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By *ich60 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Redditch

Just wondering guys. Are all men pre disposed to becoming more bi or gay as we age? I have often wondered this as a bi man. Be interesting to hear views on this from others.Oddly i was, as a young man fascinated by other males cocks and played a little which was very exciting back then.

I then moved away from these feelings as girlfriends and marriage changed all that. But now in much later life am very very attracted to the idea again.

Any opinion happily accepted.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
2 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Always loved cock. As I get older less intrested in women

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By *ollyMan
2 weeks ago

Downham market

I've always been curious and as I've got older I find myself loving cock, I'm also very attracted to a certain type of man, I've known a few men that I've fancied like mad.

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By *umdumpster2Man
2 weeks ago

Maidenhead

I think as we get older we like cock more

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

As young I was fascinated by cocks

Even during my two marriages, was fascinated by

cocks and played around , I would have described myself as bi , however with the recent ongoing break up of my second marriage, I’m beginning to feel that I’m becoming gay if that’s possible

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By *autiously_curiousMan
2 weeks ago

Craigavon

Think this is a classic case of selective attention- where a person over judges the regularity or commonality of something they are interested or focused on because they are looking for it and ignoring the rest. Its a very common trait in all walks of life. But psychology its self admits due to the secrecy about sexuality studying questions like this is impossible!!

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By *altham_15Man
2 weeks ago

Waltham

I have always been bi curious, as I got older so I met guys and tried different things with guys. Now as I have reached 60 I feel I am gay rather than bi as I am no longer interested in women and can't get enough cock

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By *rmchairtravellerMan
2 weeks ago

parham

Never been interested in boys, I even working in mens changing room at a swimming pool never took a 2nd glance, but since break of marriage don't fancy older women. So if a guy wants to suck my cock great also love gay porn now-especially a cock in a mouth mmmmm

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By *eoff_15Man
2 weeks ago

Bordon

I've always been fascinated by naked men. But it's only in the last 20 years that I've done anything about it. Now I regularly get naked with men and enjoy sex with them. As sex with my wife has ended so it has increased with men. My wife knows and understands that I still have needs. Regularly attend a men only sauna and small meetings where I love to have my cock sucked. So yes I do think that men do become more bi/gay as they get older.

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By *ral AnnieMan
2 weeks ago

Camberley

I’ve been bi since my youth…..

I used to enjoy sex equally between male and female and the only reason it feels like I’m more ‘gay’ now is because sex with females (including wife) has become much less frequent…..

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By *ichefMan
2 weeks ago

Taunton

I've only liked cock in last 3 years had no interest before then

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By *kxdressTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Stafford

I would say I’ve always had an interest in cock, but only later in life did I do anything about it.

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By *ub460Man
2 weeks ago

S. Derbys


"I have always been bi curious, as I got older so I met guys and tried different things with guys. Now as I have reached 60 I feel I am gay rather than bi as I am no longer interested in women and can't get enough cock"

Similar here, had no interest in men or bi sex until a 3some hwere the guy was bi. We met a couple of times, then we had a 1-2-1 just wanking over porn. He introduced me to bi sex.

Now, much later, love being kissed hard by a guy as he fucks me, being naked under men loving cock inside me, realised I am completely gay and love it

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By *uffolkman22Man
2 weeks ago

lavenham

This is my experience of accepting my bi sexuality I always knew I was attracted to a few guys but did nothing about it until I was aged 60

When I finally met a guy it all felt very natural plus guys are more open about sexual preferences

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By *heffbagMan
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

Had cock before I had pussy but older I get the more cock I prefer. I think it's because it's easier to have fun with a guy than hook up with a female plus lots of women my age are. Well old

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By *otsocuriousjay79Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think our modern society have created labels for sexuality as a way of control. Look at how sex was viewed by the Romans or Ancient Greeks. They had no labels. People either fucked for pleasure, with no concern for gender or sexuality, or fucked for procreation. As we get older, life doesn’t seem so impossibly long so why limit our experiences of pleasure so we can fit inside a neat box to be labelled.

I adore having sex. My wife has zero sex drive. Men are simple creatures who love to fuck so I find it far easier to seek pleasure and release with guys than having to get emotionally invested with a woman. Not saying there aren’t women who just love to fuck but in my experience most women seek the vanilla, monogamous lifestyle. Again a societal construct shaping how we go through life. Sex should be fun and so long as it’s consensual between two or more adults then why bother labelling a basic human drive as anything other than what it is.

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By *ature nudistMan
2 weeks ago

south

I've always been into anal, taking it and giving it to women only. I was going to the sex clubs in.my early twenties where I learnt to take fist.

