FabGuys.com forum: If you could relive again what would you do differently?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would definitely be gay from teenager years and experience as much as possible - would be bottom and have company of mature guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I’d acted on impulses earlier!

Took too long to embrace gay sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not make the mistakes I made stay in education and not listen to my dad

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By *rredddMan
over a year ago

Sunbury

"I would definitely be gay from teenager years and experience as much as possible - would be bottom and have company of mature guys "

Exactly the same, I was a cute kid and I would be a slut if I could do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kids,

explored sexuality earlier on,

taken better care my health,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def have explored more when younger and found a more outgoing partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would definitely be gay from teenager years and experience as much as possible - would be bottom and have company of mature guys "

So much this too. I was so much slimmer and prettier in a dress when I was a teen. I would go back and be such a slut for older men.

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By *hil MCrackinMan
over a year ago

Sleaford

No kids, worked harder at my education, saved money, vasectomy at 21, emigrated to a warmer country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could live again....

I would have been circumcised at the earliest opportunity I could, rather than as an adult.

Explored my bi/ gay side rather than burying it and living in denial.

Invested money and been spit roasted.

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By *olin44Man
over a year ago

houghton

Get a piss easy job with the local council on the gardens etc ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have developed my Bi side earlier than I did. Always loved to look at and touch cock more than pussy.

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By *iltsguy79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Nothing until my kids were born. Wouldn't risk losing them. After that.

Id probably have a conversation with my now ex wife about swinging. She wasn't into the idea when we first got together but since we broke up she got into it. Could have made things a lot more fun and interesting.

Id have gone to more clubs and saunas sooner when single. And got myself a cock cage for when I feel sub. Never thought I would like them.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

To not have been so shy & come out a lot earlier, done it now & feel so much better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I’d acted on impulses earlier!

Took too long to embrace gay sex!"

Totally agree, 100%

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By *ameyCoolMan
over a year ago

West Byfleet. Woking,

The first time a man made a pass at me. This time around I wouldn't stop him!!

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By *eekingcumsMan
over a year ago

Stoke/Stafford

I'd have dived head first into a kink lifestyle. Jumped in as bi at an early age and fucked every thing I could from the age of 20.

Didn't discover a BDSM lifestyle until 25yrs too late... trying to make up for lost time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have stayed single and retired early to Thailand or Malaysia where I could have hooked up with a sexy ladyboy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been more kinky and had large group meets

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By *imonwhite1Man
over a year ago

Thornbury

If I had discovered my sexuality when I was a teenager, I fear I would have been caught by the AIDS crisis which took the lives of so many of our community. Sorry to bea downer but it's a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admitted I was gay earlier. Would have shaved me from the breakdown in later years because a refused to admit it.

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd have a good look at my mum's fanny as I was being born - just so I could see what the attraction is for straight men

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

Definitely woukdve Embraced My gay side earlier and save years of frustration

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By *ogerramjetMan
over a year ago

Knighton

Not being so hung up as a child, my experiences and subsequent personality excluded me from stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want to live again tbh. I didnt have a good start and any oportunities i did have iv messed up. So im hoping that when i die thats it. Some religions believe you come back again , reincarnation. I hope they are wrong .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, im bi andi love fanny. Trust me its beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heaven forbid! Once is enough.

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By *ristolsbMan
over a year ago

Bedminster, Bristol

I'd keep all the fluff from the door seal of the washing machine. Might be enough to knit a jumper!

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By *rredddMan
over a year ago

Sunbury

"The first time a man made a pass at me. This time around I wouldn't stop him!! "

I would have taken the business card the guy on the bus gave me 40+ years ago and called him.

I would have shown my cock to the guy looking through the gloryhole, again 40+ years ago

I would have spent more time wandering by the river where I heard there were older guys

I would have studied hard at school

I would have exercised way more

I would have tried Po**ers earlier

But I didn’t, I’ve had a good life just not enough sex with men, I can never make up for lost time but I love sex with men now but in the closet.

I would have been a slut and with Aids, I probably wouldn’t be here.

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

If I were to live my life I would probably need to to begin 20 or 30 years later than it did so that I could have spent my younger years--especially my army years--in a more gay friendly society. Certainly would not want to go back to my childhood which was not the happiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invented Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have gone with my sexual curiosity in my teens and had way more sex with men instead of waiting til I was late 30's.

When I finally went the whole hog with a work colleague, I was so blown away I wondered why I'd waited so so long.

Still don't get enough now though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have become a tv a lot earlier.....although 30 years ago was another country...no internet...few contact mags etc..may have spent a lot of time wanking ..

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By *arkyderriereMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes was too shy when younger and waited for someone to seduce me but was nt actively in the right places so I was always hoping for a chance meet that never happened. Wish I had been someone’s son.

