We get that most guys (like us) cannot accommodate and hotel meets are convenient and discrete. However (and we are a reliable group that has been meeting for decades), we have found that when invited to hotel meets we invariably receive no info of where we are expected to turn up or are played the disappearing-on-the-day act. This is frequently becoming a nuisance now as it's not good when a group of guys is let down (it's bad enough letting down one guy). We only ever commit to meets with people who are verified and/or have verifications and still, it is always the case that we get no info until several hours into the start time (presumably when less reliable AI-generated hunks have not shown up), expecting us to show up (as if we're joined at the hip, another things invariably assumed) in the next twenty minutes, we coordinate our meets so that it would take us at most an hour or less to transpire as it's usually 3/4 of us for group meets but we don't all live together.
Wondering if anyone has any advice on this.
