FabGuys.com forum: Who is in an open relationship

By *eordiedaniel OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I am.who else?

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By *allguy1959Man
over a year ago

Southsea

Used to be although we split up nearly 3 years ago. No-one else was involved.

I actually think open relationships are more honest than supposedly monogamous ones where one or both partners are cheating on the other. Obviously both partners in an OR should be honest with their partner and any outsider they hook up with.

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By *edman1970Man
over a year ago

South hams

I am too

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By *arpenter52Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation

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By *omW42Man
over a year ago

Godalming

Yep, she's always known I was bi and is totally ok with it. I've stopped fucking other women as she was unhappy with that but no big deal to me as I prefer cock.

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By *irralGuy20Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Wouldn't describe it as 'open' exactly but my wife has a lover who I actively encourage her to see where possible.

I am not interested in finding another woman but really like the idea of hanging ONE regular male playmate - something she is encouraging me to pursue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met many a partner in an open relationship, and one or two sneaky shags behind the other's back.

I choose not to meet a couple together as I've known it get touchy (and not in a good way)

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By *mInBrumMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Im in an open relationship. We play together and separately and we are open if we have seen someone. There's no jealously involved.

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By *eordiedaniel OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Im in an open relationship. We play together and separately and we are open if we have seen someone. There's no jealously involved."

Sharing all the gory details afterwards is a thrill too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am. The door's always open.

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By *righouseguyMan
over a year ago

Meltham

Me too. Works so much better and saves cheating ;p we both enjoy sex with other guys.

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By *ndyBristolMan
over a year ago

Keynsham

I am not as I am single but have met some who are and play with a partners blessing and also met a few that are cheating on their partner.

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By *ndrea_45TV/TS
over a year ago

minehead

I'm single and wouldn't mind a open relationship with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my wife used to be. I loved Watching her. But she doesn't want to do it any more

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By *dnmartinMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Me.

With my partner it is the typical "Can't live with him, can't live without him" situation.

On the whole it does seem to work.

We have a don't ask, don't tell policy when it comes to sex.

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By *tevejbMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am in an open relationship

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By *atsuit123TV/TS
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By *atsuit123TV/TS
over a year ago

Gravesend

I about last 7 years of marriage when I knew about wife having sex with other men, she would wank me and tell me about what she had been up to. For me it was because I had found out she was having an affair and had been sleeping with assortment of blokes for several years, she had no regrets. I didn’t want sex with her after finding out about it all and told her she could just carry on.

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By *arry4funMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

100% open love telling a each other the details

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By *iguy4fun!Man
over a year ago

yep 100% open, swing together or separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my life is very open x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am......my wife just doesn’t know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation "

Sounds like an awesome lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep 100% open, swing together or separately."

Absolutely love swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% open love telling a each other the details "

Just amazing!

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By *edman1970Man
over a year ago

South hams

Last 7 years have had open marriage, wife likes to hear about meet after

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By *k..maleMan
48 weeks ago

West Midlands

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for about 6 years now never had any problems.

I do like the thought of wondering what she's up to on a night out every evening ect.

Yes it can work from my experience

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By *luvknickersMan
48 weeks ago

stockport

Wife and I she has watched me with cock a few times and I have watched her

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By *Aguy2022Man
48 weeks ago

Littlehampton

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation "

Married 26 years. Came out to the wife about 3 years ago. Totally supportive and lets me do my thing. Likes to look on here with me for potential hook ups, gives me her approval.

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By *uccmeMan
48 weeks ago

kendal

"Wife and I she has watched me with cock a few times and I have watched her"

Love it, being watched is horny, I love watching too

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By *uckhusbandMan
48 weeks ago

Exeter

My wife and I have an open relationship, we like comparing guys we find hot.

She gets loads more attention than me but I love that and love hearing about it.

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By *uck.your.cockMan
48 weeks ago

coventry/solihull

I'm in an open relationship, but don't tell the wife ffs !!!!!!!! She doesn't know !!!!!!

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By *igguy1985Man
48 weeks ago

Barrhead

An ex’s friend was in an open relationship. It sounded crazy he or she could go out on a night out and the other partner could be in the house and they would come back with guys or girls to have sex with or have threesomes. To me it sounded a crazy situation as they where married with kids as well

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
48 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

My wife and I have an ENM relationship, we started being non monogamous about 5yrs before we married and never looked back. We have had many wonderful encounters over the years and our relationship just keeps getting stronger. It’s not something that works for everyone, some people are just naturally jealous and can’t get past that.

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By *nkedmancMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester

Would love to pleasure someone's wife/partner as they watched or video it so she can show him later

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By *idge555Man
48 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation

Married 26 years. Came out to the wife about 3 years ago. Totally supportive and lets me do my thing. Likes to look on here with me for potential hook ups, gives me her approval."

That's nice, 🙂

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By *Aguy2022Man
48 weeks ago

Littlehampton

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation

Married 26 years. Came out to the wife about 3 years ago. Totally supportive and lets me do my thing. Likes to look on here with me for potential hook ups, gives me her approval.

