FabGuys.com forum: Rank (or mock) a small Penis

By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

If you’re a owner of a micro dick, drop in here to be ranked or critique (mocked), by the masses

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Or join my group on t guard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

"Or join my group on t guard "

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By *igboy1969Man
45 weeks ago

near Linlithgow

How do I join the group on T guard?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I'm up for it !

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By *echman.1Man
45 weeks ago

Liverpool

Small dick here too

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By *ampshire biMan
45 weeks ago

Alton

Small cock here guys

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By *arriedbiMan
45 weeks ago

Aldershot

Maybe small gents but still gorgeous tho

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By *ockrings69Man
45 weeks ago

BLACKPOOL

Hi I love shaved smooth very thin short willy, sucking and wanking them, I need nothing in return, you will be naked and me dressed.

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By *oe UKMan
45 weeks ago

Kent

Small here.

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By *lutdaddy4useMan
45 weeks ago

Oxon/Northants/Bucks

Small here, pics in pvt. Message me to see

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I'm small and floppy if you want to send me mocking messages

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By *irfMan
45 weeks ago

Dublin

I'm small and like it

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By *lutdaddy4useMan
45 weeks ago

Oxon/Northants/Bucks

"Or join my group on t guard "

How do we join?

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I love a small cock. That's lucky because I'm really small

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By *ayhubbyMan
45 weeks ago

liverpool

I’m really small even wife calls it a baby dick

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By *hyayrshire500Man
45 weeks ago

close to you

When soft my tiny cut button cock is barely noticeable in tight panties, thankfully it does grow out a bit when hard but it also cums fast when I get turned on with others

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By *ecks69Man
45 weeks ago

Rotherham

Tiny micro cock here, anyone close by interested? Xxx

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By *mallNchubbyMan
45 weeks ago

hadleigh

I'm pretty small, but I don't find it in the slightest bit appealing to have it ridiculed in any way. also noticed how lots of smaller guys refer to themselves as sissy's and/or wear women's clothing. I'm sure there must be some correlation but idk what it could be.

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By *teven has woodMan
45 weeks ago

Wigan lancs

I have a small dick

And love to be mocked

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By *ratonbiMan
45 weeks ago

Havant

great size that

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By * is what I isMan
45 weeks ago

Llanelli

Small cock here

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Little dick here. Love being humiliated

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By *hippy507Man
44 weeks ago

CHELMSFORD

My dick not very big and quite slim,tell me that’s why my wife cheats on me mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Yes please

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By *aged submissiveMan
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm A massive 5 inches

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By *ric4000Man
44 weeks ago

Leigh

Tiny dicked cuckold here , please make fun

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By *olin 5 inchMan
44 weeks ago

durham

Hi x all small cock guy here luv bigger guys commenting on me been small xx

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By *hyone7TV/TS
44 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Hi I'm small but love it x

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By *ayhubbyMan
44 weeks ago

liverpool

Always happy. To be mocked for the size of my little thing

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By *ardon6inchMan
44 weeks ago

telford tf3

Small cocks are cool

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By *ear72Man
44 weeks ago

lincoln

Small cock here. Let me know your thoughts

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By *englooMan
44 weeks ago

Brighton

I love being small. Kind of wish it was smaller.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Enjoy being small

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Fell free to

Mock and humiliate me as much as you like, or tell me what you would do if you were here with me

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By *ickysucksMan
44 weeks ago

berks

Micro here...doesn't bother me at all. Most guys like it

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By *ittlewankerMan
44 weeks ago

kingsbridge

Love having my small dick played with.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

What is considered all? I am about 4.5 in a good day?

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By *idlandsguyMan
44 weeks ago

Derby

I enjoy anyone being harsh about my tiny member.