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By *pankmybottom2Man
over a year ago

kettering

I would have admitted my bisexuality to myself in my teens when first aware and wouldn't have been so shy about being naked with others.It would have been good to have been someone's boy .

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By *pm72Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I’d have come out as soon as I left school and damn the consequences.

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By *ust looking.Man
over a year ago

clacton.

I would go back to when I was 12,

Flirt like crazy with the teachers and girls, brought original star wars figures, leave them in there packaging, bump into Bill Gates and tell him i have an idea about Microsoft, git divorce years ago,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely start sucking dick earlier, and definitely get fucked far sooner than I eventually did.

I’d definitely want to be with older sleazier guys, and maybe cross dress before I turned into a fat fuck….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked after my teeth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To not have been so shy & come out a lot earlier, done it now & feel so much better x"

Exactly the same goes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marry my ex and have an amazing sex life.

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

If we could turn back the clock I would only go back 5 years when I was planning to retire. I rather foolishly bought a retirement house in a town I did not know and around 100 miles from most of my friends. Basically wasted 4 years trying to integrate there but failed miserably. Now back in the area I used to live and trying to revive old friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several sluts I could have fucked and just couldnt be bothered! (i was working as a bouncer and had so many slags offering me cunt I couldnt deal with them all at once!)

One in particular a sexy Indian girl who actually chatted me up at Euston station about 10 years ago (I'm married and had 2 sluts I was already fucking!)

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By *ust looking.Man
over a year ago

clacton.

"Marry my ex and have an amazing sex life. "

Definitely wished I would of married my ex,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was naive and just thought girls were being nice to me.

Looking back could have at least docked by body count

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By *westMan
over a year ago

around

Definitely had gay sex when I was younger. Late starter and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely be gay no question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could relive again I’d wish to be born female, and be able to have whatever cocks I wanted including an open relationship with a bi man

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By *ameyCoolMan
over a year ago

West Byfleet. Woking,

Move in the circles of the porn industry. Not sure doing what exactly but definitely evolved somehow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married to young

Don't have kids at all

Listen to my peers when i joined the Army and got much further

Sexually: engaged in threesomes from an earlier age and gain more experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was more sexually active when young.

I was painfully shy, it probably saved my life though. If I had been more confident I don't feel I would be here now to write this, as so many of my friends at the time are not, sadly...

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By *lackburnbikerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

As many have said...

Listened more and worked harder at school/collage.

Got into a job with a final salary pension so I would be able to retire.

Enjoyed more sex in my younger days.

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By *ave47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I think after splitting up with my gf who I had kids with, instead of rushing straight back into a relationship I'd love to have experienced my bi side more, tried clubs, maybe looked for something different in a sexual way/relationship. I'm too old to start again now.

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By *omerBumMan
over a year ago

......Somerset

Leave the club a bit earlier and not miss the last bus home in a thunderstorm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have got married and would have saved and got myself a good pair of breasts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I definitely would be gay and enjoying men and cock living with a guy so I could be fucked every day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t have married the ex just because of pressure from her family. She wasn’t pregnant, it was just old fashioned parents rather than living in sin.

I’d have met my current wife instead, started swinging earlier and been encouraged to explore my bisexuality as soon as I met her.

Life’s perfect right now.

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By *ustaNormalBlokeMan
over a year ago

Strood

I’d do almost everything differently.

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By *rs Victoria stoneTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Have a boob job full time trans x

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By *orfolkbarebottomMan
over a year ago

Gorleston

I'd have swallowed cum much earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably like a lot of people on here, coming out earlier and dealing with things sooner!

In fact, to any younger trans girls who stumble on this thread - 1. You can't hide from it forever, 2. The sooner you deal with it the better your outcomes will be, and 3. No one really gives a shit anyway!

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've still got plenty to live for yet, but I'd probably want to focus more on my hobbies and less obsessed with my studies

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By *antylover21TV/TS
over a year ago

LEICESTER

"Probably like a lot of people on here, coming out earlier and dealing with things sooner!

Spot on...knowing what I know now I'd have transitioned.

Sarah x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably like a lot of people on here, coming out earlier and dealing with things sooner!

Sarah x"

Nail on head girl

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By *orny747Man
over a year ago

andover

Not acting on my bi side earlier.

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By *8749Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Definition have more gay sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as many. I wish that when I first realised I liked the look of a cock at 19 I had acted on it and not waited to 52 before being honest with myself

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By *orny NorthumberlandMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Would have explored sex much more as a teen, both sex, not been so moody and played around much more and exercised my cock as much as possible.