That's nice, 🙂"

Yeah total shock.. she has been amazing in all this and has even rekindled our sex life so what

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By *Aguy2022Man
48 weeks ago

Littlehampton

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation

Married 26 years. Came out to the wife about 3 years ago. Totally supportive and lets me do my thing. Likes to look on here with me for potential hook ups, gives me her approval.

That's nice, 🙂

Yeah total shock.. she has been amazing in all this and has even rekindled our sex life so what "

Some what, not so what.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

open relationship is great but finding the right 1 is bloody hard

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By *ohn4you999Man
48 weeks ago

Lincs/Notts

I’m in open relationship must admit it’s a lot off fun for both of us

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By *ellowbladeMan
48 weeks ago

Grantham

So am I but the wife doesn’t know yet !!

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By *amesnorthants74Man
48 weeks ago

Daventry

In an open relationship with the wife. Has been open since we got together over 20 years ago and has always worked well for us

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By *wordfight70Man
48 weeks ago

Baldock

I was in an open relationship without even realising it! I'd been with my lover for about 5 months and she'd mentioned wanting two cocks at one point... so I said why don't you create a profile on FS so you can scope out some possibilities with bi guys, and then let me know how you are getting on, (meaning chat, explore some options for future discussion)...

Next thing I know, I asked her how it was going on Fab and she said it had been brilliant, she'd fucked two guys literally the day before, one of whom was a complete random behind some shops, and the other one had been in his house and had been fantastic.

I told her that wasn't really the idea and that I was planning for it to be all 3 of us, she claimed she thought i was meaning feel free to try some out first. She was kicked to the kerb pretty sharply and is now crying that she loved me and is devastated that she could have been so thick. I don't think so love, off you fuck.

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By *luvknickersMan
48 weeks ago

stockport

Wife and I she has watched me with cock a few times and I have watched her

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By *jh59Man
48 weeks ago

Hinckley

I am we’ve been together 27 years and for the last two it’s been open

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By *ardajMan
48 weeks ago

liverpool

Was in a open marriage for two years on fabswingers she had a women friend and still has but I couldnt play on my bi curious side as she didn't like so me on here is a secret

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By *k..maleMan
39 weeks ago

West Midlands

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for about 6 years now never had any problems.

I do like the thought of wondering what she's up to on a night out or an evening ect.

Yes it can work from my experience

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By *notherGuyMan
39 weeks ago

Kent

We are. It’s great knowing we can do what or whoever we want. Works for us.

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By *omtom7Man
39 weeks ago

kerry

Mine is so closed we don't even have sex with each other

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By *ihornyguy123Man
39 weeks ago

witney

Yes I am with my wife. We both meet others

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By *luvknickersMan
39 weeks ago

stockport

Wife and I it's kept us together

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By *amesnorthants74Man
39 weeks ago

Daventry

I am with the wife. Have been open since we first got serious back in our 20s

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By *retzilMan
39 weeks ago

benfleet

Me and my partner are in an open poly relationship, play together and seperately as we have similar and different tastes in guys

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By *k..maleMan
34 weeks ago

West Midlands

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for about 6 years now never had any problems.

I do like the thought of wondering what she's up to on a night out or an evening ect.

Yes it can work from my experience

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By *om9Man
34 weeks ago

Saint Helens

"Wife and I it's kept us together "

Do u ever play mmf i find it great

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By *ing_donMan
34 weeks ago

Sheffield

The wife and I are. She has a bf and I have a regular female partner as well as the opportunity to see guys.

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By *ighlands fellaMan
34 weeks ago

thurso

Me and wife do.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
1 day ago

Edinburgh

Yes, I am in an open relationship.

Love it every minute. Love the freedom.

Slight turbulence when my partner fell in love with a young university student but after a few weeks of hot sex, he made an excuse and returned back to his partner.

I personally think an open relationship based solely on having sex fun works better than polyamory.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
1 day ago

Bargoed

Not sure if we are open as such. We both enjoy threesomes, groups, sauna, cruising.

If at a sauna we go off and do our own thing, or have fun together and get others to join.

If hubby is at work he doesn't mind me having fun as long as I tell him about it after.

But one thing we have never done, is for one of us to arrange fun and go off and leave the other at home. "Bye, off out for a shag" just doesn't work somehow.

Think it's because we both enjoy watching each other with other guys and joining in of course.

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By *are2PlayMan
1 day ago

moray

Not in a open relationship as such but we have had meets, watched my partner with multiple guys and we chat to others regularly, it's such a turn on for me, her being slutty

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By *ipaul71Man
1 day ago

Talke

We have been open for 20 years. We both meet other share others too

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By *irralGuy20Man
1 day ago

Wirral

"I am ,married25 yrs ,open last 5 years,wife happy with situation

Married 26 years. Came out to the wife about 3 years ago. Totally supportive and lets me do my thing. Likes to look on here with me for potential hook ups, gives me her approval."

I too have a very supportive wife in that regard.

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