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By *mallpenis03Man
44 weeks ago

dagenham

I am really rather small

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By *igmikeswMan
44 weeks ago

Newton Abbot

I’m almost nothing soft 4.5” hard

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By *rc.186Man
44 weeks ago

GRANTHAM

Small here

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By *igboy1969Man
44 weeks ago

near Linlithgow

Small cock here

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By *ihusband123Man
44 weeks ago

Aughton

Very small here…. Feel free to comment

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By *pire101Man
44 weeks ago

Chesterfield

In the limp small penis club today

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By *idlandsguyMan
44 weeks ago

Derby

Had some lovely messages, now get downright offensive! Do your worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Hi hope you have a look at my small cock x

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By *uriousguy84888Man
30 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

I consider myself to have a small cock. I'm open for your thoughts

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By *hippet 2Man
30 weeks ago

Perry barr

Small pencil dick here. No girth at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Small here

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By *ran69Man
30 weeks ago

Rossendale

Micro here

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By *ric4000Man
30 weeks ago

Leigh

Small here

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Small cock lover here!

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By *oxy 11Man
30 weeks ago

Doncaster

Very small cock here

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By *olin 5 inchMan
30 weeks ago

durham

Small here luv sum feedback just under 5 inch hard

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By *ub460Man
30 weeks ago

S. Derbys

3.5” length and about the same girth when fully hard, just a nub / foreskin when soft, less than an inch ☹️

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By *igchubbsMan
30 weeks ago

gateshead

Very small here but my cock is very cute x

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I'm very small not being teased and mocked about it

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By *cottishstevexMan
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Tiny here

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Small here

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By *ulenga2Man
30 weeks ago

Salisbury

"Or join my group on t guard

What is t guard please

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By *valittleoneMan
30 weeks ago

hampshire

Really small soft around 5 inches hard

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By *couse2kMan
30 weeks ago

Land Of Kink!

Doninclass as small to be be humiliated

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By *shfordnudep2Man
30 weeks ago

Ashford

Small here.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I would never mock or humiliate a guy for the size of his cock.

All cocks are able to be pleasured and give pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I love a tiny cock. They look amazing and are so much fun to suck

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By *anntrycockMan
30 weeks ago

Darlington

Don’t think mines very big

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By *ose223TV/TS
30 weeks ago

newport

Mines small

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Mmmmmmmm love a small cock.

All good things cum in small packages

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By *ohnsy2022Man
30 weeks ago

Chorley

Small and proud. Happy to be humiliated x

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By *akeaddMan
30 weeks ago

northwich

I’m also a small guy.

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By *ayhubbyMan
30 weeks ago

liverpool

I’m very small .. even wife calls it a baby dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

So think fair to say a small dicked community 😂

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By *k4u2023Man
29 weeks ago

Thurrock

Yes

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By *dm1Man
29 weeks ago

Manchester

Small here pics on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Definitely small cock here.

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By *ohnsy2022Man
29 weeks ago

Chorley

Small and loving it x

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Love a guy with a small cock

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By *uy thats BiMan
29 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

I am small in my cage. Take a look pic on profile of me caged

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By *uriousguy84888Man
29 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

I consider myself to be small endowed.. feel free to message

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I consider myself to be small endowed.. feel free to message "

Looks good in Knicks tho

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Small here

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Looks good caged

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By *ayhubbyMan
29 weeks ago

liverpool

Small dick .. can’t satisfy anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Small dick .. can’t satisfy anyone "

Well perhaps not with your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Would like a small cock in me to start

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Think I’d rate my cock small and recently circumcised which has made it smaller. Still cums though so it’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Love all cocks

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By *abyitscoldoutMan
18 weeks ago

Newry

Looks thick, not tiny

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Rank

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By *traight.lad45Man
18 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv making fun of tiny cocks

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By *uriouslyColMan
18 weeks ago

colchester

I adore small cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Rank

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By *hyayrshire500Man
18 weeks ago

close to you

Tiny button when soft here

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By *unboytoyMan
18 weeks ago

scotland

Dinky dick here

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By *ijockMan
18 weeks ago

Westerhope

sadly a slim 5.5 inches but it does work

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By *onesy352Man
18 weeks ago

eltham

Barely reaching 6, tiny when limp

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By *asman359Man
18 weeks ago

Nailsea

pretty small soft here but not much you can do about it

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Love a small cock

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By *d sometimesTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Small here, I enjoy it now so much. I've had all the comments and stuff and I'm quite happy about my size. Submissive bottom role is me so I've no need for a big cock myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Very small here. Love to be mocked by powerful alphas.

