FabGuys.com forum: Guilt and purge mentality

By *obbiSlut OP TV/TS
4 days ago

Ferndown

Why do we do this?

Human nature apparently but fucking annoying after a variable elapsed period. A day, a month, longer?

What are your experiences?

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)

You need to elaborate. I don't believe many people, including myself, will understand what you're getting at.

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By *xplore moreTV/TS
4 days ago

cockermouth

I guess you mean get rid of your clothes etc? Usually purges happen because they feel ashamed.

For me I never have, it's the way I am so I accept it and I enjoy it

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By *obbiSlut OP TV/TS
4 days ago

Ferndown

Lots of examples.

TV/CD binning their collection of lingerie, only to come back to it a few weeks later.

A straight (yeah right) guy deleting his account after meeting someone.

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By *3versMan
4 days ago

glasgow

Never had that experience

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By *ai989Man
4 days ago

Sydney

As the OP said, part of human nature for some of us. I expect it’s more prevalent for people who are not “out”.

Desire builds, excitement builds, you act on that desire, the immediate excitement passes and guilt/self doubt sets in. Sometimes that passes quickly, other times not so much. You decide to lock away that part of your psyche - until the inevitable happens and the cycle begins again.

I think there are many reasons why people go through these cycles, I put mine down to good old Catholic guilt (even though I am not religious - it was drummed into me as a child - I can still hear the voices

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By *rdentMan
4 days ago

Newport, Shropshire

Done it many times with clothing, usually lingerie. it’s always through guilt, a month later and I return like a bee to honey.

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By *uteCub86Man
3 days ago

Swindon

This similar to sub drop thread I did a few weeks ago.

Some people deal with things differently. Which is obvious.

But I do understand that feeling after you have had a session with someone. I stay away from this site for a few days. All my sexual interest has gone. Then a few days later I want it again. So I come back.

Maybe it's feeling guilty or your just knackered lol?

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By *pdudeMan
3 days ago

newtown

You think this is stressful try living with bipolar too

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