FabGuys.com forum: Help with being bottom

By *rangeTree1 OP Man
3 days ago

Glasgow

Hi everyone.

So im generally a bottom but only been fucked max 10 times, now I love the feeling of it inside me but I struggle to take it deep and also im still tight so it does hurt the stretching me even with plenty foreplay and lube, is this just how it is or is there any ways I can make it more comfortable because I would really like to relax and enjoy it fully and be able to take a good seeing to with comfort! I have seen people using pop-pers but I dont think that is my kind of thing tbh so does anyone have any other tricks or methods that helps them as a bottom? Thanks

By *idingcockMan
3 days ago

Driffield

Breathe deeply, holding your breath or taking short breaths makes your muscles tighten up. Adopt the mindset that you really want a good hard fucking by a hung top - if you’re worried about it hurting you’ll tighten up too. Get into a slutty zone and you’ll be fine.

By *e25bottomMan
2 days ago

Croydon

Toys and lots of lube. A lot of people say they’re tight but that’s not how it works. If you were tight you’d do poohs as thin as pencils. You just haven’t learned how to relax muscles whose default position is tightly closed. The thing about bottoming is that no matter what anyone tells you, having a cock up your bum isn’t “natural”. Your bum isn’t made for it so making it work takes a lot of practice and self discovery, the key word being “self”. I’ve written a number of posts about this on another platform but they are long posts. I’m also aware of the forum rules so I can’t link to them or tell you where they are. But if you do want to read them let me know and I’ll message you the links. But the basic message is practice with a dildo and ignore anyone who suggests recreational drugs or numbing lube. It all works fine without those things once you know what you’re doing.