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By *alpalMan
18 weeks ago

Scartho, Grimsby

Just a small one here

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By *anshMan
18 weeks ago

East yorkshire coast

Smallish heree

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By *ihusband123Man
18 weeks ago

Aughton

I’m very small and I’m more than happy to be mocked and ranked….. please don’t hold back.

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By *udistsubMan
18 weeks ago

S of Notts

my wife calls mine "disappointing "

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By *onderer7391Man
18 weeks ago

Scotland

Small here

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By *afekMan
18 weeks ago

Bo’ness

"Small here"

Perfectly formed though. Very sexy body too!

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By *ubguyinbriefsMan
18 weeks ago

Dublin

Small cock here

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By *ontoMan
11 weeks ago

basildon

I love sucking small ones

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By *ommo1887Man
11 weeks ago

Not small but love being outsized.

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By *atasssmalcockMan
11 weeks ago

Durham

Small cock here

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By *oner benMan
11 weeks ago

odiham

Very sexy.

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By *ungLewisMan
11 weeks ago

Exeter/Okehampton ish

Blimey there.are some tiddlers here x

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By *tnbulgesMan
11 weeks ago

Brighton Elm Grove

Definitely can't mock, I love them! The tinier, skinnier and smoother the better.

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By *i_Wanky_FunMan
11 weeks ago

Bedworth

I've got a small one and you're all welcome to laugh at it lol

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By *ade crossTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chiselhurst

I have a small one

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By *ran69Man
11 weeks ago

Rossendale

Tiny here

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By *rownriverMan
11 weeks ago

Crawley

Rank it

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By *traight.lad45Man
11 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv to mock

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Message to see mine

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By *jh59Man
11 weeks ago

Hinckley

I'm in

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By *umfuckmenowMan
11 weeks ago

Ilchester

I've got a small cock but thats not what im here for!! Rate all you like

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By *cottishstevexMan
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Feel free guys !!

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By *crsubguyMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

English’s sissy submissive for small humiliation- message for number

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By *iguybristolTV/TS
11 weeks ago

bristol

Do your best or worst x

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By *d sometimesTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

I'm small and happy to be so. Suits my submissive feminine side and it's lovely knowing that too.

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By *dm1Man
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Small cock here too send any comment

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By *mallpenis03Man
11 weeks ago

dagenham

Here to be humiliated over lack of endowment

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By *oe933Man
11 weeks ago

poole

Love guys humiliating me about my little cock

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By *iniversMan
11 weeks ago

h,pool

Rank

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By *englooMan
11 weeks ago

Brighton

I love showing off my small cock.

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By *iimmybMan
11 weeks ago

Widnes

Mines quite small till it gets a bit of blood in then it becomes large and girthy i love getting it sucked and wanked of by guys will little acorn cocks

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By *onesy352Man
11 weeks ago

eltham

"Mines quite small till it gets a bit of blood in then it becomes large and girthy i love getting it sucked and wanked of by guys will little acorn cocks "
happy to

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By *ikepetersMan
11 weeks ago

yeovil

Snall here too. Didn't know you could have groups on tguard

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Mines quite small too! 4.5inch. Happy to share. Pic

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By *onesy352Man
11 weeks ago

eltham

Is there still a group going?

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By *antylover4funMan
11 weeks ago

.....

Love small cock with huge balls

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By *uriousguy84888Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

I consider myself to be small endowed. Totally up for chatting and pics etc and have your opinions

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By *Dresser79TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Send me pics to be ridiculed!!!

