FabGuys.com forum: Looking for a lover

By *ude415 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Hertford

Married guy here but I’m looking for more of a friend/lover than a hookup.

Am I alone in this?

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By *ardon6inchMan
5 weeks ago

telford tf3

Definitely not mate

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By *englooMan
5 weeks ago

Brighton

A close friend with benefits would be perfect.

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By *ilthybiguy16Man
5 weeks ago

Malvern

I'd love to find that situation....seems impossible though

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By *ranform71Man
5 weeks ago

Hinckley

I’d like a regular guy close to me. But finding same is rarer than rocking horse shit. I want someone to give and receive anal equality. To do oral equality, I even swallow nice loads. Mutual nakedness together. But alas, I can but only dream.

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By *ilke500Man
5 weeks ago

edinburgh

met a guy on here and started as a hook up but now really good friends.

Not saying it’s easy to find but it is possible.

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By *onamebiguy99Man
5 weeks ago

Buxton

Not alone for sure. Sure it can be done if you find right person who in same situation and has the same free time as you

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By *antlleMan
5 weeks ago

Caernarfon

I’d love to have a lover too. Someone for whom the intimacy of being naked and in each other’s arms is actually more important than the sex. Not likely to find that on Fab though.

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By *ollyMan
5 weeks ago

Downham market

I'm the same, I'd love to find a genuine caring loving man for regular meets. Someone to give me butterflies in my tummy.

So far I've had the pleasure of meeting 4 men that I've had strong feelings for and received nice feelings back.

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By *leverclogsMan
5 weeks ago

London

Me too. Would be great to meet a London based older/top who is willing to be patient and teach me a few things!

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By *tewartfoster1Man
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Nope love a lover

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By *elly74Man
5 weeks ago

selby

Hi all

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By *illitMan
5 weeks ago

Knaresborough

I'd love a lover

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By *tter62Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

Love scares off most men here!

I’d like a regular FWB. Companionship and intimacy xxxxxx

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By *treyu500Man
5 weeks ago

Australia

I had it from here twice. Sadly the first one wanted it to become a relationship after a while so it had to end. We are still friends today.

The other guy wanted the same after a few months but it was again supposed to be NSA FWB setup so I ended it to save the friendship.

We were both "not out" at the time and he never intended on coming out so I have no idea how he expected such a relationship to work

He got pissy and didn't want to continue the friendship.

So, I suppose I would advise that although these things can be a lot of fun - be cautious that people can get hurt. At the same time, that is their issue to deal with if it happens. All you can do is be open and honest.

Theres better places to find that no strings attached, Friends with benefits kinda stuff. No offence to the married guys on here but they generally have too many other commitments and restrictions to make such a thing work. I suppose it would also depend on how often you wanted to meet them for fun.

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By *airycubbyMan
5 weeks ago

Brighton

Connection and closeness between men is very important

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

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By *afekMan
5 weeks ago

Bo’ness

What does being a lover actually mean? Someone recently said that they wanted to be my lover which took me by surprise. He doesn’t love me. He just wanted regular sex with someone he trusted. Is that being a lover? I’m all for it if so

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By *eatherloverukMan
5 weeks ago

near Skegness

definitely not, I think deep down that's what most of us desire.

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By *illitMan
4 weeks ago

Knaresborough

"I'd love to find that situation....seems impossible though"

Yep

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