seaton

No

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By *airythighs61Man
5 days ago

nr, Sheringham

In theory yes ...but knowing how us British treat their senior citizens I,d be very wary....

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru


"In theory yes ...but knowing how us British treat their senior citizens I,d be very wary...."

That is a crucial aspect for me too.

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By *cwgenMan
5 days ago

Glasgow

Yes and if not I’d just go to Switzerland

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
5 days ago

penzance

Damn right, no one should have a say if its an individuals choice. It will save me having to go DIY when my physical or mental start to fail to the point approaching dependence on others and/or meds.

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By *lueshirt1Man
5 days ago

Berwick upon Tweed/East lothian/Edinburgh

Yes, definately, avoid too all the red tape around it and let people go if they want to.

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By *raggahboyMan
5 days ago

stoke

Can you trust any government to manage such safeguards going on past records of both cons and labour

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru


"Can you trust any government to manage such safeguards going on past records of both cons and labour "

Quite! Yet another important aspect too! To reiterate my earlier post, this is a highly complex and vitally important issue with no clear moral or ethical answer. So called "assisted dying" should be held in abeyance. The priority must be on improving palliative care so death remains free of human decision and a purely peaceful, natural process free of pain.

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By *etterbiggerMan
5 days ago

Scunthorpe

Ten years ago my niece died. She was never the same after cancer treatment. My sister and brother in law were in Spain. The shock when they came home was unbearable. A toxic relationship with the son in law meant they didn't go to her funeral. Neither did their son who had moved away many years ago and didn't contact any of the family. 1st of April 2025 her husband died of cancer. Leaving her alone. 3 months after the cremation she got a letter from Southend on sea council in Essex. Informing her that her son had died in December 2024. As she cremated her husband her son was already dead. The council wanted the money her son had in the bank to pay for his funeral. She has lost her husband and children. Now she lays on the settee wasting away turning more and more yellow from a tumour in her small intestine. The Dr thinks that is a secondary cancer. She has been given months to live. Every day she says I've failed again. I woke up this morning. I just want to join my family. How much mental and physical torture can someone take. You can't make this shit up. Let her die with dignity and be in peace today if possible

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru


"Ten years ago my niece died. She was never the same after cancer treatment. My sister and brother in law were in Spain. The shock when they came home was unbearable. A toxic relationship with the son in law meant they didn't go to her funeral. Neither did their son who had moved away many years ago and didn't contact any of the family. 1st of April 2025 her husband died of cancer. Leaving her alone. 3 months after the cremation she got a letter from Southend on sea council in Essex. Informing her that her son had died in December 2024. As she cremated her husband her son was already dead. The council wanted the money her son had in the bank to pay for his funeral. She has lost her husband and children. Now she lays on the settee wasting away turning more and more yellow from a tumour in her small intestine. The Dr thinks that is a secondary cancer. She has been given months to live. Every day she says I've failed again. I woke up this morning. I just want to join my family. How much mental and physical torture can someone take. You can't make this shit up. Let her die with dignity and be in peace today if possible "

I’m so sorry for what your family has gone through, and now for your sister facing her own fate, which is just unbearable. No one should have to carry that much grief and pain alone. I can understand how you must feel, and how much you just want peace for her, and for her to be with her family again.

Let’s hope this part of her life is as pain-free and comfortable as possible, and that she gets all the care and support she needs and also that she finds the peace she truly deserves. Thanks for sharing.

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By *annyDanielleMan
5 days ago

Street, Somerset


"Can you trust any government to manage such safeguards going on past records of both cons and labour

Quite! Yet another important aspect too! To reiterate my earlier post, this is a highly complex and vitally important issue with no clear moral or ethical answer. So called "assisted dying" should be held in abeyance. The priority must be on improving palliative care so death remains free of human decision and a purely peaceful, natural process free of pain."

We already have slow euthenasia in the UK where patients gradually have their morphine dose increased even at the risk of hastening death, often without consent.

Legalising euthenasia will put control back in the hands of the dying.

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By *annyDanielleMan
5 days ago

Street, Somerset


"Can you trust any government to manage such safeguards going on past records of both cons and labour

Quite! Yet another important aspect too! To reiterate my earlier post, this is a highly complex and vitally important issue with no clear moral or ethical answer. So called "assisted dying" should be held in abeyance. The priority must be on improving palliative care so death remains free of human decision and a purely peaceful, natural process free of pain.

We already have slow euthenasia in the UK where patients gradually have their morphine dose increased even at the risk of hastening death, often without consent.

Legalising euthenasia will put control back in the hands of the dying."

I've also been made aware of patients or their relatives having DNR forms thrust upon them in an effort to end lives that might otherwise be prolonged. This was prevalent during Covid and is becoming increasingly common. This country's healthcare system is already so fucked up i don't understand the objection to Voluntary Euthenasia.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
5 days ago

Seaton

Palliative care is highly skilled and anyone on an end of life pathway will have discussed their TEP . Morphine isn’t just increased to dispatch the patient earlier, its use with others meds is to optimise pain control and distress.

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By *ynmer2Man
5 days ago

Tetbury

I am in total agreement. I would want to die pain free with dignity and self-respect with my family around me.

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By *annyDanielleMan
5 days ago

Street, Somerset


"Palliative care is highly skilled and anyone on an end of life pathway will have discussed their TEP . Morphine isn’t just increased to dispatch the patient earlier, its use with others meds is to optimise pain control and distress. "

That's how it's meant to work.

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By *evanianMan
5 days ago

Gogledd Ddwyrain Cymru


"Can you trust any government to manage such safeguards going on past records of both cons and labour

Quite! Yet another important aspect too! To reiterate my earlier post, this is a highly complex and vitally important issue with no clear moral or ethical answer. So called "assisted dying" should be held in abeyance. The priority must be on improving palliative care so death remains free of human decision and a purely peaceful, natural process free of pain.

We already have slow euthenasia in the UK where patients gradually have their morphine dose increased even at the risk of hastening death, often without consent.

Legalising euthenasia will put control back in the hands of the dying.

I've also been made aware of patients or their relatives having DNR forms thrust upon them in an effort to end lives that might otherwise be prolonged. This was prevalent during Covid and is becoming increasingly common. This country's healthcare system is already so fucked up i don't understand the objection to Voluntary Euthenasia."

I completely understand what you’re saying about the DNRs. It was such a difficult time and some people were put in really awful positions. I had to face that personally with an aging parent whom I was very close to.

I think that’s why I feel torn on voluntary euthanasia. I want people to have choice and to be free from suffering, but I also worry when the system is under so much pressure. It’s a huge dilemma with no straight answer and so many differing opinions.

Personally, I’m still of the opinion that only nature itself should decide, with the support of precise, pain-free palliative care that focuses totally on the welfare of the patient.

Thank you for sharing your perspective too DannyDanielle. It’s a vitally important issue and I honestly feel that the powers that be in SW1 are insufficiently qualified to address it either morally or ethically.

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