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By *iBi FunMan
11 weeks ago

St Leonard's on Sea

My little one is locked away

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By *uriousguy84888Man
10 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

I consider myself to be small endowed tbh. Feel free to message

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By *traight.lad45Man
10 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv to mock

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

3 inches here

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By *ickysucksMan
10 weeks ago

berks

Tiny sub here

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By *D SusanMan
10 weeks ago

Blackburn

tiny here

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By *ucksitupMan
10 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

4 ins fully hard here

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By *ubBikerBtmMan
10 weeks ago

Swansea Valley

Small dick sissy sub here, love to be humiliated.

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By *ubslut85Man
10 weeks ago

Bracknell

Caged sissy here love to be humiliated

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By *nchsolentMan
10 weeks ago

Fareham

Tiny, no use at all so I bend over

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By *reeklover65Man
10 weeks ago

leek

Sub for use here

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By *hippet 2Man
10 weeks ago

Perry barr

Pencil dick here . Love next to thick ones

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Would be excited to see what people think! Happy to send pics

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By *antylover4funMan
10 weeks ago

.....

Love small cock with a big pair off balls

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Small dick hete

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By *ettightsTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Radcliffe

A perfectly formed small cock is a beautiful thing

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By *becksMan
10 weeks ago

ipswich

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By *um dump meMan
10 weeks ago

Torquay

I think im small enough to join in

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By *becksMan
10 weeks ago

ipswich

"Would be excited to see what people think! Happy to send pics

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You love wanking yout 4 inch cock as you suck on a real cock

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

That’s a very hot thought hehe

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By *iExCuckMan
10 weeks ago

Lowestoft

No idea what the gauge is for Micro, Tiny, Small dicks are but is this measured fully erect or soft?

Mine fully erect is just less than 3" and about the thickness of a Thumb.

So what is my category size?

Was an avid swimmer and hated the pool showers / change rooms. Was constantly teased about how small my dick was. What made things a lot worse, is when anyone mentioned my dick in the showers etc. I couldn't control getting a hardon which obviously made the teasing worse.

Was only later while in college when I realized just how much smaller mine was when I went into a public toilet and saw how much more massive the average hard cock was to mine.

Very quickly learnt I was built for being a sissy fag slag.

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By *s2912Man
10 weeks ago

Bootle

pretty sure this applies to me, plenty of pics on my profile to judge me on

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By *traight.lad45Man
10 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv to mock

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Anyone want to mock my little one?

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By *uriousguy84888Man
9 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

Im open to opinions on thoughts of people perception about my cock

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By *d sometimesTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

"Im open to opinions on thoughts of people perception about my cock "

Looks lovely and cute hunny.

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By *row Not ShowMan
9 weeks ago

Fleetwood

I’ve got a small cock and cum very quickly

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By *antsomefun2025Man
9 weeks ago

Falmouth

"I’ve got a small cock and cum very quickly "
ooh that is a small cock,,, still love to suck it for you though!

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By *uriousguy84888Man
8 weeks ago

Glasgow perth Aberdeen Dundee

"I’ve got a small cock and cum very quickly ooh that is a small cock,,, still love to suck it for you though!"

I don't think it is that small. I would consider myself smaller

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By *rew Peacock69Man
8 weeks ago

Elm

Feel free to mock or comment as you see fit

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By *ric4000Man
8 weeks ago

Leigh

Comments please, pics on profile

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By *antylover4funMan
8 weeks ago

.....

Small cocks big balls yummy

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By *hubby63Man
8 weeks ago

Great yarmouth

Small when hard even smaller when soft

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By *mallcock321Man
8 weeks ago

Renfrew

Less than 4" at best when hard, normally around 3.5".

Reasonably big balls I have been told.

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By *ayhubbyMan
8 weeks ago

liverpool

1 when soft 3 when hard so small

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By *englooMan
8 weeks ago

Brighton

I’m tiny when soft.

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By *ontoMan
5 weeks ago

basildon

I love sucking small cocks

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