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By *oveslimMan
over a year ago

South Birmingham

So many oportunities in my 20's but did'nt act upon it. . Wanted to but not got the confidence then. It was the 80's. . Different times !

Made up for it since. . Have no regrets and that is key ! Nobody should have regrets in life !

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By *manMan
over a year ago

wiltshire near stapleford

Seems to be a common answer, I had gay meets when i was 18.But because of the homophobic attitude back in the eighties, I went straight. Finally got back into man sex on my thirties...many years wasted

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By *irralGuy20Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Would've definitely pushed more on my bi tendancies. Did act on it until my 30's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as everybody else - explored and started enjoying my bi side earlier in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could start over I do thing I what to do and not do thing to please others and be left unhappy with my life........thing are changing for me at the mo soon to be single will have a restart to my life of sorts it's going to be about me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have married my third wife if I'd known she was capable of trying to kill me in my sleep

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By *ature Bi CocksuckerMan
3 weeks ago

Uxbridge

Insisted on better than vaseline when my cherry was popped. It stung so much it put me off for ages. Wished a good lube was available back then as I would have had more cocks up my bum in my younger years.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'd never have told Emily that I liked her as more than a friend.

Also, I'd have invested in Apple stocks in the 90s.

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By *iketotry2000Man
3 weeks ago

Rhondda Fawr

Started cock fun much sooner

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By *upSamMan
3 weeks ago

Evesham

Defo start cock fun earlier than I did

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By *amesnorthants74Man
3 weeks ago

Daventry

Would definitely explore my sub side sooner and learn to submit

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By *hubbyGinger76Man
3 weeks ago

Halesowen

Id I knew what I know now I would try cock earlier, but it didn't even cross my mind back then

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By *onnieabcMan
3 weeks ago

north down

I definitely should’ve have been shy in trying cock.

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By *hubSub87Man
3 weeks ago

Grimsby

I'd have started dressing when I was younger, in better shape and confident with my body.

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By *uckmeslow555Man
3 weeks ago

oakham

Some of the ones that got away

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By *wadbisexualMan
3 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Well for a start I wouldn't have married either of the 2 women I married, I'd probably stay single, i wouldn't have spent so much money on cars, i wouldn't have sold my camera gear back in the 80s... nor my Linn / Naim based system, I'd have had more cock that's for sure

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By *ornywestendboyMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Same here I married a wrongun yet got two absolute belters for kids but I definitely regret not fucking her mother when she came on to me in her house when we were living with her ex wife out and she came into our bedroom and made it obvious that she was wanting it and she got me hard under the duvet but I didn't go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I would have embraced my feminine side earlier

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By *illie_2024Man
3 weeks ago

Ivybridge

I would have found a wife who would play with bi guys

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By *now manMan
3 weeks ago

near

Tried cottaging

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I don't want to come back its been crap this time round I don't want to do it again

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By *oodsman2Man
3 weeks ago

Galashiels

I'd have given in to the university tutor who made it obvious he wanted a physical relationship with me.

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By *punky knickersTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Flintshire

Wish I hadn't have started smoking

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By *IPMANMan
3 weeks ago

LONDON WEST

I would be born straight ,rich and confident

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By *fcdTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Southend

If I’d known they existed, married a woman who was more supportive about my crossdressing and being bi. My wife used outing me as a threat for many years. My gf is brilliant about it and even buys me stuff she thinks I’ll like.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Learned how to learn properly and the importance of it , not mask my inability to learn by acting the fool .

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By *cottishstevexMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Hopefully recognise the come ons and chatted up signs

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By *ammy57TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Stevenage

Definitely openly bi v early on and probably have a sex change , but with today's tech and not what was available in 1980!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I don't want to come back its shit first time round

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By *veregebottomEdinMan
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

If i knew now what i was missing out on i wouldve explored my bi side more when i was younger rather than deny it. Would also have swallowed first time round as it wasnt as bad as i thought it was going to be. Wouldve visited a couple of saunas too

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By *jh59Man
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

Would never have denied my feelings when I was in my teens and would have lived as gay all my life

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By *evil OuncesMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Same, left accepting being gay far too long

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By *ulge1Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I’d have did the same things maybe even more

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By *lluredByMatureMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Definitely would have explored my sexuality sooner instead of in my mid-30's. Given my preference for older men it would likely have been a lot easier to find them when I was 20 or so.

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By *andballerMan
4 hours ago

leek

I worked fuckin hard and played even harder....I,ve had women and men,never had kids,I,ve had the holidays and the cars,I paid off my morgage at 42,I,ve got a good life and a supportive partner,My only regret is not been at my mothers bedside when she passed in 2002...I,m retireing soon and i,m going to fuckin enjoy it....I,ve done my bit...

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