So for me the answer is no. However I do find guys as they mature lean more to gay sex

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By *antyLover66Man
2 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Just wondering guys. Are all men pre disposed to becoming more bi or gay as we age? I have often wondered this as a bi man. Be interesting to hear views on this from others.Oddly i was, as a young man fascinated by other males cocks and played a little which was very exciting back then.

I then moved away from these feelings as girlfriends and marriage changed all that. But now in much later life am very very attracted to the idea again.

Any opinion happily accepted."

Very fascinated since my teens

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Always had a feeling for guys even in school but has got more as got older probably more to do with being braver to do more, and since my 1st cock at 20 i haven't looked back just don't get as much as i would like to

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By *netimeonly69Man
2 weeks ago

Wrexham

I genuinely had no interest in cock until my late 40s, I developed a curiosity and now I love to suck!

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By *orwdMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I've definitely become bi with age...partly because I can't pull women anymore..men are more receptive

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By *ellowbladeMan
2 weeks ago

Grantham

I’ve definitely become more bi as I’ve got older

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By *tevieg01Man
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I was always bi curious when younger. Fascinated by it all, but never attracted to men or anything sexual as such. Just really intrigued by the male form in an enquisitive way.

That just grew and grew into a fascination and admiration. Now, defo bi! Probably tending towards more gay, but married so a sticky situation ha!

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By *teve carrickMan
2 weeks ago

Redhill

Yes it seems that way for me

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By *reameggMan
2 weeks ago

Dundee

I was probably bi in my early 20's, had a few experiences as a teenager.

Put it off and we in a straight relationship for years, always had thoughts and desires.

Eventually broke up and decided to explore bi side years ago, only regret is that I didn't do it sooner

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By *ove.tights777TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Frome

im similar, had experiences very early in life, then nothing for years, always liked crossdressing but wouldnt dream of being bi with a man... gross, then married... no sex for years... more interest in crossdressers, then jumped in feet first and bi for 15 years now and yeah think i find women same attractivness as always but addicted to cock more so as got older

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By *reameggMan
2 weeks ago

Dundee


"im similar, had experiences very early in life, then nothing for years, always liked crossdressing but wouldnt dream of being bi with a man... gross, then married... no sex for years... more interest in crossdressers, then jumped in feet first and bi for 15 years now and yeah think i find women same attractivness as always but addicted to cock more so as got older"

I'm a very similar story, love cock and although I would say bi and find women attractive I prefer cock

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By *outhernsparkleMan
2 weeks ago

near St Andrews

I don’t think people get more or less one thing or another.

Availability and access to attractive young pussy decreases but we still want sex and are happy to compromise on how we define our sexuality to get some action.

Bet most of us closeted married bi men wouldn’t identify as bisexual in a survey. We’d still probably say we’re straight because pussy is still what we desire the most

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By *uriouspantyMan
2 weeks ago

Swindon

I got to 59 broke up with gf so started watching stuff on xhamster to get off on ….ended up watching tv group sex then gay cartoons .then found Niftyeroticstories then had a meet for a coffee with a guy last year ended up getting buggered over his sofa..guilty feelings followed now I’m hoping it happens again….a lot ..don’t do beards or chubby quite fussy really but fantasies are abundant

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By *ndros71Man
2 weeks ago

hurworth

Played around with a school friend , then got into girls , as i got older started getting turned on by men , and the thought of cock fun !

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By *ubslut42Man
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

I've never fancied men but from a young age felt that I should be on my knee's sucking cock. I always new my place from a young age. What held me back was I fancy women but now apart from kink I get very little pleasure from women. I'm still married and excepts the situation but we regard me as gay.

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By *al430Man
2 weeks ago

Nearby


"Just wondering guys. Are all men pre disposed to becoming more bi or gay as we age? I have often wondered this as a bi man. Be interesting to hear views on this from others.Oddly i was, as a young man fascinated by other males cocks and played a little which was very exciting back then.

I then moved away from these feelings as girlfriends and marriage changed all that. But now in much later life am very very attracted to the idea again.

Any opinion happily accepted."

Exactly the same for me

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By *ich60 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Redditch

Guys thank you all for the varied responses to my question and for all the private answers too. I am pleased that so many appear to have similar thoughts as myself but also all the responses very interesting.

Thank you

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By *nzip meMan
2 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I had never played until a few years ago but my first time was 2 cocks at the same time

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By *lan4ffuunnMan
2 weeks ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

I have always been into guys and cock but as I have got older I have got to liking them even more x

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By *ammy57Man
2 weeks ago

Stevenage

I think guys definitely become more bottom as they age.

Maybe as others have said it's just easier to have sex with guys as you get older?!?

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By *ubslut42Man
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

Being gay as a bottom is so much easier and satisfying. I have no interest in my cock or need to get hard. I just love sucking cock, licking a man's arse and being fucked.

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